The Latina woman I was referring to in a previous thread....
Posted: May 20th, 2011, 10:04 pm
There was a Latina woman I met at the bus stop several weeks back (the same one I mentioned in a previous thread). She was real quick in telling me that she loved me. And she is a single mother-- the man she was with before abandoned her and her daughters 7 years ago (at least according to her), AND she knows as much English as I do Spanish (very little). Those things that I have just mentioned are... forget setting off my internal warning systems off; these things are sending my warning system into overdrive! On dating sites (both American and international), the proprietors of these sites tell clients to "be wary of a user that proclaims his/her love for you after only a short amount of time". The only thing is, I have met this woman in person (at the bus stop). To be honest, something inside me is screaming, "JUST HAVE SOME FUN WITH THIS WOMAN, BUT ABSOLUTELY UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES SHOULD YOU PURSUE ANYTHING SERIOUS WITH THIS WOMAN!!!" My dilemma here is this: Due to this woman's circumstances of being left alone and lonely for the past 7 years, I am loathe to just "pump and dump" this woman, especially if her feelings for me are legitimate & sincere.
However, I do realize that, since we barely understand each other, it would be very easy for her to take advantage of me, or it would be very easy for me to take advantage of her, something that I have no intentions of doing (I have too much honour for that).
Also, we do communicate through texts and email. I am wondering if there is some kind of mobile English-to-Spanish/Spanish-to-English translator out there on the market, because most of the text messages that she has sent me were in English, but not perfect English.
One one hand, I want to pursue this (I admit, a small part of me feels sorry for this woman), but yet it's like something is telling me not to pursue this.
I am merely trying to take what i can get, until I can actually leave the USA for good. After all, young and hot Mexican (or foreign) girls are not exactly a dime a dozen, especially here in San Antonio (at least as far as I can tell).
Also, this Latina woman (as a reminder) is actually from San Luis Potosi, Mexico. She occasionally comes to San Antonio to work. She told me so herself.
I post this, not to disregard the advice of board members here; I post this because I am legitimately struggling with this in my mind and heart.
EDT: As a reminder, the age of this woman is 38.
However, I do realize that, since we barely understand each other, it would be very easy for her to take advantage of me, or it would be very easy for me to take advantage of her, something that I have no intentions of doing (I have too much honour for that).
Also, we do communicate through texts and email. I am wondering if there is some kind of mobile English-to-Spanish/Spanish-to-English translator out there on the market, because most of the text messages that she has sent me were in English, but not perfect English.
One one hand, I want to pursue this (I admit, a small part of me feels sorry for this woman), but yet it's like something is telling me not to pursue this.
I am merely trying to take what i can get, until I can actually leave the USA for good. After all, young and hot Mexican (or foreign) girls are not exactly a dime a dozen, especially here in San Antonio (at least as far as I can tell).
Also, this Latina woman (as a reminder) is actually from San Luis Potosi, Mexico. She occasionally comes to San Antonio to work. She told me so herself.
I post this, not to disregard the advice of board members here; I post this because I am legitimately struggling with this in my mind and heart.
EDT: As a reminder, the age of this woman is 38.