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Free to be a Real Man

Postby The_Adventurer » May 21st, 2011, 3:42 am

You really can experience a new relationship frontier with an Asian girl, especially a Chinese girl. Here they haven't lost sight of the natural relationship between a man and a woman. They expect, and sometimes, even WANT the man to act in the manner of a brute, by western standards, and take control of a situation. Yes, this means even force them (which would likely lead to a charge of spousal rape in the USA). In the USA if the girl is angry and not talking to the man, they might say "give her space" or "give her time". Here it is not like that. The man will grab her and throw her on the bed and get down to business. Then everything is okay again.

They have this saying which loosely translates to "big man, small woman". You'll never hear a saying like that in America. The small woman needs the big man to protect her. When she is sad, she needs the big man to hug her and comfort her. If she is angry, it may just be time for the big man to grab her and SHOW that he loves her. They say if you love someone, you DO something, not say something. This is very confucian (Kongzi the philosopher who shaped Chinese thought) He said, "The superior man acts before he speaks and then speaks afterward according to his actions."

There is still freedom to be a real man out there in the world. Maybe you can find it too!
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Postby onezero4u » May 21st, 2011, 4:16 am

Kongzi also said "The American woman acts before she thinks then justifies her immature behavior afterward according to her whims."
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Re: Free to be a Real Man

Postby FreeYourMind » May 21st, 2011, 8:08 am

Terrence wrote:You really can experience a new relationship frontier with an Asian girl, especially a Chinese girl. Here they haven't lost sight of the natural relationship between a man and a woman. They expect, and sometimes, even WANT the man to act in the manner of a brute, by western standards, and take control of a situation. Yes, this means even force them (which would likely lead to a charge of spousal rape in the USA). In the USA if the girl is angry and not talking to the man, they might say "give her space" or "give her time". Here it is not like that. The man will grab her and throw her on the bed and get down to business. Then everything is okay again.

They have this saying which loosely translates to "big man, small woman". You'll never hear a saying like that in America. The small woman needs the big man to protect her. When she is sad, she needs the big man to hug her and comfort her. If she is angry, it may just be time for the big man to grab her and SHOW that he loves her. They say if you love someone, you DO something, not say something. This is very confucian (Kongzi the philosopher who shaped Chinese thought) He said, "The superior man acts before he speaks and then speaks afterward according to his actions."

There is still freedom to be a real man out there in the world. Maybe you can find it too!


Uplifting post, thanks!
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