Adama wrote:
That makes sense. Several years ago I was watching a "Mail Order Bride" documentary which took place in Mother Russia. There were a few Russian women they followed. One of them was very unattractive and claimed that the American men wanted too much from women. Of course she was a miserable person, because the main thing she had against those men is that they were all in their forties. What that dearie failed to understand is that it takes that long to build wealth. To me that also shows me what kind of women Russians are for the most part. I haven't met many Russian, Polish or Ukrainian women I felt was truly sweet and innocent, like people think they are. In fact, I think Russian women are nearly the same as American women, as far as gold digging and aggressiveness (they are NOT submissive one bit).
Good post, not arguing.
OK... so then "throw down" as they say... What's the solution?
As far as what? As far as women, I'd say don't chase after a nationality. Evaluate each woman individually. Study her to determine if she seeks to please you. If a woman seeks to please you, then you've won the jackpot. Her nationality therefore is irrelevant. There is no need to go to the other side of the earth, unless you really, really want to. There are some circumstances though which might make it necessary though.
But if you look at the men of this forum, specifically Ladislav, Droid, Winston and many others. I highly doubt their goal was to find a wife. There are a few who did and who have, but most are in it for something else. If you are just looking for a wife, the nationality is irrelevant.
I agree with you completely.
God didn't make you go to China for lunch. Neither did he make you go to India to find a job. Why is it we must go somewhere else to find a wife? All good gifts come from above, from the Father of Lights. You can't get a good gift without God. Do you think God requires you to go to India for a wife?
God frickin DOES make us go to China to get shit made at a competitive cost in today's laughable "free trade" (Slaves R Us) situation.
If Roman soldiers are the frickin OCCUPIERS. then you might have to go the.. EXTRA MILE.
YES, Jesus said so. (look it up)
In NO WAY did God EVER say to sit around and do nothing. As a matter of fact, He ****CAN'T**** send the rain you need till you get up off your butt and PREPARE for rain. Dig ditches around your tents in expectation of His fulfillment of His promise. (look it up)
So, YEAH, you DO have to bust a move. Thank Him, then do what you can do in furtherance of His blessing.
Go overseas on a "marriage tour" with Mark Davis or whoever if you have several thousand dollars doing nothing. OR (if you can't do that this week) then hit on the chick pouring your coffee tomorrow morning, and ask her to add you to {whatever social network}.
The point is, God can do NOTHING, until you ACT. Believe in Him, TRUST Him, THANK Him, then ACT.
His angels are POISED, like hounds straining at the leash, ready to charge. Really.
But it is only YOU that can release those "hounds" ...those fearsome angels.
"Whatsoever ye bind on Earth is bound in Heaven." See? In order to receive God's blessings, you have to TAKE CORRESPONDING ACTION, not just sit around and wait.
As the Jews say, "God helps those who help themselves".
"Well actually, she's not REALLY my daughter. But she does like to call me Daddy... at certain moments..."