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Postby Kris » Mon Mar 23, 2009 1:58 pm

4) In Europe only Denmark has been reported as OK,Germany is supposed to be OK but I woud not go there if I were black. Too many skinheads.


Don't know who does these reports but I don't think they've been to Western Europe.

You've got no problem with the UK James - mixed race dating is very common here and most adverts feature a black guy and white girl like this one for beds.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K31r2_1GnUk

They'd probably be even more interested by your accent too. Not my type of music but there is a very big R&B folowing here and many clubs specialising in it.

Over here we tend to judge people on how good they are not the colour. That's why we think George Bush is an idiot but we like Barrack Obama - there has never been such an interest in the American elections before as there was this time. We hate our own prime minister Gordon Brown. He's not mental like Bush but he has *ucked this country.

It's another reason why we don't have terms like African - English, Asian - English etc. You're either English (Scottish etc) or not.
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Postby ladislav » Mon Mar 23, 2009 2:41 pm

Another important thing to keep in mind is that outside of Planet America, where your identity is "Black", and that of others is Asian, Hispanic, etc, the people in many parts of the world judge people by nationality, not by these simplistic, over-generalized racial categories into which you get dumped in the USA. I did not know I was "White", and did not even know the US meaning of Male Caucasian. I am not from Caucasus! I am not from Armenia! But as long as I am in the US, that is the strange category they put me into. And do it formally, too. And I was absolutely puzzled when I was asked to put ethnicity: "white". What the f*** is that? You mean that is what I am now? White is not an ethnicity. Who makes up all these categories? Surely not anthropologists.

It will take you some time to become "unused" to all this and unlearn this. In many, many places outside of the US, people are called by nationality- Brazilians, British, Germans, Americans, Canadians which is how I think people should be called, don't you? You will, first and foremost, be American to them, that is how many people will see you, and being an American is a very honorable thing.

People also judge you by whether you are wealthy or not. A poor person ( or he who looks poor and pitiful) is not welcome anywhere, while a rich American is a boon to many people. It does not mean flashy, but one who exudes power to buy things, shows confidence and wealth in his movements and the way he does things.

I am not saying race does not matter, but also, do keep in mind that the way Americans divide humanity ( into five big chunks) is not how a lot of other people see it.

You will also learn to see yourself as an American man and not as a Black man after some time.
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Postby Jackal » Mon Mar 23, 2009 7:07 pm

ladislav wrote:Another important thing to keep in mind is that outside of Planet America, where your identity is "Black", and that of others is Asian, Hispanic, etc, the people in many parts of the world judge people by nationality, not by these simplistic, over-generalized racial categories into which you get dumped in the USA.

I am not saying race does not matter, but also, do keep in mind that the way Americans divide humanity ( into five big chunks) is not how a lot of other people see it.


Okay, parts of the world may think in this more idealistic way, but people in some parts of Europe think differently. For example, many Europeans such as Hungarians and Finns refer to gypsies as "black people" because they are the darkest skinned people they have around them. So in some ways the threshold for being "black" is much lower: If you're just one shade darker than a Greek or an Italian, then--bam!--you're labeled as "black" in these countries.

However, Europeans can find endless small ethnic and cultural differences among themselves: the Slovaks have a beef with the Hungarians, the Hungarians have a beef with the Romanians, the Dutch have a beef with the Germans, the Portuguese have a beef with the Spanish, and on and on. An American might be tempted to say "Dude, you're all white people. Chill out!" but the locals don't see it that way. There are grudges here that go back centuries.

I guess it's just the common phenomenon of only being able to see variety in what's familiar to you (such as when some white people say things like "All Asians look the same to me").
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Postby ladislav » Tue Mar 24, 2009 3:18 am

Jackal wrote:
ladislav wrote:Another important thing to keep in mind is that outside of Planet America, where your identity is "Black", and that of others is Asian, Hispanic, etc, the people in many parts of the world judge people by nationality, not by these simplistic, over-generalized racial categories into which you get dumped in the USA.

I am not saying race does not matter, but also, do keep in mind that the way Americans divide humanity ( into five big chunks) is not how a lot of other people see it.


Okay, parts of the world may think in this more idealistic way, but people in some parts of Europe think differently. For example, many Europeans such as Hungarians and Finns refer to gypsies as "black people" because they are the darkest skinned people they have around them. So in some ways the threshold for being "black" is much lower: If you're just one shade darker than a Greek or an Italian, then--bam!--you're labeled as "black" in these countries.

However, Europeans can find endless small ethnic and cultural differences among themselves: the Slovaks have a beef with the Hungarians, the Hungarians have a beef with the Romanians, the Dutch have a beef with the Germans, the Portuguese have a beef with the Spanish, and on and on. An American might be tempted to say "Dude, you're all white people. Chill out!" but the locals don't see it that way. There are grudges here that go back centuries.

I guess it's just the common phenomenon of only being able to see variety in what's familiar to you (such as when some white people say things like "All Asians look the same to me").



You are absolutely right. And the threshold for being black in Russia is even lower. Azeris and Georgians who are about as dark as Greeks are already "black". There was a case of a Serb who got beat up by racist skinheads there for being "black" and an all American Irish descent dude got beat up too. He was one of those Black Irish. An all white man in America but Russians have other ideas, obviously.
Hollywood uses Arab actors ( Omar Sharif) and all these Bulgarians ( dark as Turks) to portray Russians because an average American does not know what a Russian looks like. An Omar Sharif would now have his a## kicked and even Bulgarians would be beat up by those who do not like anyone without Slavic/Finnish look of a typical ethnic Russian.
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Postby Jackal » Tue Mar 24, 2009 6:54 pm

ladislav wrote: An Omar Sharif would now have his a## kicked and even Bulgarians would be beat up by those who do not like anyone without Slavic/Finnish look of a typical ethnic Russian.


...And a Finn would kick your ass for saying that they look anything like Slavs. Back to old grudges...lol
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You don't want to go to germany during these events

Postby gmm567 » Sat Mar 28, 2009 9:21 pm

WRAP UP 4-G20 marches begin week of protests in Europe

http://www.reuters.com/article/joeBiden ... 2420090328
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Postby gmm567 » Sun Apr 05, 2009 8:53 pm

Go to that tagged site or myspace for german woman. You'll find a lot of them have pages of friends who are black dudes.
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Postby JamesSa » Mon Apr 06, 2009 10:11 pm

This is an update:

I already have 8 phone numbers (and counting) off of tagged from women in Colombia and Dominican Republic who I've been emailing back and forth and who want to talk to me to practice their English. Many have already told me everything about their city, what they do, etc., and to visit them in their country so they can show me around and do activities together. They all want to be my guide too!

Are they looking for marriage or something? These women are incredibly beautiful, too...I mean I wouldn't have a chance with them if they were American! Also, the German girls on the site are just mostly flirting with me and seem very sexual. I think they just want to you-know-what.

And to make things better, my ex-wife wants to work things out again slowly, because I told her of my intentions of traveling. She can suck it because there's no going back!

I'm canceling my trip to Brazil because I'm not getting as many contacts and going to Colombia and the Dominican Republic instead. Maybe in person it would be different there.
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Postby gmm567 » Mon Apr 06, 2009 11:27 pm

yeah , well f**k your ex wife. She divorced you more than likely, right?

Go where you are getting the contacts, but be careful there can be scammers. Hopefully this site will eventually be a good place to find out about the most common ones. Check out false rape charges on the Philipines thread.


So the german chicks want to bang you. Damn, you lucky son of a bitch. German woman are the most attractive women in the world. The percentage of good looking german fraus are way beyond what you find women here in the US. Go see my thread on Germany. You can see 20 of them naked within5 hours of being in the country--the saunas are co-ed nude. The best time is in the summer cause they sunbath nude in the parks.
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Postby aozora13 » Thu May 07, 2009 1:51 am

James,

I am finally glad that another American of African descent is on the forum. I am trying to also leave America. It is sad that you thought you did the right thing to marry the woman and to be successful. I hope that you are able to find a nice latina and do well with your business. Although in my case I do have a university degree, it is hard to do an occupation besides teaching. I have tried to look at other areas but you need some real experience and connections. Oh well, I am glad there is some brothers that like Asian women although it seems you also like latinas which is good too. Ladislav is right about going in the P.I. or Indonesia if you are able too. You can try Taiwan and Japan although it will probably be more for fascination first than love. I might try Taiwan although I still cannot get myself to go do teaching. Although it seems if you are able to do a certificate course to get your TESOL certificate you can pretty much teach anywhere. I guess I will have to think of my options.
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Postby Winston » Sat May 09, 2009 4:28 pm

JamesSa wrote:This is an update:

I already have 8 phone numbers (and counting) off of tagged from women in Colombia and Dominican Republic who I've been emailing back and forth and who want to talk to me to practice their English. Many have already told me everything about their city, what they do, etc., and to visit them in their country so they can show me around and do activities together. They all want to be my guide too!

Are they looking for marriage or something? These women are incredibly beautiful, too...I mean I wouldn't have a chance with them if they were American! Also, the German girls on the site are just mostly flirting with me and seem very sexual. I think they just want to you-know-what.

And to make things better, my ex-wife wants to work things out again slowly, because I told her of my intentions of traveling. She can suck it because there's no going back!

I'm canceling my trip to Brazil because I'm not getting as many contacts and going to Colombia and the Dominican Republic instead. Maybe in person it would be different there.


W: Good idea. There are some doubts about Brazil. Someone told me the following, which Ladislav concurred with.

"I'm Italian and i came to Brazil when i was twenty years old, Brazilian women only enjoy guys whom are rich and models alike, they despite the gentlemen ones, whom only search for true love, I'm one of these gentlemen!

The bloody women here hate me because i got this essence, i can not accept to turn into a savage one just to get laid, besides that, I'm a very good looking bloke who goes to the gym work out to keep my body fit!

They're dumb, has a lack of culture, very impolite, totally feminist and animals.

If can you give me any advice, I'll be happy to know, thanks a lot for your time and farewell.."

"In the list of available countries you have set Brazil as the first one in that short video in your web site, trust me mate, they behave like the American ones and i presume they are worse than them!

Best regards and cheers for replying me.. "
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Postby gmm567 » Sun May 10, 2009 12:10 am

God that is so interesting. Brazil is like the US.

How did that country get to be like the US? They have a thug loving culture.
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Postby hamdizzel » Sun May 10, 2009 10:32 pm

most likely you would want to go to some country in Africa
the women are beautiful and are very intelligent
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Postby icarus » Mon May 11, 2009 4:13 pm

gmm567 wrote:God that is so interesting. Brazil is like the US.

How did that country get to be like the US? They have a thug loving culture.


Brazil is different from the US in so many ways. Amazing how you read one post and then spout out some overly-simplistic conclusory statement. Learn how to think better.
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Postby E_Irizarry » Wed Jun 03, 2009 5:12 pm

ladislav wrote:I presume you mean places where you can date and mingle with people without much prejudice.

Best- 1) all countries where people are poor and black, obviously. Black Africa( particularly Ethiopia)- an enormous area to cover. Black Carribean-, Barbados, Trinidad, St Lucia, Martinique, Guayana, Surinam, French Guiana.
2) Countries that have been born out of the mixture of three races one of which is Black. Dominican Republic, Panama, Brazil, Colombia, Venezuela.
3) In Asia only the Philippines comes to mind because they do have Black blood- again, a mixture of three or more races. Stay away from the rest except only for a brief sight seeing visit.
4) In Europe only Denmark has been reported as OK,Germany is supposed to be OK but I woud not go there if I were black. Too many skinheads.
Worst? Hard to say since lots of peope are hypocrites and they pretend to be friendly.
I would say Russia and Ireland as well as just Europe period are the worst. Oz and NZ are Ok but bland as hell and the girls are not that great.


I assume that Denmark is a tad pricey, but I am sure there are "brotha lovers" in Denmark, but a lot of fembot pig females there too from what I know.

Ladislav is right about the Philippines: there are Black people in the Philippines, to paraphrase, especially in pockets of Mindanao and the Visayas (Go to Negros Island - you guys can thank me later!!). A lot of Pinoys of Afro descent are self-hating as well as alot non Afro Pinoys due to colonization and influence of the Spaniards and Americans pillaging that country, but there are quite a few that are proud to be partially Black.

I smashed one Afro Pinay in Zamboanga City, and she was 5-8 at 125 soaking wet, straight Pinay hair (not nappy although I dont have a proble w. nappy texture hair), nice long mocha legs and let me hit it bareback and not an itch and begged me to nut inside of her, but I opted to pull out and nut on her nalgas. Cool ass freak.
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