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Taken from another thread I posted in but....I remember the last 3 black women I talked to that led me up to not ever talking to black chicks again. I even remember the exact last time I talked to a black chick was when I approached her and started talking to her at the restaurant / bar. It was going ok for a moment and then she turns to her friend and says,"hrrrmm hhhhmm, I don't know girl, should I holla at him" My jaw dropped. OF course her ugly demeanored bug-eyed friend replies back with,"I wouldn't girl" I called it quits after that. White American fair a bit better but after going over seas, AW don't really hold a torch imo

Whats your story?

1989. The last girl I dated had several BFs. When I called her, she d' leave the phone receiver by the radio. Playing games n sh-t. She considered it a favor that she was doing me that she was going out with me. I had a job a car treated like like a queen. She treated me like crap. And the nicer I was to her, the worse I got treated.

The following year I was in SE Asia having a hell of a time.

That girl is now 47. About to enter her menopause or well past it.

I am still dating girls as young as she was then- 21. Who is she dating now, I wonder.

ladislav wrote:1989. The last girl I dated had several BFs. When I called her, she d' leave the phone receiver by the radio. Playing games n sh-t. She considered it a favor that she was doing me that she was going out with me. I had a job a car treated like like a queen. She treated me like crap. And the nicer I was to her, the worse I got treated.

The following year I was in SE Asia having a hell of a time.

That girl is now 47. About to enter her menopause or well past it.

I am still dating girls as young as she was then- 21. Who is she dating now, I wonder.

Don't wonder. Know that she's not well-off as you are.

ladislav wrote:1989. The last girl I dated had several BFs. When I called her, she d' leave the phone receiver by the radio. Playing games n sh-t. She considered it a favor that she was doing me that she was going out with me. I had a job a car treated like like a queen. She treated me like crap. And the nicer I was to her, the worse I got treated.

The following year I was in SE Asia having a hell of a time.

That girl is now 47. About to enter her menopause or well past it.

I am still dating girls as young as she was then- 21. Who is she dating now, I wonder.

As we both now...a man in his 50s really can have the last laugh. ...

Here's my timeline

In high school around 15 or 16 was when I began to think about mail order brides or having a Russian girlfriend. I was too young but I thought about it for the future. Every time I asked a girl out she would either reject me, if I wanted to be a friend she would ignore me, or she would say she was taken (or I knew the girl was taken so I didn't bother). Only 10-15% of the girls were a 7 or above. A large majority of the rest were either 4.5-6.5s, overweight, or obese. It was very liberal and extremely cliquish. Clicks carried over from previous schools and if you weren't a member of a click you weren't anyone. I was a complete loner, no friends, and most times I didn't bother asking girls out. This continued until I graduated.

At my first college, the one I dropped out from, the girls were super sluts. Drinking, drugs, one night stands, some were rumored to have bisexual experiences, and most of the guys were complete scum. I f***ing hated it. I didn't really know that all the girls would be so slutty becaue I didn't really research virginity or think a lot about it when I was 18 or 19 (however, I would say that it was an important factor but
not yet one of my mandatory requirements). I was very naive and somewhat unawakened back then. My true awakening began at the age of 19

Beginning around age 20 was when I was 90% done with American girls. I took a one year break completely from even thinking about a girlfriend after I became too depressed and angry to even think about girls. Virginity became an extremely important factor but it was not yet mandatory.

From ages 21-22 was when I had somewhat of an interest in getting a girlfriend again. So I tried online dating which was a complete failure. I had the courage to ask two out two freshman girls as a friend at one of my newer colleges. One said that she was "sort of" taken. The other one ignored me after a few messages so I just didn't bother. Beginning last August virginity became absolutely mandatory. I knew those girls were likely sluts but I figured there would be no harm in just trying to be a platonic friend. They don't even want that because college girls think a guy asking out equals he is interested in being more than a friend.

I'm happy they did that because after my experiences last year and earlier this year I have no more interest in making any efforts to be a friend with American girls. I would never want a relationship with one either. Looking at attractive girls is something that has now become similar to looking at statues or paintings. Only 1 out of 40 girls provokes a minor attraction instinct but that fades after I remember all the facts and that I know she wouldn't be a virgin.

So it was a somewhat slow process for me but I can say I am completely and forever done having anything to do with American girls.