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Can a guy bang hookers while being engaged?

Post by Boner_Jones » August 19th, 2009, 10:32 am

I know this guy who's engaged to be married, but he keeps going on sex vacations to the Dominican Republic and Brazil -- WTF??

He says it's ok because technically he's still a bachelor, but I don't know. I don't think he's really a husband type. Or even a father type. I mean, this guy lives to bang whores and date 18-19 yr old girls.

Can a guy like this still be a married man? :?

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Post by ladislav » August 19th, 2009, 5:52 pm

Judge not ye, lest ye too be judged. Or something like this. There are all kinds of morals and logic, and we do not know all the circumstances. Does his fiancee know?
I have heard this type of logic before from an engaged girl in Japan. She banged me because technically, she said, she was not married. She did not tell me though until after the fact.
Again, I personally think we should not get involved too much into other people's personal lives.
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Re: Can a guy bang hookers while being engaged?

Post by Boner_Jones » August 19th, 2009, 9:36 pm

Actually, she doesn't know, according to him. I've met her -- really nice, sweet girl.

Believe me, I know it's none of my business, and I am NOT condemning him as a bad person, but I can't imagine a marriage working out if this guy is banging whores on the side. I just want to know if it's even possible to be a father or family man with that kind of lifestyle?

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Post by Winston » August 21st, 2009, 9:52 pm

He sounds like me. lol

Even though he's not married, he's still in a relationship so it's technically cheating.

The thing is, when you cheat a lot, she eventually finds out. Even if she has no proof, she can sense it with her intuition or sixth sense or through telepathy, through whatever force is interconnected in all things.

Even if she forgives him, it eventually sours the relationship and leads to mistrust and creates a wedge between them.

There are some relationships where the couple is open about their affairs, but that is rare and the quality of them tends to be low. If there is true love in the relationship, then it can't be a very open one.

This guy might be sowing his final oats before marriage, but only time will tell if his banging whores is an addiction or just a phase.
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Post by Hero » September 10th, 2009, 12:03 am

My brother's marriage was destroyed by this.

Honestly, why would a guy want to get married if he could just be a playboy?

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Post by Boner_Jones » September 10th, 2009, 9:26 am

Hero wrote:My brother's marriage was destroyed by this.

Honestly, why would a guy want to get married if he could just be a playboy?

Maybe cause he wants to have it both ways. He says he really loves his fiance

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Post by Adama » September 10th, 2009, 2:58 pm

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Post by gmm567 » September 11th, 2009, 2:04 am

so it sounds like winston is reforming himself. Wow.

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Post by Boner_Jones » September 11th, 2009, 4:31 pm

Insidious wrote:What's the excuse he tells his fiancee' for the trip??
He doesn't tell her a thing. He and his fiance work in different states. He's a computer progammer so he puts in long hours, then goes off on these long vacations at the beach and blows tons of cash on hookers. I asked him why he's still engaged and he says he wants to see if he can give up his whoring and have a traditional married lifestyle.

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