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Why do women often say that looks don't matter?

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Postby marklambo » Sat Dec 22, 2012 8:26 am

I was watching a documentary the other day about the science of attraction and how women view/rate the attractiveness of a man. They went out in public and showed images of men and their stats (fake stats of course) and asked random girls to rate the guys. For example, they would show a guy who's about an 8 in looks but in the income department, he was making $24k a year with a low end job. Most girls were rating him overall as a 4, 5, or even lower. Then they would show images of a guy that is about a 4 or 5 but makes $375k a year. He got an average rating of about an 8 or higher.

Physically speaking, yes women go for looks but the more money you have, the better you look all of a sudden to them. They magically become more attracted to you. Your crooked fat nose all of a sudden becomes cute. Your fat belly now becomes her favorite pillow at night. In America, sadly...it's about the money...

When women say it's not all about the looks, what they really mean to say is that looks won't matter if you've got the money.

The good news for men is that if you're ugly, you can fix that by making more money. But if you're an ugly man and poor, you really have no hope, at least not in America you won't.

The size of your wallet dictates how good looking you are. Welcome to America guys...
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Postby Winston » Sat Dec 22, 2012 8:39 am

marklambo wrote:I was watching a documentary the other day about the science of attraction and how women view/rate the attractiveness of a man. They went out in public and showed images of men and their stats (fake stats of course) and asked random girls to rate the guys. For example, they would show a guy who's about an 8 in looks but in the income department, he was making $24k a year with a low end job. Most girls were rating him overall as a 4, 5, or even lower. Then they would show images of a guy that is about a 4 or 5 but makes $375k a year. He got an average rating of about an 8 or higher.

Physically speaking, yes women go for looks but the more money you have, the better you look all of a sudden to them. They magically become more attracted to you. Your crooked fat nose all of a sudden becomes cute. Your fat belly now becomes her favorite pillow at night. In America, sadly...it's about the money...

When women say it's not all about the looks, what they really mean to say is that looks won't matter if you've got the money.

The good news for men is that if you're ugly, you can fix that by making more money. But if you're an ugly man and poor, you really have no hope, at least not in America you won't.

The size of your wallet dictates how good looking you are. Welcome to America guys...


That sounds like the Philippines too. So that must be why their standards for looks are so low, to poor Filipinas I mean. Any foreigner is perceived as rich and attractive, so any average Westerner will feel like a million bucks there and treated like one. What a great ego boost! Now you see the appeal of the Philippines.
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Postby marklambo » Sat Dec 22, 2012 8:59 am

Winston wrote:
marklambo wrote:I was watching a documentary the other day about the science of attraction and how women view/rate the attractiveness of a man. They went out in public and showed images of men and their stats (fake stats of course) and asked random girls to rate the guys. For example, they would show a guy who's about an 8 in looks but in the income department, he was making $24k a year with a low end job. Most girls were rating him overall as a 4, 5, or even lower. Then they would show images of a guy that is about a 4 or 5 but makes $375k a year. He got an average rating of about an 8 or higher.

Physically speaking, yes women go for looks but the more money you have, the better you look all of a sudden to them. They magically become more attracted to you. Your crooked fat nose all of a sudden becomes cute. Your fat belly now becomes her favorite pillow at night. In America, sadly...it's about the money...

When women say it's not all about the looks, what they really mean to say is that looks won't matter if you've got the money.

The good news for men is that if you're ugly, you can fix that by making more money. But if you're an ugly man and poor, you really have no hope, at least not in America you won't.

The size of your wallet dictates how good looking you are. Welcome to America guys...


That sounds like the Philippines too. So that must be why their standards for looks are so low, to poor Filipinas I mean. Any foreigner is perceived as rich and attractive, so any average Westerner will feel like a million bucks there and treated like one. What a great ego boost! Now you see the appeal of the Philippines.


I'm very positive that this applies to many other countries besides the USA (United Scammers of America) but it's probably the worst here I think. I have never been to the Philippines but I do not argue about what you said. I've heard the same as well.
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Postby jennaMax » Tue Feb 19, 2013 6:47 pm

as a woman i can say that a woman saying that looks dont count, it's obviously lying. we normally dont say it but a nice hunk wins everytime :roll:
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Postby Banano » Tue Feb 19, 2013 8:02 pm

'we normally dont say it but a nice hunk wins everytime '

voice of reason, honest women are hard to find, which bring the question, why women have need/urge to lie and sugar coat everything?
cant they be honest for once
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Postby Contrarian Expatriate » Tue Feb 19, 2013 8:37 pm

Women say that for the same reason they say SIZE doesn't matter. It does.

Women are to be understood by observation of their ACTIONS, not their words.
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Postby Banano » Tue Feb 19, 2013 8:57 pm

im starting to think that women are liars and manipulators by default, born with such trait,

when they say looks dont matter and no decent woman wants to be with you it could only mean one thing which is: you are bad person to the core, pure evil, you look is fine but your personality is rotten

thats bs of course, i know couple of guys whe did prison sentences due to drugs/theft related crimes and guess what, they never had any issues with getting women...personality dont even matter much as long as your looks/vibe makes her panties wet, you are in...you could say and do anything she will still call you
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Postby Billy » Wed Feb 20, 2013 1:24 pm

it´s not her fault it´s her genes. men do also lie when they say to a 5 that she is the prettiest girl ever and stuff. see it as an iq test. when you are constantly trapped by liars it may be low low low.
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Postby Renata » Wed Feb 20, 2013 2:27 pm

East Asian cultures tranditionally married according to Caste, Status, Wealth, & Beauty. Some have called these practices primitive & archaic ... but in truth they're just pairing off the 5's with the 5's & the 8's with the 8's & the 10's with the 10's, etc. This prevents the imbalances we see today; average looking rich guy with hot girl that's got a versace purse with no money in it.

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Postby lone_yakuza » Wed Feb 20, 2013 2:42 pm

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Postby Devil Dog » Wed Feb 20, 2013 3:10 pm

lone_yakuza wrote:
Renata wrote:East Asian cultures tranditionally married according to Caste, Status, Wealth, & Beauty. Some have called these practices primitive & archaic ... but in truth they're just pairing off the 5's with the 5's & the 8's with the 8's & the 10's with the 10's, etc. This prevents the imbalances we see today; average looking rich guy with hot girl that's got a versace purse with no money in it.

Essentially, you should be the type of person that you want to meet.


This is what I am talking about. I am like a 7.5/10 objectively, so why is it that the attention I get is all from women 5 or below? My family is upper class back in East Asia...(rant snipped)


If you would calm down a little bit you might find that 7.5. Bitterness attracts bitterness.
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Postby Renata » Wed Feb 20, 2013 5:56 pm

lone_yakuza wrote:
Renata wrote:East Asian cultures tranditionally married according to Caste, Status, Wealth, & Beauty. Some have called these practices primitive & archaic ... but in truth they're just pairing off the 5's with the 5's & the 8's with the 8's & the 10's with the 10's, etc. This prevents the imbalances we see today; average looking rich guy with hot girl that's got a versace purse with no money in it.

Essentially, you should be the type of person that you want to meet.


This is what I am talking about. I am like a 7.5/10 objectively, so why is it that the attention I get is all from women 5 or below? My family is upper class back in East Asia. But I can't go there because of the pollution and the severe health consequences for me if I go to polluted places.

Why can I not just have a woman who is the exact same level as me. I do not want a supermodel. I just want a cute girl who is also a 7.5/10 who is my height, who is thin but curvy, who is relatively intelligent, and has a pretty face. I am not asking for much at all. I am muscular and have a v-shaped body, I am intelligent, I have a handsome face according to any woman who is not anglosaxon or from the western world, for example above average looking Russian women have told me so.

But alas, to learn Russian and to become fluent in it. Is it too late for me at 21? Most would say yes. Even if I get to a high fluency level, most of Russia is polluted, and the cities I had been aiming for in Far East Russia are quite polluted. I do very well in cold weather and my chronic allergies and illnesses are pretty much nonexistent in cold weather, and as long as I have a clean, organic diet. But that is the problem. Russia does not have clean organic foods for the most part and Far East Russia is very underdeveloped, polluted, trash everywhere, etc. etc. not to mention the language barrier and my inability to be as fluent in Russian as a native.

Sure in the USA the environment here in the Pacific Northwest is pristine. But the people? Women spit on me and are disgusted and only the ugliest, most unworthy women want me. And most women are cock thirsty whores who have STDs like HIVE and herpes. Men spit on me or look at me condescendingly or ridicule me or somehow feel threatened by me. In a few years, most Americans will want to send all East Asian males to burn in the furnaces. Note, though I am talking mainly about my generation, because it seems the people from the hippy era are all confused as f**k that I have never had a real long term girlfriend and are confused as to why East Asian males are so unattractive. I am guessing they grew up when Bruce Lee was big, or even waaaay before the 80 year old women who watched Sessue Hayakawa.

Even hispanic and black people will want our blood because China this China that China is evil. And all East Asians will be picked on, even if they are not Chinese, because we all "look the same" to Americans anyways.


Lone yakuza you're 21, that's really young ... I'm sure you'll find her, then find the country you want to settle in, then figure out how you're gonna make a life there. Everything is trial & error. I like the 'arranged' matchmaking that they do in Asia, it's a great solution-provider in this day & age. You get so much intel on the intended' .. like family history, mannerisms, temperament, traditional value system, educational background, status, everything !, even what she expects of her intended. It's a gold-mind. Then with all of this info you decide if you should meet them or not. I've had such arrangements in the past where I had my pickings, but none worked because we have a caste system which limits who you can meet & who you can't.
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Postby ringspun » Wed Feb 20, 2013 6:14 pm

I really don't think they do, when you see the scum bags women hang out with here in the UK you certainly will see looks don't matter but having a prison record or being a loser with game rules everytime!
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Postby Andrewww » Wed Feb 20, 2013 7:03 pm

Women are as superficial as men, of course looks matter. The problem with North America is that there are more good looking men than good looking women.
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Postby Banano » Wed Feb 20, 2013 7:20 pm

whats superficial about looks?

should we just go for the ugliest men/women we can find so we dont appear shallow
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