MarcosZeitola wrote:I don't think you will ever be married, Winston. It will limit you too much. You just posted a long article about why you regret having a child, and from what you have shared about your life and personality so far (which is quite a lot!) it is pretty obvious commitment is not your thing. No matter how much of a dream girl you find, you will end up finding flaws in her. You will be temporarily blinded to them, then once you see them your interest will lessen, your love will disappear and your eyes will start to wander...
You are not a man who is fit for marriage, or fatherhood, or even a long-term committed relationship. Because from your writings, you come across as a horny teenager. Even though you are already 43, you are still a horny teenager at heart. In other posts you have admitted to never being able to dump Dianne, which means technically speaking you are still in a relationship with your baby momma. At the same time, you are dating around in China and the Philippines. Essentially, you are a cheater, because you never had the balls to own up to your lifestyle choices and break up with Angelo's mother.
How many Chinese women, who are so smart and intelligent and materialistic according to you, would settle down with a 43 year old philanderer who has a gf and son already? I mean, you always say Chinese women are logical, calculating and clever. A clever woman would not want to marry you. That leaves you with either Filipina bar girls, or less-bright girls from China. I would not count out Europe either, although standards of living in Western Europe are so ridiculously high you would have a very hard time finding a woman who would see you as a "step up".
Lets face it, Winston, you are:
-43 years old
-short and dumpy
-not particularly handsome
-a known cheater, bit of a manwhore
-a lousy and mostly absent father
-outspoken with some controversial views which any woman you might date can find online
Ask yourself, if you were a beautiful clever Chinese woman, a high quality Filipina or a sweet intelligent European girl... would you date Winston Wu? Would you marry Winston Wu, or have his kids, given his track record (which you can easily google)? I wouldn't.
I think you should just continue to do, what you are doing right now - be a free agent, travel the world, date and sleep with as many young, beautiful and interesting women as you can find and get with. Is your life, right now, so bad? I don't believe it is. If you feel something is missing, it could be a void only a relationship can fill. Maybe you really do need true love, but I feel like if you found it, you would not be able to keep it. Time and time again, you have shown your inability to keep a woman. You're a bit like a male Jennifer Aniston or Halle Berry, who can't keep a man. Winston Wu, can't keep a woman. So why keep looking for what you know will eventually escape you?
Marcos,
First of all, please don't mention my age on the forum. I prefer to keep that private. That's why I don't mention my age or birth date in my online bio pages here. I think I told you guys this before. So from now on I'm going to put warnings on your account when you forget that. I keep my age from women too. So does Rock. So I don't want them coming here to find out about it. Thanks. Also Marcos, I don't like the way you use my age against me as though it were a jabbing point to prod at me. That's mean spirited too.
Second, you act as though I have no redeeming qualities. That is not true. I have more money and assets than the average Chinese man in China. And definitely more than average guys in the Philippines. So I am seen as financially secure. Also, many Chinese and Filipina ladies like me not for my looks or money, but because they find me a lot more open minded and soulful than the average Chinese guy, which is understandable of course, since Chinese tend to be narrow minded. So they find me refreshing. And they find my personality charming since I like to sweet talk women a lot and I do it in a sincere way. I'm also easygoing and wise and knowledgeable and have a lot of information to share, which some women find interesting.
So YES, some women appreciate my personality and knowledge and charm and open mindedness. Those types do LIKE ME FOR ME. Not for my looks or money.
Thus you are definitely WRONG about that Marcos. Come here and I'll show you some voice messages that Chinese girls sent me on WeChat about how they miss me, etc. They are very cute. I wish I could upload them here easily so you can see that some girls do miss me and like me for me.
Moreover, you don't seem to understand women Marcos. Women are not logical. They are emotional. If they feel emotional connection with a guy, they will love him even if he's a loser or has low marks in looks and money. You know the guy who shot John Lennon? He was a loser and had mental problems. Yet in spire of that, his Asian wife Gloria still loved him after he shot Lennon. She said so on camera too. So women are not rational. Looks and money only go so far. They don't create love.
Also, in Asia most men are not handsome or tall. You see ugly men with pretty girls everywhere. Asian women aren't as big on looks as White women are. So looks aren't as big an issue as you imagine.
Why do you claim that if I found my dream girl, I would not be happy and start to wander? You can't know that, because I've never found my dream girl before. My destiny isn't that lucky. Murphy's Law is also a REAL factor against me. When I meet my dream girl, she's taken, or crazy, or won't see me until I leave which by then is too late, etc.
For example, right now I am talking to a hot model type Chinese girl in Guangzhou, which Ethan_sg introduced to me. But the thing is, I was in Guangzhou in November for a few weeks. She could have met me but wouldn't for some reason. It was only after I left that she finally wanted to meet me. Now she claims that she loves me and wants a serious relationship. But when I go back to see her, who knows what Murphy's Law will do. Good quality women that I want tend to only want to see me when I'm out of their country, not when I'm there. It makes no sense, I know. But it's true and a real pattern.
Btw, I NEVER said I regretted having a child. Someone asked me about that in the other thread, and I said I didn't regret it. Did you' read? You obviously have shitty reading comprehension skills. Look here:
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You are quick to jump to false conclusions and judgments. That is the behavior of a brash man who talks without thinking. Not that of a wise man.