Christianfilipinacom,Christianfilipinacom wrote:I am sorry to hear that your ex disrespected her vows, commitment, morality, and took advantage of you, and that her "friends" encouraged her to do so. I remember first reading The Myth of Male Power by Warren Farrell and at that time I was surprised by it but saw that the points were correct.
I appreciate your suggestion but am not blessed with enough time or the appreciation for religious authority to take on the project you suggest.
It seems that in your experience and mine, that claiming to be Christian is not in and of itself a necessary or sufficient basis for choosing a partner. On our site we have to reject a lot of member applications from men and women who say they are Christian and may believe it, but who we feel are not the kind of people we would like to present to friends in our living room.
It is a common subject to consider whether the "liberation" and multiple sexual partners that was popularized alongside in the 60s etc is a contributing factor to the higher incidence of divorce etc. On this forum I often see a worship of this same liberation attitude, and I do wonder sometimes whether that becomes part of the problem itself in a vicious circle, liberation and the need for liberation each fueling each other. What do you think?
thank you for your respectful reply. It is appreciated and the men here will notice it. You see. Such as post as I made would have drawn a lot of hatred from a western woman.
One other thing. The three women who have been my closest friends since divorce are actually all christian women. And they denounce my ex with real feeling. They have seen so many women treat so many men so badly that they are really very angry about it because they can see that it is affecting them.
Two of these women are not married and from eastern europe. One from the czech republic and one from the Ukraine. They are in germany seeking a better life. One of them helped me save my life when I was suicidal. This was despite the fact we had only just become friends. She later told me she felt "I only did what any christian woman would do". Alas, no other christian women from the west could even bother to send me an email.
So Christianfilipinacom. I would recommend that you make sure that your clients make sure the OTHER women who are clients protect the men from the occasional "bad woman". For if you to not the filipinia women will get a bad reputation very fast. Western men are fast learning not to trust ANY women. And this a bad position for all of us to be in.
For myself. I am very fed up with western women. I only date eastern european women. And I am even tiring of that. Our women are simply not doing enough for us any more to earn our labour as "protector or provider". Our women have become far too self centered and far too greedy.
I can not speak for filipina women as I was married when I was in the philipines and did not establish friendships with filipina women. I worked in makarti quite a bit in 97....
