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"2. Approaching is the man's job, not the woman's job."
oh yeah piece of dung, now "equality" and "gender roles are a social construct" come a bit inconvenient??
I was approached multiple times in CHina muahhahah, take that, you "independent" b*tch.
1)Too much of one thing defeats the purpose.
2)Everybody is full of it. What's your hypocrisy?
So you're cool with doing it whichever way she's facing?
Women should approach men at least until the dating/relationship world is more fair and balanced for both sexes.
Women clearly have the advantage (at least in america), and the power to approve, reject, embarrass a guy, and just stand back, live life as per normal, and wait for men to approach them. This is why women should do the approaching. It's more fair and makes more sense for women to do the approaching since for now, they have more power in dating. This will make it more fair for the man. When men get rejecting, there could be social consequences, such as gossip or embarrassment in social circle. When men reject women, usually this doesn't happen to the woman.
Absolutely women should approach men! This is 2014, women wanted equality and now they have it, they have been "equal" to men for decades now.
It's now time for them to take some responsibility in the dating field and approach men and risk rejection just like men having been doing for thousands of years.
I wish all men in America would stop asking women out, this would force women to approach men!
"When I think about the idea of getting involved with an American woman, I don't know if I should laugh .............. or vomit!"
"Trying to meet women in America is like trying to decipher Egyptian hieroglyphics."
This won't happen man..men won't stop approaching women unless they are brain dead and women won't approach men most of the time in the US.
I repeat this for a thousand time...women in the US prefer to stay alone without men than to be with losers as they say(more than 90 percent of men are losers for them)
Rather than hoping something who won't happen,men should move their a s s as fast as they can to greener pasture where women still approach men and when men approach them,they are polite and feminine even if they reject them.
I'm a really shy and somewhat awkward individual until I sense a good vibe from the other person. If I feel that we have conflicting ideals and personalities, I will not fully open up or not open up at all.
Many people think that a woman who does the approaching is easy and often may have bad intentions. I agree to a certain extent, but I can tell the difference between genuine interest and other motives. If a woman dressed and /or behaving provocatively when initiating, I would take that as a bad sign. If she seems overly eager and quickly becomes possessive, perhaps it's because she is desperate. Extremely desperate types carry lots of emotional baggage and will latch onto anyone that's willing to take them.
However, if a woman initiates in a very sweet and friendly manner either verbally or by using body language, it's likely that she's authentic and down-to-earth. As she becomes more possessive of you over time it shows that she is getting deeper into you.
I just don't "have" it when approaching females, and it won't come in a day or two if ever. Therefore, if a nice girl or woman wanted to start a relationship with me, I'd prefer that they make the first move. It's not that I don't have the courage to ask a female out (which I've done many times with only a few failures), it's just that I want them to initiate by playing their part.