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Such Filipinas are usually found in the contrived online Westerner-Pinay dating world as well as in any large cities in tourist areas and in the no-man's land- the Asia- West periphery where people speak English and where lonely western guys meet money-hungry or ambitious Filipina girls. So, if you do not live in the "real" Philippines- a small to medium sized town with few tourists or expats where families are strong, good girls would be a rarity. When you go online or live in the English speaking Philippines which revolves around foreign companies, expats, retirees, US military, executives living in Manila none of whom want to integrate and only speak English- that is a breeding ground for such bad girls. And also such an environment is a place where there is plenty of opportunity to scam- so scammers and online cheaters swarm to that scene. Same in Thailand, same in Russia, etc.
If you start living in the "proper" Philippines as a member of society (more or less) and do things the Filipino way ( because, surprise surprise, you are in their country) and speak their language, then you will meet proper mainstream people- and virgins among them are very common.
I am not saying they do not cheat each other or do not have an urge to cheat but there is more social control, there are parents, community, town, church, college etc so there is a much greater chance to meet the type of conservative girls that many guys want.
If you cannot, find a good Christian girl on a Christian site.
A brain is a terrible thing to wash!
The easiest thing for me to wonder is why any guy in his right mind requires virginity, let alone why he would travel halfway around the world to seek it.
But let's skip that question for the moment. The real issue is that virginity in not provable - as has been pointed out, even the presence of the hymen is no proof of virginity. So a guy travels halfway around the world to seek a girl who has a quality that is unprovable. This seems like a suckers bet to me.
When dealing with women in general, and foreign women in particular, we are all very sensitive to being lied to or scammed. The easiest way to ensure that you will be lied to is to ask a woman to have a quality that she or you can never prove - such as virginity. I mean if you require a girl who has a college degree or a good job or a quality family - these are all qualities that she can easily prove. Asking her to prove something unprovable is an open invitation to asking her to lie.
Last edited by davewe on November 29th, 2012, 11:29 pm, edited 2 times in total.
online dating sites should be avoided , they attracts scammers
look for the chicks that are from traditional middle class family, this cant be stressed enough, its important ANd for girls that have good relationship with parents, brothers, uncles, etc,
virgin girl should feel like virgin, when you touch virgin girl she respond differently than one who has been out n about, authentic, intense like a brand new car when you driveit for the first time, that frsh smell, very responsive,steering wheel and brakes a bit stiff,
...should be born sometime after 1990..
girls these days lose virginity in mid teens, filipinas have baby at 17 or 18, by 35 she is granny
... especially if she stands to gain an improvement in her standard of living by telling that lie vs. missing out by telling the truth.
That's true all over the world.
не поглеждай назад.
"Even an American judge is unlikely to award child support for imputed children." - FredOnEverything
Or how he bought into the myth that being from an island province makes it more likely that someone going to the point of entertaining leaving her home is so tied into the old ways and not the new ways of their homeland
It could be a pride issue, a religious issue, a personal issue, or a multitude of issues.
http://waitingtillmarriage.org/study-co ... marriages/
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the ... x-afterwar
http://www.livescience.com/10935-delayi ... finds.html
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/healthnews/8 ... laims.html
http://socialpathology.blogspot.com/201 ... chive.html
http://socialpathology.blogspot.com/201 ... -slut.html
I want to marry a virgin.
You got a point. However, there are people who can easily know when a person is lying based on body language and non-verbal aspects. Word selection is another potential area to discern truth from lies.
http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/lyin ... -cues.html
There are machines that can expose lies or confirm truths by reading physiological symptoms of lying:
http://www.ehow.com/how-does_5131924_li ... -work.html
It is naive to have blind faith and complete trust in a woman (or any person). My philosophy is a woman is guilty until proven innocent. Betrayal is to be expected and one should never let his guard down. A person can lower their guard but never stop. A man has to protect and defend what he has, or he might as well not have anything. So many men in America lose everything? Why? Naivety, blind faith, and trusting a lying cheat of a woman.