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Jerry8787
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Visiting girlfriend

Post by Jerry8787 » September 27th, 2015, 12:24 pm

I'll be visiting my girlfriend of 2 years in 3 weeks, she lives in davao, how much money should I bring with me for spending money? I'm thinking $1000, hotel and flights are already paid for, I have no problem living like a local as I told her I didn't want to bring more than that. Also what are the best locations that offer the best exchange rates? I'll be flying into manila then have about a 4 hour layover until flight leaves for davao.

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Re: Visiting girlfriend

Post by Yohan » September 27th, 2015, 12:30 pm

The best is not to bring money, but to use ATM services, this might cost some transaction fees, but is the safest way to go.

Davao is still considered a safe area, despite the kidnappings on nearby Samal Island.

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Re: Visiting girlfriend

Post by Jerry8787 » September 27th, 2015, 12:33 pm

Ok, $1000 should be enough though right? Never been to another country besides south America but I had cash, do they convert it when you withdraw? Stupid question as I'm guessing yes it does

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Re: Visiting girlfriend

Post by Yohan » September 27th, 2015, 12:54 pm

USD 1000,- for how many days? This is about php 46.000,-. What kind of expenses do you expect? Also be aware that not only your internet-friend, but other girls will show up as well, inviting themselves to go with you and her...

Philippine places often charge entrance fees even where you do not expect them, for guarded places like beaches or mountain spots, public transport is often not available, spending money for taxi - your friend needs for sure some gifts, anything from clothes, shoes and up to stationery items and groceries, medicine and cosmetica and so on, a never ending list of wishes.

Be prepared that money is moving quickly.

I know best, as my foster daughter is a Filipina in Cebu, now 20 years old and still in university.

Philippine ATM gives you Philippine Peso, most of them will give max. php 10.000,- per transaction, some few ATMs offer a higher max. sum to withdraw.

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Re: Visiting girlfriend

Post by Jerry8787 » September 27th, 2015, 12:59 pm

It'll be for 14 days, she is from butuan as there are more things to do in davao, it was my choice to go there, she isn't bringing except her brother but that because he lives in davao, her family has money she was the one that bought my plane ticket after I repeatedly told her not to.

Edit: as for expenses just normal, transportation i.e bus, taxi, anything we have to pay to get into, and the occasional out to dinner cost.

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Re: Visiting girlfriend

Post by Yohan » September 27th, 2015, 1:18 pm

Well, I cannot compare my expenses with your budget, as we both are in a different situation. I stay usually about 10 days, and I spend around USD 3000,-, sometimes more. I do a lot of social spending too for some poor people around where my foster daughter is living, like medicine, or food etc.

Maybe others in this forum will also show up with some comments.

I am not sure why you have chosen Davao, as Cebu is more convenient for both I guess. It would be good to hear opinions from others too in this forum.

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