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Why Asian men/White women are not naturally compatible

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Post by Taco » February 4th, 2012, 9:25 pm

Here's a video that made me laugh. After going a year without a date(and sex) in Korea, she's now open to the idea of dating Asian men and realizes she now sees things more clearly. In other words, no one gives a f**k about her in Korea.

Dating Korean Men
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Post by ManInSiam » February 5th, 2012, 2:01 pm

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Re: Why Asian men/White women are not naturally compatible

Post by momopi » February 5th, 2012, 11:25 pm

Winston wrote: These are the fundamental reasons why Asian males and White females are not naturally suited for each other and have a very low success rate in long-term relationships. It makes perfect logical sense, don't you think?

1. The often cited figure is that AM/WF couples have 59% higher divorce rate. This is from an article titled "But Will It Last?’’: Marital Instability Among Interracial and Same-Race Couples published in April 2008 issue of Family Relations magazine. The article is avail here: http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1 ... 0491.x/pdf

This specific study used a final sample size of 1,606 males and 4,070 females only.


2. Possibly in response to the above article, the Journal of Marriage and Family published an article titled "Martial Dissolution Among Interracial Couples" in Feb 2009. The article can be accessed here: http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1 ... 582.x/full

This study had a much larger sample size of 23,139 couples (23,139 men + 23,139 women = 46,278?). If you look at Table 3, it shows that

AM/WF and WM/AF marriage divorce rates are roughly equal.
Asian/White marriages are more likely to divorce vs. Asian/Asian marriages.
Asian/White marriages are less likely to divorce than white/white marriages.


3. Instead of worrying about someone else's relationship/marriage success rate, your time is better spent on improving your own relationships.


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Re: Why Asian men/White women are not naturally compatible

Post by Falcon » February 6th, 2012, 8:30 am

Winston wrote:A White female is more masculine, rough and independent than a typical Asian female from Asia.
Same goes for Latinas in general when compared to Asian females. This is because of Western vs. Eastern cultural differences. But nevertheless my Latina girlfriend and I are very compatible.

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Post by momopi » February 6th, 2012, 9:47 am

Just curious, how tall are your Latina GF's?

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Post by chanta76 » February 6th, 2012, 8:51 pm

Times are changing..I notice more and more Asian men with non-Asian women. Just the other day I saw a Korean guy with a black girl. In the past it was lop sided with Asian women with white men.
Even today there is still a inter-racial disparity but I think with the younger Asian American guys and with just changes I see more and more Asian men dating out.



It's easy to say that white women are more masculine and etc..etc. It's the same stereotype about black women..they say that black women are more masculine and that's why you see many black men chasing after white women .

Some of it maybe true but some of it is just hog wash. I mean they say that all Asian men got small dicks or are spineless wimps.. COme on !! I'm Asian and for the Asian men on this board we know that stereotype is not all true.

I have to agree with momopi...just go after what you want. If it's Asian white or whatever..To be fair I haven't dated inter-racial to compare but Asian women can be pretty shady and mean ...it's just stereotype .

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Post by Falcon » February 6th, 2012, 10:20 pm

momopi wrote:Just curious, how tall are your Latina GF's?
The Latina girls I've met are 5' 6" on average. I'm not sure exactly how tall my girlfriend is, but she stands just a bit above my shoulders (I'm 6' 0"). Why do you ask Momopi? I'm also curious to know how tall you are.

As for my looks, I don't have the effeminate/androgynous Korean boy band or Jay Chou look that many Asian girls (stereotypically) like. A few Chinese international students have said that I remind them of the more macho-looking Hong Kong actors, haha.

Plus, it's interesting how Winston would post this. Winston has dated two white women in the U.S., and had plenty of experience with Russian women. I thought he'd be the last person to say that white women don't fit well with Asian men.

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Post by momopi » February 6th, 2012, 11:45 pm

I'm 6' exactly.

The reason why I asked is because I'm curious about the height difference between older and young adult Mexican women.

A Taiwanese friend of mine is married to a Mexican wife... they have 4 daughters. @_@;;

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Post by Contrarian Expatriate » February 7th, 2012, 1:04 am

I've seen many uber-Americanized Asian men who are Ivy League types with hot white women. However, I can't help but sense the relative calm in the eyes of these chaps and the opportunistic vibe I get from the women.

In due time, white women who consort with ethnic minorities often cash out when boredom or greener pastures present themselves.

Asian men would be better off seeking women from outside the Anglosphere.

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Post by colibri » February 7th, 2012, 3:19 am

momopi wrote:I'm 6' exactly.

The reason why I asked is because I'm curious about the height difference between older and young adult Mexican women.

A Taiwanese friend of mine is married to a Mexican wife... they have 4 daughters. @_@;;

Im 1.60 cm :P that would be like 5,5 ? :roll: :?: ha
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Post by colibri » February 7th, 2012, 3:23 am

momopi wrote:I'm 6' exactly.

The reason why I asked is because I'm curious about the height difference between older and young adult Mexican women.

A Taiwanese friend of mine is married to a Mexican wife... they have 4 daughters. @_@;;
u guys are tall :o !
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Post by chileanueva » February 7th, 2012, 3:43 am

Short men are f***ed in the American dating pool. Shortness is a dealbreaker for many American women.

Women want to feel secure and submissive to a taller man. They don't feel that way with a short man.

It is a shame that these superficial whores are picky. Their beauty will fade and their c**ts will get loose.

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Post by Taco » February 7th, 2012, 3:54 am

colibri wrote:
momopi wrote:I'm 6' exactly.

The reason why I asked is because I'm curious about the height difference between older and young adult Mexican women.

A Taiwanese friend of mine is married to a Mexican wife... they have 4 daughters. @_@;;
u guys are tall :o !
What height is considered tall in Mexico?

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Post by colibri » February 7th, 2012, 4:40 am

Taco wrote:
colibri wrote:
momopi wrote:I'm 6' exactly.

The reason why I asked is because I'm curious about the height difference between older and young adult Mexican women.

A Taiwanese friend of mine is married to a Mexican wife... they have 4 daughters. @_@;;
u guys are tall :o !
What height is considered tall in Mexico?
Um 1.75 1.80 1.90 m :) my bf is 1.82 cm , i guess most girls are in a range of 1.65 cm
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Post by Falcon » February 7th, 2012, 5:13 am

colibri wrote:Um 1.75 1.80 1.90 m :) my bf is 1.82 cm , i guess most girls are in a range of 1.65 cm
:o *gasp* She just dropped the b-word, hahaha! I also do this to girls sometimes ... just suddenly drop the g-word and they get shocked (especially the American ones, for whatever reason). :P

Anyways, back on topic. People are generally taller in northern Mexico, and shorter in southern Mexico. Mexican-Americans who spent their childhoods growing up in the U.S. also become a lot taller. I know some indigenous Mixtec families in which the parents would be tiny, but the children would be as tall as 6' 0". And all over East Asia, young people are getting very tall - 6' 0" or even more.

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