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Do Asian American men have any hope?

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Re: Do Asian American men have any hope?

Postby cbcsurvivalist » Sun Oct 25, 2015 6:34 am

chanta76 wrote:Rock,


. From your writing I can't help but feel that you have this superiority complex because you believe that your supposedly more masculine. Since you have white privilege you would also benefit dating in Europe or Russia but I guess you want to use your whiteness to get all those Chinese girls .

Obviously Asian men do OK in Asia. I think in South America they may do OK too. I have a Peruvian friend who told me that it's a non-issue for Asian men to date local girls. Ditto for Mexico. There is a Japanese Brazilian community and fair number of the Japanese guys that did end up marrying local girls. It's like only the Anglo sphere Asian guys are really screwed BUT lately as I go out in NYC I notice more and more Asian guys with white girls...many of these couples are young couples(under 30) so maybe something is happening that didn't apply to me when I was in my early 20's.

I knew one Chinese American guy who worked in Germany and dated a German girl. He told me there is no advantage race wise but no read DISadvantage from his experience in Europe. It's more or less how you carry yourself. Russia ..I hear mix stories. Sure Winston did get rejected in Russia and certain brothels wouldn't accept him. But I hear stories of Asian guys getting girls there so I get confused...The behavior of an asian American guy vs Asian guy is different. Asian American guys will act American which does lead to some benefit good or bad in certain countries.

It's like in South Korea..if your white guy and want to go into certain brothels (outside of the US Army bases) most Korean girls would reject a foreigner or white guy ..but does this mean a white guy can't get a Korean girl friend. Of course not.

Sometimes Rock you just come out sounding like you .."yeah I'm white and damn I feel lucky I'm not a color guy because of my whiteness I have all this advantage in getting laid." Sorry..I never met you..maybe in real life your not like this but from reading your post you come out like that.

FOr example you visited Jamaica and mentioned that you didn't see any Asian guys with Jamaican women. I met this Jamaican guy in NYC and he told me that there is CHinese population in Jamaica and fair number of the CHinese guys ended up marrying Jamaican women.

Here is one brief history about them. I think given a Choice most of the Asian guys would prefer Asian girls but if no Asian girls around they settle what;s around them. The difference between USA and Jamaica is that USA made laws against color men to date white women..because of the legacy of racism which still exist today it had a negative impact for Asian men .
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chinese_Jamaicans ...

In other parts of the world there is less of that desexualization stereotype. Here is ak-pop band in MExico....notice all those young Mexican girls going crazy for the Korean boy band..I think with the next generation it;s allot easier for the Asian guys globally to date inter-racially..
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gk1iZ8na42I


I never knew there was such a large following of kpop in Latin America. I thought it was just happening in Europe. Its kind of funny when I watch these videos of all these chicks going crazy over these Asian boy bands. Meanwhile here in North America you never see shit like this. Just goes to show you how racist and f***ed up North America is when it comes to dating for Asian men. Its like I'm playing on extra hard mode here compared to everywhere else. It was such a mind f**k when I went over to Europe and I had girls eye f***ing me all day and night, and even having some girls try to get my attention by deliberately bumping into me several times. I've been eye f***ed over here in North America too but no where near as much and definitely not the same caliber and quality as everywhere else.
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Re: Do Asian American men have any hope?

Postby Falcon » Mon Oct 26, 2015 6:21 am

Chanta, Rock is doing this because it's in his nature to try to say the opposite of anything that someone is saying. He wants to debate everything and counter back with something else. He's not the kind of guy who would be 100% affirmative.

Write another post saying that such-and-such a demographic of guys can't get girls anywhere, and he'll still counter back.

Anyways Rock is still a great guy and friend of course. I'm just pointing out his tendencies to do such things, which isn't necessarily a bad trait, but you'll have to take his constant counter-arguments with a grain of salt oftentimes.
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Re: Do Asian American men have any hope?

Postby chanta76 » Wed Oct 28, 2015 7:04 pm

Gadfly,

I didn't bother reading your personal email to me and decided to block you.
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Re: Do Asian American men have any hope?

Postby chanta76 » Wed Oct 28, 2015 8:21 pm

cbcsurvivalist,

In the anglosphere like North America (USA and Canada) UK , any western English speaking country there seems to be a deliberate attempt to desxualize Asian men..and it;s usually western men from these countries that have allot of Asian fetish..I mean how often do you meet a Brazilian men with Asian fetish.. In other places of the world ..Asian men don't have that huge negative stereotype. Its more of a non-issue. It doesn't mean you have any huge advantage but no disadvantage.

The Chinese migrated pretty much all corners of the world..guess which part of the world did the Chinese men had the hardest time dating ? Westerns countries but in South America and other parts the Chinese men outdated Chinese women .

However, with the the rise of kpop and internet there is growing number of western girls that are into asian men.
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Re: Do Asian American men have any hope?

Postby Falcon » Thu Oct 29, 2015 3:56 pm

In every part of the world, most people who are part Chinese are actually part Chinese through paternal descent (father's side). This is true throughout the Caribbean, Central America, South America, West Africa, East Africa, Mauritius, Reunion, Southeast Asia, the Pacific Islands, and everywhere! All except the Anglosphere.

Latin Americans usually don't think of Asian men as effeminate and nerdy. Instead, martial arts fighters always immediately comes to mind when they think of Asian guys!
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