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Is it possible that there is some self hate among black posters here. I know that statement will sound controversy and can offend some poster.
But let me explain. Let say I meet an Asian guy who said, "I don't like going back to Asia for this reason or that and I don't like dating Asian women because for this reason or that". I might think he wants to distance himself from his culture and his own people. Granted he may have a valid reason.
However, let me expand a little bit. I'm Korean American guy living in NYC and I met a number of Asian American girls who would not want to date me because they prefer white guys. In matter of fact it's negative trend in the Asian American community that there is a fair number of Asian women who will not date Asian men. You can blame this on white colonist mentality that still exist in this world.
Some Asian guy get piss and go after white women only or some Asian guys because they grew up in the west fantasies white women . I notice these types of Asian guys tend to distance themselves from Asian culture and would have really negative thinking of Asian women. In reverse I see this with Asian American women too who only date white men and not associate with anything Asian. ( For most part they ONLY date white men and rarely men of color ) I call this having a loss of identity and just feeding into the white worship.
I see this with some black guys too. I know I am going to step on toes with that comment.
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I knew you would go there. Look, I am not attracted to black women. End of story. Why is that so hard to understand? When a black guy doesn't like black women, it is self-hate, but I never hear that with other races. Please, would you stop this bullshit. I don't find black women attractive. I find other women of other ethnicities attractive. Period. Nothing else is to be said.
Hey you are my man, Lol this is the actitud.. GOOD FOR YOU!!
Good judgment comes from experience, and experience comes from bad judgment.
The choice black men make about women are personal and are none of your concern. If you are Korean like you said, there are issues far more pressing for you to be worried about than who black men choose to be with.
America is a free country so go back to Korea if you have a problem with black Americans exercising that freedom. I know it must bother you, there is nothing you can do about it anyway.
Dam! You niggas are brainwashed. Don't you find it strange that non of you find black women attractive? You think that's your personal preference?
Let me stop you right there and call BULLSHIT!!
There are probably just as many white men, (not proportionality of course but in total), that have a deep hatred for white women, and have opted to indulge their unnatural, media created fetishes for asian women.
This shit ain't natural. And can be reversed with some effort. The embedded programming can be ripped out.
I'm no genius or expert in psychology, but if you desperately in-denial fools VISITED AFRICA, I'd be willing to bet you'd be able to clear your mind of self-hate indoctrination and get the monkey off your back. Or just keep chasing white women trying to convince yourselves and everyone else you're not attracted to black women, which is actually genetically impossible if you are yourself black.
You're not the only ones who deal with this shit. White men, asian men, latino men all deal with this. If you grew up in a white nation but had an old-fashioned Chinese family, with dad slurping noodles like a pig every night, nerdy siblings keeping you up all night to cram for exams, and nazi-mom making your life a living hell, you think you'd be attracted to Chinese girls? HELL NO, you'd be traumatized.
And if you were a white kid who grew up with Japanese anime, Japanese video games, Japanese food, (and compared it with the lackluster modern "American" culture of huge Walmart parking lots and all that shit).. guess what you'd want to be (and marry into) Japanese!
You have to come "full circle" to release the inhibitions. Like I said I'm no genius, but if you're effectively running from your problems by going abroad, maybe going to your ancestral homeland will do more for your soul and your mental health than going wherever the Hollywood depiction of beauty resides in (i.e. Europe).
Careful PassportRenewed, you and IntotheWild are gonna kick off a race war in here!
I understand you have a lot of pent up frustration living in this warped society but your raw opinions will be taken the wrong way by other members here and it is doubtful the result will be empowering discussion.
Keep in mind that blacks are taught whites are the cause of all their problems, and vice versa. Divide and conquer baby!
I've got to make a (quality) thread debunking "racism", the term Leon Trotsky created for political motives. I haven't done enough (i.e. any) research on the subject but I have enough life experience from living in a Marxist country to at least start a healthy discourse.
I f***ing knew it! I knew you sounded like the former-member Oiltradingacademy. You look a little less buff than your last picture! Look I got no problems with you, just don't treat us like children or like scum of the earth and don't try to sell us anything and you're welcome to stay (others may disagree).
It might be time to institute an intelligence test before one can join this forum. Bottom dwellers like this fool bring this forum to a much lower place.
As for you oddball or odbo or whatever your friggin name is, there is no one on this forum who is a "nigga," except perhaps yourself if that is what you and your mother consider you to be.
Finally, too bad if it hurts your little fragile feelings that I will decide who I like. If you are man enough to try to change something about that, let's see you try. Just as I would crack open the skull of anyone who would try to interfere with me and my choice of woman, I would crack yours open too. Trust me on that young man.
I will also tell you this. You may want to be careful dicking around with the choices independent-minded men make for themselves lest you expire your time. You get no free pass because you are "balack;" as a matter of fact you might find that you get it worse just for daring to tread on that track fool.
Keep yourself healthy.......
Oh I'm really friggin worried about you! Don't even begin to talk tough when you have a chest that looks like sagging female breasts. You stay healthy too bubba.
You can tell when something hits a white supremacist nerve or does not comport with that worldview. The reaction is to jump up and down, and scream it's not true! Allow me to deconstruct Mr. PassportExpired for a quick minute.
Well, when the white American guys tell me that they cannot hold the attention of women and ask me how do I have so much success with them, that kind of tells the story. Furthermore, I have had numerous Central and Eastern European women tell me that they have met American men in the past (ie. White guys) but they did find them at all interesting or appealing. When I ask why, the response always revolves around baseball caps, arrogance, frumpy clothing, lack of worldly knowledge, rowdy beer drinking behavior, and lack of overall interest in these guys. I also notice that things went south during the Bush administration when he was considered the quintessential dumb, American, goober. Contrast that with Obama (whether you love him or hate him) and that Europeans tend to love him to death compared with Bush and they always mention him around me and ask how I cannot be so crazy about Obama. Go figure.
So get over yourself. White American guys still run the table within the USA and perhaps in Latin America with hot women, but not overseas where I spend my time! NOT EVEN CLOSE.
That's it? And you come off like you are some sort of international expert with such little travel experience? I visited more places than that as an undergrad 15 years ago. Get out to about 65 more countries then get back to me for a serious discussion.
Then you're an idiot, not only for getting married, but for getting worked over in the process. If you read the accounts of many about Russian girls you might have prevented yourself from getting bent forward over a chair and pounded from the rear. You have no credibility whatsoever with the more experienced travelers here. Butthurt-inspired opinions don't count for much here Bubba.
That's quite predictable from your hubris, because you don't know what you're doing.
I don't even need to make a comment on this one. My point is self-evident. I guess it's god's will that the black man gets less play than you, huh?
Crawl back into the corn field from which you came if you can't come with anything other than that nonsense you tried to spew.
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Odbo, did you read my posts in this thread? If so, how do you explain the extreme disillusionment of a person who did the very same thing you are recommending (author of the book I mentioned)? And do you think the horrible things that go down in much of Africa (see Youtube links in my threads for examples) is really going to heal souls? Have you ever been to any country there to see things first hand? Did you realize that in a lot of African countries, the most popular women often have the lightest skin? Yes, lighter skin (I don't mean white though) is generally considered more attractive there. I think one of the contributing factors to the Rwandan genocide was jealousy darker Hutus had towards the generally lighter skinned Tutsis. With such a bias, do you think that Phoenix would drop his preference for white women just by spending time in Africa? Heck, even older less attractive white women can get a lot of attention there.
You are obviously bright, prolific, and appear to me to think independently. But sometimes, you don't do enough homework to back-up your claims.
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Oo! Internet tough guy. Give it a rest. Your ego is barking up because you can't come to grips with the rational points I presented.
Why would my feelings hurt from your preferences if I wasn't your parent? If I hurt I do so for humanity because it is painful to watch people live their life in denial. I won't be put me on a guilt trip because I bothered to bring up the uncomfortable truth.
A black man saying he's not at all attracted to black women is hardly a rare occurrence in this country. Since the world is populated by idiots, when you find your opinion among the majority it is good practice to reassess the situation. Because almost without fail you will find you have been deceived!
Independent-minded men? You mean like the hundreds of millions of independent men who are obsessed with asian women, but had never noticed them before broadband internet (and porn) came out?
What makes you any different from those "stupid" black men, getting on a plane designed by white men and flying to Europe?
Come on, cut the bullshit. Shitting on the women of your own race does not make you a free thinker. What a f***ing farce if I ever heard one. This is Winston's sham philosophy all over again. Men will f**k anything that moves. Men have gone abroad to work for may centuries. They slept with the native women, sometimes bringing them back as wives or staying with them at their new home.
I guess I'm an extreme minority, because when I notice I'm being manipulated, I look into it and attempt to put a stop to it. That way I know my opinion is my own, and not that of social engineers in Hollywood. We have and continue to be mind-raped, and though it might not be possible to catch and correct every aspect of our mental baggage, I'm of the belief that we should at least try.
Don't toss out the baby with the bath water, I mean dam!
And there's nothing wrong with liking white or asian women IN ADDITION to your own race. There is something very wrong with having a fetish. I know for a fact a lot of minorities out there think as soon as they manage to "marry" into white p***y land, the world will become a fairy tale where no problems exist and everyone is polite and wealthy and Gerber babies float around playing harps. BTW this is sort of how white men with an asian fetish also think except replace it with a bunch of Chinese stereotypes.
Perhaps this isn't the best analogy but there are Americans who are obsessed with German or Japanese cars and won't even consider an American. There are rational reasons for this as just like American women, American cars tend to be of lower quality and will cost more and give more problems down the line. But it becomes clear the people have an unhealthy psychosis when they still won't even consider a Japanese or German-made car if it simply has an American brand on it. (ex: Dodge Conquest = Mitsubishi Starion, mid-90s Geo/Chevrolet Prizm = Toyota Corolla)
African-American women destroyed black women for you. The same way I've heard of men getting burned with Russian "mail order" brides and now anytime they hear someone with a Russian accent they get the bad memories flooding in and have to run out of the room. We're like war victims with post-traumatic stress disorder. Except the war is a metaphysical one on our minds. I don't want to quote a Hollywood movie but like Fight Club said "our big depression is our lives." We need therapy but our egos, which aren't loyal to us, are in the way. Moreover we don't know where to run. Every avenue leads right back to the enemy. For instance in English, therapist is literally spelled the-rapist.
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Who the hell died and made you the arbiter of whom should like whom? Try this on for size, to hell with black women, to hell with Latin women, and doubly to hell with you.
Some black men don't fancy black women. Get over it. Don't like it? Try to do something about it. Oh, that's what I thought.
No disrespect, but I thought the same thing. It's a real medical condition called gynecomastia. The dude needs to see a doctor and do a blood test to see where his hormone levels are at. Being 40 has little to with it.
I don't make the rules, I'm only making an observation.
There is a clear difference between natural man and manipulated man. And I know the difference very well from trying to conquer my own mind parasites.
You're only damning yourself.
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