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Relationships/How Women Select Men

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Re: Relationships/How Women Select Men

Post by jamesbond » June 17th, 2014, 1:14 am

NorthAmericanguy wrote:This is a good basic overview:


http://en.wikibooks.org/wiki/Relationsh ... Select_Men
That was interesting, thanks for the link.
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Post by Taco » June 17th, 2014, 2:48 am

In "normal" countries its the men that do the spouse selecting not the women. Most men look at a woman for 5 seconds before they decide if she's even worth talking to.

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Post by TheLegendSeeker » June 17th, 2014, 10:23 am

For starters, they do not give a damn if you have a "good conversation". Do not think that guy who catches all have a "good conversation", because it is likely that you have a better conversation than his! They also do not give a damn about how you dress. Unless, of course, that you are seen as a circus clown, which makes them die laughing at you inside.

What they evaluate, even before you think about approaching her is at first: height, hair, eye color, muscle mass, beauty of the face, chin and volume underneath the pants. In a second step, she observes details that give clues to your financial situation, such as an expensive watch, your phone and your car (she will try to find clues of your financial position even in times of dialogue: she wants to know if you know many places, exotic food, etc.)..

Then she compares you with other possible males that surround her, to know if you're among the best, among the average or among the worst. The concept of alpha and beta is a relative concept; depends on the type of guys that prowl to target women.

In less than three seconds, she has evaluated all these factors into you, now she’s done with the diagnosis about you.

If you passed this first test, she will let her guard down and be easy for you, and will let you get close and talk a little about you. What she wants is to look at other factors, to whether you are a sucker, or if you're for months without sex. It comes down to feel whether or not the guy has other women at his disposal. They have a special scent to detect men who are there some time without having sex, and run away from these guys!

If the guy passed these tests, she simply will pretend she was enchanted by his talk and will let you make advances! No mystery!

And if the failed in preliminary testing? Can he not reverse the situation in approach??

Hardly!

If she felt bad and you realize that you are a looser that has no pot to piss on or a beta that is lacking for years without f***ing a p***y, her brain has created a lock on you, and she will be angry with anything you say! She herself will do everything to make you embarrassed, will make jokes after jokes about you, will humiliate you and will leave you dropped without much explanation. She will do anything for you to feel bad for being there urging her!

Some may even try to argue: yeah, but the story and that some mines are harder than others?

Bullshit! There’s No hard woman out there! What exists is a woman who did not like you, and she will do everything to make your life difficult! If she liked it, she herself will skip some stages of the conquest just to give it to you fast!

Others argue still: and if I insist, have patience an hour she will not notice me? I know guys that would both insist they gave!

If she did not approve of you in the first three seconds she saw you, there is still the possibility that she does not dismiss you completely. You may not be an ideal male ready to f**k; but who knows, you may serve as spare male, in case that thing with the guy in college, or the new head of her work doesn’t work out, will she not resist your charms and deliver to you? ?

Another possibility is to put you in the friendship zone, so she has a male to do favors for her (e.g. dinners, gifts, attention, etc) without receiving anything in return. I will not be speaking here of friendzone, because this subject is already very beaten.

You will agree with me that both situations are humiliating! Both serve as a spare male asexual beta with no balls!

Even if you say it's better to be a spare male lacking a male, I remind you that sex will only be in case of emergencies, while she can not hook a superior male! Learn outset that she is only with you because she could not get anything better, and deep down she has a grudge against you because of it.

But why do we hear so much about this story that women have to be earned?

Simple! To put the blame for the failure in achieving the backs of men!

In a politically correct world where socialism preaches a kind of happiness (everyone is entitled to happiness also), you can not just tell a guy he can not have access to the most beautiful women simply because he is ugly, poor, fat , bald and miserable.

If this were done, chaos would set in society; angry men would call women whores so hard in the face; misogyny would spread like a plague; and, in the latter cases, the most limited men would simply give up and women would live a life without “saltâ€￾, which would mean an economic meltdown of unimaginable proportions. Japan is already experiencing this doomsday scenario for some time.

So to avoid that chaos is setting, and women start losing privileges, what do they do? Propagate a lie that if a man endeavor at the time of the conquest, it can compensate for their limitations, and will have access to beautiful women. They (PUAs & Media) make the guys believe that the problem is not on their limitations, but the misplaced words or posture, which was not as dominant as well.

It is easier to convince people that failed for lack of effort to convince that they failed because of genetic selection.

Also, has said seduction gurus who profit upon failure of men in dealing with women. To face these continue to make money, it is necessary that men believe that even being ugly, fat, bald, poor and avulsions, they may have access to the woman they want as long to learn the correct techniques of seduction.

So, summarizing, seduction techniques are useless?

Not entirely. There are cases in which the techniques may be useful.

For example, men who are tall, strong, handsome, rich, but shy. Are guys who have an edge at picking up any woman they want, but do not get simply because they lack a push. I know guys with this profile, they could grab a delicious different top babes per day but don’t because of shyness.

In such cases, the techniques are useful for uninhibited guy, demystify the female and put it in the game. These guys have the potential to pick up women using techniques, and the success of these guys is what makes others believe that seduction techniques really work.

For limited to guys seduction is useless.

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Post by jamesbond » June 17th, 2014, 1:13 pm

Taco wrote:In "normal" countries its the men that do the spouse selecting not the women. Most men look at a woman for 5 seconds before they decide if she's even worth talking to.
Your right, in normal countries it's men who do the choosing. In English speaking countries, it's women who do the choosing. And who are women choosing? They are choosing thugs and bad boys over good men. :roll:

Roosh V said that in America, a good looking woman will get asked out 2,500 times by the time she get's married. No wonder why American women are so picky about what guys they date, they have ton's of guys asking them out. :shock:
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Post by pandabear » July 21st, 2014, 3:03 am

jamesbond wrote: Roosh V said that in America, a good looking woman will get asked out 2,500 times by the time she get's married. No wonder why American women are so picky about what guys they date, they have ton's of guys asking them out. :shock:
You never hear a Feminist complain that she can't find a bloke willing to give her a good stiff poke. Instead, the Feminists complain that they can't leave the house without being objectified sexually, all day long. She just has to decide for whom she is willing to spread her legs.

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Re: Relationships/How Women Select Men

Post by jullypham » November 12th, 2014, 11:55 am

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