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Why Computer Programmers Can't Pick Up Women - Article

Postby Winston » Sun Aug 05, 2012 5:07 pm

This is pretty funny and goes to show that you gotta use emotion to appeal to women, not logic.

http://www.mavericktraveler.com/why-com ... kup-women/
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Re: Why Computer Programmers Can't Pick Up Women - Article

Postby OutWest » Sun Aug 05, 2012 5:31 pm

Winston wrote:This is pretty funny and goes to show that you gotta use emotion to appeal to women, not logic.

http://www.mavericktraveler.com/why-com ... kup-women/



The man is a good writer- a good find. His blog is an excellent source for those contemplating life abroad, as he presents the good and the bad in pretty good balance. He has a trove of excellent posts, like:

http://www.mavericktraveler.com/burned- ... rm-living/

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Re: Why Computer Programmers Can't Pick Up Women - Article

Postby publicduende » Sun Aug 05, 2012 6:49 pm

OutWest wrote:
Winston wrote:This is pretty funny and goes to show that you gotta use emotion to appeal to women, not logic.

http://www.mavericktraveler.com/why-com ... kup-women/



The man is a good writer- a good find. His blog is an excellent source for those contemplating life abroad, as he presents the good and the bad in pretty good balance. He has a trove of excellent posts, like:

http://www.mavericktraveler.com/burned- ... rm-living/

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Thanks for the link OW, a nice debate about the pros and cons of living in Medellin. We'll be visiting Medellin towards the end of the year and I was looking forward to exactly these kinds of preparatory material.
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Re: Why Computer Programmers Can't Pick Up Women - Article

Postby DevilsAdvocate » Sun Aug 05, 2012 7:03 pm

Winston wrote:This is pretty funny and goes to show that you gotta use emotion to appeal to women, not logic.

http://www.mavericktraveler.com/why-com ... kup-women/




Here in the USA if you talk to women in a nice manner and be a gentlemen with them, they will not be interested in you at all, because that's what most men are and that to them is the norm and boring as can be, if that's what they wanted they could have a hundred of those at the snap of a finger.

So you have to come across to women somehow different. Either you're loaded with money, or you act different than other men.

They want a man who is going to be bold, and say things to them that no other men would say. Like tell them how hot their ass is, or how nice their tits are, or how you want to play a game with them and guess what color their panties are. Women like shock, and they like a guy who doesn't give a flying rats ass what other people think.

Then you get the women's attention.....

Like you Winston not doing well in Taiwan, you need to get dressed up in a suit, stand on the corner like a pimp, and start trash talking with the girls, say:

Mumble something to them so that they don't understand, and when they say "what", say "come here"....

And then say, damn baby you are holding, turn around, damn girl you are hot as can be, what is your beautiful name?

And you just start letting your mouth talk, and shock them, say outlandish things to them, and they will think you are way different than anybody they ever talked to before and that will intrigue them....

If you embarrass them too much just try to get a phone number before they leave, or give them your card with your number on it and tell them when they're ready to give you a call....

But if you go up to them with your low tone that you have and depressed type look and say:

Hi would you like to talk with me?

It's not going to be very effective....

Women have a shield up, you must break through that shield with a little shock....

Women are nasty people on the inside, and they always are thinking about sex, their whole life is wrapped up into and about sex.

When you talk with them, you also think about sex, and talk with them in that manner because that's who and want women really are.

They love the idea of sitting down on a guys face, tell them what they want to hear.

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Re: Why Computer Programmers Can't Pick Up Women - Article

Postby Winston » Sun Aug 05, 2012 7:43 pm

OutWest wrote:
Winston wrote:This is pretty funny and goes to show that you gotta use emotion to appeal to women, not logic.

http://www.mavericktraveler.com/why-com ... kup-women/



The man is a good writer- a good find. His blog is an excellent source for those contemplating life abroad, as he presents the good and the bad in pretty good balance. He has a trove of excellent posts, like:

http://www.mavericktraveler.com/burned- ... rm-living/

Outwest


Mr S found that blog and posted an article from it in another thread. Some of what he says is good, but he makes big blunders such as saying that America has a "free press".

http://www.mavericktraveler.com/why-america-is-great

Obviously he doesn't listen to David Icke. Here David Icke explains for half an hour in the beginning why the mainstream media is not free at all to say whatever they want and can only parrot info official sources as "the news".

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mewhgw7Mujc[/youtube]
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Re: Why Computer Programmers Can't Pick Up Women - Article

Postby DevilsAdvocate » Sun Aug 05, 2012 8:01 pm

Winston wrote:
OutWest wrote:
Winston wrote:This is pretty funny and goes to show that you gotta use emotion to appeal to women, not logic.

http://www.mavericktraveler.com/why-com ... kup-women/



The man is a good writer- a good find. His blog is an excellent source for those contemplating life abroad, as he presents the good and the bad in pretty good balance. He has a trove of excellent posts, like:

http://www.mavericktraveler.com/burned- ... rm-living/

Outwest


Mr S found that blog and posted an article from it in another thread. Some of what he says is good, but he makes big blunders such as saying that America has a "free press".

http://www.mavericktraveler.com/why-america-is-great

Obviously he doesn't listen to David Icke. Here David Icke explains for half an hour in the beginning why the mainstream media is not free at all to say whatever they want and can only parrot info official sources as "the news".

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mewhgw7Mujc[/youtube]





It's a thousand times worse than "not being free", it's the just the exact opposite of being "free". It is a scientifically engineered work of genius to manipulate, brainwash, and indoctrinate an entire planet of people, all 7 billion of them.

In the USA everything you see on TV is very carefully selected, you only see exactly what you're suppose to see.

Every debate has already been scripted in advance, they are all fake to begin with.

Every "expert" is a paid person on the payroll who is saying what their selected to say in advance.

Every story is painted with a very specific brush, which has to take on one of the following criteria:

1. Must have fear within it, like the absurdity of of a "Japan Nuclear Crisis" or an "Oil Spill" or "The Flu".

2. Must speak nothing but lies and promote the Matrix of money, pursuit of wealth, materialism, and the poor. (Winners and Losers)....

3. Must promote hatred and division...

Actually it goes on and on but I don't have the time to write them all out.

TV is the best brainwashing device ever invented, and these people use it with scientific precision, brainwashing virtually everyone in a way that is so powerful, so mind boggling powerful, it is the cable that is stuck within the back of your neck within the pod of goo you're laying down in, it is the route with which the Matrix is being imposed upon your nervous system and brain, giving you your completely false sense of reality on a quantum level.

And it's so powerful, so convincing, so mind boggling convincing and normal since you were a child as early as you can remember, that you cannot see it for what it truly is. It has control over you and keeps your mind constantly dumbed down and given nothing but one lie after another to the point where you no longer are capable of knowing or understanding the truth because to you the truth sounds like an absurdity.....

And in irony it's actually the absurdity that everyone believes is the truth, and the truth is the absurdity....

This is the power of TV, and the power of evil being in control of it.

Evil is mind boggling intelligent, and thinks the exact opposite of good, and is so smart it can do extreme evil right in front of EVERYONE and get away with it, because they do it in such a cunning and slow way that people don't recognize what is going on.

But people everywhere realize things are changing and a lot of people know that change isn't good....

Soon the Media is going to put on the biggest show mankind has ever seen before, and the whole world will quake in it's shoes from the fear.....

Except of course for me, I'll just being saying "oh yes I know the meteor is going to hit the earth, but I have meteor insurance so I'm not worried about it"......

While they panic and run and freak out and cry and scream or whatever it is they will do.....

Here is my advice, just know that whatever it is they are saying, it's not the truth, if you can remember that one thing it can help you in the future. You must find the truth on your own....

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Re: Why Computer Programmers Can't Pick Up Women - Article

Postby Rocky Top » Sun Aug 05, 2012 9:02 pm

publicduende wrote:
OutWest wrote:
Winston wrote:This is pretty funny and goes to show that you gotta use emotion to appeal to women, not logic.

http://www.mavericktraveler.com/why-com ... kup-women/



The man is a good writer- a good find. His blog is an excellent source for those contemplating life abroad, as he presents the good and the bad in pretty good balance. He has a trove of excellent posts, like:

http://www.mavericktraveler.com/burned- ... rm-living/

Outwest


Thanks for the link OW, a nice debate about the pros and cons of living in Medellin. We'll be visiting Medellin towards the end of the year and I was looking forward to exactly these kinds of preparatory material.


I'm sorry, but that guy loses all credibility after he posts this blog and claims that the women in the photo is representative of Medellin nightlife. In fact, it was a picture of Jenn Sterger and her FSU girlfriends.

http://www.mavericktraveler.com/my-prob ... nightlife/

I've been to Medellin for a week or so. Obviously, not enough time to get the kind of feel that this guy claims to have experienced. His main complaints seemed to be that it was not near the beach (compared to Rio), rainy/gray skies, the club scene around Parque Lleras was bit cliche-ish, and that he found that the city's architecture was monotone and cookie cutter. I mean, to be honest, and I don't know about most of you, but that is not enough for me to shoot down a city. He even admitted himself that once you got away from the club scene, that the people were nicer. My opinion at first was that the guy had just been spoiled by his previous time in Rio (which is to be expected I suppose). But After reading a little bit more and then seeing him post that Jenn Sterger pic, I just had to exit.

Medellin is a cool town (when compared to what we have here in The States). If you use that frame of reference, I don't see any reason why a newcomer shouldn't at least go for that one reason alone. Plus, Cartagena (the beach) is about an hours flight time away. And really, Bogota and Cali are not much further flights, either. It's a pretty good centralized location. I personally loved the weather and didn't really mind one way or the other the club scene. I guess I suppose that the club scene in my mind wasn't really going to be a deal breaker before I went there.

LOL... I forgot, he also criticized Medellin because it was a town that had the malls filled with families walking together. I mean really? Families being together is a negative? If anything, I consider that a plus. And as far as the women in Rio being easily approachable versus the women in Medellin... I can spin that around as a negative for Rio, also. If you have a woman in Rio that will turn her head and attention away from you easily if another Gringo comes along, how can you play that as a plus?

It’s an incredibly organized city (for Latin American standards anyway) with solid infrastructure, honest, hard working people, but also a city where everyone sticks to themselves. On the weekends, you see large families hanging out in the malls, drinking coffee and talking, but overall people are serious, and are rarely joking around with each other like you would constantly see in Brazil.


New vocabulary entered my world: hunting, pulling, pegação, fica mais tempo. My body language changed, and my whole world revolved around the hunt. Hunting those that wanted to be hunted. And boy did the girls loved to be hunted; they loved to be chased and eventually submit to the hunter. The hunter always won.


I'm just saying...
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Re: Why Computer Programmers Can't Pick Up Women - Article

Postby Cornfed » Fri Aug 17, 2012 9:07 pm

Winston wrote:This is pretty funny and goes to show that you gotta use emotion to appeal to women, not logic.

http://www.mavericktraveler.com/why-com ... kup-women/

This game theory thing has been done to death. It is quite simple - skanks are attracted to high status men. If you are not actually of high status, the easiest way to appear to be of high status to pea-brained females is to behave like an asshole. Why? Because in almost any society, low status men who behave like assholes are simply killed. Of course in contemporary society most assholes get away with being assholes because they have police protection, but females are far too stupid to figure that out. Similarly, if you behave like a nice person females will take this as a sign that you are of low status and so are afraid to behave in any other way, since they lack any genuine sense of decency themselves and are incapable of inferring it in others. Using logic to females is indeed a real gina twitch killer, as it implies that their ridiculous "opinions" might have value to you and that you see females as something other that a vessel to masturbate into. This implies a lack of status and experience dealing with females on your part. Females rightfully don't respect men who respect females.
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Postby C.J. » Fri Aug 17, 2012 10:24 pm

^ CORNFED!? Haha, I can't stop laughing! :D Don't let Duckman get to you, bro. He's just a private DICK! :D

Uh, anyway... I like this article. It just shows how worthless women are.
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Re: Why Computer Programmers Can't Pick Up Women - Article

Postby pete98146 » Fri Aug 17, 2012 10:41 pm

Winston wrote:This is pretty funny and goes to show that you gotta use emotion to appeal to women, not logic.

http://www.mavericktraveler.com/why-com ... kup-women/


Thanks for sharing. Just curious Winston, you are the King of Logic. How's your emotional side? Are you able to flip a switch and turn your logical brainwaves off? I tend to agree with what he is saying tho. Logical talk can be a foreign language to many women.
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Re: Why Computer Programmers Can't Pick Up Women - Article

Postby Jester » Thu Aug 23, 2012 7:51 am

Cornfed wrote:.... If you are not actually of high status, the easiest way to appear to be of high status to pea-brained females is to behave like an asshole. Why? Because in almost any society, low status men who behave like assholes are simply killed. Of course in contemporary society most assholes get away with being assholes because they have police protection, but females are far too stupid to figure that out. Similarly, if you behave like a nice person females will take this as a sign that you are of low status and so are afraid to behave in any other way, since they lack any genuine sense of decency themselves and are incapable of inferring it in others. Using logic to females is indeed a real gina twitch killer, as it implies that their ridiculous "opinions" might have value to you and that you see females as something other that a vessel to masturbate into. This implies a lack of status and experience dealing with females on your part. Females rightfully don't respect men who respect females.


Interesting analysis of female POV.
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Postby Falcon » Fri Jul 19, 2013 6:49 pm

Xiongmao and I walked around Patpong, Bangkok talking about programming languages, while the Aussies there were content with their swearing. :wink:
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Postby publicduende » Sat Jul 20, 2013 2:12 am

Falcon wrote:Xiongmao and I walked around Patpong, Bangkok talking about programming languages, while the Aussies there were content with their swearing. :wink:


Hmm...something wrong here. On one such occurrence, "C++" should be a statement on breast size preferences, not a programming language!
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Postby xiongmao » Sat Jul 20, 2013 6:12 am

C++ is actually quite rare for Patpong, saw plenty of enhanced DD++.

I want to go there again. I found a gogo bar with 50 baht beer and some awesome cuties.
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Postby E Irizarry R&B Singer » Sat Jul 20, 2013 7:02 am

Falcon wrote:Xiongmao and I walked around Patpong, Bangkok talking about programming languages, while the Aussies there were content with their swearing. :wink:


Here's how the dialogue had transpired from the NWO Patriot Act satellites (the audio transcribed):

Xiong Mao: "Yeah I think the Ubuntu kernel was built on C++ framework"
Falcon: "Yeah dude well I think .NET was built on C-sharp and the rest of the .NET Framework"
Xiong Mao: "Well I use the Ladyboy Methodology in lieu of Agile flexible androgynous methodology of the SDLC"
Falcon:"I like to jizz hot Java inside of an insecure Java Applet Isaan babe"
Xiong Mao: "Uh Uh Uh mate! That would be too rated XXXML! You should put an IoC wrapper around your processor core!"

A bunch of bogans from Perth, WA, Aussie, "Hey bloke! Look at these two queers chalkin' off about computers and s.hit" :lol:
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