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The Latina woman I was referring to in a previous thread....

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The Latina woman I was referring to in a previous thread....

Post by The_Hero_of_Men » May 21st, 2011, 6:04 am

There was a Latina woman I met at the bus stop several weeks back (the same one I mentioned in a previous thread). She was real quick in telling me that she loved me. And she is a single mother-- the man she was with before abandoned her and her daughters 7 years ago (at least according to her), AND she knows as much English as I do Spanish (very little). Those things that I have just mentioned are... forget setting off my internal warning systems off; these things are sending my warning system into overdrive! On dating sites (both American and international), the proprietors of these sites tell clients to "be wary of a user that proclaims his/her love for you after only a short amount of time". The only thing is, I have met this woman in person (at the bus stop). To be honest, something inside me is screaming, "JUST HAVE SOME FUN WITH THIS WOMAN, BUT ABSOLUTELY UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES SHOULD YOU PURSUE ANYTHING SERIOUS WITH THIS WOMAN!!!" My dilemma here is this: Due to this woman's circumstances of being left alone and lonely for the past 7 years, I am loathe to just "pump and dump" this woman, especially if her feelings for me are legitimate & sincere.

However, I do realize that, since we barely understand each other, it would be very easy for her to take advantage of me, or it would be very easy for me to take advantage of her, something that I have no intentions of doing (I have too much honour for that).

Also, we do communicate through texts and email. I am wondering if there is some kind of mobile English-to-Spanish/Spanish-to-English translator out there on the market, because most of the text messages that she has sent me were in English, but not perfect English.

One one hand, I want to pursue this (I admit, a small part of me feels sorry for this woman), but yet it's like something is telling me not to pursue this.


I am merely trying to take what i can get, until I can actually leave the USA for good. After all, young and hot Mexican (or foreign) girls are not exactly a dime a dozen, especially here in San Antonio (at least as far as I can tell).

Also, this Latina woman (as a reminder) is actually from San Luis Potosi, Mexico. She occasionally comes to San Antonio to work. She told me so herself.

I post this, not to disregard the advice of board members here; I post this because I am legitimately struggling with this in my mind and heart.


EDT: As a reminder, the age of this woman is 38.
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Post by The Arab » May 21st, 2011, 6:22 am

Aren't you the same poster who made a thread about starting a relationship with a 60+ year old woman ... with you being in your 20s, and seeing absolutely nothing bizarre about that.

I shudder to think about the age of this woman ... please tell me she is of child bearing age.

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Post by The_Hero_of_Men » May 21st, 2011, 6:30 am

The Arab wrote:Aren't you the same poster who made a thread about starting a relationship with a 60+ year old woman ... with you being in your 20s, and seeing absolutely nothing bizarre about that.

I shudder to think about the age of this woman ... please tell me she is of child bearing age.



My apologies, I forgot to mention: The woman in question is 38.
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Post by The Arab » May 21st, 2011, 6:32 am

Thus, not of child bearing age .....

Why is a man in his 20s looking for women past their reproductive date ?

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Post by The_Hero_of_Men » May 21st, 2011, 6:35 am

The Arab wrote:Thus, not of child bearing age .....

Why is a man in his 20s looking for women past their reproductive date ?


It's like I said, Sir, young Latina girls with class and maturity (meaning that they know how to treat a good man) are not exactly a dime a dozen here, so I am just trying to take what I can get for the time being.


That's all.
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Post by rome86 » May 23rd, 2011, 5:35 pm

young women do not shit ..trust me all they want is experience life by spending your money..that is why they usually go for established 30+ guys ... we guys in our 20 s we don't mean anything to them ..i just turned 25 and i am into 35 + women for now
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Wow, just Wow...

Post by djfourmoney » May 24th, 2011, 5:57 am

Nuevo Laredo is not that far from San Antonio and p***y is affordable. I am not sure what your after with this woman. If its companionship, get a cat or a dog. If its sex, go down to Mexico it will be cheaper in the short term if all you want is sex.

Why would a man in his 20's regardless if younger women aren't widely available or not would want a woman 18 years his senior? Arab she can still bear children, not easy and not ideal but she can and since she's had one child before, its likely she can have another child or two.

There was a podcast I heard a few weeks ago and both her and her co-host, relationship experts didn't find suitable men for husbands until they were both in their early 40's and had each a child before their 43rd birthdays. Now these were highly educated and intelligent women so its not a surprise they could have children in their 40's. The average age of first time mother for college educated women is almost 35 years old...

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Post by Adama » May 24th, 2011, 7:06 am

How does she cross the border? Legally? Does she have a visa? If so, why does she commute back and forth?

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Post by The_Hero_of_Men » May 24th, 2011, 4:39 pm

Adama wrote:How does she cross the border? Legally? Does she have a visa? If so, why does she commute back and forth?


She comes here to San Antonio to work, so yes I would assume that she comes here LEGALLY, because if it were illegal, there is NO WAY she would come here illegally over and over again, regardless of how inept and incompetent our government is!
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