Join John Adams, world renowned Intl Matchmaker, Monday nights 8:30 EST for Live Webcasts!
And check out Five Reasons why you should attend a FREE AFA Seminar! See locations and dates here.



View Active Topics       View Your Posts       Latest 100 Topics       FAQ Topics       Switch to Mobile


Have any guys here had any success meeting women in bars?

Discuss dating, relationships and foreign women.

Moderators: fschmidt, jamesbond

Have any guys here had any success meeting women in bars?

Postby jamesbond » October 14th, 2011, 3:53 am

I was wondering if any guys here had any success picking up women in bars and clubs in the US. Day game doesn't work in America, only place you can meet women is bars and clubs. The thing I hate about them is that the music is loud, it's crowded and usually men outnumber women.

Have any of you guys had any success picking up women in bars and clubs? And if so, what did you do exactly to be able to pick up women in bars and clubs?
"When I think about the idea of getting involved with an American woman, I don't know if I should laugh .............. or vomit!"

"Trying to meet women in America is like trying to decipher Egyptian hieroglyphics."
User avatar
jamesbond
Elite Upper Class Poster
 
Posts: 8000
Joined: August 25th, 2007, 6:45 pm
Location: USA




Check out our Dating Sites and HA International Romance Tours!



Re: Have any guys here had any success meeting women in bars

Postby C.J. » October 15th, 2011, 8:03 pm

jamesbond wrote:I was wondering if any guys here had any success picking up women in bars and clubs in the US. Day game doesn't work in America, only place you can meet women is bars and clubs. The thing I hate about them is that the music is loud, it's crowded and usually men outnumber women.

Have any of you guys had any success picking up women in bars and clubs? And if so, what did you do exactly to be able to pick up women in bars and clubs?

I don't recommend the bar scene. If the men outnumber the women, that means the place is full of unavailable women, since most of them are with other men. In the US, IMO the best you can hope for is hitting up classified ad sites and getting escorts or entitled freaks. Trying to get women here otherwise is like hunting for treasure... except that's easier than finding available women that are worth keeping.
C.J.
Experienced Poster
 
Posts: 1025
Joined: April 25th, 2011, 11:56 pm

Postby Dogboy86 » October 15th, 2011, 8:36 pm

If success is defined by sex then yes. To do so you have be in the top 30% of the men around you, assertive and have some cash to blow. You can not be shy or play coy. Some of the best pulls were when dancing with a girl that seems into you and she is close is to just kiss her. If there is sexual tention you will feel it. If it dosnt work move on, eather way she will remember and respect your efforts. That the way it rolls with country girls, I don't know about the city girls... :)
"Never underestimate the predictability of stupidity"!!!
Dogboy86
Freshman Poster
 
Posts: 304
Joined: August 27th, 2011, 7:09 pm
Location: Safford, Az.

Postby jcris7 » October 15th, 2011, 8:44 pm

No, because I felt completely out of my element. Bars and me are like oil and water -- they don't mix. Besides, drunks scare the shit out me. I have bad memories of those places because of my cousin, who I used to be close to, became an angry and aggressive alcoholic.
"Women age like milk; Men age like wine." - Tom Leykis
jcris7
Freshman Poster
 
Posts: 162
Joined: August 30th, 2011, 10:49 pm

Postby lavezzi » October 15th, 2011, 9:21 pm

I reckon there's tons of single women looking to get f***ed in American bars. There's a sense of insecurity about American women which makes them easy. When approaching, it's all about your first impression. It takes 60 spoken words to establish a human connection and create an impression, so make those first 60 words good and from there she will have decided how she feels about you. If she is attracted to you then she'll be going home with you, guaranteed.

The thing is, their personalities are so terrible, YOU will lose interest the second you start talking with them. They ride on the fact they possess a vagina so much it's beyond belief. And that voice is the worst.
lavezzi
Junior Poster
 
Posts: 707
Joined: July 12th, 2011, 6:38 pm
Location: Republic of Éire

Noooo

Postby polya » October 15th, 2011, 11:02 pm

Everyone my age I know have basically stopped going to bars because the cattiness and obnoxiousness of young guys has got extreme. I’m really glad I lived in the 1980s when girlss were friendly and wanted sex with average guys. I really noticed in the 1990s after Madonna sang “Don’t go for second best, babyâ€￾ & after feminist laws were passed that girls became monsters. Not to mention all the high prices you pay for entry & for drinks at bars. I’m on welfare & paying $11 for one whisky & coke is basically my whole day’s grocery money!
"Woman is a violent and uncontrolled animal... If you allow them to achieve complete equality with men, do you think they will be easier to live with? Not at all. Once they have achieved equality, they will be your masters." Cato the Elder
polya
Junior Poster
 
Posts: 850
Joined: January 9th, 2008, 8:21 am

Postby Dogboy86 » October 16th, 2011, 12:47 am

lavezzi wrote:I reckon there's tons of single women looking to get f***ed in American bars. There's a sense of insecurity about American women which makes them easy. When approaching, it's all about your first impression. It takes 60 spoken words to establish a human connection and create an impression, so make those first 60 words good and from there she will have decided how she feels about you. If she is attracted to you then she'll be going home with you, guaranteed.

The thing is, their personalities are so terrible, YOU will lose interest the second you start talking with them. They ride on the fact they possess a vagina so much it's beyond belief. And that voice is the worst.


Girls within five secounds of seeing you know if they are going to sleep with you or not. We shoot ourselves in the foot more often then by not recognizing one that has made the choice to do so. Any self deprivation or social code breaking will shoot you strait out of the saddle. As for the other guys there, f**k them, your there for the girls and if you keep that mind set your golden. These girls are total shit though and you will want a shower after....
"Never underestimate the predictability of stupidity"!!!
Dogboy86
Freshman Poster
 
Posts: 304
Joined: August 27th, 2011, 7:09 pm
Location: Safford, Az.

Postby ErikHeaven » October 16th, 2011, 1:20 am

Of course American women are f**k pigs. I a long time ago f***ed this chick in the Men's bathroom. I met her and f***ed her after only 30 minutes. That was when i was much younger and crazier. All of the women i f***ed in bars or in the alley outside of the club all had boyfriends at home or baby daddies or husbands. I found that out when i went food shopping and i saw them with their little "Family".
These bitches are all pigs. That is why i used to laugh at dudes that got married.
ErikHeaven
Experienced Poster
 
Posts: 1050
Joined: January 4th, 2011, 4:19 pm

Postby ErikHeaven » October 16th, 2011, 1:23 am

Code word for American women: He don't act right! What that really means is she wants to be a housewife and slut at the same time.
ErikHeaven
Experienced Poster
 
Posts: 1050
Joined: January 4th, 2011, 4:19 pm

Postby NorthAmericanguy » October 16th, 2011, 3:37 am

I'm just going to post it here rather then make a post about it, but if you guys want to meet HOT YOUNG girls in the US, get a job at a busy gym as a front desk receptionist.

I use to work this job while I was in collage (24 hour fitness) and had no idea that it put me in contact with so many women over, and over, and over again.

How it works is that you're able to stand in one place and have all the hot girls come to you as they give you their card to swipe in. What you then do (when nobody else is around) is FLIRT with the girls who smile and have eyes that linger a bit longer at you when they are coming or going.

The biggest trick about this is that you don't look desperate (like in a bar) because you're using your job as a undercover approach to hit on women.
NorthAmericanguy
Veteran Poster
 
Posts: 2182
Joined: November 1st, 2010, 4:16 am

Postby NorthAmericanguy » October 16th, 2011, 3:45 am

ErikHeaven wrote:Of course American women are f**k pigs. I a long time ago f***ed this chick in the Men's bathroom. I met her and f***ed her after only 30 minutes. That was when i was much younger and crazier. All of the women i f***ed in bars or in the alley outside of the club all had boyfriends at home or baby daddies or husbands. I found that out when i went food shopping and i saw them with their little "Family".
These bitches are all pigs. That is why i used to laugh at dudes that got married.


lol I know... These guys are NUTS. A man should marry a virgin, nothing less.
NorthAmericanguy
Veteran Poster
 
Posts: 2182
Joined: November 1st, 2010, 4:16 am

Postby jamesbond » October 19th, 2011, 8:18 pm

Dogboy86 wrote:Girls within five secounds of seeing you know if they are going to sleep with you or not.


I have heard this before as well, this is why first impressions are so important.

What I don't understand, is why do woman give out their phone number to guys, then when the guy calls them back, they never answer their phone or if they do answer their phone, they refuse to even go out on one date with the guy, even if they like him.

This must be some kind of game that American women play with men. I don't think foreign women do that kind of stuff to men.
"When I think about the idea of getting involved with an American woman, I don't know if I should laugh .............. or vomit!"

"Trying to meet women in America is like trying to decipher Egyptian hieroglyphics."
User avatar
jamesbond
Elite Upper Class Poster
 
Posts: 8000
Joined: August 25th, 2007, 6:45 pm
Location: USA

Postby Dogboy86 » October 19th, 2011, 8:53 pm

Well as I see it all comes down to options. If an AW has a waist and dosnt break a mirror by looking at it she is in high demand. Even if there is initial interest and numbers are exchanged it is so easy for them to loose track and forget a guy in the mix. Given this and a self destructive nature of picking loosers being a nice guy and not taking advantage of them you will loose your window. Since there is so much competition the windows are small and not open long. The reason I say nice guy is cause we are the only ones that seem to have any trouble with this, assholes an douche bags thrive.
"Never underestimate the predictability of stupidity"!!!
Dogboy86
Freshman Poster
 
Posts: 304
Joined: August 27th, 2011, 7:09 pm
Location: Safford, Az.

Re: Have any guys here had any success meeting women in bars

Postby ExpeditionSailor » March 31st, 2012, 1:04 am

jamesbond wrote:I was wondering if any guys here had any success picking up women in bars and clubs in the US. Day game doesn't work in America, only place you can meet women is bars and clubs. The thing I hate about them is that the music is loud, it's crowded and usually men outnumber women.

Have any of you guys had any success picking up women in bars and clubs? And if so, what did you do exactly to be able to pick up women in bars and clubs?


I'm coming late to this thread, but I'll throw my two cents in anyway. Bars are a waste of time for me, because:

a) I don't drink, and don't like associating with drunks or people who are well on their way to getting half-cut.

b) I have a hearing impairment (partially ameliorated with a hearing aid) that makes it tough to communicate in noisy situations.

c) I'm too ugly to even have a hope in hell in the ultra-competitive and generally cruel environment that bars are.
ExpeditionSailor
Freshman Poster
 
Posts: 219
Joined: January 28th, 2011, 5:33 am

Re: Have any guys here had any success meeting women in bars

Postby emh » March 31st, 2012, 6:25 am

ExpeditionSailor wrote:
jamesbond wrote:I was wondering if any guys here had any success picking up women in bars and clubs in the US. Day game doesn't work in America, only place you can meet women is bars and clubs. The thing I hate about them is that the music is loud, it's crowded and usually men outnumber women.

Have any of you guys had any success picking up women in bars and clubs? And if so, what did you do exactly to be able to pick up women in bars and clubs?


I'm coming late to this thread, but I'll throw my two cents in anyway. Bars are a waste of time for me, because:

a) I don't drink, and don't like associating with drunks or people who are well on their way to getting half-cut.

b) I have a hearing impairment (partially ameliorated with a hearing aid) that makes it tough to communicate in noisy situations.

c) I'm too ugly to even have a hope in hell in the ultra-competitive and generally cruel environment that bars are.


Wow, you're like my twin!

1) I do drink but maybe one beer every month or two. And really dislike being around drunk people.

2) I've had tinitus in my right ear since I was 18. Hard to hear in noisy environments (hearing aids don't help me)

3) I don't know that I'm ugly but I am short and bald so yeah I have no chance in a bar.
emh
Freshman Poster
 
Posts: 93
Joined: February 5th, 2012, 3:33 pm

Next

Return to Dating, Relationships, Foreign Women

Who is online

Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 3 guests