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Why do women care about comfort and luxury so much?

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Why do women care about comfort and luxury so much?

Postby Winston » Mon Sep 24, 2012 6:03 am

I was looking at this image in my co-branded dating site, and wondering, "Why are women so big on comfort and luxury, much more than men are?" Men tend to be satisfied with minimalist living conditions, on the other hand. Why is that? Here is the image that made me realize this.

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Postby djfourmoney » Mon Sep 24, 2012 8:27 am

I think this goes back to having conditions suited for child birth/having children. Girl Writes What as good video explaining this, but I don't feel like looking for it.

You can find women that are into minimalism they just tend to be not that pretty and sort of plain-jane.

Since your branded sites are mostly filled with FSU women who I would think about 95% want to have children at some point, level of comfort, also level of income becomes important to most women.
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Re: Why do women care about comfort and luxury so much?

Postby Teal Lantern » Mon Sep 24, 2012 2:06 pm

Winston wrote:I was looking at this image in my co-branded dating site, and wondering, "Why are women so big on comfort and luxury, much more than men are?" Men tend to be satisfied with minimalist living conditions, on the other hand. Why is that?


All the women you've met, how can you not know why? :?
Men tend to know how much work it takes to acquire such things. For prettier women, "work" consists of attracting a man who can pay for those things. :roll:
And even much of this "work" is done by nature and war paint .. er .. make-up. :oops:
By extension, the amount of luxury her man can provide becomes a proxy for measuring her own attractiveness/worth (especially relative to other women).

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Postby publicduende » Mon Sep 24, 2012 3:35 pm

djfourmoney wrote:I think this goes back to having conditions suited for child birth/having children. Girl Writes What as good video explaining this, but I don't feel like looking for it.

You can find women that are into minimalism they just tend to be not that pretty and sort of plain-jane.

Since your branded sites are mostly filled with FSU women who I would think about 95% want to have children at some point, level of comfort, also level of income becomes important to most women.


Absolutely. I think women have it ingrained in their DNA that better living conditions automatically mean more opportunities for their offspring. The modern expression of this natural need for "nesting" is obviously under our eyes: women like material wealth, financial and social stability in their men.

A few weeks ago I was chatting with an Italian colleague of mine about some business opportunities and he told me his girlfriend is from St. Petersburg. He made no secret that he found her "online". Impressed by such candour, I asked him what he thinks about Russian girls. He said that, very simply, Russian and FSU girls over 30 still had their formative years steeped in old Soviet cultural values, where men and women have clearly defined and not interchangeable roles and their quality will be judged on how well they embrace and develop in those roles. He said "a Russian bride is an absolute beauty to behold, she will be an interesting chat in a social situation, she will take good care of the house and will be a loving if not strong-handed Mom to your kids, and she will f**k your brains out in bed at night".

In exchange, she is going to expect her man to abide by his role with equal strength and dedication, and show all the qualities that, to her eyes, make her a "real man". Assertiveness and charisma, achievement and ambition, dedication to his family and kids, and loyalty to his wife. Enlightening words indeed. He had been with this Russian woman for the past 7 years, and recently had a gorgeous baby girl with her, so I tend to believe he must have done his fair bit of homework on the subject and doing quite well with her.
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Postby polya » Mon Sep 24, 2012 10:56 pm

But few women will work for their own comfort - they expect a perfect man to give her a castle. Women want to be equal, so go get a job - b!tch!
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Postby djfourmoney » Mon Sep 24, 2012 11:34 pm

publicduende wrote:
djfourmoney wrote:I think this goes back to having conditions suited for child birth/having children. Girl Writes What as good video explaining this, but I don't feel like looking for it.

You can find women that are into minimalism they just tend to be not that pretty and sort of plain-jane.

Since your branded sites are mostly filled with FSU women who I would think about 95% want to have children at some point, level of comfort, also level of income becomes important to most women.


Absolutely. I think women have it ingrained in their DNA that better living conditions automatically mean more opportunities for their offspring. The modern expression of this natural need for "nesting" is obviously under our eyes: women like material wealth, financial and social stability in their men.

A few weeks ago I was chatting with an Italian colleague of mine about some business opportunities and he told me his girlfriend is from St. Petersburg. He made no secret that he found her "online". Impressed by such candour, I asked him what he thinks about Russian girls. He said that, very simply, Russian and FSU girls over 30 still had their formative years steeped in old Soviet cultural values, where men and women have clearly defined and not interchangeable roles and their quality will be judged on how well they embrace and develop in those roles. He said "a Russian bride is an absolute beauty to behold, she will be an interesting chat in a social situation, she will take good care of the house and will be a loving if not strong-handed Mom to your kids, and she will f**k your brains out in bed at night".

In exchange, she is going to expect her man to abide by his role with equal strength and dedication, and show all the qualities that, to her eyes, make her a "real man". Assertiveness and charisma, achievement and ambition, dedication to his family and kids, and loyalty to his wife. Enlightening words indeed. He had been with this Russian woman for the past 7 years, and recently had a gorgeous baby girl with her, so I tend to believe he must have done his fair bit of homework on the subject and doing quite well with her.


This is a trait I see in FSU women and in the examples I have seen/met. I also think women from small towns and villages feel their roll is to have a family/children and make her husband happy as long as he does his part. She accepts this roll and revels in it.

Most women not totally impacted by extreme feminism actually feel this way, including women under 30. Just look at all the women in South America and FSU with all the children (single mothers) usually had children with men that didn't measure up to a minimal level.

That's why, while I rather have a clean slate, but if circumstances are good, I would take on a FSU single mother under a certain age, however you don't need to do that.
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Postby ringspun » Tue Sep 25, 2012 5:57 pm

It's all about security and wealth... end of... more they got, more they want!
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Postby ChosenTraveler » Sat Sep 29, 2012 6:33 pm

Remember, women are child-like in their cognitive capacities. Like children, they must be shown all of the cool, shiny stuff that they can touch. This is why in ancient cultures, it was natural for a fifty year old man to wed a sometimes sixteen year old girl.

She was viewed as naive and could be trained in the ways of the world by the more astute, traveled and well adjusted older man. Women are attracted to wealthy man, and wealthier, more mature men deserve the best women. Fair trade.
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