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foreign women & older male virgins

Post by goku714 » April 30th, 2012, 4:40 pm

i just wanna know if women from other countries such as Asia, south America, Russia like older African American male virgins like me because when i have a conversation with a woman they all seem to have boyfriends or there not interested in me but it doesnt bother me because i have confidence in myself.

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Post by Ned Zeppelin » April 30th, 2012, 5:47 pm

How old are we talking?

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Post by goku714 » April 30th, 2012, 7:23 pm

i'm 24 years old i'm wondering if women from other countries like older virgins like me

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Post by lavezzi » April 30th, 2012, 7:32 pm

Women don't care about the sexual history of their partners, only men do.

As for how being a virgin will affect your sexual performance - I wouldn't worry about it. Sex is easy, once you've done it 2 or 3 times you'll have the hang of it.

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Post by fuzzy_corleone » May 1st, 2012, 2:56 am

goku714 wrote:i'm 24 years old i'm wondering if women from other countries like older virgins like me


24 is considered old?

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Post by djfourmoney » May 1st, 2012, 3:33 am

Most women will be turned off by it.. But you can find women who are down.

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Post by xiongmao » May 1st, 2012, 3:18 pm

24 ain't old!

And don't worry - most Chinese women haven't had that many partners either. And not every girl thinks sex is the most important thing in a relationship!
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Post by goku714 » May 2nd, 2012, 2:19 am

lavezzi wrote:Women don't care about the sexual history of their partners, only men do.

As for how being a virgin will affect your sexual performance - I wouldn't worry about it. Sex is easy, once you've done it 2 or 3 times you'll have the hang of it.





thanks lavezzi i'll keep that in mind

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Post by goku714 » May 2nd, 2012, 2:33 am

xiongmao wrote:24 ain't old!

And don't worry - most Chinese women haven't had that many partners either. And not every girl thinks sex is the most important thing in a relationship!





thats's true and ty

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Post by Raja » May 2nd, 2012, 2:54 am

Depending upon who you are talking to you can talk about faith which may have lead to relative, by American terms, virginity. Just bringing your virginity up cold may be seen as you trying the backdoor the talk into sex chat.

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Post by mehendicant » May 3rd, 2012, 1:01 am

I'm 48 and I'm a virgin. I'm hoping to find someone overseas who is also a virgin. But if God leads me to someone who isn't (hopefully not under circumstances as strange as Hosea's), that's fine with me.

Social protocols are not my forte, but here are my thoughts: If the girl and I found each other without help, I'd probably discuss it when we get engaged, or if she asked to have sex too soon I'd mention it then. If someone were helping me find her, I'd tell him/her first.

24 is not too old to be a virgin, or to look for a wife.

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Post by Raja » May 3rd, 2012, 3:54 am

or perhaps God's master plan was for all to settle a long time before 48 years passed. After all is she waits that long there is little chance of reproducing.

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Post by Taco » May 3rd, 2012, 4:12 am

Bender wrote:
mehendicant wrote:I'm 48 and I'm a virgin. I'm hoping to find someone overseas who is also a virgin. But if God leads me to someone who isn't (hopefully not under circumstances as strange as Hosea's), that's fine with me.

Social protocols are not my forte, but here are my thoughts: If the girl and I found each other without help, I'd probably discuss it when we get engaged, or if she asked to have sex too soon I'd mention it then. If someone were helping me find her, I'd tell him/her first.

24 is not too old to be a virgin, or to look for a wife.



I hope that's a typo mehendicant. 48?????????? You're missing out on possibly the best natural high that there is. Maybe stop relying on God and be pro-active. God helps those who help themselves. :D


American woman don't exactly instill a lot of passion in me, I'm sure a lot of other guys feel the same way. If you've lived your whole life surrounded by bitches you'll be psychologically castrated. That said, a very king and loving foreign woman with hair down to her ass will usually bring out the animal instincts in most guys. Your sexual history, or lack of it, will not be an issue for them. They'll be happy to de-virginize you.

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Post by Contrarian Expatriate » May 3rd, 2012, 7:15 am

Bender wrote:I hope that's a typo mehendicant. 48?????????? You're missing out on possibly the best natural high that there is. Maybe stop relying on God and be pro-active. God helps those who help themselves. :D


I'd have to say this mentality is part of the problem. No, sex is not all it is cracked up to be. Hollywood tends to brainwash the masses with this nonsense.

Sex is a normal part of life that has its place, but the lack of it ain't no big deal other than protection from STD, unwanted children, and female sexual manipulation tactics.

The pursuit of sex has led to the downfall of many a successful man. Have you seen that John Edwards is on the verge of 10 years in prison over sex? Have you seen Tiger Woods downfall from which he has yet to recover? Did you see US Congressman Anthony Weiner lose his seat over the pursuit of sex? Did you see Bill Clinton almost lose his presidency over sex?

Sex is purposely overrated by women so as to trick men into pursuing it with reckless abandon.
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Re: foreign women & older male virgins

Post by Contrarian Expatriate » May 3rd, 2012, 7:22 am

goku714 wrote:i just wanna know if women from other countries such as Asia, south America, Russia like older African American male virgins like me because when i have a conversation with a woman they all seem to have boyfriends or there not interested in me but it doesnt bother me because i have confidence in myself.

As a black man, stay away from Latin America unless you simply wish to frequent prostitutes. Also stay away from Russia, Ukraine, Bulgaria, and the Baltic countries due to the threat of violence against black men there.

In Asia and Central and Eastern Europe there will be legions of women willing to take you for you and naturally explore the world of relationships in ways that American women will not.

In America, you represent a sexual caricature to women, and little more. If you are not versed in the game in the US, you are invisible.

This is not so in most of the world. Most foreign women outside the Anglosphere and Latin America will be open to you for what you are, and not your assigned role as a black man.
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