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Re: Faking Virginity to Hook You

Postby WorldTraveler » Thu Nov 29, 2012 8:52 am

ladislav wrote:Let’s say you are a nice old-fashioned dude who wants to marry a girl with high morals who still believes in virginity to be his wife and a good mother to his children.

One of the most tragic things that can happen to you and possibly the most painful scam of all is if you go to a supposedly conservative country looking for a conservative, archaic girl to marry who tells you that she is a virgin and then, on the first wedding night she announces- “I have been meaning to tell you, but I am was too shyâ€￾ or worse “I was just joking!â€￾ In short, she is not a virgin.

This is the ultimate cuckolding of a man, and it will make you feel like a total loser and a sucker. Not that virginity matters, but why would she deceive you in the first place? And imagine going to a country like that and then meeting the mother and then having to entertain the entire family and buy gifts and court the girl properly when she had given her sweet hymen to some other man who gave her nothing but promises.

Does it get any worse? Yes, it does. There is a child somewhere, and the girl is hiding the fact. She will only tell you after the marriage. And since you will not be able to tell because she is so shy and she will not show you the stretch marks and some had even had an abortion or a miscarriage. Oh, it gets worse and worse. She may have her boyfriend now, and she is in an uncertain relationship with him and he has another girl and he has been having sex with both, plus he is poor, so “I am going to get me a rich foreigner- foreigners are kind and open-minded and they have money- what a boon would that be! And to get one I need to show him what a good girl I am.â€￾ Yeah, right.

Does it get even worse than that? Yup! I had known a girl who would always take chaperons with her and I had to feed them and then she had told me after a year of very formal dating that she had had a relationship with her stepfather while she and her mother were living in the same house and it went on for years. She had a “governessâ€￾, alright (chuckle), but every time her mother went out, the step dad was all over her. He also threatened to kill her if she ever told anyone. Yeah, those things happen, but would you want to be involved in this situation? While being led by the nose with the girl treating you with the disdain on a virgin "suitee?"

Yes, just picture the tragedy. And you are now in the middle of it. It takes a big man to face something like this, but was that what you were looking for? I bet not. So, be careful. If you are into this type of thing, your path is fraught with possible deception and you will need to devise a non-offensive way to find out if the person you are in love with meets your expectations.

How to go about it? Well, there are no easy answers. Most guys use intuition, some have a heart- to –heart talk and watch the body language; some study the family situation and base the outcome on probabilities and some even take the girl to see the doctor to have her checked. The latter can be very embarrassing to both parties but if you know how to talk people into doing such things, more power to you. Conversely, if you do not care if you will be first or not, you are ahead of the game too. Virginity faking is common in some countries. You have been warned.


When you said fake virgin, the first thing that came to mind was Filipinas. I see you are talking about a Middle Eastern country. My opinion is that if you are looking for a virgin there will always be girls out there to step up to the plate and pretend to be virgins or whatever else you are looking for.

Could you talk a little about Filipinas that have many "Parallel Lives". these are typically Filipinas that have multiple foreign boyfriends at the same time. Filipinas seem to be the masters of this. I think a good Filipina scammer can convince many guys that she is love with just them. What are your thoughts and experiences on this this. Thanks!

Back to your original question. I have met Filipinas that professed to be virgins, that I know were not. Or ones that said they were raped and only done it once! Big joke!
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Re: Faking Virginity to Hook You

Postby WorldTraveler » Thu Nov 29, 2012 8:52 am

ladislav wrote:Let’s say you are a nice old-fashioned dude who wants to marry a girl with high morals who still believes in virginity to be his wife and a good mother to his children.

One of the most tragic things that can happen to you and possibly the most painful scam of all is if you go to a supposedly conservative country looking for a conservative, archaic girl to marry who tells you that she is a virgin and then, on the first wedding night she announces- “I have been meaning to tell you, but I am was too shyâ€￾ or worse “I was just joking!â€￾ In short, she is not a virgin.

This is the ultimate cuckolding of a man, and it will make you feel like a total loser and a sucker. Not that virginity matters, but why would she deceive you in the first place? And imagine going to a country like that and then meeting the mother and then having to entertain the entire family and buy gifts and court the girl properly when she had given her sweet hymen to some other man who gave her nothing but promises.

Does it get any worse? Yes, it does. There is a child somewhere, and the girl is hiding the fact. She will only tell you after the marriage. And since you will not be able to tell because she is so shy and she will not show you the stretch marks and some had even had an abortion or a miscarriage. Oh, it gets worse and worse. She may have her boyfriend now, and she is in an uncertain relationship with him and he has another girl and he has been having sex with both, plus he is poor, so “I am going to get me a rich foreigner- foreigners are kind and open-minded and they have money- what a boon would that be! And to get one I need to show him what a good girl I am.â€￾ Yeah, right.

Does it get even worse than that? Yup! I had known a girl who would always take chaperons with her and I had to feed them and then she had told me after a year of very formal dating that she had had a relationship with her stepfather while she and her mother were living in the same house and it went on for years. She had a “governessâ€￾, alright (chuckle), but every time her mother went out, the step dad was all over her. He also threatened to kill her if she ever told anyone. Yeah, those things happen, but would you want to be involved in this situation? While being led by the nose with the girl treating you with the disdain on a virgin "suitee?"

Yes, just picture the tragedy. And you are now in the middle of it. It takes a big man to face something like this, but was that what you were looking for? I bet not. So, be careful. If you are into this type of thing, your path is fraught with possible deception and you will need to devise a non-offensive way to find out if the person you are in love with meets your expectations.

How to go about it? Well, there are no easy answers. Most guys use intuition, some have a heart- to –heart talk and watch the body language; some study the family situation and base the outcome on probabilities and some even take the girl to see the doctor to have her checked. The latter can be very embarrassing to both parties but if you know how to talk people into doing such things, more power to you. Conversely, if you do not care if you will be first or not, you are ahead of the game too. Virginity faking is common in some countries. You have been warned.


When you said fake virgin, the first thing that came to mind was Filipinas. I see you are talking about a Middle Eastern country. My opinion is that if you are looking for a virgin there will always be girls out there to step up to the plate and pretend to be virgins or whatever else you are looking for.

Could you talk a little about Filipinas that have many "Parallel Lives". these are typically Filipinas that have multiple foreign boyfriends at the same time. Filipinas seem to be the masters of this. I think a good Filipina scammer can convince many guys that she is love with just them. What are your thoughts and experiences on this this. Thanks!

Back to your original question. I have met Filipinas that professed to be virgins, that I know were not. Or ones that said they were raped and only done it once! Big joke!
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Re: Faking Virginity to Hook You

Postby WorldTraveler » Thu Nov 29, 2012 8:52 am

ladislav wrote:Let’s say you are a nice old-fashioned dude who wants to marry a girl with high morals who still believes in virginity to be his wife and a good mother to his children.

One of the most tragic things that can happen to you and possibly the most painful scam of all is if you go to a supposedly conservative country looking for a conservative, archaic girl to marry who tells you that she is a virgin and then, on the first wedding night she announces- “I have been meaning to tell you, but I am was too shyâ€￾ or worse “I was just joking!â€￾ In short, she is not a virgin.

This is the ultimate cuckolding of a man, and it will make you feel like a total loser and a sucker. Not that virginity matters, but why would she deceive you in the first place? And imagine going to a country like that and then meeting the mother and then having to entertain the entire family and buy gifts and court the girl properly when she had given her sweet hymen to some other man who gave her nothing but promises.

Does it get any worse? Yes, it does. There is a child somewhere, and the girl is hiding the fact. She will only tell you after the marriage. And since you will not be able to tell because she is so shy and she will not show you the stretch marks and some had even had an abortion or a miscarriage. Oh, it gets worse and worse. She may have her boyfriend now, and she is in an uncertain relationship with him and he has another girl and he has been having sex with both, plus he is poor, so “I am going to get me a rich foreigner- foreigners are kind and open-minded and they have money- what a boon would that be! And to get one I need to show him what a good girl I am.â€￾ Yeah, right.

Does it get even worse than that? Yup! I had known a girl who would always take chaperons with her and I had to feed them and then she had told me after a year of very formal dating that she had had a relationship with her stepfather while she and her mother were living in the same house and it went on for years. She had a “governessâ€￾, alright (chuckle), but every time her mother went out, the step dad was all over her. He also threatened to kill her if she ever told anyone. Yeah, those things happen, but would you want to be involved in this situation? While being led by the nose with the girl treating you with the disdain on a virgin "suitee?"

Yes, just picture the tragedy. And you are now in the middle of it. It takes a big man to face something like this, but was that what you were looking for? I bet not. So, be careful. If you are into this type of thing, your path is fraught with possible deception and you will need to devise a non-offensive way to find out if the person you are in love with meets your expectations.

How to go about it? Well, there are no easy answers. Most guys use intuition, some have a heart- to –heart talk and watch the body language; some study the family situation and base the outcome on probabilities and some even take the girl to see the doctor to have her checked. The latter can be very embarrassing to both parties but if you know how to talk people into doing such things, more power to you. Conversely, if you do not care if you will be first or not, you are ahead of the game too. Virginity faking is common in some countries. You have been warned.


When you said fake virgin, the first thing that came to mind was Filipinas. I see you are talking about a Middle Eastern country. My opinion is that if you are looking for a virgin there will always be girls out there to step up to the plate and pretend to be virgins or whatever else you are looking for.

Could you talk a little about Filipinas that have many "Parallel Lives". these are typically Filipinas that have multiple foreign boyfriends at the same time. Filipinas seem to be the masters of this. I think a good Filipina scammer can convince many guys that she is love with just them. What are your thoughts and experiences on this this. Thanks!

Back to your original question. I have met Filipinas that professed to be virgins, that I know were not. Or ones that said they were raped and only done it once! Big joke!
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Re: Faking Virginity to Hook You

Postby WorldTraveler » Thu Nov 29, 2012 8:54 am

ladislav wrote:Let’s say you are a nice old-fashioned dude who wants to marry a girl with high morals who still believes in virginity to be his wife and a good mother to his children.

One of the most tragic things that can happen to you and possibly the most painful scam of all is if you go to a supposedly conservative country looking for a conservative, archaic girl to marry who tells you that she is a virgin and then, on the first wedding night she announces- “I have been meaning to tell you, but I am was too shyâ€￾ or worse “I was just joking!â€￾ In short, she is not a virgin.

This is the ultimate cuckolding of a man, and it will make you feel like a total loser and a sucker. Not that virginity matters, but why would she deceive you in the first place? And imagine going to a country like that and then meeting the mother and then having to entertain the entire family and buy gifts and court the girl properly when she had given her sweet hymen to some other man who gave her nothing but promises.

Does it get any worse? Yes, it does. There is a child somewhere, and the girl is hiding the fact. She will only tell you after the marriage. And since you will not be able to tell because she is so shy and she will not show you the stretch marks and some had even had an abortion or a miscarriage. Oh, it gets worse and worse. She may have her boyfriend now, and she is in an uncertain relationship with him and he has another girl and he has been having sex with both, plus he is poor, so “I am going to get me a rich foreigner- foreigners are kind and open-minded and they have money- what a boon would that be! And to get one I need to show him what a good girl I am.â€￾ Yeah, right.

Does it get even worse than that? Yup! I had known a girl who would always take chaperons with her and I had to feed them and then she had told me after a year of very formal dating that she had had a relationship with her stepfather while she and her mother were living in the same house and it went on for years. She had a “governessâ€￾, alright (chuckle), but every time her mother went out, the step dad was all over her. He also threatened to kill her if she ever told anyone. Yeah, those things happen, but would you want to be involved in this situation? While being led by the nose with the girl treating you with the disdain on a virgin "suitee?"

Yes, just picture the tragedy. And you are now in the middle of it. It takes a big man to face something like this, but was that what you were looking for? I bet not. So, be careful. If you are into this type of thing, your path is fraught with possible deception and you will need to devise a non-offensive way to find out if the person you are in love with meets your expectations.

How to go about it? Well, there are no easy answers. Most guys use intuition, some have a heart- to –heart talk and watch the body language; some study the family situation and base the outcome on probabilities and some even take the girl to see the doctor to have her checked. The latter can be very embarrassing to both parties but if you know how to talk people into doing such things, more power to you. Conversely, if you do not care if you will be first or not, you are ahead of the game too. Virginity faking is common in some countries. You have been warned.


When you said fake virgin, the first thing that came to mind was Filipinas. I see you are talking about a Middle Eastern country. My opinion is that if you are looking for a virgin there will always be girls out there to step up to the plate and pretend to be virgins or whatever else you are looking for.

Could you talk a little about Filipinas that have many "Parallel Lives". these are typically Filipinas that have multiple foreign boyfriends at the same time. Filipinas seem to be the masters of this. I think a good Filipina scammer can convince many guys that she is love with just them. What are your thoughts and experiences on this this. Thanks!

Back to your original question. I have met Filipinas that professed to be virgins, that I know were not. Or ones that said they were raped and only done it once! Big joke!
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Postby Renata » Thu Nov 29, 2012 6:13 pm

I think there's a surgical procedure to restore the hymen as well, geeez lol

a normal girl would rather you take her as she is .... that way she could gauantee a long happy life.
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Re: Faking Virginity to Hook You

Postby ladislav » Thu Nov 29, 2012 6:34 pm

When you said fake virgin, the first thing that came to mind was Filipinas. I see you are talking about a Middle Eastern country. My opinion is that if you are looking for a virgin there will always be girls out there to step up to the plate and pretend to be virgins or whatever else you are looking for.

Could you talk a little about Filipinas that have many "Parallel Lives". these are typically Filipinas that have multiple foreign boyfriends at the same time. Filipinas seem to be the masters of this. I think a good Filipina scammer can convince many guys that she is love with just them. What are your thoughts and experiences on this this. Thanks!

Back to your original question. I have met Filipinas that professed to be virgins, that I know were not. Or ones that said they were raped and only done it once! Big joke!


Such Filipinas are usually found in the contrived online Westerner-Pinay dating world as well as in any large cities in tourist areas and in the no-man's land- the Asia- West periphery where people speak English and where lonely western guys meet money-hungry or ambitious Filipina girls. So, if you do not live in the "real" Philippines- a small to medium sized town with few tourists or expats where families are strong, good girls would be a rarity. When you go online or live in the English speaking Philippines which revolves around foreign companies, expats, retirees, US military, executives living in Manila none of whom want to integrate and only speak English- that is a breeding ground for such bad girls. And also such an environment is a place where there is plenty of opportunity to scam- so scammers and online cheaters swarm to that scene. Same in Thailand, same in Russia, etc.

If you start living in the "proper" Philippines as a member of society (more or less) and do things the Filipino way ( because, surprise surprise, you are in their country) and speak their language, then you will meet proper mainstream people- and virgins among them are very common.

I am not saying they do not cheat each other or do not have an urge to cheat but there is more social control, there are parents, community, town, church, college etc so there is a much greater chance to meet the type of conservative girls that many guys want.

If you cannot, find a good Christian girl on a Christian site.
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Postby davewe » Thu Nov 29, 2012 7:16 pm

The easiest thing for me to wonder is why any guy in his right mind requires virginity, let alone why he would travel halfway around the world to seek it.

But let's skip that question for the moment. The real issue is that virginity in not provable - as has been pointed out, even the presence of the hymen is no proof of virginity. So a guy travels halfway around the world to seek a girl who has a quality that is unprovable. This seems like a suckers bet to me.

When dealing with women in general, and foreign women in particular, we are all very sensitive to being lied to or scammed. The easiest way to ensure that you will be lied to is to ask a woman to have a quality that she or you can never prove - such as virginity. I mean if you require a girl who has a college degree or a good job or a quality family - these are all qualities that she can easily prove. Asking her to prove something unprovable is an open invitation to asking her to lie.
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Postby Banano » Thu Nov 29, 2012 7:25 pm

online dating sites should be avoided , they attracts scammers

look for the chicks that are from traditional middle class family, this cant be stressed enough, its important ANd for girls that have good relationship with parents, brothers, uncles, etc,


virgin girl should feel like virgin, when you touch virgin girl she respond differently than one who has been out n about, authentic, intense like a brand new car when you driveit for the first time, that frsh smell, very responsive,steering wheel and brakes a bit stiff,
...should be born sometime after 1990..

girls these days lose virginity in mid teens, filipinas have baby at 17 or 18, by 35 she is granny
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Postby Teal Lantern » Thu Nov 29, 2012 8:57 pm

davewe wrote:The easiest thing for me to wonder is why any guy in his right mind requires virginity, let alone why he would travel halfway around the world to seek it.

But let's skip that question for the moment. The real issue is that virginity in not probable - as has been pointed out, even the presence of the hymen is no proof of virginity. So a guy travels halfway around the world to seek a girl who has a quality that is unprovable. This seems like a suckers bet to me.

When dealing with women in general, and foreign women in particular, we are all very sensitive to being lied to or scammed. The easiest way to ensure that you will be lied to is to ask a woman to have a quality that she or you can never prove - such as virginity. I mean if you require a girl who has a college degree or a good job or a quality family - these are all qualities that she can easily prove. Asking her to proven something unprovable is an open invitation to asking her to lie.


... especially if she stands to gain an improvement in her standard of living by telling that lie vs. missing out by telling the truth.
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Postby Raja » Thu Nov 29, 2012 10:26 pm

davewe wrote:The easiest thing for me to wonder is why any guy in his right mind requires virginity, let alone why he would travel halfway around the world to seek it.


Or how he bought into the myth that being from an island province makes it more likely that someone going to the point of entertaining leaving her home is so tied into the old ways and not the new ways of their homeland
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Postby Tsar » Fri Nov 30, 2012 2:25 am

davewe wrote:The easiest thing for me to wonder is why any guy in his right mind requires virginity, let alone why he would travel halfway around the world to seek it.


It could be a pride issue, a religious issue, a personal issue, or a multitude of issues.

Further reading:
http://waitingtillmarriage.org/study-co ... marriages/
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the ... x-afterwar
http://www.livescience.com/10935-delayi ... finds.html
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/healthnews/8 ... laims.html
http://socialpathology.blogspot.com/201 ... chive.html
http://socialpathology.blogspot.com/201 ... -slut.html

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I want to marry a virgin.

davewe wrote:But let's skip that question for the moment. The real issue is that virginity in not provable - as has been pointed out, even the presence of the hymen is no proof of virginity. So a guy travels halfway around the world to seek a girl who has a quality that is unprovable. This seems like a suckers bet to me.


You got a point. However, there are people who can easily know when a person is lying based on body language and non-verbal aspects. Word selection is another potential area to discern truth from lies.

See:
http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/lyin ... -cues.html

There are machines that can expose lies or confirm truths by reading physiological symptoms of lying:
    Subject's heart rate, breathing rate
    Blood pressure
    Sweat on the fingertips (also called galvanic skin response, or GSR)
    Some modern machines can also detect movements in the arms and legs

http://www.ehow.com/how-does_5131924_li ... -work.html

davewe wrote:When dealing with women in general, and foreign women in particular, we are all very sensitive to being lied to or scammed. The easiest way to ensure that you will be lied to is to ask a woman to have a quality that she or you can never prove - such as virginity. I mean if you require a girl who has a college degree or a good job or a quality family - these are all qualities that she can easily prove. Asking her to prove something unprovable is an open invitation to asking her to lie.


It is naive to have blind faith and complete trust in a woman (or any person). My philosophy is a woman is guilty until proven innocent. Betrayal is to be expected and one should never let his guard down. A person can lower their guard but never stop. A man has to protect and defend what he has, or he might as well not have anything. So many men in America lose everything? Why? Naivety, blind faith, and trusting a lying cheat of a woman.
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Postby abcdavid01 » Fri Nov 30, 2012 3:11 am

Thanks for that chart Tsar. I'm not religious, but I sure act like it.
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Re: Faking Virginity to Hook You

Postby Jester » Fri Nov 30, 2012 5:26 am

Tsar wrote:
ladislav wrote:Let’s say you are a nice old-fashioned dude who wants to marry a girl with high morals who still believes in virginity to be his wife and a good mother to his children.

One of the most tragic things that can happen to you and possibly the most painful scam of all is if you go to a supposedly conservative country looking for a conservative, archaic girl to marry who tells you that she is a virgin and then, on the first wedding night she announces- “I have been meaning to tell you, but I am was too shyâ€￾ or worse “I was just joking!â€￾ In short, she is not a virgin.

This is the ultimate cuckolding of a man, and it will make you feel like a total loser and a sucker. No


That would be grounds for divorce. The deception is unacceptable and if a man wants a virgin wife then she should have backed away if she wasn't a virgin. If that ever happened to me I would divorce her for the deception, dishonesty, and for pretending to be the girl I wanted.


FWIW, this would be grounds for annulment in the Church, and in any Catholic country. Including the
Phils. No divorce needed.

Best thing of course is to avoid marriage, then f shit surfaces, walk away from the leased house, leave her to pay rent.

Plus you young guys should date multiple women till you begin to understand their games. If you don't want to have casual sex, fine, just learn what makes them tick.
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Re: Faking Virginity to Hook You

Postby Jester » Fri Nov 30, 2012 5:26 am

Tsar wrote:
ladislav wrote:Let’s say you are a nice old-fashioned dude who wants to marry a girl with high morals who still believes in virginity to be his wife and a good mother to his children.

One of the most tragic things that can happen to you and possibly the most painful scam of all is if you go to a supposedly conservative country looking for a conservative, archaic girl to marry who tells you that she is a virgin and then, on the first wedding night she announces- “I have been meaning to tell you, but I am was too shyâ€￾ or worse “I was just joking!â€￾ In short, she is not a virgin.

This is the ultimate cuckolding of a man, and it will make you feel like a total loser and a sucker. No


That would be grounds for divorce. The deception is unacceptable and if a man wants a virgin wife then she should have backed away if she wasn't a virgin. If that ever happened to me I would divorce her for the deception, dishonesty, and for pretending to be the girl I wanted.


FWIW, this would be grounds for annulment in the Church, and in any Catholic country. Including the
Phils. No divorce needed.

Best thing of course is to avoid marriage, then f shit surfaces, walk away from the leased house, leave her to pay rent.

Plus you young guys should date multiple women till you begin to understand their games. If you don't want to have casual sex, fine, just learn what makes them tick.
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Re: Faking Virginity to Hook You

Postby Jester » Fri Nov 30, 2012 5:27 am

Tsar wrote:
ladislav wrote:Let’s say you are a nice old-fashioned dude who wants to marry a girl with high morals who still believes in virginity to be his wife and a good mother to his children.

One of the most tragic things that can happen to you and possibly the most painful scam of all is if you go to a supposedly conservative country looking for a conservative, archaic girl to marry who tells you that she is a virgin and then, on the first wedding night she announces- “I have been meaning to tell you, but I am was too shyâ€￾ or worse “I was just joking!â€￾ In short, she is not a virgin.

This is the ultimate cuckolding of a man, and it will make you feel like a total loser and a sucker. No


That would be grounds for divorce. The deception is unacceptable and if a man wants a virgin wife then she should have backed away if she wasn't a virgin. If that ever happened to me I would divorce her for the deception, dishonesty, and for pretending to be the girl I wanted.


FWIW, this would be grounds for annulment in the Church, and in any Catholic country. Including the
Phils. No divorce needed.

Best thing of course is to avoid marriage, then f shit surfaces, walk away from the leased house, leave her to pay rent.

Plus you young guys should date multiple women till you begin to understand their games. If you don't want to have casual sex, fine, just learn what makes them tick.
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