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Postby SilverEnergy » Thu Sep 26, 2013 3:27 pm

djfourmoney wrote:Kai makes some great points... But overall I find this thread a bit interesting, especially Stephen's POV.

Knowing the position of Black women in Brazil, IE they aren't viewed much differently in Brazil than they are here (by White People), only the position of Black men in Brazil is well below that of Black men from America. In America Black men if employed are earning more than the average Black Brazilian male and successful Black males in America are doing very well economically.

http://blackwomenofbrazil.co/2013/09/16 ... g-married/

On one hand I agree with Stephen in that if you're a Black man and it doesn't matter or you love Black women, then YES, go to Brazil or Colombia and seek out Afro-Latinas, plenty of them around, lots of them very attractive too, you won't get an argument from me.

But I also agree with Kai that as a Black man you can not approach non-Black women anywhere cold, it generally won't work for you or you'll end up with marginal looking women, even in Germany, even in the UK. Only in the US and maybe Canada (Vancouver and Winnipeg especially) where the reserve happens, you can get attractive with a cold approach especially if she's a White women in a nightclub that is frequented by Black men (and Women).

The truth is any country will work, its what techniques you use.

I personally know that finding a good looking Morena or White skin Brazilian will be difficult and as Stephen says (like other Latins) when they think Gringos with money, they think of White men firstly. That does not mean as a Gringo (we are all Gringos in Latin America) you won't be given a bit more leeway than a local man, they will.

Brazilian women are mindful that most Western men go to Brazil for Sex Tourism, not relationships. You need to keep that in-mind, I mean all one has to do is read any series of blogs and even YouTube to see that foremost on men's minds when thinking about Brazil, its sex and the women.

The country has much more to offer however.

To the OP....

Look man, just figure out what you like most and go to that country. If you want a Brazilian you better learn Portuguese! For other countries marginal Spanish and being a native English speaker be more than enough.

In Latin America, YOU MUST LIVE or appear Middle Class American you are or won't get access to what you want, IE light skinned women. Dark skin women don't care, they are low on the totem pole, only indigenous women are below that, again just look at any TV show in Latin America....


But in Europe, Australia and Japan, the women love black men exponentially more than latinas like black men.

But for black men who want the attention of European women, just DRESS NICE and the rest will take care of itself.

You'll end up having way more play in Europe than most parts of the world.

Going to clubs in Europe that play hip hop or jazz music while DRESSED NICE will work.

Cold approaching can work in Europe as a black man but you have present yourself well.
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Postby SilverEnergy » Thu Sep 26, 2013 3:31 pm

One black guy said he dressed nice and traveled to Germany and France and the native women gave him FLIRTATIOUS LOOKS and threw themselves at him.

Just put in some effort with your hair cut and your clothes and weight.

Like it was said above, you MUST carry yourself and dress in such a way that you won't be seen as lower income.

Just go to some good clubs in Japan, Europe and Australia and you'll get play.
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Postby SilverEnergy » Thu Sep 26, 2013 4:31 pm

kai1275 wrote:
skateboardstephen wrote:
kai1275 wrote:
skateboardstephen wrote:How come these post from Black posters never talk about going abroad to find....oh my gosh..Black women!!!.Colombia has some good looking Black women..as well as Brazil.I was on the beach here in Brazil the other day..and this fine a** Black women was giving me play...she was upset(no women in the U.S. has ever been upset not to be in my presence) that i was leaving the beach..and even agreed to hang out again..it was pretty refreshing,But here in Brazil the White and lighter skin women don`t really give Black men play,of course they prefer White guys for the most part.
Lest face it..there are no other group of women that are going to be down for Black men as a WHOLE other than your natural partner(Black women)I know that is what some of you don`t want to hear.. and don`t any of you even mention Black American women.I am talking about foreign Black women.


Why should race matter so much anymore? Pan-Africanism/Pro-Black thinking has not worked for us well in the past and is akin to bringing "American Issues" to a foreign place. We might as well just get whatever we can and move on. White racists will always hate, Crab Niggas will always hate, and the rest will always cock-block. The more brown we turn this white-washed world into, perhaps the better for both sides. White people always want a nice tan and no one likes jet black. So f**k it.

....Bringing American issues to foreign places..Oh please..I'm not trying to do that..i'm just trying to tell you that you'll be more successful in general as a Black man with Black women(it makes sense) and you are going into to some other stuff that has no relevance,talking about being Pro-Black when i mentioned nothing of the sort. You act as if exclusively dating or at least not IGNORING Black women is something bad.The more brown we turn the better for society?...Then why are Afro-Brazilians the poorest demographic and treated like second class citizens even by these "Brown people" who want a pat on the head from Whites...Forget it...sometimes i feel like things i say goes through one ear and out the other..but you all listen to other people though.I`m trying to tell you all how Brazil is since i lived here for like a year plus i have a job here and i`m a Black American..but you`ll listen to other posters who never even been here.Race does matter.


Why does dating black women as a "black" man make sense? Why do we even need to carry this title of "black man", when most of us are mixed anyway! Why do I need to be "Black"? White men gave us that name distinction. Why is that important to take everywhere with us, even abroad?


Why don't you want to be associated with being black for black people are the first people who were created and all races come from black Africans.

Because you are black and white people will always see you as a black person.

So you better get used to thinking of yourself as a black man because the whites will never let you forget that you're a black person.

I notice that you try very hard to earn brownie points with non-black people which is wasted energy imo.

Trying not to be "pro-black" isn't going to make people of other races like you any more.
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Postby kai1275 » Thu Sep 26, 2013 5:55 pm

SilverEnergy wrote:
kai1275 wrote:
skateboardstephen wrote:
kai1275 wrote:
skateboardstephen wrote:How come these post from Black posters never talk about going abroad to find....oh my gosh..Black women!!!.Colombia has some good looking Black women..as well as Brazil.I was on the beach here in Brazil the other day..and this fine a** Black women was giving me play...she was upset(no women in the U.S. has ever been upset not to be in my presence) that i was leaving the beach..and even agreed to hang out again..it was pretty refreshing,But here in Brazil the White and lighter skin women don`t really give Black men play,of course they prefer White guys for the most part.
Lest face it..there are no other group of women that are going to be down for Black men as a WHOLE other than your natural partner(Black women)I know that is what some of you don`t want to hear.. and don`t any of you even mention Black American women.I am talking about foreign Black women.


Why should race matter so much anymore? Pan-Africanism/Pro-Black thinking has not worked for us well in the past and is akin to bringing "American Issues" to a foreign place. We might as well just get whatever we can and move on. White racists will always hate, Crab Niggas will always hate, and the rest will always cock-block. The more brown we turn this white-washed world into, perhaps the better for both sides. White people always want a nice tan and no one likes jet black. So f**k it.

....Bringing American issues to foreign places..Oh please..I'm not trying to do that..i'm just trying to tell you that you'll be more successful in general as a Black man with Black women(it makes sense) and you are going into to some other stuff that has no relevance,talking about being Pro-Black when i mentioned nothing of the sort. You act as if exclusively dating or at least not IGNORING Black women is something bad.The more brown we turn the better for society?...Then why are Afro-Brazilians the poorest demographic and treated like second class citizens even by these "Brown people" who want a pat on the head from Whites...Forget it...sometimes i feel like things i say goes through one ear and out the other..but you all listen to other people though.I`m trying to tell you all how Brazil is since i lived here for like a year plus i have a job here and i`m a Black American..but you`ll listen to other posters who never even been here.Race does matter.


Why does dating black women as a "black" man make sense? Why do we even need to carry this title of "black man", when most of us are mixed anyway! Why do I need to be "Black"? White men gave us that name distinction. Why is that important to take everywhere with us, even abroad?


Why don't you want to be associated with being black for black people are the first people who were created and all races come from black Africans.

Because you are black and white people will always see you as a black person.

So you better get used to thinking of yourself as a black man because the whites will never let you forget that you're a black person.

I notice that you try very hard to earn brownie points with non-black people which is wasted energy imo.

Trying not to be "pro-black" isn't going to make people of other races like you any more.


Why does it matter so much to you to force yourself to be something that a bunch of evil white people wanted you to be? What the f**k is "black" anyway? Seriously! Why is Obama "black"? Just because he is half African? Evil whites with their 1% blood drop rule legacy hurts you and everyone else. They want you to stick to only "black" women and black schools, churches, places of business, etc. They don't want you to assimilate here because they think you are garbage. So why would you give them the honor of helping them achieve this?

You see how this country treats anyone here. Zimmerman's trial is all black people think about but look at poor white people here too. Meth is KILLING this country. Poor and middle class whites are catching hell over dope, yet none of these white bigots, especially the rich ones give a f**k about them either! It doesn't matter what anyone does. It is every man for himself here. Dog eat dog. The true enemy here is the 1% vs the rest. Jay Z doesn't love you and probably hates you and other "blacks". Get your's nigga, and get the f**k outta here. That is my plan. I don't owe allegiance to anyone else except my family.

Call it divide and conquer all you want, but when they started hurting their own for a dollar, pushing Feminism to poison ALL women and destroy all semblance of all family in this country, all this skin color shit just got pushed off the table for me. Not even the f***ing KKK back in the old days wanted to destroy their own families. They just did not want any mixing. Fine. Now they are full of Feminist trash, and their families are just as bad as the meth head broken home families. One smart poster in the past here on HA, said that they constantly put White women on a pedestal to keep them away from us, and now their women are out of control too. They are getting their karma for sure, but has things gotten better for us though? No. Not by a long shot.

Look at Cornfed's ass. We all know he hates black people and thinks we are shit, but look at what his own brothers did to him and many others. Why do you think so many of these white people on CNN or whatever website comment sections constantly beg us black people to let this racism card shit go, and move on? Regardless of their stupid insensitivity, they kinda make a decent point. Everyone here is catching hell right now! TPTB are off that race thing and are in full blown destruction mode. Quiver movements are not just for anal retentive white people anymore, even other ethnicity are getting involved in that. People trying to get out of the US, see this sinking ship and want out.

Make no mistake, I eventually will leave here for good, and not come back. This country is beyond f***ing retarded and I do not give a f**k for their color coded system to co-notate my social rank based on skin color. Only America color codes it's people like this and only black people here in the US, would be stupid enough to go along with it. Some smart Negroes back in the 60's and 70's tried to fix this shit and they failed. Not only are black women a f***ing mess, but so is everyone's else's women. f**k all of it and move on.

If you were so dedicated to the cause, you would marry a black woman in the USA and try to fix her up instead of getting one from another country yourself.

I met a young pretty black lady at professional event and was talking to another brother off to the side. This heifer had the audacity to poke her finger at this other brother's name tag and ask him why his company name part was blank. DUH bitch! He is looking for a job! He is a younger guy that just finished college. He reminded me alot of Mr.Darcy actually minus the anger parts. Then she made fun of his badge's color.
:evil: :evil:
When she was done f***ing with him, she asked me what I did for a living and her neck rolled and she got blown away. I spoke out my company and industry experience, gave her that look and moved on. Is this the "black unity" movement you speak of? Us black men can help each other all we want, but with all of these crab ass niggas and bitches trying to put down and clown each other, it is not going anywhere. The Black movement is a failure. The white Apartheid system is a failure. The US is a failure.

We do not have any allies anymore. Nodding your head at another black man usually these days, is met with an ignored head turn. Shit aint the same anymore. No one is your friend except for the few like-minded individuals you meet, and even then that shit is suspect.

I got that young man's business card for his side business. I outta send him an email with a link to this forum and see if I can send him a red pill regarding that situation from last night. I wonder if he will make excuses or play dumb or take the pill and get the f**k outta this stupid place? Who knows.
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Postby Contrarian Expatriate » Thu Sep 26, 2013 7:23 pm

kai1275 wrote:Why does it matter so much to you to force yourself to be something that a bunch of evil white people wanted you to be? What the f**k is "black" anyway? Seriously!


Never thought I would agree with you on anything of substance, but you are correct.

To answer the question however, "the collectivist mindset" is what ails people who feel that way. Black Americans suffer disproportionately from it.
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Postby djfourmoney » Thu Sep 26, 2013 10:05 pm

SilverEnergy wrote:
djfourmoney wrote:Kai makes some great points... But overall I find this thread a bit interesting, especially Stephen's POV.

Knowing the position of Black women in Brazil, IE they aren't viewed much differently in Brazil than they are here (by White People), only the position of Black men in Brazil is well below that of Black men from America. In America Black men if employed are earning more than the average Black Brazilian male and successful Black males in America are doing very well economically.

http://blackwomenofbrazil.co/2013/09/16 ... g-married/

On one hand I agree with Stephen in that if you're a Black man and it doesn't matter or you love Black women, then YES, go to Brazil or Colombia and seek out Afro-Latinas, plenty of them around, lots of them very attractive too, you won't get an argument from me.

But I also agree with Kai that as a Black man you can not approach non-Black women anywhere cold, it generally won't work for you or you'll end up with marginal looking women, even in Germany, even in the UK. Only in the US and maybe Canada (Vancouver and Winnipeg especially) where the reserve happens, you can get attractive with a cold approach especially if she's a White women in a nightclub that is frequented by Black men (and Women).

The truth is any country will work, its what techniques you use.

I personally know that finding a good looking Morena or White skin Brazilian will be difficult and as Stephen says (like other Latins) when they think Gringos with money, they think of White men firstly. That does not mean as a Gringo (we are all Gringos in Latin America) you won't be given a bit more leeway than a local man, they will.

Brazilian women are mindful that most Western men go to Brazil for Sex Tourism, not relationships. You need to keep that in-mind, I mean all one has to do is read any series of blogs and even YouTube to see that foremost on men's minds when thinking about Brazil, its sex and the women.

The country has much more to offer however.

To the OP....

Look man, just figure out what you like most and go to that country. If you want a Brazilian you better learn Portuguese! For other countries marginal Spanish and being a native English speaker be more than enough.

In Latin America, YOU MUST LIVE or appear Middle Class American you are or won't get access to what you want, IE light skinned women. Dark skin women don't care, they are low on the totem pole, only indigenous women are below that, again just look at any TV show in Latin America....


But in Europe, Australia and Japan, the women love black men exponentially more than latinas like black men.

But for black men who want the attention of European women, just DRESS NICE and the rest will take care of itself.

You'll end up having way more play in Europe than most parts of the world.

Going to clubs in Europe that play hip hop or jazz music while DRESSED NICE will work.

Cold approaching can work in Europe as a black man but you have present yourself well.


Well....

Depends on how old you are... in Western influenced countries like all of Western Europe, the UK and all of the South Pacific (AU/NZ/JPN) you sort of have to stay in your lane. The reality that I don't look my age helps some, but not much. What really happens is that women around 35 (give or take a few years) are interested enough to actually contact me online. I gauge that as HIGH interest, in that if I made any effort to see them, I'd be in them guts in a few hours.

That would be okay if you don't care how they look... I happen to care quite a bit and most of these women are marginal at best, usually fat and usually BBW's, that includes the Black women that contact me.

Feel Free to contact me so I can show you the heffers that contact me.

What this tells me that I can't find what I want in Western Europe. I wish I could get in-depth reporting from my boy Cerwin who is an expat who lives in Germany now. I respect his taste since his ex-Polish gf when he was in New York was h-o-t with big boobies and nice b***y. He has reported to me that the best looking women in Germany are not seen with Black men. I can report from my research and on the ground experience that this is true. Can you find the occasional diamond in the rough? Sure, if you mean a German girl that likes BM who didn't make the mistake of hooking up with a US serviceman and had his children....

That automatically means to avoid that, you need to look for women under 25 and good luck with that if you pushing 40. Its the same in the US and UK based on my experience.

For a younger guy, by all means go to Europe, dress sharply and spit some game. You should come up smelling nice with a good looking women who loves your American accent.

My time in Europe was twenty years ago... sucks but that's how the cookie crumbles and instead of complaining I look for a better option and frankly I feel like I don't get this done by age 45 (I'm 43) I'll be done for.
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Postby Chad N. Froyda » Thu Sep 26, 2013 11:24 pm

kai1275 wrote:Why does it matter so much to you to force yourself to be something that a bunch of evil white people wanted you to be? What the f**k is "black" anyway? Seriously! Why is Obama "black"? Just because he is half African? Evil whites with their 1% blood drop rule legacy hurts you and everyone else. They want you to stick to only "black" women and black schools, churches, places of business, etc. They don't want you to assimilate here because they think you are garbage. So why would you give them the honor of helping them achieve this?

You see how this country treats anyone here. Zimmerman's trial is all black people think about but look at poor white people here too. Meth is KILLING this country. Poor and middle class whites are catching hell over dope, yet none of these white bigots, especially the rich ones give a f**k about them either! It doesn't matter what anyone does. It is every man for himself here. Dog eat dog. The true enemy here is the 1% vs the rest. Jay Z doesn't love you and probably hates you and other "blacks". Get your's nigga, and get the f**k outta here. That is my plan. I don't owe allegiance to anyone else except my family.

Call it divide and conquer all you want, but when they started hurting their own for a dollar, pushing Feminism to poison ALL women and destroy all semblance of all family in this country, all this skin color shit just got pushed off the table for me. Not even the f***ing KKK back in the old days wanted to destroy their own families. They just did not want any mixing. Fine. Now they are full of Feminist trash, and their families are just as bad as the meth head broken home families. One smart poster in the past here on HA, said that they constantly put White women on a pedestal to keep them away from us, and now their women are out of control too. They are getting their karma for sure, but has things gotten better for us though? No. Not by a long shot.

Look at Cornfed's a**. We all know he hates black people and thinks we are shit, but look at what his own brothers did to him and many others. Why do you think so many of these white people on CNN or whatever website comment sections constantly beg us black people to let this racism card shit go, and move on? Regardless of their stupid insensitivity, they kinda make a decent point. Everyone here is catching hell right now! TPTB are off that race thing and are in full blown destruction mode. Quiver movements are not just for anal retentive white people anymore, even other ethnicity are getting involved in that. People trying to get out of the US, see this sinking ship and want out.

Make no mistake, I eventually will leave here for good, and not come back. This country is beyond f***ing retarded and I do not give a f**k for their color coded system to co-notate my social rank based on skin color. Only America color codes it's people like this and only black people here in the US, would be stupid enough to go along with it. Some smart Negroes back in the 60's and 70's tried to fix this shit and they failed. Not only are black women a f***ing mess, but so is everyone's else's women. f**k all of it and move on.

If you were so dedicated to the cause, you would marry a black woman in the USA and try to fix her up instead of getting one from another country yourself.

I met a young pretty black lady at professional event and was talking to another brother off to the side. This heifer had the audacity to poke her finger at this other brother's name tag and ask him why his company name part was blank. DUH bitch! He is looking for a job! He is a younger guy that just finished college. He reminded me alot of Mr.Darcy actually minus the anger parts. Then she made fun of his badge's color.
:evil: :evil:
When she was done f***ing with him, she asked me what I did for a living and her neck rolled and she got blown away. I spoke out my company and industry experience, gave her that look and moved on. Is this the "black unity" movement you speak of? Us black men can help each other all we want, but with all of these crab a** niggas and bitches trying to put down and clown each other, it is not going anywhere. The Black movement is a failure. The white Apartheid system is a failure. The US is a failure.

We do not have any allies anymore. Nodding your head at another black man usually these days, is met with an ignored head turn. Shit aint the same anymore. No one is your friend except for the few like-minded individuals you meet, and even then that shit is suspect.

I got that young man's business card for his side business. I outta send him an email with a link to this forum and see if I can send him a red pill regarding that situation from last night. I wonder if he will make excuses or play dumb or take the pill and get the f**k outta this stupid place? Who knows.


This might be the greatest post I have read on this forum.
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Postby kai1275 » Fri Sep 27, 2013 1:10 am

Contrarian Expatriate wrote:
kai1275 wrote:Why does it matter so much to you to force yourself to be something that a bunch of evil white people wanted you to be? What the f**k is "black" anyway? Seriously!


Never thought I would agree with you on anything of substance, but you are correct.

To answer the question however, "the collectivist mindset" is what ails people who feel that way. Black Americans suffer disproportionately from it.


Im not gonna front like I always thought this way for many years, I struggled with this for quite some time. You have made similar statements before in the past, and some of those are starting to make more sense to me these days. Who knows maybe we might find more things in common someday.
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Postby kai1275 » Fri Sep 27, 2013 1:21 am

Chad N. Froyda wrote:
kai1275 wrote:Why does it matter so much to you to force yourself to be something that a bunch of evil white people wanted you to be? What the f**k is "black" anyway? Seriously! Why is Obama "black"? Just because he is half African? Evil whites with their 1% blood drop rule legacy hurts you and everyone else. They want you to stick to only "black" women and black schools, churches, places of business, etc. They don't want you to assimilate here because they think you are garbage. So why would you give them the honor of helping them achieve this?

You see how this country treats anyone here. Zimmerman's trial is all black people think about but look at poor white people here too. Meth is KILLING this country. Poor and middle class whites are catching hell over dope, yet none of these white bigots, especially the rich ones give a f**k about them either! It doesn't matter what anyone does. It is every man for himself here. Dog eat dog. The true enemy here is the 1% vs the rest. Jay Z doesn't love you and probably hates you and other "blacks". Get your's nigga, and get the f**k outta here. That is my plan. I don't owe allegiance to anyone else except my family.

Call it divide and conquer all you want, but when they started hurting their own for a dollar, pushing Feminism to poison ALL women and destroy all semblance of all family in this country, all this skin color shit just got pushed off the table for me. Not even the f***ing KKK back in the old days wanted to destroy their own families. They just did not want any mixing. Fine. Now they are full of Feminist trash, and their families are just as bad as the meth head broken home families. One smart poster in the past here on HA, said that they constantly put White women on a pedestal to keep them away from us, and now their women are out of control too. They are getting their karma for sure, but has things gotten better for us though? No. Not by a long shot.

Look at Cornfed's a**. We all know he hates black people and thinks we are shit, but look at what his own brothers did to him and many others. Why do you think so many of these white people on CNN or whatever website comment sections constantly beg us black people to let this racism card shit go, and move on? Regardless of their stupid insensitivity, they kinda make a decent point. Everyone here is catching hell right now! TPTB are off that race thing and are in full blown destruction mode. Quiver movements are not just for anal retentive white people anymore, even other ethnicity are getting involved in that. People trying to get out of the US, see this sinking ship and want out.

Make no mistake, I eventually will leave here for good, and not come back. This country is beyond f***ing retarded and I do not give a f**k for their color coded system to co-notate my social rank based on skin color. Only America color codes it's people like this and only black people here in the US, would be stupid enough to go along with it. Some smart Negroes back in the 60's and 70's tried to fix this shit and they failed. Not only are black women a f***ing mess, but so is everyone's else's women. f**k all of it and move on.

If you were so dedicated to the cause, you would marry a black woman in the USA and try to fix her up instead of getting one from another country yourself.

I met a young pretty black lady at professional event and was talking to another brother off to the side. This heifer had the audacity to poke her finger at this other brother's name tag and ask him why his company name part was blank. DUH bitch! He is looking for a job! He is a younger guy that just finished college. He reminded me alot of Mr.Darcy actually minus the anger parts. Then she made fun of his badge's color.
:evil: :evil:
When she was done f***ing with him, she asked me what I did for a living and her neck rolled and she got blown away. I spoke out my company and industry experience, gave her that look and moved on. Is this the "black unity" movement you speak of? Us black men can help each other all we want, but with all of these crab a** niggas and bitches trying to put down and clown each other, it is not going anywhere. The Black movement is a failure. The white Apartheid system is a failure. The US is a failure.

We do not have any allies anymore. Nodding your head at another black man usually these days, is met with an ignored head turn. Shit aint the same anymore. No one is your friend except for the few like-minded individuals you meet, and even then that shit is suspect.

I got that young man's business card for his side business. I outta send him an email with a link to this forum and see if I can send him a red pill regarding that situation from last night. I wonder if he will make excuses or play dumb or take the pill and get the f**k outta this stupid place? Who knows.


This might be the greatest post I have read on this forum.


I feel compelled to add this as well:

1. Remember Jay Z and Beyonce going to Cuba recently? White congressmen got upset over that. Did they get a fine or go to jail? Not to my knowledge!

2. Lebron James went to some event/concert recently and the POLICE, blocked something like 2 streets so that he could get to the highway "safely" and not have to drive around other "regular" people?!!

3. In Detroit, the LOCAL POLICE guard the livable subdivisions, from all of the dope heads and other trash, and people of all races live there, mostly white, but come on. White people are still 75% of the US anyway. Do those same police go into the burned out ghettos and streets where white and black dopeheads roam around with their Mexican made dope? Hell no. That shit isn't safe!

4. When you got people with even a masters degree being a bartender or wait staff, because it pays more money than any other job they are qualified for, you have a problem indeed.

5. Then look at all these NFL players f***ing up in life getting chances you and I can only dream about. Their DUIs would even be a death sentence to a normal person's earning potential.

When anyone says something is not about the money, it is about the f***ing money!

This is class warfare! The haves vs the havenots! The US is a rich man's club. The middle class is on it's way out. Eventually anyone not a servant or a rich person will no longer fit in, in this country. Much like Hong Kong, Singapore, Dubai, etc..
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Postby skateboardstephen » Fri Sep 27, 2013 1:35 am

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skateboardstephen wrote:How come these post from Black posters never talk about going abroad to find....oh my gosh..Black women!!!.Colombia has some good looking Black women..as well as Brazil.I was on the beach here in Brazil the other day..and this fine a** Black women was giving me play...she was upset(no women in the U.S. has ever been upset not to be in my presence) that i was leaving the beach..and even agreed to hang out again..it was pretty refreshing,But here in Brazil the White and lighter skin women don`t really give Black men play,of course they prefer White guys for the most part.
Lest face it..there are no other group of women that are going to be down for Black men as a WHOLE other than your natural partner(Black women)I know that is what some of you don`t want to hear.. and don`t any of you even mention Black American women.I am talking about foreign Black women.


Why should race matter so much anymore? Pan-Africanism/Pro-Black thinking has not worked for us well in the past and is akin to bringing "American Issues" to a foreign place. We might as well just get whatever we can and move on. White racists will always hate, Crab Niggas will always hate, and the rest will always cock-block. The more brown we turn this white-washed world into, perhaps the better for both sides. White people always want a nice tan and no one likes jet black. So f**k it.

....Bringing American issues to foreign places..Oh please..I'm not trying to do that..i'm just trying to tell you that you'll be more successful in general as a Black man with Black women(it makes sense) and you are going into to some other stuff that has no relevance,talking about being Pro-Black when i mentioned nothing of the sort. You act as if exclusively dating or at least not IGNORING Black women is something bad.The more brown we turn the better for society?...Then why are Afro-Brazilians the poorest demographic and treated like second class citizens even by these "Brown people" who want a pat on the head from Whites...Forget it...sometimes i feel like things i say goes through one ear and out the other..but you all listen to other people though.I`m trying to tell you all how Brazil is since i lived here for like a year plus i have a job here and i`m a Black American..but you`ll listen to other posters who never even been here.Race does matter.


Why does dating black women as a "black" man make sense? Why do we even need to carry this title of "black man", when most of us are mixed anyway! Why do I need to be "Black"? White men gave us that name distinction. Why is that important to take everywhere with us, even abroad?


Why don't you want to be associated with being black for black people are the first people who were created and all races come from black Africans.

Because you are black and white people will always see you as a black person.

So you better get used to thinking of yourself as a black man because the whites will never let you forget that you're a black person.

I notice that you try very hard to earn brownie points with non-black people which is wasted energy imo.

Trying not to be "pro-black" isn't going to make people of other races like you any more.
Exactly....Look at Afro-Brazilians they know racism is a problem for them..yet they chose not to talk about it openly or pretend that it does not exist..kiss White peoples asses.they aspire to be White and look at them..they are a permanent underclass in Brazil....No Black business owners, no politicians, no Black middle class,No Black institutions what so ever,even historical tourist points pertaining to Afro-Brazilian history..Afro-Brazilians don't even make money off of it..most Blacks here you see eating out of garbage cans,walking barefoot because they can't even afford sandals,begging me for the butt of my cigarette i'm about to flick,smoking the filter and shit barely speaking any intelligible word of Portuguese...all while Whites call shots,living in condos they pay $3000 reais a month to live in,drive luxury cars and swing shopping bags from Abercrombie and Finch,mocking Black people and laughing at Black people...Afro-Brazilians just lick their boots but hey! At least they got over race and the past, they don't complain.Brazil is a very good country to live in and be White..because you can be as racist as you want to be and still be admired by the people who suffer from racism.
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Postby Chad114 » Fri Sep 27, 2013 5:37 am

skateboardstephen wrote: Exactly....Look at Afro-Brazilians they know racism is a problem for them..yet they chose not to talk about it openly or pretend that it does not exist..kiss White peoples asses.they aspire to be White and look at them..they are a permanent underclass in Brazil....No Black business owners, no politicians, no Black middle class,No Black institutions what so ever,even historical tourist points pertaining to Afro-Brazilian history..Afro-Brazilians don't even make money off of it..most Blacks here you see eating out of garbage cans,walking barefoot because they can't even afford sandals,begging me for the butt of my cigarette i'm about to flick,smoking the filter and shit barely speaking any intelligible word of Portuguese...all while Whites call shots,living in condos they pay $3000 reais a month to live in,drive luxury cars and swing shopping bags from Abercrombie and Finch,mocking Black people and laughing at Black people...Afro-Brazilians just lick their boots but hey! At least they got over race and the past, they don't complain.Brazil is a very good country to live in and be White..because you can be as racist as you want to be and still be admired by the people who suffer from racism.


Skateboardstephen , do you feel that black men who reject women who look like there own mothers suffer from racism/white supremacy turned inward?

Also do you feel that criticizing the victims of racism whitesupremacy instead of confronting the perpetrators (white people) an easier path for blacks and other non white peoples?




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Postby zboy1 » Fri Sep 27, 2013 7:50 am

This is class warfare! The haves vs the havenots! The US is a rich man's club. The middle class is on it's way out. Eventually anyone not a servant or a rich person will no longer fit in, in this country. Much like Hong Kong, Singapore, Dubai, etc..


That's exactly right, Kai! If you're one of those competitive, driven, greedy, and selfish types--as well as a Type A: "like-to-work-all-day and have no social life-type of personality"--you will do great in the United States; On the other hand, if that's not your personality--then prepare to feel depressed and suicidal in the country.

That's why all the materialistic and driven immigrants want to go the United States; it's not because of the social atmosphere, the women, or the culture the U.S. has to offer, it's to make money, pure and simple!

The Middle Class, as Kai has rightly mentioned, is being decimated. My younger brother cannot find a job to save his life, and he's been searching for literally, YEARS, for one...

My parents have barely any money for retirement so they have to work the rest of their lives, to make money...I know many middle-class families barely struggling to make end's meet in the USA. And, Europe is in the same desperate boat as America...


In 20 to 30 years, the U.S. will look like Brazil--except that 'new' Brazil is growing its middle class and expanding its economy, while the U.S. and Europe stagnate. I shudder to think what the future will hold for the country in the future...
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Postby skateboardstephen » Fri Sep 27, 2013 3:21 pm

Chad114 wrote:
skateboardstephen wrote: Exactly....Look at Afro-Brazilians they know racism is a problem for them..yet they chose not to talk about it openly or pretend that it does not exist..kiss White peoples asses.they aspire to be White and look at them..they are a permanent underclass in Brazil....No Black business owners, no politicians, no Black middle class,No Black institutions what so ever,even historical tourist points pertaining to Afro-Brazilian history..Afro-Brazilians don't even make money off of it..most Blacks here you see eating out of garbage cans,walking barefoot because they can't even afford sandals,begging me for the butt of my cigarette i'm about to flick,smoking the filter and shit barely speaking any intelligible word of Portuguese...all while Whites call shots,living in condos they pay $3000 reais a month to live in,drive luxury cars and swing shopping bags from Abercrombie and Finch,mocking Black people and laughing at Black people...Afro-Brazilians just lick their boots but hey! At least they got over race and the past, they don't complain.Brazil is a very good country to live in and be White..because you can be as racist as you want to be and still be admired by the people who suffer from racism.


Skateboardstephen , do you feel that black men who reject women who look like there own mothers suffer from racism/white supremacy turned inward?

Also do you feel that criticizing the victims of racism whitesupremacy instead of confronting the perpetrators (white people) an easier path for blacks and other non white peoples?


Yes to some extent.I`m not saying Black men who date non-Black women suffer from self hatred just simply for dating non-Black women because i have dated plenty of non-Black women...but it is the thought process behind SOME of their reasoning as to why...and i think is a manifestation of White supremacy.. For example... racist comments about there own women..saying that Black women are ugly by default..and that no matter what they look like they can`t be beautiful or attractive under any circumstances...because European features are superior..yeah shit like that kinda sounds self hating..for a lack of a better word.
I think in Brazil it would be better to confront the victims(Afro-Brazilians) than the perpetrators because Brazil is never going to give Blacks anything..what they should do is stop wanting so much white approval and pull the resources they have together and create there own enclaves...Black restaurants,Black markets,Black construction companies..owned by Blacks..Blacks need to own real estate ..and keep it as Black as possible so they can give other Blacks opportunity instead of begging Whites and tourist for change.If Blacks were not so inclusive racism would not be a problem..look at the Japanese in São Paulo...i bet you won't see a homeless Asian in Brazil...they have there own business,neighborhoods and property,and they speak there own language and date and marry build and have kids with their OWN Women..that is why they are very successful in Brazil.
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Postby djfourmoney » Fri Sep 27, 2013 8:33 pm

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skateboardstephen wrote: Exactly....Look at Afro-Brazilians they know racism is a problem for them..yet they chose not to talk about it openly or pretend that it does not exist..kiss White peoples asses.they aspire to be White and look at them..they are a permanent underclass in Brazil....No Black business owners, no politicians, no Black middle class,No Black institutions what so ever,even historical tourist points pertaining to Afro-Brazilian history..Afro-Brazilians don't even make money off of it..most Blacks here you see eating out of garbage cans,walking barefoot because they can't even afford sandals,begging me for the butt of my cigarette i'm about to flick,smoking the filter and shit barely speaking any intelligible word of Portuguese...all while Whites call shots,living in condos they pay $3000 reais a month to live in,drive luxury cars and swing shopping bags from Abercrombie and Finch,mocking Black people and laughing at Black people...Afro-Brazilians just lick their boots but hey! At least they got over race and the past, they don't complain.Brazil is a very good country to live in and be White..because you can be as racist as you want to be and still be admired by the people who suffer from racism.


Skateboardstephen , do you feel that black men who reject women who look like there own mothers suffer from racism/white supremacy turned inward?

Also do you feel that criticizing the victims of racism whitesupremacy instead of confronting the perpetrators (white people) an easier path for blacks and other non white peoples?


Yes to some extent.I`m not saying Black men who date non-Black women suffer from self hatred just simply for dating non-Black women because i have dated plenty of non-Black women...but it is the thought process behind SOME of their reasoning as to why...and i think is a manifestation of White supremacy.. For example... racist comments about there own women..saying that Black women are ugly by default..and that no matter what they look like they can`t be beautiful or attractive under any circumstances...because European features are superior..yeah shit like that kinda sounds self hating..for a lack of a better word.
I think in Brazil it would be better to confront the victims(Afro-Brazilians) than the perpetrators because Brazil is never going to give Blacks anything..what they should do is stop wanting so much white approval and pull the resources they have together and create there own enclaves...Black restaurants,Black markets,Black construction companies..owned by Blacks..Blacks need to own real estate ..and keep it as Black as possible so they can give other Blacks opportunity instead of begging Whites and tourist for change.If Blacks were not so inclusive racism would not be a problem..look at the Japanese in São Paulo...i bet you won't see a homeless Asian in Brazil...they have there own business,neighborhoods and property,and they speak there own language and date and marry build and have kids with their OWN Women..that is why they are very successful in Brazil.


Stephen is right, forget the oppressors they will give you nothing but crumbs. This is the lesson learned from the Civil Rights Movement in America.

By giving us integration they destroyed what little economic prosperity we enjoyed during Jim Crow. They were still jailing Black men by the hundreds around the country for minor infractions because they were unable to pay fines. This trend continues today, who is much unlikely able to pay fines?

People of Color

Latinos don't quite have that same problem. Carlos Slim the richest Mexican owns a TelMex/TelCel. If you go into a Wal-Mart you will find TelCel prepaid phones. That is one of the most popular cell network providers in Mexico, I have one of their SIMS I used while in Mexico City.

On this side of the planet and I would argue in Africa as well, Black folk don't own anything of significance. Africans are sitting on trillions of dollars of rare earth metals and other minerals without any money to properly mine it.

One way the Black community in Brazil (Bahia) can get a leg up on the lighter skinned Brazilians is to learn English, since that is the international language of business. This can bring in tourism and encourage others to invest in Bahia.

Stephen what you said is likely true about not being about to even speak intelligible Portuguese. You have the same problem with poorly educated Mexicans. They can barely speak the language and often times can't spell things in Spanish correctly. That is because really poor Mexicans had to quit school in order to help the family earn money to survive.

What Black Brazilians need to do is develop their own economy. They have a port, they have an airport. They have one of the best Carnival celebrations.

I have a ton of ideas and I am willing to help. Nobody listens to me here because my ideas are backed by millions or dollars or some other measure of success.

African-Americans can help Afro-Brazilians learn from the mistakes of the struggle in America. In fact, we should be encouraging Black with a good head on their shoulders to forget America and come here.
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Postby E Irizarry R&B Singer » Fri Sep 27, 2013 9:45 pm

skateboardstephen wrote:
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skateboardstephen wrote: Exactly....Look at Afro-Brazilians they know racism is a problem for them..yet they chose not to talk about it openly or pretend that it does not exist..kiss White peoples asses.they aspire to be White and look at them..they are a permanent underclass in Brazil....No Black business owners, no politicians, no Black middle class,No Black institutions what so ever,even historical tourist points pertaining to Afro-Brazilian history..Afro-Brazilians don't even make money off of it..most Blacks here you see eating out of garbage cans,walking barefoot because they can't even afford sandals,begging me for the butt of my cigarette i'm about to flick,smoking the filter and shit barely speaking any intelligible word of Portuguese...all while Whites call shots,living in condos they pay $3000 reais a month to live in,drive luxury cars and swing shopping bags from Abercrombie and Finch,mocking Black people and laughing at Black people...Afro-Brazilians just lick their boots but hey! At least they got over race and the past, they don't complain.Brazil is a very good country to live in and be White..because you can be as racist as you want to be and still be admired by the people who suffer from racism.


Skateboardstephen , do you feel that black men who reject women who look like there own mothers suffer from racism/white supremacy turned inward?

Also do you feel that criticizing the victims of racism whitesupremacy instead of confronting the perpetrators (white people) an easier path for blacks and other non white peoples?


Yes to some extent.I`m not saying Black men who date non-Black women suffer from self hatred just simply for dating non-Black women because i have dated plenty of non-Black women...but it is the thought process behind SOME of their reasoning as to why...and i think is a manifestation of White supremacy.. For example... racist comments about there own women..saying that Black women are ugly by default..and that no matter what they look like they can`t be beautiful or attractive under any circumstances...because European features are superior..yeah shit like that kinda sounds self hating..for a lack of a better word.
I think in Brazil it would be better to confront the victims(Afro-Brazilians) than the perpetrators because Brazil is never going to give Blacks anything..what they should do is stop wanting so much white approval and pull the resources they have together and create there own enclaves...Black restaurants,Black markets,Black construction companies..owned by Blacks..Blacks need to own real estate ..and keep it as Black as possible so they can give other Blacks opportunity instead of begging Whites and tourist for change.If Blacks were not so inclusive racism would not be a problem..look at the Japanese in São Paulo...i bet you won't see a homeless Asian in Brazil...they have there own business,neighborhoods and property,and they speak there own language and date and marry build and have kids with their OWN Women..that is why they are very successful in Brazil.


That's cool, but I'm sure some of those Japanese-Brazilians marry "out" or date "out" too whilst in Brazil. I hope they do lol
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