have2fly wrote: ↑September 24th, 2022, 10:02 pm
Does any black American woman ever do anything like this for her boyfriend? I can't even imagine anything like it.
I'll check out the vid later (but thanks for it, that's certainly A-grade "Happier Abroad" material there
), but the answer is actually YES to the part about some black American women ever doing stuff like this for their men, but it's a different situation and not like something you'd expect from black American (or any other American) women in general:
I've heard 2nd-hand stories about where there's church-oriented communities and a big imbalance of the # of black women being way higher there vs black men, and a lot of the black men who have decent-to-good skill with women play the hell out of the situation where they're in demand, sometimes rotating around multiple black women and letting them cook and clean or even support them financially, and the meaner ones even deviously plant suggestions about marriage even if they actually have no actual intention of marrying her. So there's that.
Black men aren't the only ones who do this, of course: I've also seen white PUA types who mooch off all their friends but otherwise live almost entirely off their white girlfriends doing this kind of thing until she prudently eventually throws him out, then he goes and gets a different one and repeats.
I don't approve of this treatment of the ladies, but there's the truth.
I also hear many men act like this in parts of Latvia or Russia where there's way more women vs men available in their area, so the men who know how to handle women well enough can get away with iffy behavior and still be confident of getting another woman pretty easy.
But yeah, that's admittedly all a different situation, and overall I think you're right:
Even though I still love black American women (as long as it's not types like Stacy Abrams chasing me down in the street with a bloody hatchet when the talmudvision tells everyone it's kill-whitey time), I don't think it'd be typical for an American woman of any type to treat her man like a king to that degree.
That situation with the guy and his Kenyan wife as you described it is something I think most Western feminists would not even want any Western men to realize exists anywhere in the world.
The stuff you guys posted also makes me curious if foreign women in some areas do less of the "betafication" process of their men that pretty much all Western women (and from what I've seen also Asian women with strong personalities) tend to do, LOL. That's not such a problem if you know about how women do this and know how to handle it, but hey, if men can get a sweetheart like that who doesn't even try it on them, I'm not surprised so many are headed overseas!
Last but not least: That's awesome about the living costs being that low there too.
I wonder how much it'd cost to live at the marinas there, I looked into sailing in Kenya and the Indian Ocean (Madagascar, Mauritius, for example), but didn't look up costs for that yet...