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Australia's dating scene is just as bad or worse than USA

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Australia's dating scene is just as bad or worse than USA

Postby Thechamp » June 11th, 2015, 2:33 pm

Australia's dating scene is just as bad or worse than the usa, everything I have read on this site about Americas dating scence is the same in Australia !!
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Re: Australia's daiting scene is just as bad or worse than u

Postby Banano » June 11th, 2015, 3:24 pm

Where in australia you from?
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Re: Australia's daiting scene is just as bad or worse than u

Postby Ghost » June 12th, 2015, 6:38 am

They are anglo females, so what else do you expect? It is a damn shame, though. Australian women have the sexiest accents in the world. And although their hot women seem hotter than other anglo females, their typical ones are apparently the same ugly, fat, drunk, sluts.
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Re: Australia's daiting scene is just as bad or worse than u

Postby Thechamp » June 13th, 2015, 9:24 am

Perth it's ok , when your young and you have a social circle but after 25 etc it is hard girls so picky
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Re: Australia's daiting scene is just as bad or worse than u

Postby Yohan » June 13th, 2015, 6:39 pm

Thechamp wrote:Australia's daiting scene is just as bad or worse than usa , everything I have read on this site about Americas daiting scence is the same in Australia !!


It seems, the English speaking region, UK, USA/Canada, Australia/NewZealand, SouthAfrica are the worst. Other former British colonies are also not known to offer a friendly dating scene, for example India.
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Re: Australia's dating scene is just as bad or worse than US

Postby Mr571 » July 23rd, 2015, 1:45 am

Well I'm an American just got to Melbourne last Saturday and since then I have had sex with a woman high up in politics who now wants to have sex with me on a regular thursday/Friday basis... and two other hot women. Outside of sex though the women don't really seem to be interested in relationships and much rather have multiple partners which I can find depressing if you aren't a guy that wants to play the field. Also I'm 32 years old and so far the women I have slept with have been 24 33 and 25 I have been hit on by a couple of 18-19 year olds lol but I like women haha
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Re: Australia's dating scene is just as bad or worse than US

Postby WorldTraveler » July 23rd, 2015, 4:12 am

Mr571 wrote:Well I'm an American just got to Melbourne last Saturday and since then I have had sex with a woman high up in politics who now wants to have sex with me on a regular thursday/Friday basis... and two other hot women. Outside of sex though the women don't really seem to be interested in relationships and much rather have multiple partners which I can find depressing if you aren't a guy that wants to play the field. Also I'm 32 years old and so far the women I have slept with have been 24 33 and 25 I have been hit on by a couple of 18-19 year olds lol but I like women haha


I feel for you brother. Sounds like you're getting more arse than a toilet seat in Australia. I know how you feel, girls like to use me for just sex! All I want is a good girl to marry! :lol:
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Re: Australia's dating scene is just as bad or worse than US

Postby livefreeordie » July 1st, 2016, 6:44 am

It depends really, ive picked up girls on the street in perth city, and had good success in a great karaoke bar here but that shut down :(

bars i think are a giant cock tease and waste of money, time and health, unless you are using a 'system' of some kind and being aggressive-alpha tactics, its seems like a waste of energy

the online dating is a gigantic pain in the arsehole, and very low hit rate, and you keep getting banned if you use any kind of efficient system from the weirdo zombie leftist admins of sites like POF
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Re: Australia's dating scene is just as bad or worse than US

Postby NicholasCatrow » August 26th, 2016, 1:46 pm

Perth it's ok , when your young and you have a social circle but after 25 etc it is hard girls so picky


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Re: Australia's dating scene is just as bad or worse than US

Postby mrrobin » March 27th, 2017, 8:22 pm

The foreign Asian chicks in Australia seem to be pretty easy and like foreigner. Local Australian girls I find are very cliquey and is very hard to get even an opportunity to meet them apart from the older butch ones.
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Re: Australia's dating scene is just as bad or worse than US

Postby _cavelo_ » June 29th, 2017, 4:31 am

Wow, sorry your experiences in Australian women have been rather..crap?

Look, we aren't all "drunk sluts". There are still a few of us good ones around. The problem is that there is rarely an opportunity to meet the good ones.

Plus, 'us' good ones intimidate most. I'm not proud of this fact. It sucks really. To be smart AND attractive apparently is a beacon of you-can-look-but-don't-touch-comment-ask-for-a-drink-even.
Personally, I thought that working in a male dominant industry, where I can carry on an intelligent conversation would assist me in finding an attractive, kind and caring man. But all it has done is made them see me as a bank or accessory. I've even been told before that I am friend material because 'a guy doesn't want to be seen as stupider than his missus'.

HENCE, I think American men may be the winner here. They tend to respect their women better. Are not afraid of independence. Are not afraid of romance (well by my experiences anyway) and darn it when they say "Yes, Ma'am", I'm like an ice- block in summertime. Give me that any day!!
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Re: Australia's dating scene is just as bad or worse than US

Postby HouseMD » June 30th, 2017, 12:26 pm

_cavelo_ wrote:Wow, sorry your experiences in Australian women have been rather..crap?

Look, we aren't all "drunk sluts". There are still a few of us good ones around. The problem is that there is rarely an opportunity to meet the good ones.

Plus, 'us' good ones intimidate most. I'm not proud of this fact. It sucks really. To be smart AND attractive apparently is a beacon of you-can-look-but-don't-touch-comment-ask-for-a-drink-even.
Personally, I thought that working in a male dominant industry, where I can carry on an intelligent conversation would assist me in finding an attractive, kind and caring man. But all it has done is made them see me as a bank or accessory. I've even been told before that I am friend material because 'a guy doesn't want to be seen as stupider than his missus'.

HENCE, I think American men may be the winner here. They tend to respect their women better. Are not afraid of independence. Are not afraid of romance (well by my experiences anyway) and darn it when they say "Yes, Ma'am", I'm like an ice- block in summertime. Give me that any day!!

Unfortunately this site is suffering from a bit of a sanity vacuum these days. Here's the thing about being a high-powered woman, from what sociology tells us- it limits your dating pool substantially. Women tend to want a guy that earns as much or more than them (you are not like this), but even if they broaden their horizons, studies show us that men who feel they aren't the breadwinner of the household tend to feel the need to overcompensate in other ways, and the noise common of these is infidelity. Men really don't care what a woman earns, it's like, "oh cool, she's got a nice job" but other than that, doesn't matter. My current girl makes far, far less than me, and I chose her over a girl with an eight figure portfolio because of compatibility. Money just doesn't matter to us. I'm a physician and I've got wealthy or high earning women coming at me quite frequently and it just doesn't even tempt me (though if you were in my age range and I were single I'd give you a shot, you seem nice enough). Men like looks and personality, girls like personality, stability, and a minimum bar for looks.

If you want an American though, try relocating or taking a vacation. Avoid NYC, as the exotic and wealth are sort of passe there (and believe me, your accent is exotic to most US guys, the only thing I like more than the Aussie accent is the British one). But Texas, Northern California, Seattle, Austin, Denver, and Boston could be good places to visit. Denver is particularly favorable for women, tons of young, fit, single guys move there for the outdoors so there's a lopsided gender ratio.
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