Re: Is life better for men without having kids?
Posted: June 15th, 2012, 5:49 am
It happens to be true and I do not waiver from speaking the truth. Why should I?Boner_Jones wrote: Holy jesus...that's harsh. I mean... damn
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It happens to be true and I do not waiver from speaking the truth. Why should I?Boner_Jones wrote: Holy jesus...that's harsh. I mean... damn
Get back to me when he is kidnapped and abused and refuses to talk to you and hates on you.Dogboy86 wrote:My son is seven and has enriched my life in more ways than I can count.
Boner_Jones wrote:i don't have children...yet. But I don't know... maybe i would regret it years later?
Like... I know women want kids...it's like they are programmed to want them...
what happens if when I'm 40...50...60.... will i look back wishing i had kids?
Dogboy,Dogboy86 wrote:Funny you say this PAN. I have laid the ground work with my son, he knows he is smarter then his mother and runs her shit, she marches to his beat. I have him half of the time or more because she knows he is more then she can handle. I have paid my pound of flesh and made the best of my situation. Please do not project you failures on me PAN...
Now. This is my wife BEGGING ME for one more chance in May 2007. However, she refused to live up to the minimum requirement. HONESTY.As people have gotten up to speak I have seen aspects of my way of
being reflected in their stories. As I listened the possibility has dawned
on me that while I have complained of being bullied by you I have actually
been the bully. I have been so stubborn as to make our marriage unworkable.
I have resisted nearly everything you suggested, all to show you that you
are not the boss of me. I guess after all these years and divorce on the
table it should be pretty clear to both of us that that's the case.
You are the Samson that holds up the roof of the wortld over me and our
family. I have been Delialh pretending to love you while undermining your
strength. I am so sorry for that. I realise that for us to have the
relationship of my possibility I will have to give up making you wrong. I am
committed to having this possibility in my life. I will have head-over-heels
love with someone and you are my first choice.
I know you feel the relationship with our children is secondary and I have
always made you wrong for that. I want our relationship to be complete
freeing you to be a father to them. Will you be their father? No amount of
mother love can compensate them for the loss of you.
Now I have created a possibility for my life do you think it is one I might
enroll you in? I invite you to share a life with me more wonderful than we
could ever have apart.
My offer to you is nothing less than myself, utterly, totally and
completely,
With all my love Jenni
The HATRED of women is right under the surface in the west. You do not see this kind of pathological hatred in women from eastern europe...or at least I have not seen it."if black women consistently tell their sons that women do not need men, how do you think you are going to raise your boys to be men? And what do you think your boys will think about women when they get to be a man?"
So you are one of these men who allowed his right to be the father he chose to be violated and you took it up the arse anyway, eh?Dogboy86 wrote: I have him half of the time or more because she knows he is more then she can handle.
No PAN, cowards run and hide from a situation. I delt with mine the best I could with the responces I had at the time. You on the other hand have taken it up the arse as much as anyone. Claiming to be an alpha and yelling stupid shit at a magistrate did little more that to make you appear as a mentally deranged individual. I might not like the rules but at least I understand that saying they arnt so dosnt change them. Being in denial of reality dosnt change it PAN. Claiming everyone that isn't in march step with you is ASIO is also a delusional projection. You have lost as much as anyone here in the battle for the hearts and minds of our children. I chose to handle my business in a way I could still have access in the fathering of my son. I have little doubt he will choose to live with me full time at the age of twelve. Like I said I have laid ground work with him and I trust his ability to reason and make the right choice when the time comes. If I am wrong so be it and I leave free and clear knowing I did all I could. This is my choice as a free individual to make and choose my own path. I do not agree or support the criminal laws of my land but I will bend to have a chance to be the father of the remarkable individual who is my son, I do not run from him or this challenge.PeterAndrewNolan wrote:So you are one of these men who allowed his right to be the father he chose to be violated and you took it up the arse anyway, eh?Dogboy86 wrote: I have him half of the time or more because she knows he is more then she can handle.
Cowards. The LOT of you.
Redacted.Boner_Jones wrote:i don't have children...yet. But I don't know... maybe i would regret it years later?
Like... I know women want kids...it's like they are programmed to want them...
what happens if when I'm 40...50...60.... will i look back wishing i had kids?
No. You didn't deal with them as best you could. You bent over and took it up the arse and called that the best you could deal with it. You allowed your unalienable right to be the father you chose to be get violated and settled for being a "part time father". That approach DISGUSTS me but it is the gutless approach most men take.Dogboy86 wrote:No PAN, cowards run and hide from a situation. I delt with mine the best I could with the responces I had at the time. You on the other hand have taken it up the arse as much as anyone. Claiming to be an alpha and yelling stupid shit at a magistrate did little more that to make you appear as a mentally deranged individual. I might not like the rules but at least I understand that saying they arnt so dosnt change them. Being in denial of reality dosnt change it PAN. Claiming everyone that isn't in march step with you is ASIO is also a delusional projection. You have lost as much as anyone here in the battle for the hearts and minds of our children. I chose to handle my business in a way I could still have access in the fathering of my son. I have little doubt he will choose to live with me full time at the age of twelve. Like I said I have laid ground work with him and I trust his ability to reason and make the right choice when the time comes. If I am wrong so be it and I leave free and clear knowing I did all I could. This is my choice as a free individual to make and choose my own path. I do not agree or support the criminal laws of my land but I will bend to have a chance to be the father of the remarkable individual who is my son, I do not run from him or this challenge.PeterAndrewNolan wrote:So you are one of these men who allowed his right to be the father he chose to be violated and you took it up the arse anyway, eh?Dogboy86 wrote: I have him half of the time or more because she knows he is more then she can handle.
Cowards. The LOT of you.