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Letâ€™s say you are a nice old-fashioned dude who wants to marry a girl with high morals who still believes in virginity to be his wife and a good mother to his children.
One of the most tragic things that can happen to you and possibly the most painful scam of all is if you go to a supposedly conservative country looking for a conservative, archaic girl to marry who tells you that she is a virgin and then, on the first wedding night she announces- â€œI have been meaning to tell you, but I am was too shyâ€ or worse â€œI was just joking!â€ In short, she is not a virgin.
This is the ultimate cuckolding of a man, and it will make you feel like a total loser and a sucker. Not that virginity matters, but why would she deceive you in the first place? And imagine going to a country like that and then meeting the mother and then having to entertain the entire family and buy gifts and court the girl properly when she had given her sweet hymen to some other man who gave her nothing but promises.
Does it get any worse? Yes, it does. There is a child somewhere, and the girl is hiding the fact. She will only tell you after the marriage. And since you will not be able to tell because she is so shy and she will not show you the stretch marks and some had even had an abortion or a miscarriage. Oh, it gets worse and worse. She may have her boyfriend now, and she is in an uncertain relationship with him and he has another girl and he has been having sex with both, plus he is poor, so â€œI am going to get me a rich foreigner- foreigners are kind and open-minded and they have money- what a boon would that be! And to get one I need to show him what a good girl I am.â€ Yeah, right.
Does it get even worse than that? Yup! I had known a girl who would always take chaperons with her and I had to feed them and then she had told me after a year of very formal dating that she had had a relationship with her stepfather while she and her mother were living in the same house and it went on for years. She had a â€œgovernessâ€, alright (chuckle), but every time her mother went out, the step dad was all over her. He also threatened to kill her if she ever told anyone. Yeah, those things happen, but would you want to be involved in this situation? While being led by the nose with the girl treating you with the disdain on a virgin "suitee?"
Yes, just picture the tragedy. And you are now in the middle of it. It takes a big man to face something like this, but was that what you were looking for? I bet not. So, be careful. If you are into this type of thing, your path is fraught with possible deception and you will need to devise a non-offensive way to find out if the person you are in love with meets your expectations.
How to go about it? Well, there are no easy answers. Most guys use intuition, some have a heart- to â€“heart talk and watch the body language; some study the family situation and base the outcome on probabilities and some even take the girl to see the doctor to have her checked. The latter can be very embarrassing to both parties but if you know how to talk people into doing such things, more power to you. Conversely, if you do not care if you will be first or not, you are ahead of the game too. Virginity faking is common in some countries. You have been warned.
A brain is a terrible thing to wash!
Its easy to fake virginity, hymen repair is popular procedure with arab women..its only like couple of Gs if you do it in western country in Thailand its about 800 bucks
so if woman wants to deceive guy she could easily do that,
just imagine how many guys getting conned without even knowing it..its scary,
just show you how low women can go to achieve their objective, men are saints in comparison
Hymenoplasty / Perineoplasty 780 US$
Hymenoplasty or Hymen Reconstruction Surgery is a procedure to artificially restore the hymen. The aim of a hymenoplasty procedure is to reinstate bleeding during sexual intercourse, in particular for the woman who is getting married for the first time. Hymenoplasty is culturally sensitive and linked to a belief in certain cultures that the hymen is proof of virginity
It might be easy to in some form surgically repair the hymen but not so easy to take the other elements of virginity. Test her responses to some questions, look for the warning signs she is lying. Read the nonverbal cues and subtle signs. How many girls would have that money lying around for a procedure? Best to treat every woman as guilty until proven innocent (Pun intended )
http://www.thefrisky.com/2010-05-24/11- ... your-face/
If a man demands virginity and questions honesty he could pay for a lie detector test that reads the physiological symptoms of truths and lies. If the woman is a virgin and really loves the man then she would consent to the test.
most guys are clueless and would fall for it
800 bucks isnt much, i read in France its 2000 euros
hookers in thai bars make few 1000s a month, so she could easily make herself virgin and find some sucker
same goes for PH and other places
I just talked to some 20 yo russian and she told me how they start having sex at 14, thats normal..
so if you think 20 something russian is young think again, her virgina was tested many times
Many guys want to fall for it.
There is no shortage of men who have convinced themselves they have devised the "right" questions & tests to make their intended reveal all her deep, dark secrets to them -- which naturally she doesn't have many of because, ya know, she's special and wholesome & $#!^.
Having the "job" of a Westerner's wife pays very well (being ex-wife can pay pretty good, too ), yet guys magically think that their woman would never lie on the job app.
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