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As I said before none of us were there so who can say what his motivations were. But based on what you report it does not sound like marrying you (or anyone) was at the top of his list of priorities. Never marrried with no kids, and his mother as a top priority - this does not sound like a guy desperate to get married. But again I am just guessing. People all over the world get together and end up parting because they have different goals. Clearly your goal was a traditional marriage. It just doesnt sound like that was his goal or if it was then he didnt know what to do about it. But certainly just because he could not "commit" does not mean other American men cannot commit.
My only concern that I tried to express is that most American guys have been in relationships with controlling American women. If he was 39 and managed never to get married maybe he was very good at avoiding the control that American women wish to place over their men. If you are in a relationship with an American guy who has had controlling women in his life before you will want to be extra careful that you dont try to force him to stop doing the things that he loves to do.
And I still maintain that sex during games is great - that is what halftime is for - lol!
Let me guess... You got this impression from the movies.
How it works in America is that people pair off in High School or College; this is where the majority of women find the good men. So if your looking for a decent Amercian guy with no kids, I suggest getting a job at a large collage (i.e, Penn State).
I hear ya.
In other words, you don't want to lift a finger and you want your consort to do all the work. Girls like you expect men to be mind readers and figure out your life, and problems, for you.
Bijou, I believe any good relationship is one were both parties take an active part in the relationship, otherwise, the one who is not active is just a parasite.
Welcome to America were the majority of people are fake and nobody really means what they say.
Let me give you the rundown:
"How are you!!?" (with big smile) = They don't really care, they're just exaggerating a basic greeting because it's currently trendy.
"It's good to see you!?" (with shock look) = They don't really give a rats ass that they ran into you.
"You have to come visit me some time?!" = They don't really want you to visit them, it's just a slick way for a person to gain likeability without having to actually do any work. In other words, they hope you don't take them up on the offer all while you still view them in a positive light merely because they offered to host you as a guest.
"Take care!"= They are not really concerned about your well being.
"So how's life treating you?" = They don't really care about your life or your general well being. What they really want to know is how has your social status changed since they last saw you. In other words, they want to know if you are higher or lower on the social scale then they.
"I love you" (if a guy says this to a girl) = The sex is good and I'm happy with the frequency.
"I love you" (if a girl says this to a guy) = You're doing a good job taking care of my needs.
And I could go on.... The bottom line is that Americans are big talkers and good at salesmanship but come up short when s*** really matters.
Edit: And if you think I'm joking, go lurk in the American unemployment forms were people tell stories about how they lost their job and ran out of money and they could not get any help from any of their longtime 'friends', or sometimes even family; not even a place to sleep or food.
Xhamster is the best out of the three but eporner is better. Tons of russian amateur and the videos are in hd. I think its based in amsterdam.
I believe you, but you're a woman so you will be treated differently. If you were old and unattractive I bet you would have a different experience.
Good luck with that, since that means your leaving things up to chance.
I heard there was a conspiration that russian girls want to kill men. They did the job with their own men now time came to do the job with the american men and others
Just kidding. WhatÂ´s wrong with russian men? Russian women raised them so you should be able to deal with them
Yes, god is waiting to give you Mr. Big who is also a manager. YES !
I need to correct the statement that I made that some for the single AM are somewhat "feminine".
Please don't become more masculine than what you are now, you are fine, JUST forget about the feminine pose "playing hard to get".
Originally playing hard to get is a - Milady behavior. It is not masculine. It tells me that the guy is more likely gay than straight.
The opposite of "Playing hard to get" is "HUNTING".
You should hunt the women; hunt 10 women at a time if you need to make yourself feel player and superior but don't kill your hunting skills. They make you inventive, smart, and adaptive. Playing HTG make you lonely and limited idiot.
Once I told one of these HTG guys that I like a Macho type of man, I like to be possessed and passion and he said yeah Macho "smelling of sweat, brutal, hairy, simple ...". This was the American definition of Macho lol.
Macho means Stud/Love Predator who is looking for you, not sweaty construction worker!! lol
I like russians, they are handsome men but I am not russian it would be a second cultural shock for me to deal with a russian guy. Anglos are fine for now - I just started understanding their religiousness and the other weird stuff.