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Why is it easier to hook up with older women?

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Postby WPO » Mon Sep 24, 2012 2:41 am

Winston wrote:Question: Why do women lower their standards as they get older, but men don't? I've never heard of a guy who only liked hot girls when he was young, change his mind when he's older and start dating less attractive women. Have any of you?


To an extent. One doesn't necessarily have to have an extraordinary pretty face... as long as they have a beautiful body. My taste buds are quite unique. My standards are about midway BUT I am pretty picky.

I once asked a barnes-n-noble manager (white woman. that's how I roll) to a cup of tea. She had a plain face (6.5 out of a 10) but she was VERY lady like.... and an a$$ you'd never forget. It had to be at least 42 inches! Her small waist made it seem even fuller. It was picture perfect in her tight knee-high silk skirt. She would also wear long tight dresses with dress boots. No chest, just all ass. I used to refer to her as "ass with class." (I didn't call her that of course) It took me 3 months to speak to her, but when I did, she said she was married. DAMN!! Definitely marriage material. I haven't been back there since December of 2009. She was a major distraction. How can a man concentrate on a book and notes with someone like that passing by every 20 minutes?
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Postby royaldude » Mon Sep 24, 2012 3:22 am

easier???
a lot of older women have mental issues and children and ex husbands.

if you are talking strickly f***ing them ok ill agree because like fat girls not alot of people want to ride their rollarcoaster ride.
but dating or having a relationship then i must disagree. these older women bring alot of baggage to the table more often than younger women.
worst cause is that she could be going through menopause which trust me you dont want any of that
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Postby Teal Lantern » Mon Sep 24, 2012 3:47 am

royaldude wrote:easier???
a lot of older women have mental issues and children and ex husbands.

if you are talking strickly f***ing them ok ill agree because like fat girls not alot of people want to ride their rollarcoaster ride.
but dating or having a relationship then i must disagree. these older women bring alot of baggage to the table more often than younger women.
worst cause is that she could be going through menopause which trust me you dont want any of that


Since the OP said "hook up" in the title, I'm guessing he didn't mean to keep.
The baggage of kids & exes is a good point to consider.
How is menopause different than any other excuse to be crazy :? :?:


Winston wrote:Question: Why do women lower their standards as they get older, but men don't? I've never heard of a guy who only liked hot girls when he was young, change his mind when he's older and start dating less attractive women. Have any of you?

As I've gotten older, I've actually narrowed the range (personality & age) on what I'll take.
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Postby Excalibur » Tue Sep 25, 2012 5:03 am

Not that I have ever dated older women, but I find that adult women (who are usually over 40) are much more pleasant to have a conversation with. Whenever I go to public places in America, I encounter hospitality, smile and interest in conversation from these women. Since only few of them are single (most are married), I assume that they must have been raised by their parents in the good old America when our society had morals, respect and appreciation of personal quality, and was not so much dominated by feminism, online networks and excessive consumption.

The younger girls on the other hand are completely stuck-up and rotten spoiled, so that you cand dump them into the trash can. Seriously, I find that the difference between the approachability of young girls and adult women is like day and night. When I do the first step and approach adult women, very few of them raise their bitch shield and act annoyed. I obviously don't rule out that being a young yet adult acting man adds up to the adult women being interested in chatting with me, but still...
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Re: Why is it easier to hook up with older women?

Postby alexmerlin » Fri Dec 18, 2015 8:23 am

I'd hookupolder women that I would have years ago, but not with a brood of kids by different men and thinking of me of a ATM, so that pretty much rules out all western women.
I find you meet the odd young girl say about 25 who hasn't been jaded yet and still nice and polite, but they want kids and marriage
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Re: Why is it easier to hook up with older women?

Postby Slick » Wed Feb 24, 2016 6:46 pm

zacb wrote:Now I am not saying this is a bad thing, I am just kind of curious. Why do I seem to attract older women, who on average are 10 years older? Is it just trends, looks, maturity (overall lack of?), desperation on their part, or something else? I have had three old women flirt with me in the past year, and only one young women in that same time period. Here is an example photo of me, although I usually have glasses and a 5 o clock shadow. I don't know. Any thoughts?


Older women, especially in their 40s to 50s are looking for a boy toy.
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