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Re: So I am trying your Site Now

Postby E_Irizarry » Fri Mar 22, 2013 8:41 pm

quito wrote:....i will say that i totally agree with some of the contributors here that most filipinas range from unattractive to average at best.. but if you take the time to look and to talk you can find true diamonds in that place.. and a real diamond from the philippines is going to be a lot more beautiful than most other women in the world.
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Hola Sr. Quíto,

Yeah you're right when it comes to finding how many girlies are hotties in the raw out there. I d.icked down a BBW cutie whom was a 7/10. Wanna see the tape? LMAO

She was built like a stateside Black woman in the body without the STDs and with the Latina olive-complexion.

Don't be sorry for being "superfluous" when posting. You make more sense in three paragraphs than some guys on here whom troll with one post.
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Re: So I am trying your Site Now

Postby Anti-American » Fri Mar 22, 2013 9:47 pm

E_Irizarry wrote:Wanna see the tape?


Yes, please!
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Re: So I am trying your Site Now

Postby Will N. Dowd » Fri Mar 22, 2013 9:48 pm

quito wrote:I am no stranger to online dating but i never tried POF before until today.. I just was curious to see what kind of results I would get compared to yours.. I am a bit older and not nearly as attractive as you so it will be interesting to see how it goes.. I can say that in the last hour that I signed up I received about 11 messages and all of them look like i remember my grandmother looking before she died.. I also received 1 invitation from a filipina to chat live which I accepted. We were not really a good match so that conversation ended after about 10 minutes.

As far as someone referring to how well they did in philippines ... i want to add this because i really want guys to be encouraged.. i go there a lot and usually setup dates ahead of time and have plenty of backups to fill in the hours. Just for the hell of it i recently went there and wanted to see how many good looking girls i could bed without lying or paying. My tally was 15 in 9 days. Ages ranged form 20 - 28. I could have done more but i just was exhausted. I swear to you all that I am not handsome.. im just a shaved head guy in his 50s in average shape that happens to be willing to take risks and talk to girls that might seem unapproachable to most. and im willing to ask (politely and sweetly) for what i want.. if you are calculating that the only way i could have went to bed with 15 in 9 days is to have done more than 1 at a time you would be correct.. contrary to what most think there are a lot of girls there that are quite open minded to having fun even if they seem to be conservative at first. the downside is that probably they never did anything like that before and you will be having to provide instructions every step of the way.. lol

i will say that i totally agree with some of the contributors here that most filipinas range from unattractive to average at best.. but if you take the time to look and to talk you can find true diamonds in that place.. and a real diamond from the philippines is going to be a lot more beautiful than most other women in the world.

That trip was actually a one-off and i dont plan to repeat anything like that again in my life.. as i said i was just curious to see how crazy i could make it and what i am telling you is that the only limits are what you are physically capable of. The truth is I expect to marry someone in the next year or 2 and settle down and i am lining up the best of the best to either meet again or to meet for the first time.. probably my trips now will consist of meeting around 3 or 4 in 10 days or thereabouts to give ample time to see how we get along in a more normal 'un-party' like setting.. this will be very hard to do though coz i have a lot of pretty girls on my facebook page that really are expecting to spend a night with me. it will be hard to have to tell them i wont be meeting them.

so anyways.. i apologize for the long post.. i didnt mean to hijack the OPs thread.. just wanted to mention i was trying POF now.. and give some encouragement to guys that dont think they can do well in philippines. if i can do it i promise you that you can too.. but it does take a little bit of effort..


Congrats, you did better than I did there on my first and so far only trip. The thing is I realize now I sort of messed up on my first trip there because I only concentrated on a few girls in Davao that I met online just before going there. I had chatted with so many girls on DIA for over a year and a half before I went there that I forgot about most of them because their were so many. I could have done a lot better with more girls bur chose to hang out with a few select ones several times instead of giving more a chance. The other issue I had is my old Japanese GF I met in Canada was visiting me there from Japan for the last week, so I had to be careful not to get too in deep.

I've now made a much better plan for my next trip there. I've done an exhaustive search through all of my almost 7000 messages on DIA and identified all the Davao girls I had chatted with that I fin attractive enough to meet. I created a list of them in my computer with age, stats, FB and YM contacts addresses and DIA user names, so I can look them up easily to remember who they are. So next time I go there I will be much better organized to meet them and keep track of who they are.

The other issue I have is my standards are much higher than most guys and I would honestly rather look at porn than be with a girl I don't find attractive. Under 7/10 I'm not interested in them. I just can't get turned on and I would be faking being into them. Then they would be after me to hang with them again and I would regret having been with them and probably ignore them and they would be offended and hate me. Unless the girl is one I would want to be with again, I'm not really into them. Other thing is I notice things that other guys wouldn't and they can turn me off totally. I have a high sense of beauty and style I inherited from my European mother and I cant help it. I probably could have a notch count 3, 4 or 5 times as high as the one I have but I would rather have quality than quantity. I can guarantee other members here would be very impressed and jealous with my previous GF's and bangs.

Even here on POF I do get my share of interest from local white cougars about my age, but I know I just couldn't go through with the BS of meeting them and pretending to be turned on. I can look at asian porn online and get far more excited for free and without any BS. I don't like girls that are shaved and I will sometimes inquire before we get together to screen for it. Most pinays have no issue telling me and so if they are natural I will say OK let's meet. If they are shaved I say please let it grow then we can meet. I also don't like tattoos or very small breasts. I much prefer girls with real woman features like hairy pussies and big breasts. If a girl is shaved and has small breasts, and tattoos, I'm turned off. I'm also picky about nice clear facial skin and notice blemishes easily. I'm very concerned with my own skin and have a 10X magnifying mirror and blackhead tool that I use every few days to keep it looking its best. If you want nice skin guys, get yourself a 10 X magnifying mirror and blemish tool and while you may be horrified to look in it the first time and see how bad you look up close, once you start taking care of it, you will look much better. Trust me, if you look good in a magnifying mirror, you look amazing without the mirror. Nice straight and clean teeth are also a must for me, so if the girls has teeth problems it can be an issue. One of my ex Japanese GF's had a rebellious tooth, but it didn't bother me because everything else was so good.
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Postby quito » Sat Mar 23, 2013 4:37 am

well you are smart to be focusing on just the best.. most of the girls i meet are 8 or 9s.. with an occassional 10. im only a 5 here in the usa. but the thing i learned about relationships is once you get past the fact that you can pretty much have all the sex you want with all the beautiful girls you could ever want it becomes less important than finding a woman who you enjoy being with even when not in bed. there are times in my life when i entered middle age that i never could have imagined myself in a situation where i could pick and choose but i realize now that the best way to be happy is for every man to have that kind of choices available to him. here in the usa i dated a lot of white and black women women of varying ages when i got divorced and was utterly disappointed in the results.. sex was non-existent or disappointing with most and some were so full of themselves that i abandoned them in the middle of the date. as far as personalities went it seemed that most felt they were entitled to be treated like queens while doing nothing to deserve that treatment at all. gradually i encountered asian women and experienced a dramatic improvement and decided to start going right to the source to have the best options.. its worked out fantastic for me even though there have been occasional disappointments but i know what i want and im pretty close to getting it. if i was not able to have this array of choices available to me i dont think i would ever be able to be content that i got the lust out of my system and that i have chosen the best for me.. but right now i have narrowed down to about 6 or so and expect to probably marry or engage one of these in the next 12 - 18 months. i really wish more guys knew about the options that were available to them if they would think outside the box and get a pair and act on it. there are just far too many decent but lonely guys in the usa and it shouldnt have to be that way.
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Postby quito » Sat Mar 23, 2013 5:44 pm

ok as a followup to POF... i have a little over 100 contacts from whales and grandmas now and i do notice that many of them are a lot older than me.. as far as a few that i searched for and found on my own that i thought were pretty and not too young for me i send them messages and only got 1 response... which was to block me, lol. i guess i am done with POF.. total waste of time
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Postby The_Adventurer » Thu Apr 04, 2013 6:10 am

That's the problem I had in the Philippines. I ONLY enjoyed being with the girls in bed. Aside from that, I didn't want them around. My girl in China I love being with all the time, be it playing video games, hiking in the mountains, or just sitting chatting.
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Postby Will N. Dowd » Tue Apr 16, 2013 6:32 pm

I've been chatting with this 27 year old Student from China on POF. I messaged her and guessed she was Chinese, and she replied which is already a huge accomplishment. She is also a free thinker like me. I gave her my number and hope we can meet. She seems sweet and cute, and doesn't drink which I prefer.

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=53037775

I keep getting ...wants to meet you" from profiles I am horrified by: Fat, divorced, tattooed "women" with kids...
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Postby quito » Wed Apr 17, 2013 1:11 am

dude... not bad at all !!
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Postby Will N. Dowd » Wed Apr 17, 2013 1:39 am

quito wrote:dude... not bad at all !!


I agree. I'm not that picky with Asian girls anyways because even plain ones look pretty damn good to me. Plus she doesn't drink, is slim, 13 years younger than me and was born and raised in China. I hope to meet her soon. I've changed my profile yet again, this time I lay it out that I'm only interested in hangout and not much more due to the common and marriage laws here being absurd. If a girl still wants to meet me after reading it, she'll hopefully be cool and down to earth.

You can see it here:

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=50951643
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Postby Will N. Dowd » Thu Apr 18, 2013 6:11 am

I chatted her up again tonight and she asked me if I wanted to have coffee with her on Friday. Amazing, a girl on POF asks me that! So of course I said yes, and I'll meet her at the mall where she works on Friday evening.
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Postby Will N. Dowd » Sat Apr 20, 2013 4:15 am

I just met that Chinese girl at the Mall:

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=53037775

On the way there she texted me saying she was very nervous and wanted to bring her friend, another Asian girl. I had to remind myself I wasn't in the Philippines, but I said OK. I waited for them at the coffee shop, but they went to the wrong one, and showed up 15 minutes late. The girl in question looks just like her picture, and was wearing glasses, but I prefer without them. She had a nice body and OK face, but her smile was sub par. Her friend was hawaiian/chinese/japanese mix and looked exotic. She was OK, looked good for her age of 45, but was a little too substantial for my taste. She was meeting some other guy there soon. They told me I looked different than my picture, which I couldn't understand why, but they said I had nice young skin.

The 3 of us chatted for only 30 minutes about the usual BS, and then before you knew it, her break from work was over and she had to go, and so did her friend. She wouldn't tell me what store in the mall she worked at. When they asked what I did, I told them the truth that I used to work an upscale electronics store until last summer, and now sell stuff on the internet and invest online. They both told me they assumed I was meeting loads of girls everyday, but I told them I wish, and told them about my previous ESL GF's that went home long ago.

On the way back home she texted me and thanked me for meeting her. I was the first guy she had met from POF. I thanked her too and said to let me know if she wanted to meet again. I would probably invite her to my place to hang out, but doubt she would come because she had trouble meeting me in public with out her friend. She said she would let me know. I wouldn't meet her in public again, but would hang out again at my place is she came. I will meet girls in public once, after that it's back to my place or nothing. Her body was nice. I would say lose the glasses and improve the smile and she would be pretty good.

On the bus on the way home, it started to rain heavily and I was listening to a Michael Franks song called "Tahitian Moon" that reminded me of the Philippines and meeting girls there. The song is even about a guy that escapes society to meet a tahitian girl. I posted the link to it below. Please listen to it. Anyone that has been to SEA or the Philippines and wants to go back or even if you haven't been there, you will relate to it big time. It's the perfect HA theme song. The lame date, heavy rain, the song, and the memories associated with it all added up and all of a sudden I felt incredibly depressed being stuck here. Then when I got home, in the elevator, I saw this tall good looking black guy that lives in my building. He was with his obese, ugly, and loud white GF or wife that lives with him. I was horrified and it confirmed even more how bad men have it here and how I can't wait to leave.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UQnHHSLls0E
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Re: So I am trying your Site Now

Postby publicduende » Sat Apr 20, 2013 8:53 am

quito wrote:I am no stranger to online dating but i never tried POF before until today.. I just was curious to see what kind of results I would get compared to yours.. I am a bit older and not nearly as attractive as you so it will be interesting to see how it goes.. I can say that in the last hour that I signed up I received about 11 messages and all of them look like i remember my grandmother looking before she died.. I also received 1 invitation from a filipina to chat live which I accepted. We were not really a good match so that conversation ended after about 10 minutes.

As far as someone referring to how well they did in philippines ... i want to add this because i really want guys to be encouraged.. i go there a lot and usually setup dates ahead of time and have plenty of backups to fill in the hours. Just for the hell of it i recently went there and wanted to see how many good looking girls i could bed without lying or paying. My tally was 15 in 9 days. Ages ranged form 20 - 28. I could have done more but i just was exhausted. I swear to you all that I am not handsome.. im just a shaved head guy in his 50s in average shape that happens to be willing to take risks and talk to girls that might seem unapproachable to most. and im willing to ask (politely and sweetly) for what i want.. if you are calculating that the only way i could have went to bed with 15 in 9 days is to have done more than 1 at a time you would be correct.. contrary to what most think there are a lot of girls there that are quite open minded to having fun even if they seem to be conservative at first. the downside is that probably they never did anything like that before and you will be having to provide instructions every step of the way.. lol

i will say that i totally agree with some of the contributors here that most filipinas range from unattractive to average at best.. but if you take the time to look and to talk you can find true diamonds in that place.. and a real diamond from the philippines is going to be a lot more beautiful than most other women in the world.

That trip was actually a one-off and i dont plan to repeat anything like that again in my life.. as i said i was just curious to see how crazy i could make it and what i am telling you is that the only limits are what you are physically capable of. The truth is I expect to marry someone in the next year or 2 and settle down and i am lining up the best of the best to either meet again or to meet for the first time.. probably my trips now will consist of meeting around 3 or 4 in 10 days or thereabouts to give ample time to see how we get along in a more normal 'un-party' like setting.. this will be very hard to do though coz i have a lot of pretty girls on my facebook page that really are expecting to spend a night with me. it will be hard to have to tell them i wont be meeting them.

so anyways.. i apologize for the long post.. i didnt mean to hijack the OPs thread.. just wanted to mention i was trying POF now.. and give some encouragement to guys that dont think they can do well in philippines. if i can do it i promise you that you can too.. but it does take a little bit of effort..


I never intervene in cases like those - this is my first and probably last - but...the "smell of BS in the morning" was way too strong, sorry :)

Quito, you're a troll, aren't you? Will N Dowd has impressed everyone here as he is genuinely good looking and he has described his experiences, in the Philippines or back home, to the finest details. He has shared his frustrations and successes, and done so in a way that's honest and credible.

On the other side, you claim to be the average 50-some sex tourist and have bedded 15 girls, all 8s to 10s, in 9 days, including a few threesomes (as you seem to hint at, at least), without paying a centavo. Metro Manila and Cebu are packed with foreigners and too cosmopolitan for girls to even give a glance to a guy like you. In Davao and the other minor cities, the girls are too provincial and traditional and would probably entertain you with a brief verbal exchange out of politeness, then find a quick excuse to go their own way.

I could well understand that you chose to make this story up as a way to encourage people to visit the Philippines and release their sexually frustrated selves, or find true love. I would advise though that you stick to your real experiences, not fictional. Some of the posters here are confused enough, and the last thing they would need to hear is a report that's unfairly skewed either side, positive as well as negative.

Good luck with your real life.
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Re: So I am trying your Site Now

Postby jboy » Sat Apr 20, 2013 9:03 am

publicduende wrote:
quito wrote:I am no stranger to online dating but i never tried POF before until today.. I just was curious to see what kind of results I would get compared to yours.. I am a bit older and not nearly as attractive as you so it will be interesting to see how it goes.. I can say that in the last hour that I signed up I received about 11 messages and all of them look like i remember my grandmother looking before she died.. I also received 1 invitation from a filipina to chat live which I accepted. We were not really a good match so that conversation ended after about 10 minutes.

As far as someone referring to how well they did in philippines ... i want to add this because i really want guys to be encouraged.. i go there a lot and usually setup dates ahead of time and have plenty of backups to fill in the hours. Just for the hell of it i recently went there and wanted to see how many good looking girls i could bed without lying or paying. My tally was 15 in 9 days. Ages ranged form 20 - 28. I could have done more but i just was exhausted. I swear to you all that I am not handsome.. im just a shaved head guy in his 50s in average shape that happens to be willing to take risks and talk to girls that might seem unapproachable to most. and im willing to ask (politely and sweetly) for what i want.. if you are calculating that the only way i could have went to bed with 15 in 9 days is to have done more than 1 at a time you would be correct.. contrary to what most think there are a lot of girls there that are quite open minded to having fun even if they seem to be conservative at first. the downside is that probably they never did anything like that before and you will be having to provide instructions every step of the way.. lol

i will say that i totally agree with some of the contributors here that most filipinas range from unattractive to average at best.. but if you take the time to look and to talk you can find true diamonds in that place.. and a real diamond from the philippines is going to be a lot more beautiful than most other women in the world.

That trip was actually a one-off and i dont plan to repeat anything like that again in my life.. as i said i was just curious to see how crazy i could make it and what i am telling you is that the only limits are what you are physically capable of. The truth is I expect to marry someone in the next year or 2 and settle down and i am lining up the best of the best to either meet again or to meet for the first time.. probably my trips now will consist of meeting around 3 or 4 in 10 days or thereabouts to give ample time to see how we get along in a more normal 'un-party' like setting.. this will be very hard to do though coz i have a lot of pretty girls on my facebook page that really are expecting to spend a night with me. it will be hard to have to tell them i wont be meeting them.

so anyways.. i apologize for the long post.. i didnt mean to hijack the OPs thread.. just wanted to mention i was trying POF now.. and give some encouragement to guys that dont think they can do well in philippines. if i can do it i promise you that you can too.. but it does take a little bit of effort..


I never intervene in cases like those - this is my first and probably last - but...the "smell of BS in the morning" was way too strong, sorry :)

Quito, you're a troll, aren't you? Will N Dowd has impressed everyone here as he is genuinely good looking and he has described his experiences, in the Philippines or back home, to the finest details. He has shared his frustrations and successes, and done so in a way that's honest and credible.

On the other side, you claim to be the average 50-some sex tourist and have bedded 15 girls, all 8s to 10s, in 9 days, including a few threesomes (as you seem to hint at, at least), without paying a centavo. Metro Manila and Cebu are packed with foreigners and too cosmopolitan for girls to even give a glance to a guy like you. In Davao and the other minor cities, the girls are too provincial and traditional and would probably entertain you with a brief verbal exchange out of politeness, then find a quick excuse to go their own way.

I could well understand that you chose to make this story up as a way to encourage people to visit the Philippines and release their sexually frustrated selves, or find true love. I would advise though that you stick to your real experiences, not fictional. Some of the posters here are confused enough, and the last thing they would need to hear is a report that's unfairly skewed either side, positive as well as negative.

Good luck with your real life.


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Postby quito » Sat Apr 20, 2013 8:40 pm

believe what you want.. i have nothing to gain with bs.. and nothing to gain by trying to prove myself.
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Postby Will N. Dowd » Fri Apr 26, 2013 6:46 am

I just got a message from this woman:

www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=28083272

"Contrary to what you think, THIS woman read your profile because your name is somewhat funny (on my phone, and pic didnt load til after). We are not even in the same hemisphere as far as personalities/egos/etc, so no, not expecting or looking for a reply. I just thought you should be told, at some point in your life, that you don't know everything. Best of luck to you!"

What on Earth was the point of sending me that? At least she got my user name.
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