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Opinion Do I look mostly European?

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Re: Opinion Do I look mostly European?

Postby Inter2002 » Mon Jun 01, 2015 9:03 pm

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Inter2002 wrote:The reason why I would consider "Fat grafting" is because just by looking pictures of myself when I was 17-18 years old I've lost baby fat in my neck and facial area. Also I've been losing in my arms as well. If I had fat grafting I would have the same tone, texture as I did when I was 18-19yrs old. Also I would need to lose weight since I was thin when I was 18 but had the baby fat in my face, neck, and arms.


Look your face is already too fat as it is, the last thing you need is to be adding fat to your face, and who the f**k ADDS fat to their neck and arms wtf! You need to get lean first and perhaps get a better haircut. Once you're lean and maybe a bit more muscular then you can consider going for foreign white girls. In the meantime try and get out there and make some friends, take up a sport and/or some kind of group activity that forces you to interact with others. You seem to have some mental health issues so you could consider getting help with those too.

By limiting yourself to white girls (and good looking teenage white girls at that) you really face an uphill struggle at this point. You might have better luck with a light skinned Latina but given your self-racism issues that may not be an option for you.

Well I was referring as soon as when I lose weight I plan to undergo fat grafting in order to look young again since I don't have as much baby fat as I did back when I was 18-19yrs old. Also I remember that my neck had more baby fat 10 years ago even though I was thin. The fat that I'm overweight now I can see myself in the mirror that I have lost baby fat since then. I have looked at pictures of myself that were taken 10 years ago and I remember looking at the back part of my hand and my knuckles weren't as visible as they are now.

I need to know what haircut would make me look 18-20 years old, or in other words hair styles that 18-20 year old guys have now. As of now I'm planning on possible go back to volunteering at a food pantry. Also as for group activity I don't know if considering joining a gym membership would work. Also I thought of going back to college and study abroad that way I would interact with foreign 18-22 years old students.

I don't know if it's more self racism, or self hate or both. I feel that it's not as bad as it was many years ago. I thought about this perhaps just to practice, and gain social skills especially when it comes to dating, as well as just to mess around(getting off my system of having sex with any hot and sexy girls) before getting into a serious relationship I suppose that I could date a light skinned/European looking Latina, a Eurasian as well, and an Asian, before dating good looking blonde/brunette, white foreign girls and white Latinas.
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Re: Opinion Do I look mostly European?

Postby Seeker » Tue Jun 02, 2015 2:25 am

Regarding going back to college don't you have two masters degrees already? In which subjects? You said you were planning on getting a Phd. With all that education why aren't you in a career yet at your age?

Also as for group activity I don't know if considering joining a gym membership would work.


Gyms are good for getting in shape not for socialising, unless you already have some gym buddies. I suggested some kind of activity that forces you to take part in a group such as a sport. This would help you to get socialising with other young men. Do you have any friends?

Also, you are never going to look 18 again, not unless some kind of revolutionary rejuvenation technique is invented. Mere plastic surgery won't be enough and certainly not fat injections(!). If there was some kind of technique that could make people look 18 don't you think wealthy celebrities would avail themselves of it? Madonna still resembles an old hag more and more.

I don't know a lot about haircuts as I shave my head, but you could have a look at what male models are sporting these days and try and see if it fits your face.
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Re: Opinion Do I look mostly European?

Postby drealm » Tue Jun 02, 2015 5:44 am

Inter2002 wrote:
drealm wrote:
Inter2002 wrote:
drealm wrote:
Inter2002 wrote:Your a white guy right? Perhaps you were at the wrong place, at the wrong time. So are you into dating girls 18-20yr age range?


Yes people consider me white and I'm focusing around that dating range.

What's your real race ethnicity?

How old are you?

I'm a Castizo(mixed Mestizo and Caucasian) Hispanic. But I have a mestizo complexion.


My father is German and Estonian. My mother is Mexican and Spanish. My mother's mother was a light skinned Mexican and my mother's father is Spaniard. So I'm around 75% European and 25% Mexican. Most people don't believe me when I say I'm part Mexican, so I think this confirms that others perceive me as being white. My eye color is brown however.

I'm 28 years old.

That's cool, I'm 28 years old as well. Was your mother's mother a Mestizo? My great uncle in my father's side of the family was tall and had blondish hair. It is suspected that my paternal great grandfather's wife was blonde. My great grandfather was a Spaniard who immigrated to Argentina. As for my maternal side of the family my great aunt was tall and had Hazel eyes, fair skin and she was tall. My brother is almost 6'3ft tall but he has a dark complexion and looks more Mexican. Whereas my sister is 5'8ft tall and has lighter skin and has brown hair.


No idea, she looked light skinned, that's all I can say.
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Re: Opinion Do I look mostly European?

Postby Inter2002 » Tue Jun 02, 2015 5:14 pm

Seeker wrote:Regarding going back to college don't you have two masters degrees already? In which subjects? You said you were planning on getting a Phd. With all that education why aren't you in a career yet at your age?

Also as for group activity I don't know if considering joining a gym membership would work.


Gyms are good for getting in shape not for socialising, unless you already have some gym buddies. I suggested some kind of activity that forces you to take part in a group such as a sport. This would help you to get socialising with other young men. Do you have any friends?

Also, you are never going to look 18 again, not unless some kind of revolutionary rejuvenation technique is invented. Mere plastic surgery won't be enough and certainly not fat injections(!). If there was some kind of technique that could make people look 18 don't you think wealthy celebrities would avail themselves of it? Madonna still resembles an old hag more and more.

I don't know a lot about haircuts as I shave my head, but you could have a look at what male models are sporting these days and try and see if it fits your face.


Well I wasn't able to finish my 2nd master's degree. I already have a master's degree in Geography. I was planning to get a PH.D but perhaps I'll work on getting it in the future after getting my Masters in Geospatial Information Science Technology. As for why I'm not in a career it's because in order to get in a GIS related job I first need to get to an internship for a year. So far it's hard to find an internship around the North Texas area, whereas you would find lots in regions of Central and South Texas such as San Antonio, Austin, Houston, and Corpus Christi. Also I've been having some health issues since last August in which I cannot work as well as continue college. I had to stay home to take care of both my brother and my dad. I'm waiting to see If SSI would accept my appeal. If the Social Security Administration does accept it then I will right away see a doctor and have my health issues addressed right away. Also I plan to see various naturopath doctors in order to address the root cause of my health issues.

Well I have a few friends, but my social skills are weak. I feel like I don't have a life due to not socializing. I'm shy, insecure, feel clumsy whenever I socialize. I thought of seeing a speech pathologist in order to help me improve my voice, since I have a monotone voice.

Well it all depends on who can look 18 again. I remember back when I was in 12th grade in high school we had a guest speaker who was this one guy who was in the military and he looked 18-19 years old, and we all were surprised when he said that he was 30 years old. Perhaps Madonna would've look young if she had started fat grafting at an earlier age instead of undergoing a facelift, and or botox.
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Re: Opinion Do I look mostly European?

Postby droid » Tue Jun 02, 2015 6:37 pm

inter, try sports to improve your social skills.
This is nice because you get somewhat indirect interaction as you play, so you can build up your comfort. You can see how others act, so you can emulate a bit, and get nice feedback as well.
Try to find some informal soccer group in a park or something, there's usually nice guys that let you play a bit, without having skills. You can approach with one of your friends, which will make it more likely to be accepted, as two players won't offset the game balance.
You could also enter a soccer class in college too, those usually don't require much playing ability either.
1)Too much of one thing defeats the purpose.
2)Everybody is full of it. What's your hypocrisy?
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Re: Opinion Do I look mostly European?

Postby Inter2002 » Wed Jun 03, 2015 2:29 am

droid wrote:inter, try sports to improve your social skills.
This is nice because you get somewhat indirect interaction as you play, so you can build up your comfort. You can see how others act, so you can emulate a bit, and get nice feedback as well.
Try to find some informal soccer group in a park or something, there's usually nice guys that let you play a bit, without having skills. You can approach with one of your friends, which will make it more likely to be accepted, as two players won't offset the game balance.
You could also enter a soccer class in college too, those usually don't require much playing ability either.

Well that could work entering a soccer class in college. I could choose to study abroad as well and spend like a semester at some Eastern European country, or Italy, Germany, or even in some South American country where you can easily socialize.
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Re: Opinion Do I look mostly European?

Postby droid » Wed Jun 03, 2015 1:02 pm

What I'm suggesting is something you can start right now, this very week.
You have to start with something first, people in those places you mention are nice, but if you don't have some minimum verbal skill already, they won't be able to help you that much. You have to give them something to work with, so to speak.
1)Too much of one thing defeats the purpose.
2)Everybody is full of it. What's your hypocrisy?
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Re: Opinion Do I look mostly European?

Postby Inter2002 » Wed Jun 03, 2015 3:28 pm

droid wrote:What I'm suggesting is something you can start right now, this very week.
You have to start with something first, people in those places you mention are nice, but if you don't have some minimum verbal skill already, they won't be able to help you that much. You have to give them something to work with, so to speak.

I was thinking of starting to volunteer at a food pantry at this city. I started to volunteer this last August but had to quit due to not feeling well and other circumstances. Now I can start volunteering part time and with that I can build up my resume as well as social skills.
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Re: Opinion Do I look mostly European?

Postby Inter2002 » Tue Jul 14, 2015 10:51 pm

I thought of that I would just revive this topic. It has occurred to me since I got a haircut today to post a picture of my new haircut to see if its the way that it should be.

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Re: Opinion Do I look mostly European?

Postby droid » Tue Jul 14, 2015 11:09 pm

That's better but i would suggest still shorter sides and your top should go upwards. I have a theory in that that your top can be a "phalic symbol" in a way Lol at least subconsciously.
And of course lose the weight as we've said.
How about sports, as I had suggested?
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Re: Opinion Do I look mostly European?

Postby Inter2002 » Tue Jul 14, 2015 11:15 pm

droid wrote:That's better but i would suggest still shorter sides and your top should go upwards. I have a theory in that that your top can be a "phalic symbol" in a way Lol at least subconsciously.
And of course lose the weight as we've said.
How about sports, as I had suggested?

Well I'm in the process of losing weight by changing my diet, eliminating sugary drinks, and I'm about to enroll into a gym membership.
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