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Gift Giving

Post by abcdavid01 » June 18th, 2014, 10:37 pm

I'm staying with a family in Shanghai in a few days and I want to bring them a gift. Problem is, I have no idea what to get. Any suggestions?
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Post by Renata » June 20th, 2014, 10:05 am

Make sure it doesn't say, Made in China :)

Vintage Antiquity shops tend to have great pieces of art, maybe a sculpture, art piece or an ornament for the home. Sometimes the pieces come with a great stories behind them. It could be a good ice-breaker and converstion piece.
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Post by zboy1 » June 20th, 2014, 11:16 pm

Who are you giving a gift to? And what is the purpose? Is it for your girlfriend or friend in China? Is it for your new employer?

It depends on who and what you are giving the gift to.

If it's for a girl, I suggest anything that will be unique to the United States: something like a trinket or lapel from NYC, or something similar like that. The Chinese like gifts that have a unique 'American' spirit to it.

If it's for your employer, then something like an English Grammar Book or a cup with an American flag will do.

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Post by Tsar » June 20th, 2014, 11:23 pm

A good bottle of quality American wine?

http://money.cnn.com/2013/11/08/news/china-wine-tastes/

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Post by Renata » June 21st, 2014, 2:35 am

zboy1 wrote:If it's for a girl, I suggest anything that will be unique to the United States: something like a trinket or lapel from NYC, or something similar like that. The Chinese like gifts that have a unique 'American' spirit to it.

If it's for your employer, then something like an English Grammar Book or a cup with an American flag will do.


What's something that's very native to America? I can't think of anything except, movies or a cowboy hat lol ... Like how Russia is known for vodka & New Zeland is known for cheese & butter, what's all American?
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Post by Jester » June 21st, 2014, 2:42 am

Renata wrote:
zboy1 wrote:
The Chinese like gifts that have a unique 'American' spirit to it.



What's something that's very native to America? I can't think of anything except, movies lol ... Like how Russia is known for vodka & New Zeland is known for cheese & butter, what's all American?



Johnie Walker Black.
Or if that's too expensive, Jack Daniels.
(1 liter is OK to import most countries, but obviously check first.)



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Post by abcdavid01 » June 21st, 2014, 4:50 am

Yeah, some Jack's not so bad...or maybe some Southern Comfort. Represent Tennessee. :lol:

No, I've been living at home the past two months and I asked my mom. We ended up getting a New York Yankees baseball cap (they have a 12 year old son) and some cookies. Chips Ahoy, which I didn't think they would have over there. I joked about bringing over hamburgers.
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Post by Jester » June 21st, 2014, 5:36 am

abcdavid01 wrote:Yeah, some Jack's not so bad...or maybe some Southern Comfort. Represent Tennessee. :lol:

No, I've been living at home the past two months and I asked my mom. We ended up getting a New York Yankees baseball cap (they have a 12 year old son) and some cookies. Chips Ahoy, which I didn't think they would have over there. I joked about bringing over hamburgers.


Oh I didnt notice before, you're from New Jersey?

Yeah the Yankees cap will rock!

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Post by abcdavid01 » June 21st, 2014, 7:15 am

Yes, but I go to college in Tennessee
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Post by Renata » June 21st, 2014, 8:08 am

Since you're getting the kid a hat, get the dad a cowboy hat, I always wanted one of those :)
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Post by Jester » June 21st, 2014, 7:35 pm

abcdavid01 wrote:Yes, but I go to college in Tennessee


Maybe a banjo then?

:wink:

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Post by Jester » June 21st, 2014, 7:37 pm

Renata wrote:
Since you're getting the kid a hat, get the dad a cowboy hat, I always wanted one of those :)



I can imagine you wearing one of those.

:idea: :twisted: :wink:

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Post by zboy1 » June 22nd, 2014, 8:28 am

Yankee caps? Great idea, actually. And, yes, Renata asked me why bring native things that remind people of America as gifts to Chinese people?: Because of the novelty factor, that's why! The Chinese love things they cannot get in their home countries. ...

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Re: Gift Giving

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