Jackal wrote:I think this has to be a rare phenomenon. Most American girls are NOT dreaming about men named "Sergei"!
At my university, the international students were almost invisible to the American students most of the time.
At my college, the foreign students were ignored by all the other students. The girls on my campus wouldn't give the foreign students (male or female) the time of day.
I on the other hand, made friends with lot's of the foreign exchange students (both male and female). I found them to be far more friendly and open than any of the regular American college students were.
For only two semesters, I went to an HBCU (a Historical Black [-American] College-University) in North Carolina, and there were only four foreign students: three were Russian, and one was Japanese. The Japanese one was a female, but she was halfway-decent-looking, and nobody was checking her out.
I decided to push up on her one day in the same class we were in, and she replied to me like an Ameriskank with "Why [are] you bother[-ing] me???" and I was like "Whoaaaaaa.", and I smoothly walk away.
Then two days later, I was walking across campus, she was overzealous when she had seen me like, "Hey you! Hey you! You in my class? Yes?"
I said, "Yes, how can I forget you?"
"Well me sorry for being mean. I had bad day that day."
"Okay. You are forgiven. *LOL* Do you live on or off-campus?"
"I have my own apartment near campus. Want to come o-ver some time?"
"Sure. But are you hungry? We should get something to eat. I don't drive nor have a ca----"
"Don't worwee don't worwee. We go in Mitstubushi 3000. That car is mine."
Long and behold, she had a brand spankin' new Mitsu 3000 VR4 twin cam.
This had transpired in '97.
We hung (we were listening to Bounty Killah, Beenie Man, Lady Saw, Mr. Vegas, all types of dancehall mixtapes)....we dated...we f***ed...for three good months of bliss *Even though
she would never acknowledge me on campus for fear that of her, a straight-up Japanese female,
dating a man of color, at a 99.7% Black American campus*.
You're damn right I dated a non-Black woman at a Black school. The Black women
DIDN'T GIVE ME THE TIME OF DAY so why shouldn't I be happy too??!! Shit, man I tell ya!
The biggest mistake was going over to her classmate's apartment with her as a couple. Her
classmate, a fuckin' Black American bitch, hardly acknowledged me, and fervently asked my
Japanese girlfriend questions like "Really? He's your boyfriend? OMG Word?!"
And just chastised her and made her feel so bad for dating me that the following had happened:
One day I caught her being courted on campus by a Black thug from Jersey (I found out he's from there
because she had told me that). and she was going off, "_____, I'm so so so sowwee, bay-bee".
So then a few days later after we didn't have time to hang out due to finals and shit, I decided to
check up on her since she had called me in two days.
When I had called, that Jersey thug picked up the phone and exhorted, "Who dis?"
"Yo let me speak to Michiko"
"Who da f**k is this???"
"Please dead it. Is she there, my man?"
"Son check this out here: don't ever call this fuckin' number again or it's me and you!" *DIAL TONE*
Then she called back twice in a row and I hung up on her both times because I didnt' care to hear the b.s.
I mean...how can a woman do me like that? I would have been a mangina to ignore that and con't you with she.
Then one night I decided to go over to her apartment. She opened the door and was surprised.
I only stayed probably for 20-25 minutes; for the duration of that time, we were talking about why our relationship
waned the f**k away.
She concluded that her Black female friends that found out I was dating her had painted a horrendous picture of me, and she bought it hook, like,
and sinker that she could do better with a man with a 300-series BMW or a Range Rover (big in the mid 90s) or
whatever materialistic shit.
What is the lesson to learn here, fellas? I know what the lesson is, but I rather allow freethinking here.
I brought this up only because of the "American students ignore the foreign students" phenomenon in this country
but they only give a damn is when Black American women see a man that they wouldn't even date dating a non-Black woman.
Is that that bullshit??!