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marklambo wrote:I was watching a documentary the other day about the science of attraction and how women view/rate the attractiveness of a man. They went out in public and showed images of men and their stats (fake stats of course) and asked random girls to rate the guys. For example, they would show a guy who's about an 8 in looks but in the income department, he was making $24k a year with a low end job. Most girls were rating him overall as a 4, 5, or even lower. Then they would show images of a guy that is about a 4 or 5 but makes $375k a year. He got an average rating of about an 8 or higher.

Physically speaking, yes women go for looks but the more money you have, the better you look all of a sudden to them. They magically become more attracted to you. Your crooked fat nose all of a sudden becomes cute. Your fat belly now becomes her favorite pillow at night. In America, sadly...it's about the money...

When women say it's not all about the looks, what they really mean to say is that looks won't matter if you've got the money.

The good news for men is that if you're ugly, you can fix that by making more money. But if you're an ugly man and poor, you really have no hope, at least not in America you won't.

The size of your wallet dictates how good looking you are. Welcome to America guys...

Winston wrote:

marklambo wrote:I was watching a documentary the other day about the science of attraction and how women view/rate the attractiveness of a man. They went out in public and showed images of men and their stats (fake stats of course) and asked random girls to rate the guys. For example, they would show a guy who's about an 8 in looks but in the income department, he was making $24k a year with a low end job. Most girls were rating him overall as a 4, 5, or even lower. Then they would show images of a guy that is about a 4 or 5 but makes $375k a year. He got an average rating of about an 8 or higher.

Physically speaking, yes women go for looks but the more money you have, the better you look all of a sudden to them. They magically become more attracted to you. Your crooked fat nose all of a sudden becomes cute. Your fat belly now becomes her favorite pillow at night. In America, sadly...it's about the money...

When women say it's not all about the looks, what they really mean to say is that looks won't matter if you've got the money.

The good news for men is that if you're ugly, you can fix that by making more money. But if you're an ugly man and poor, you really have no hope, at least not in America you won't.

The size of your wallet dictates how good looking you are. Welcome to America guys...

That sounds like the Philippines too. So that must be why their standards for looks are so low, to poor Filipinas I mean. Any foreigner is perceived as rich and attractive, so any average Westerner will feel like a million bucks there and treated like one. What a great ego boost! Now you see the appeal of the Philippines.

lone_yakuza wrote:

Renata wrote:East Asian cultures tranditionally married according to Caste, Status, Wealth, & Beauty. Some have called these practices primitive & archaic ... but in truth they're just pairing off the 5's with the 5's & the 8's with the 8's & the 10's with the 10's, etc. This prevents the imbalances we see today; average looking rich guy with hot girl that's got a versace purse with no money in it.

Essentially, you should be the type of person that you want to meet.

This is what I am talking about. I am like a 7.5/10 objectively, so why is it that the attention I get is all from women 5 or below? My family is upper class back in East Asia...(rant snipped)

lone_yakuza wrote:

Renata wrote:East Asian cultures tranditionally married according to Caste, Status, Wealth, & Beauty. Some have called these practices primitive & archaic ... but in truth they're just pairing off the 5's with the 5's & the 8's with the 8's & the 10's with the 10's, etc. This prevents the imbalances we see today; average looking rich guy with hot girl that's got a versace purse with no money in it.

Essentially, you should be the type of person that you want to meet.

This is what I am talking about. I am like a 7.5/10 objectively, so why is it that the attention I get is all from women 5 or below? My family is upper class back in East Asia. But I can't go there because of the pollution and the severe health consequences for me if I go to polluted places.

Why can I not just have a woman who is the exact same level as me. I do not want a supermodel. I just want a cute girl who is also a 7.5/10 who is my height, who is thin but curvy, who is relatively intelligent, and has a pretty face. I am not asking for much at all. I am muscular and have a v-shaped body, I am intelligent, I have a handsome face according to any woman who is not anglosaxon or from the western world, for example above average looking Russian women have told me so.

But alas, to learn Russian and to become fluent in it. Is it too late for me at 21? Most would say yes. Even if I get to a high fluency level, most of Russia is polluted, and the cities I had been aiming for in Far East Russia are quite polluted. I do very well in cold weather and my chronic allergies and illnesses are pretty much nonexistent in cold weather, and as long as I have a clean, organic diet. But that is the problem. Russia does not have clean organic foods for the most part and Far East Russia is very underdeveloped, polluted, trash everywhere, etc. etc. not to mention the language barrier and my inability to be as fluent in Russian as a native.

Sure in the USA the environment here in the Pacific Northwest is pristine. But the people? Women spit on me and are disgusted and only the ugliest, most unworthy women want me. And most women are cock thirsty whores who have STDs like HIVE and herpes. Men spit on me or look at me condescendingly or ridicule me or somehow feel threatened by me. In a few years, most Americans will want to send all East Asian males to burn in the furnaces. Note, though I am talking mainly about my generation, because it seems the people from the hippy era are all confused as f**k that I have never had a real long term girlfriend and are confused as to why East Asian males are so unattractive. I am guessing they grew up when Bruce Lee was big, or even waaaay before the 80 year old women who watched Sessue Hayakawa.

Even hispanic and black people will want our blood because China this China that China is evil. And all East Asians will be picked on, even if they are not Chinese, because we all "look the same" to Americans anyways.