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WHAT I WANT IN A MAN

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HatheroX5
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WHAT I WANT IN A MAN

Post by HatheroX5 » October 17th, 2012, 4:13 am

Original List

What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 21)
1. Handsome
2. Charming
3. Financially successful
4. A caring listener
5. Witty
6. In good shape
7. Dresses with style
8. Appreciates finer things
9. Full of thoughtful surprises



What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 32)


1. Nice looking
2. Opens car doors, holds chairs
3. Has enough money for a nice dinner
4. Listens more than talks
5. Laughs at my jokes
6. Carries bags of groceries with ease
7. Owns at least one tie
8. Appreciates a good home-cooked meal
9. Remembers birthdays and anniversaries


What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 42)


1. Not too ugly
2. Doesn't drive off until I'm in the car
3. Works steady - splurges on dinner out occasionally
4. Nods head when I'm talking
5. Usually remembers punch lines of jokes
6. Is in good enough shape to rearrange the furniture
7. Wears a shirt that covers his stomach
8. Knows not to buy champagne with screw-top lids
9. Remembers to put the toilet seat down
10. Shaves most weekends


What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 52)


1. Keeps hair in nose and ears trimmed
2. Doesn't belch or scratch in public
3. Doesn't borrow money too often
4. Doesn't nod off to sleep when I'm venting
5. Doesn't re-tell the same joke too many times
6. Is in good enough shape to get off the couch on weekends
7. Usually wears matching socks and fresh underwear
8. Appreciates a good TV dinner
9. Remembers your name on occasion
10. Shaves some weekends



What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 62)



1. Doesn't scare small children
2. Remembers where bathroom is
3. Doesn't require much money for upkeep
4. Only snores lightly when asleep
5. Remembers why he's laughing
6. Is in good enough shape to stand up by himself
7. Usually wears some clothes
8. Likes soft foods
9. Remembers where he left his teeth
10. Remembers that it's the weekend


What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 72)

1. BREATHING

2. DOESN'T MISS THE TOILET
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Post by zboy1 » October 17th, 2012, 5:57 am

Western women are picky beyond belief. Unless you're over 6'2, muscular, rich, or famous, don't bother....

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Post by HenryGeorge » October 17th, 2012, 8:14 am

zboy1 wrote:Western women are picky beyond belief. Unless you're over 6'2, muscular, rich, or famous, don't bother....
No doubt. If you're similar to this then it's a piece of cake getting a woman here in America even though the guy can be the BIGGEST asshole around:

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Although the good thing where i live at in Los Angeles which sure as hell is not a dating paradise, is a lot of the mexican women here don't tend to be as picky as a lot of the other white and americanized asian ones.

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Post by djfourmoney » October 17th, 2012, 5:28 pm

zboy1 wrote:Western women are picky beyond belief. Unless you're over 6'2, muscular, rich, or famous, don't bother....
This is slightly exaggerated...

If you're short there isn't much you can do about it. Women all over the world save in countries with short people usually want tall husbands. Asian women and Latinas tend to be short and seldom demand their potential mate be over 6'0.

Being muscular is a personal choice, you'll hardly find a empty gym at least in California. However Law Jackson who is about 5'9 (under 6'0) and worked on his body, still didn't find the success he was looking for in America. I am 6'1 with shoes on and after years of being overweight but not obese (BMI of 18% which is about the national average), I have worked not all that hard really to lose 35 lbs. Most of it is diet (say about 70%) and the rest is burning calories (30%). Just running or walking makes you lose weight but tends to make you look scrawny. I lifted weight and while I cut my plan short by about 4 weeks, I have pretty much reached my goal.

I have decided to minimize this as it is seen as a negative. Yes you can find woman that don't care, they tend not to be that attractive however. It all depends what you want and what your comfortable with.

Rich though, totally unreasonable especially in America where cheating is encouraged, median wages have been stagnant and the wealth gap is back to Gilded Age levels. In other words the definition of "Rich" has been a moving goal post since the 1970's. I have heard you need to earn about 4 Million a year to be considered rich these days.

I should also mentioned studies have shown that $75,000 a year earnings is where "Happiness" flatlines, that ain't rich...

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Post by djfourmoney » October 17th, 2012, 5:36 pm

HenryGeorge wrote:
zboy1 wrote:Western women are picky beyond belief. Unless you're over 6'2, muscular, rich, or famous, don't bother....
No doubt. If you're similar to this then it's a piece of cake getting a woman here in America even though the guy can be the BIGGEST asshole around:

Image

Although the good thing where i live at in Los Angeles which sure as hell is not a dating paradise, is a lot of the mexican women here don't tend to be as picky as a lot of the other white and americanized asian ones.
The new Bond is 5'8 FYI

Tom Cruise is about the same height

Stallone is a under 6'0

If you appear to be successful (nice suits/clothes, high end car) it largely doesn't matter if your short. But then again what type of woman are you attracting? I'd say there is a thin line between gold diggers and money neutral women. First sign is if everything in their apartment has a name brand on it...

Los Angeles is bad because of several reasons, some of it is quality of women and I am not saying they are fat or anything but some are a bit trashy. I never liked women who were "inked" up (they tend not to like BM so its a push...). The economic issue I think is the biggest problem, you have to judge on a individual basis.

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Re: WHAT I WANT IN A MAN

Post by djfourmoney » October 17th, 2012, 5:38 pm

HatheroX5 wrote:Original List

What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 21)
1. Handsome
2. Charming
3. Financially successful
4. A caring listener
5. Witty
6. In good shape
7. Dresses with style
8. Appreciates finer things
9. Full of thoughtful surprises



What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 32)


1. Nice looking
2. Opens car doors, holds chairs
3. Has enough money for a nice dinner
4. Listens more than talks
5. Laughs at my jokes
6. Carries bags of groceries with ease
7. Owns at least one tie
8. Appreciates a good home-cooked meal
9. Remembers birthdays and anniversaries


What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 42)


1. Not too ugly
2. Doesn't drive off until I'm in the car
3. Works steady - splurges on dinner out occasionally
4. Nods head when I'm talking
5. Usually remembers punch lines of jokes
6. Is in good enough shape to rearrange the furniture
7. Wears a shirt that covers his stomach
8. Knows not to buy champagne with screw-top lids
9. Remembers to put the toilet seat down
10. Shaves most weekends


What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 52)


1. Keeps hair in nose and ears trimmed
2. Doesn't belch or scratch in public
3. Doesn't borrow money too often
4. Doesn't nod off to sleep when I'm venting
5. Doesn't re-tell the same joke too many times
6. Is in good enough shape to get off the couch on weekends
7. Usually wears matching socks and fresh underwear
8. Appreciates a good TV dinner
9. Remembers your name on occasion
10. Shaves some weekends



What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 62)



1. Doesn't scare small children
2. Remembers where bathroom is
3. Doesn't require much money for upkeep
4. Only snores lightly when asleep
5. Remembers why he's laughing
6. Is in good enough shape to stand up by himself
7. Usually wears some clothes
8. Likes soft foods
9. Remembers where he left his teeth
10. Remembers that it's the weekend


What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 72)

1. BREATHING

2. DOESN'T MISS THE TOILET
This should be a sticky!

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Post by WPO » October 18th, 2012, 4:22 am

even in their 60s AW are full of $hit and hypocritical. They have a nice list of what they "like" then turn around and choose someone that would get kicked out of hell!
Go east, young man. Go east

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Post by Andrewww » October 18th, 2012, 8:52 pm

djfourmoney wrote:
The new Bond is 5'8 FYI

Tom Cruise is about the same height

Stallone is a under 6'0

If you appear to be successful (nice suits/clothes, high end car) it largely doesn't matter if your short. But then again what type of woman are you attracting? I'd say there is a thin line between gold diggers and money neutral women. First sign is if everything in their apartment has a name brand on it...

Los Angeles is bad because of several reasons, some of it is quality of women and I am not saying they are fat or anything but some are a bit trashy. I never liked women who were "inked" up (they tend not to like BM so its a push...). The economic issue I think is the biggest problem, you have to judge on a individual basis.
Only difference is that those guys are movie stars. You can be 5'0 and get a ton of women as a movie star.

If Stallone wasn't famous I doubt he'd get much attention in the US. Well at least when he was in his 20s, now he looks awful even for a 60 year old.

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Re: WHAT I WANT IN A MAN

Post by davewe » October 19th, 2012, 9:37 pm

HatheroX5 wrote:Original List

What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 21)
1. Handsome
2. Charming
3. Financially successful
4. A caring listener
5. Witty
6. In good shape
7. Dresses with style
8. Appreciates finer things
9. Full of thoughtful surprises



What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 32)


1. Nice looking
2. Opens car doors, holds chairs
3. Has enough money for a nice dinner
4. Listens more than talks
5. Laughs at my jokes
6. Carries bags of groceries with ease
7. Owns at least one tie
8. Appreciates a good home-cooked meal
9. Remembers birthdays and anniversaries


What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 42)


1. Not too ugly
2. Doesn't drive off until I'm in the car
3. Works steady - splurges on dinner out occasionally
4. Nods head when I'm talking
5. Usually remembers punch lines of jokes
6. Is in good enough shape to rearrange the furniture
7. Wears a shirt that covers his stomach
8. Knows not to buy champagne with screw-top lids
9. Remembers to put the toilet seat down
10. Shaves most weekends


What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 52)


1. Keeps hair in nose and ears trimmed
2. Doesn't belch or scratch in public
3. Doesn't borrow money too often
4. Doesn't nod off to sleep when I'm venting
5. Doesn't re-tell the same joke too many times
6. Is in good enough shape to get off the couch on weekends
7. Usually wears matching socks and fresh underwear
8. Appreciates a good TV dinner
9. Remembers your name on occasion
10. Shaves some weekends



What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 62)



1. Doesn't scare small children
2. Remembers where bathroom is
3. Doesn't require much money for upkeep
4. Only snores lightly when asleep
5. Remembers why he's laughing
6. Is in good enough shape to stand up by himself
7. Usually wears some clothes
8. Likes soft foods
9. Remembers where he left his teeth
10. Remembers that it's the weekend


What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 72)

1. BREATHING

2. DOESN'T MISS THE TOILET
It's a funny list but not true. In my experience women in their 40s and 50s are still VERY picky!!

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Post by ladislav » October 19th, 2012, 9:54 pm

This James Bond looks like a Russian plumber actually.
A brain is a terrible thing to wash!

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Re: WHAT I WANT IN A MAN

Post by djfourmoney » October 20th, 2012, 7:34 am

davewe wrote:
HatheroX5 wrote:Original List

What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 21)
1. Handsome
2. Charming
3. Financially successful
4. A caring listener
5. Witty
6. In good shape
7. Dresses with style
8. Appreciates finer things
9. Full of thoughtful surprises



What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 32)


1. Nice looking
2. Opens car doors, holds chairs
3. Has enough money for a nice dinner
4. Listens more than talks
5. Laughs at my jokes
6. Carries bags of groceries with ease
7. Owns at least one tie
8. Appreciates a good home-cooked meal
9. Remembers birthdays and anniversaries


What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 42)


1. Not too ugly
2. Doesn't drive off until I'm in the car
3. Works steady - splurges on dinner out occasionally
4. Nods head when I'm talking
5. Usually remembers punch lines of jokes
6. Is in good enough shape to rearrange the furniture
7. Wears a shirt that covers his stomach
8. Knows not to buy champagne with screw-top lids
9. Remembers to put the toilet seat down
10. Shaves most weekends


What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 52)


1. Keeps hair in nose and ears trimmed
2. Doesn't belch or scratch in public
3. Doesn't borrow money too often
4. Doesn't nod off to sleep when I'm venting
5. Doesn't re-tell the same joke too many times
6. Is in good enough shape to get off the couch on weekends
7. Usually wears matching socks and fresh underwear
8. Appreciates a good TV dinner
9. Remembers your name on occasion
10. Shaves some weekends



What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 62)



1. Doesn't scare small children
2. Remembers where bathroom is
3. Doesn't require much money for upkeep
4. Only snores lightly when asleep
5. Remembers why he's laughing
6. Is in good enough shape to stand up by himself
7. Usually wears some clothes
8. Likes soft foods
9. Remembers where he left his teeth
10. Remembers that it's the weekend


What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 72)

1. BREATHING

2. DOESN'T MISS THE TOILET
It's a funny list but not true. In my experience women in their 40s and 50s are still VERY picky!!
Given how many men in their 40's and 50's generally look, can you blame them? The average middle class and working class White male is usually overweight, pot bellied and has facial hair. You get another demerit if you have much grey hair...

Now if you're in-shape, generally nice looking and meet those minimums if you don't mind teenage children in many cases with women around 40, then you can get plenty of action, even get married. The internet is filled to brim with 40something women looking for long term relationships with men that don't desire children or even if you do, accept their children.

I have no interest in these women honestly and can pull them on a regular basis.

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Re: WHAT I WANT IN A MAN

Post by noog » October 20th, 2012, 3:20 pm

djfourmoney wrote:

It's a funny list but not true. In my experience women in their 40s and 50s are still VERY picky!!

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Given how many men in their 40's and 50's generally look, can you blame them? The average middle class and working class White male is usually overweight, pot bellied and has facial hair. You get another demerit if you have much grey hair...

Now if you're in-shape, generally nice looking and meet those minimums if you don't mind teenage children in many cases with women around 40, then you can get plenty of action, even get married. The internet is filled to brim with 40something women looking for long term relationships with men that don't desire children or even if you do, accept their children.

I have no interest in these women honestly and can pull them on a regular basis.
Yes, but a majority of these women think they are all that and a bag of chips, then bring all of their baggage into your relationship. Be careful.
"Take a bold and unconventional action, then you'll find out who your friends are."

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Post by ssjparris » October 20th, 2012, 10:28 pm

HenryGeorge wrote:
zboy1 wrote:Western women are picky beyond belief. Unless you're over 6'2, muscular, rich, or famous, don't bother....
No doubt. If you're similar to this then it's a piece of cake getting a woman here in America even though the guy can be the BIGGEST asshole around:

Image

Although the good thing where i live at in Los Angeles which sure as hell is not a dating paradise, is a lot of the mexican women here don't tend to be as picky as a lot of the other white and americanized asian ones.
as for mexican women. yeah i agree. they are so open. friendly. nice. easy going. i prefer to talk to foreign women that live here. i dont waste my time on the american ones.

and what is with all the bi sexual men and women walking around. every one here is gay.

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Post by ssjparris » October 20th, 2012, 10:29 pm

ladislav wrote:This James Bond looks like a Russian plumber actually.
hahahahahhaa... :lol:

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Post by ILoveBlackAmericanWomen » December 21st, 2012, 3:57 am

A man who loves God and puts God and Jesus first in his household.
A man who will love his future woman and children unconditionally, a man who will provide financially for his family. A man who has great sex.


Now that is the perfect man.
To be white or black - is to not be a human, but a living definition and label. To be a slave to definition, to fashion, to the industries that market us like cattle, emptying our pockets like the udders of the cow, being paid to cut our bodies for cosmetics, benefiting off of putting harsh chemicals on our heads, making money off of us choosing to live and participate in the reality they created. Don't be "black", don't be "white", don''t be "Asian", don't be "Latin." Destroy the illusion, become human.

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