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Women who call themselves, "Born again virgins"

Postby jamesbond » Sat May 25, 2013 1:10 am

What do you guys think about the women who call themselves "born again virgins?" My take is that these are girls who slept around in their teens and twenties and now that they are in their 30's, they want to get married and find a "nice guy" to settle down with.

I know that a lot of single girls at church call themselves "born again virgins" and this turns me off. I don't mind if she slept with one or two guys but if she slept with dozens of guys, I have no interest in her.

Maybe a more appropriate term would be "reformed slut." :lol:
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Postby Adama » Sat May 25, 2013 2:01 am

It would be acceptable if they could point to a Bible verse which says that a woman can become a virgin a second time. Until then, it is nonsense. At least I wouldnt want one.
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Postby Tsar » Sat May 25, 2013 4:51 am

There is no such thing as a "burn again virgin" and "reformed slut" is the more proper term.

Women would call themselves a "born again virgin" trying to overstate their worth to men. They might realize they destroyed their self-worth and have little value to give a man so they try to say they are moral and "born again." In reality they know that bad boys won't provide for them and they hope to be with a good man they would have rejected when they were younger, a virgin, and had more beauty (or more years of beauty).

Even if there was a religious book that said a woman can become a virgin a second time that would be a fallacy and a lie.

A girl can only be a virgin once. Some girls try and cheat by doing everything except intercourse and claim virginity when they are not virgins. The reason why those girls aren't virgins is because it's not just about a hymen or the type of sex. A girl is only a virgin if she has never had any sexual experience because virginity is physical, it is a bonding experience for most normal girls, and it is something a girl always remembers.

A "born again virgin" might abstain from having sex but that doesn't mean she's a virgin. The reason why girls are getting hymen reconstruction surgery, lying to men and claiming to be virgins, or giving themselves the title of "born again virgin" is because they are women who know that virginity is one of the traditional aspects of healthy relationships and most men would want to date and marry a virgin. It's one of the results of feminism and a dysfunctional society.

They all want to be promiscuous sluts and then they think they can get a little touch up to get themselves a good man.

Even if there was a Bible verse that said a woman could become a virgin a second time, why would that make a difference? I would rather go to hell than marry a slut. I would rather die one thousand deaths than marry a slut. The amount of shame and resentment I would feel would destroy me. That is why I also believe in the Bushido, especially the "Honor onto Death." A man losing his virginity to slut or marrying a slut is one of the most shameful experiences for a man. It destroys his honor, pride, and dignity.

How would you feel if you were with a hot girl and you were surfing the internet and stumble upon an amateur porn video. Maybe you were checking out her laptop she left on and somehow stumble upon a video file. You watch it discover that it's your hot girlfriend or wife and she's with an ex, a random guy, or a few guys doing all sorts of things with them. You are with her and you've been kissing her, you've been buying her things, and supporting her. She lied to you or hide that fact about herself. Most men wouldn't ever consider being with a slut in a relationship. What emotions, shame, or humiliation would that give you? Most girls are no better than what I just described even if they don't have a video. They still go from guy to guy (or having multiple guys) doing the things in porn videos.
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Postby Cornfed » Sat May 25, 2013 5:08 am

Tsar wrote:A man losing his virginity to slut or marrying a slut is one of the most shameful experiences for a man. It destroys his honor, pride, and dignity.

Of could you wouldnt want to marry a slut, but losing your virginity to a slut and casual sex with sluts is OK. That is what sluts are for.
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Postby Jester » Sat May 25, 2013 6:09 am

I agree that 'born-again virgin" is manipulative nonsense.

However a lot of girls regret their past when they do get engaged and married. Their regrets are appropriate. People do make mistakes, and then stop. It happens.

But if a girl says "born-again virgin" she is playing you. You don't get any till you put a ring on it.

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Re: Women who call themselves, "Born again virgins"

Postby Teal Lantern » Sat May 25, 2013 7:49 am

jamesbond wrote:What do you guys think about the women who call themselves "born again virgins?" My take is that these are girls who slept around in their teens and twenties and now that they are in their 30's, they want to get married and find a "nice guy" to settle down with.

I know that a lot of single girls at church call themselves "born again virgins" and this turns me off. I don't mind if she slept with one or two guys but if she slept with dozens of guys, I have no interest in her.

Maybe a more appropriate term would be "reformed slut." :lol:


I think they provide a warning to young men and comic relief to older ones. :wink:
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Postby well-informed » Sat May 25, 2013 3:46 pm

Bologna, trying to have the +++ market value of a virgin, without actually abstaining from the act of it. That's funny, you'd be a fool to believe in that term. Born-again virgin lollllz
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Postby Ghost » Sat May 25, 2013 10:39 pm

If they claim to be a Christian, then ask them to justify their concept of being a "born-again virgin" Biblically. And watch the hamster wheel spin like mad...

It's a bullshit concept of course. Remember, remember, remember...when a female brings up bullshit like this, either ignore it or question it. Never accept. Slut shaming needs to make a comeback.

Other than that, leave them to the born again beta suckers.
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Postby Tsar » Sun May 26, 2013 1:14 am

Jester wrote:Girls regret their past when they do get engaged and married. Their regrets are appropriate. People do make mistakes, and then stop. It happens.


It happens but it doesn't change she did, it doesn't make up for what she did, and she must know there will be consequences. Apology and regret might be good but she won't be a virgin or pure. She will always remember her previous partners and have compare them. Part of her will always feel something for her previous partners. Their regrets are appropriate and they might be sorry, but some good men should still reject those women so they can realize what they did was wrong. The only way new generations of girls learn is if they see and learn from their families the consequences that being a slut has. In many societies being a slut has no consequences because they can get attention, gifts, and after all years of being a slut they can find a husband they would have passed over because he was likely a good guy.
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Postby well-informed » Sun May 26, 2013 1:22 am

I tend to take what a lot of women say about God, with a grain of salt. Very few impress me with their meekness and their spiritual love for God.

A lot of them don't know what Biblical Christianity is about and that's just the truth.

As i'm reading the bible in the OT especially, there are consequences that the men suffer by hearkening/heeding unto the voice of woman, over the voice or commandment of God. Interesting how in 2013 its the same thing happening again for the believer or unbeliever.
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Postby anamericaninbangkok » Sun May 26, 2013 2:44 am

The very phrase born again virgin is a crock of shit.

After a particularly painful break-up I went on a one-year no sex sabbatical. An entire year. Did that make me a born again virgin after I had slept with a couple hundred women? I think not. A slut is a slut and no matter how you wrap the snatch (or pecker) you're still a slut.
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Postby marklambo » Sun May 26, 2013 5:41 am

I always laugh when I hear that term. It's a pathetic way for a used up woman to try to create more value for herself. It's like me going out tomorrow to buy a 20 year old used car and telling all my friends that it's a born again new car, even though it has 200,000 miles on it lol. "No guys, for real, it's new, it's reborn! Don't worry about that fading paint and engine knocking, it's really new now!"

These so called "born again sluts" , I mean "virgins" should just accept who they are. They're just living a lie and I'm sure deep down inside they know they feel like shit.
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Postby jamesbond » Sun May 26, 2013 1:00 pm

marklambo wrote:I always laugh when I hear that term. It's a pathetic way for a used up woman to try to create more value for herself. It's like me going out tomorrow to buy a 20 year old used car and telling all my friends that it's a born again new car, even though it has 200,000 miles on it lol. "No guys, for real, it's new, it's reborn! Don't worry about that fading paint and engine knocking, it's really new now!"

These so called "born again sluts" , I mean "virgins" should just accept who they are. They're just living a lie and I'm sure deep down inside they know they feel like shit.


I agree, it's a term used by women who are 'used up' to make themselves feel good.

It's funny how the church thinks this term is OK for women to use. This is why I am weary about meeting women at church, there are some good women you can meet at church functions but there a lot are women who should be avoided.

The divorce rate for born again Christians in America, is actually slightly higher than the national average! :shock:
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Postby marklambo » Sun May 26, 2013 7:08 pm

jamesbond wrote:
marklambo wrote:I always laugh when I hear that term. It's a pathetic way for a used up woman to try to create more value for herself. It's like me going out tomorrow to buy a 20 year old used car and telling all my friends that it's a born again new car, even though it has 200,000 miles on it lol. "No guys, for real, it's new, it's reborn! Don't worry about that fading paint and engine knocking, it's really new now!"

These so called "born again sluts" , I mean "virgins" should just accept who they are. They're just living a lie and I'm sure deep down inside they know they feel like shit.


I agree, it's a term used by women who are 'used up' to make themselves feel good.

It's funny how the church thinks this term is OK for women to use. This is why I am weary about meeting women at church, there are some good women you can meet at church functions but there a lot are women who should be avoided.

The divorce rate for born again Christians in America, is actually slightly higher than the national average! :shock:


Church girls are just as, if not, sluttier than normal women. That, I will tell you from personal experience lol. It's all a bullshit coverup plan that these women try to use. Either you meet a woman in church or a night club, she's really not that much different. That's American women for you....
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Postby Teal Lantern » Sun May 26, 2013 10:28 pm

marklambo wrote:Church girls are just as, if not, sluttier than normal women. That, I will tell you from personal experience lol. It's all a bullshit coverup plan that these women try to use. Either you meet a woman in church or a night club, she's really not that much different. That's American women for you....

Sometimes, she's still wearing the same outfit. :wink:
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