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I have read countless articles from pickup artists like Mystery, Paul Janka and David Deangelo where they said in America, only a small percentage of men are having sex with lot's of women.
They often say that 10% of the single men in the US are sleeping with 90% of the single women. That sounds about right, it does seem as if the "high status men" are getting most of the snatch, while the men who are not high status are getting the leftovers.
These 10% of men who are getting 90% of the women are PUA's, professional athletes, politiicans, actors and entertainers. Women don't mind sharing a man with other women as long as the man is rich or has high social status.
This means that 90% of the single men are only getting 10% of the single women in the US! These 90% of men are fighting over a small percentage of available women which causes friction between guys and bad feelings.
I read an artcle a couple of years ago that said between ages 21 to 49, single men outnumber single women in the US by 4 million! Now I see why women in America are so picky about what guys they date. They have a shit load of options, especially if the woman is good looking!
"When I think about the idea of getting involved with an American woman, I don't know if I should laugh .............. or vomit!"
"Trying to meet women in America is like trying to decipher Egyptian hieroglyphics."
Sexual morality has gone out the window, men are making themselves far more available than women are and women are not choosing men based on their intention but only on superficial qualities. This is blatantly obvious at this point. This is only a symptom of a far greater and deeper problem. Let's at least discuss the cause of this rather than pointing at the symptoms over and over again.
Interesting you said women dont mind sharing a man if he is highly desirable
They dont compromize when it comes to men,
Guys are known to drop standard just to get piece of ass
I dont know if its 10% or 15 or 20 that get p***y all the time but I am sure more than 50% of guys consistently get nothing, zero.
How can this be, if they are say 50% of least desirable guys wudnt it be logical that they get matched with bottom 50% of women? coz women only go top tier guys
Thats where the prob starts
The main difference with the the harem times is that at in these societies things are clear.
You cannot provide for the women,you are left alone.
Here how things are going,everything is a lie.
You can open your TV or listen almost the same bs,as everybody is free enjoying a freedom of sex and liberation of females.
Men get sex quit easily and women are independent for the best ,so the guys who swallow all these lies are ending up by getting depressed and feeling that something is definitely wrong with them.
The mainstream media will never say how it's work.
It just keep entitling females,provoking sexual frustration in males,encouraging compulsive consumerism so the mechanism is well planified.
Young girls in the American school system are taught that they are superior to boys from the very first years of schooling. The sexist school system (which is in favor of girls) promotes bad behavior from girls by punishing and suppressing boys while letting girls run rampant in whatever way they want. The complete lack of accountability you see in adult women is cemented very early in their childhood, where they are not subject to discipline and correction in the same way that boys are.
By the time this girl has reached age 13 or 14 her lack of discipline has snowballed into the power to manipulate others. Unfortunately, this coincides perfectly with the beginning of her sexual prowess, which ultimately becomes her most effective tool in manipulating men. The next half decade of her life will be spent learning the depths of her sexual power (which arises largely from the desperation of sexually starved men and female-centric institutions) until she understands that the power she wields is far greater than anything men possess in the same context.
This power entails that a woman can select only the most desirable mate, and thus the most desirable mates are the only ones that are attractive to women. This is in part due to female privelage, but is primarily a result of women selecting men with more sexual power and leverage than themselves. Their metric of attraction is completely based upon sexual power, and women will never date a man who is "weaker" than her in her primary attraction metric.
So in other words, American Women are whores that expect you to be a more prominent whore than they are, then you can get with them. This is why dating in the west is either a feast or a famine, but most men are starving and most women couldn't give a f**k. They are too busy living the eternal party to care about the damage they are doing to decent men and society at large.
The thing is can we ever get satisfied? Even if one would be in the top 20 per cent. Yes things would be easiert But matter of fact is women and men are different. Women never can feel the sexual disire a men feels. That is a natural system to drive men crazy so they will give their best that is their life. Nature was never about fairness. I have rad recently a submission at stickman about a guy who went to vietnam where he was shocked how brutal the women were against the males. They literally beat them bloody and men were not allowed to strike back. Obviously feminism is not in western countries.
This is all very well said. In western countries, girls are put on a pedestal, this causes them to believe they are superior to men. By the time they reach age 18, they know they can manipulate men and get men to do things for them (like take them to the prom, have them buy them expensive gifts, take them to nice restaurants, etc.).
If the woman is good looking, you can rest assured she will only date and marry men who are wealthy and successful. Even if she is just average looking, she may believe she deserves the best man and will only date and marry a guy who makes a six figure income.
Since men in anglo-countries tend to be aggressive in pursuing women, you have some fat chicks and ugly chicks who think their sexual market value is higher than it really is. Think about this, an ugly girl places a personal ad online and in a month's time she gets 600 guys responding to her! Her ego will think she is the greatest thing since sliced bread!
How about this, a fat chick walks into a bar, she get's 10 guys asking her for her phone numnber and they buy her drinks. Suddenly, she thinks she is more attractive than she really is! She thinks to herself, "I guess men really do love big, beautiful women."
In the US, prostitution is illegal, so the only way a guy can get laid is by having a girlfriend. In order to get a girlfriend, he needs to ask out women. Most women turn men down when guys ask them out, so the guys need to ask out lot's of women in order to get some phone numbers, dates and sex.
The reason I like Germany so much is because men in Germany do not pursue women like they do in anglo-countries. Which means there are more women who are single and available. Also, prostitution is legal in Germany, so if a guy needs to get laid, he just can see a prostitute and not have to ask out a bunch of women in hopes of getting a date with one of them and having sex with one of them.
"Trying to meet women in America is like trying to decipher Egyptian hieroglyphics."
Well said and appropriate as a constructive logical development.
The females empowering as it's experienced in the US in this case,start very very early.
Fathers and mothers are well brainwashed to take care more of the daughters than their sons.
A recent study if i remember said that having a daughter was the perfect scenario to bring happiness at home.
Having a boy is looking more for future trouble.
The difference in even evident for a 4 years old girl from the US compared to a 4 years old in Thailand.
Even at a so young age,i can feel how superior this little US primadonna understand themselves to be superior to males.
Ok...that's sound overstretched as an assumption and i don't condemn this little girl who will be a lost future woman soul totally corrupted.
We doesn't need to wait the female to be 15 so she understand that her p***y is made of gold,her gender is the right one.
Of course,when they reach puberty and are surrounded by hungry p***y seekers males,it's another bright picture ahead for her that come.
It get to the point where she fully comprehend that she has a long time to be around to use her physical attractiveness to play with it.
They don't feel to be accountable in any situation..if something is wrong,it can only be the faulty sexually frustrated male.
On this arena,the majority of suckers are left only to fight themselves as a cock fighting round.
It's striking to see when i look how mainstream US teen,young or whatever, behave when they see a fight,an accident or something who should being seen as normally disturbing.
They react less than animals,enjoying others suffering,playing the strong guys or girls,bragging like dogs,delighted to see human suffering and addicted to Terminator type masculinity.
It sounds so ridiculous to me and those who know where it came from,you can clearly see that a lot of it have to do with how their sexual life are so frustrating and how woman in the US have lost all true feminine quality like sweetness,care giving attitude and other important traits in woman.
Would love to see the article if you find the link.
Interesting thesis. So women are better-adjusted in a society with legal prostitution - because they are not groomed for use-and-abandonment?
I guess that's one of the effects of the climate of sexual liberation we live in. It's only natural (and I mean biological) that women choose their male partners, be them for a hot night or the prospect of a stable relationship. 50 years ago a young woman wouldn't even dare desiring a man as a sexual partner, unless she wanted to be branded as a slut for the rest of her life. Now young women go to clubs and bars and, if their hormones are telling them to go for a quickie, they will simply pick up a man for being handsome and a potential good f**k.
So all good for a woman wanting quick sex, right? The flip side of the story is that, because of family upbringing and societal pressure, the younger generations are getting less and less of the emotional and moral maturity needed to make a long term relationship choice, at some point in their lives. In the UK, it's no longer surprising to see pretty women having a massively fulfilling sexual life from their teens up to their late twenties, and then hooking up with all the wrong men when their biology start to impose them a change of pace, a change of mindset: from the hot stud to an emotionally stable and kind life partner. Same side with men: I personally know some of the most successful traders in the City, the kind of men who had their first million (Â£!) in their bank accounts before they were 30. Most of them are brilliant professionals, a good laugh and relatively laid back...yet their emotional immaturity shines through many of their acts: from getting completely hammered with no particular reason other than their bravados, to seeing themselves through one, sometimes two extremely painful divorces, because they too went for the hot model type when they could and are not left to foot the alimony and kids (Oxbridge) education bills.
You're giving females too much power here. Let's be honest; the reason females are the way they are is because Eurocentric society encourages females to be this way.
That's why females are attracted to men that ignore them. They represent the opposite of what society offers; a bunch of hard-up manginas constantly focusing on women.
My wife and I were watching a movie the other day in which two young CIA agents were competing for the same girl. A HUGE pet peeve of mine is seeing these govt employees who in real life might make $50k if they are lucky living in 2 million dollar condos. Happens all the time in TV and cinema. It gives the illusion that ALL guys should be able to provide in this lavish manner.
A guy can watch that show and chuckle. However women sit back, watch and movie and ulimately get intoxicated with this illusion of wealth. But make no mistake about it guys, this is a dangerous, harmful message that is being sent out. Fact of the matter is that only the upper 10% of guys can ever afford a 2 million dollar condo.
To add insult to injury, women can now choose between settling for a nice normal guy or pursuing their careers. This is a major reason why there is such a large wedge between men and women from the Anglosphere. Simply put the vast majority of us cannot please our own women!!!!!! The Average Joe is now invisible.