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American Beauty part 2

Postby DanielleNguyen » October 11th, 2013, 9:25 pm

In American society sluts seem to be super sexy. As a woman in America men see me as unsexy and well not up to their requirements. Most men in America seem to look for big breasts, tiny waist, and a big round butt. That to men in America is what is seen as super sexy. however, most these women who fit these qualities in America are super mean and horrible and most guys tend to go along with it.

THE PACT MENTALITY
Ever been so scarred that hearing a name makes you boil with resentment? For me those names are Tonya, Bethany, and Emily. In elementry, middle, and high school these girls seemed to be every man's fantasy. Bethany and Tonya were really beautiful. Bethany and Tonya both had long dark hair and perfect freaking teeth. They had been born with silver spoons in their mouth. Emily was a blue eyed blonde who was boy crazy and guys seemed to love it. By middle school they both were b cups and I was still in my training bra. By high school they were C and D cups and I was a AA. These girls were so cruel to people yet so many would go along with it. I was pushed into walls, thrown in a trash can, and even was punched in the face and locked in the dark in the boys locker room. Oy, high school was hell for me. Yet no one ever stood up for me or anyone else they bullied. One day in psychology class Emily, Tonya, and Bethany brought me three full trash bags of clothing. They made comments on the rags I supposedly wore and how the clothes could bring me some beauty maybe. As they continued Emily grabbed my hair and made fun of my unsexy poof ball of hair. She said she found orphan Annie. With the bullying the pact mentality took over and any guy who wanted in her pants or girl who wanted a shed of popularity joined in on the taunting.

PLASTIC SURGERY
Ok back to the perfect girls. I wonder if anyone notices the perfect beautiful girls are the ones who usually want plastic surgeries. Oh I need my breasts bigger because my perky C cup isn't enough. Oh I need my teeth whitened and butt implants! There are even American shows, BridalPlasty, where girls compete for plastic surgery. I look at it and think really you all are so freaking pretty what the hell? I never understood plastic surgery and the risks out weight far more than the benefits. Half the time I wonder why didn't their fiance stop them? I can't be all rude on the subject, because I have thought about implants because of people's comments. I am a 36A. However, I decided not to because I want nothing to interfere with breast milk production. I plan to breast feed all my children for health reasons that should be obvious to the world.
Also more Americans, because of plastic surgery look like barbie dolls and that makes the average women look much less attractive. However, while I age gracefully, most of you are going be ugly as hell 60 years in the future. I'll be the sexy one then. Age naturally and gracefully. Oh yeah!

TANNING
As funny as this may seem I am scared of a tanning bed. I go bungee jumping and everything else but no tanning beds. However, I see many American women go in tanning beds weekly. Back to the aging thing, tanning beds make wrinkles and help premature aging not to mention the cancer rates.

VAGINAS
O.k. maybe I am very odd for writing about vaginas but Americans contribute to the beauty of those too. Lots of women go waxing. I've seen 13 years old do this. When talking to them they say its for their boyfriends.

CLOTHING
Trashy is sexy in the American society. Put on shorts showing your butt cheeks and expose most your breasts and let your nipples show through your see through shirt and walla you are sexy. Maybe it could be only my view but to me seeing women like this say two things, " easy and sexually active." Men never pay attention to me because I wear skirts to the floor and baggy shirts. I am shy to show my form of body.



TO THE MEN WHAT YOU SHOULD LOOK FOR WHEN DATING A AMERICAN
I know this may be odd saying this but look for the heavyset woman or the one who is in baggy clothes with no breasts. A big majority of the girls men don't look at end up being really sweet hearts. One of my friends is 350lbs and a single mother of five. Shes a really good woman, a hardworking mother, and though she may not be outwardly beautiful she's beautiful on the inside.
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Re: American Beauty part 2

Postby nicho12 » October 11th, 2013, 9:46 pm

DanielleNguyen wrote:In American society sluts seem to be super sexy. As a woman in America men see me as unsexy and well not up to their requirements. Most men in America seem to look for big breasts, tiny waist, and a big round butt. That to men in America is what is seen as super sexy. however, most these women who fit these qualities in America are super mean and horrible and most guys tend to go along with it.

THE PACT MENTALITY
Ever been so scarred that hearing a name makes you boil with resentment? For me those names are Tonya, Bethany, and Emily. In elementry, middle, and high school these girls seemed to be every man's fantasy. Bethany and Tonya were really beautiful. Bethany and Tonya both had long dark hair and perfect freaking teeth. They had been born with silver spoons in their mouth. Emily was a blue eyed blonde who was boy crazy and guys seemed to love it. By middle school they both were b cups and I was still in my training bra. By high school they were C and D cups and I was a AA. These girls were so cruel to people yet so many would go along with it. I was pushed into walls, thrown in a trash can, and even was punched in the face and locked in the dark in the boys locker room. Oy, high school was hell for me. Yet no one ever stood up for me or anyone else they bullied. One day in psychology class Emily, Tonya, and Bethany brought me three full trash bags of clothing. They made comments on the rags I supposedly wore and how the clothes could bring me some beauty maybe. As they continued Emily grabbed my hair and made fun of my unsexy poof ball of hair. She said she found orphan Annie. With the bullying the pact mentality took over and any guy who wanted in her pants or girl who wanted a shed of popularity joined in on the taunting.

PLASTIC SURGERY
Ok back to the perfect girls. I wonder if anyone notices the perfect beautiful girls are the ones who usually want plastic surgeries. Oh I need my breasts bigger because my perky C cup isn't enough. Oh I need my teeth whitened and butt implants! There are even American shows, BridalPlasty, where girls compete for plastic surgery. I look at it and think really you all are so freaking pretty what the hell? I never understood plastic surgery and the risks out weight far more than the benefits. Half the time I wonder why didn't their fiance stop them? I can't be all rude on the subject, because I have thought about implants because of people's comments. I am a 36A. However, I decided not to because I want nothing to interfere with breast milk production. I plan to breast feed all my children for health reasons that should be obvious to the world.
Also more Americans, because of plastic surgery look like barbie dolls and that makes the average women look much less attractive. However, while I age gracefully, most of you are going be ugly as hell 60 years in the future. I'll be the sexy one then. Age naturally and gracefully. Oh yeah!

TANNING
As funny as this may seem I am scared of a tanning bed. I go bungee jumping and everything else but no tanning beds. However, I see many American women go in tanning beds weekly. Back to the aging thing, tanning beds make wrinkles and help premature aging not to mention the cancer rates.

v****as
O.k. maybe I am very odd for writing about v****as but Americans contribute to the beauty of those too. Lots of women go waxing. I've seen 13 years old do this. When talking to them they say its for their boyfriends.

CLOTHING
Trashy is sexy in the American society. Put on shorts showing your butt cheeks and expose most your breasts and let your nipples show through your see through shirt and walla you are sexy. Maybe it could be only my view but to me seeing women like this say two things, " easy and sexually active." Men never pay attention to me because I wear skirts to the floor and baggy shirts. I am shy to show my form of body.



TO THE MEN WHAT YOU SHOULD LOOK FOR WHEN DATING A AMERICAN
I know this may be odd saying this but look for the heavyset woman or the one who is in baggy clothes with no breasts. A big majority of the girls men don't look at end up being really sweet hearts. One of my friends is 350lbs and a single mother of five. Shes a really good woman, a hardworking mother, and though she may not be outwardly beautiful she's beautiful on the inside.


I wish I could go back 100 years back when Men were men and women were women, When women wore skirts and girls wore dresses, Men wore suits and boys wore shorts
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Postby DanielleNguyen » October 11th, 2013, 9:51 pm

the 60s... irronically me too...minus the racism.
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Re: American Beauty part 2

Postby jtest28 » October 11th, 2013, 10:06 pm

DanielleNguyen wrote:TO THE MEN WHAT YOU SHOULD LOOK FOR WHEN DATING A AMERICAN
I know this may be odd saying this but look for the heavyset woman or the one who is in baggy clothes with no breasts. A big majority of the girls men don't look at end up being really sweet hearts. One of my friends is 350lbs and a single mother of five. Shes a really good woman, a hardworking mother, and though she may not be outwardly beautiful she's beautiful on the inside.

Disagree, men should date their equals, kind of like how women should. I'm built to the max, should I be with a 350lb woman? It always has amazed the daylights out of me this double standard women have in this country, hell even some foreign women do. Good looking guys should date their fat friend, but "oh, shes so sweet". You never hear women putting pressure on slim women to date some fat slob of a man though. Instead hes told he needs to lose weight, present himself better, etc. Total hypocrisy.
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Postby DanielleNguyen » October 11th, 2013, 10:09 pm

not exactly sir. i have dated heavy set men and I am only 125 lbs. I look for personality. That is what i am getting at.
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Postby jtest28 » October 11th, 2013, 10:11 pm

Oh, so you married a heavy set man then? Good for you. Lets see the pics.
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Postby DanielleNguyen » October 11th, 2013, 10:28 pm

No David and I broke up after he kicked my ankle with steel toe boots and broke it. I married Duc. He is 200lbs but i don't think he's fat.
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Postby DanielleNguyen » October 11th, 2013, 10:29 pm

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Postby jtest28 » October 11th, 2013, 10:31 pm

When you marry a 350 pounder, THEN you can tell fit men to marry fat women. . .
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Postby DanielleNguyen » October 11th, 2013, 10:36 pm

lol ok sir. I was just saying personality is important in compatability. I guess physical attraction can be important too
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Re: American Beauty part 2

Postby Tsar » October 12th, 2013, 1:21 am

DanielleNguyen wrote:In American society sluts seem to be super sexy. As a woman in America men see me as unsexy and well not up to their requirements. Most men in America seem to look for big breasts, tiny waist, and a big round butt. That to men in America is what is seen as super sexy. however, most these women who fit these qualities in America are super mean and horrible and most guys tend to go along with it.


I agree with what you're saying. Sluts are very sexy and are desired by many men because of their looks. Although I look for an attractive girl that has a great toned body and larger breasts, I also look for virtues, especially chastity which is a one of my greatest deal breakers. Kindness (or compassion) is another virtue which I look for because I don't want a mean person. I want a girl to show me kindness and to demonstrate that she has a golden heart. Larger breasts is inherently desired because it's nature's best sign of fertility and fertility. It's difficult to fight against nature.

DanielleNguyen wrote:PLASTIC SURGERY
Ok back to the perfect girls. I wonder if anyone notices the perfect beautiful girls are the ones who usually want plastic surgeries. Oh I need my breasts bigger because my perky C cup isn't enough. Oh I need my teeth whitened and butt implants! There are even American shows, BridalPlasty, where girls compete for plastic surgery. I look at it and think really you all are so freaking pretty what the hell? I never understood plastic surgery and the risks out weight far more than the benefits. Half the time I wonder why didn't their fiance stop them? I can't be all rude on the subject, because I have thought about implants because of people's comments. I am a 36A. However, I decided not to because I want nothing to interfere with breast milk production. I plan to breast feed all my children for health reasons that should be obvious to the world.
Also more Americans, because of plastic surgery look like barbie dolls and that makes the average women look much less attractive. However, while I age gracefully, most of you are going be ugly as hell 60 years in the future. I'll be the sexy one then. Age naturally and gracefully. Oh yeah!


I don't agree with plastic surgery, especially breast enlargement. People should remain natural. I would agree with hormone use if it would would because it uses a natural biological chemical to try to get organs in the body to grow or change an aspect of oneself.

DanielleNguyen wrote:TANNING
As funny as this may seem I am scared of a tanning bed. I go bungee jumping and everything else but no tanning beds. However, I see many American women go in tanning beds weekly. Back to the aging thing, tanning beds make wrinkles and help premature aging not to mention the cancer rates.


I agree that tanning beds are bad and shouldn't be used. They might be good for limited use for people that want to remove tan lines for beauty purposes but I agree they shouldn't be used often.


DanielleNguyen wrote:v****as
O.k. maybe I am very odd for writing about v****as but Americans contribute to the beauty of those too. Lots of women go waxing. I've seen 13 years old do this. When talking to them they say its for their boyfriends.


I would be turned off if a girl had a bush. At the very least it is proper hygiene to trim. Although I am I virgin I would expect any girl I might marry to be completely shaven or waxed if I were to ever have sex with her.

DanielleNguyen wrote:CLOTHING
Trashy is sexy in the American society. Put on shorts showing your butt cheeks and expose most your breasts and let your nipples show through your see through shirt and walla you are sexy. Maybe it could be only my view but to me seeing women like this say two things, " easy and sexually active." Men never pay attention to me because I wear skirts to the floor and baggy shirts. I am shy to show my form of body.


I agree that dressing like a porn star or hooker isn't sexy. Many European girls can dress sexy (and not in a trashy way). Many American girls wear terrible clothes that either make them look like a whore or like they're going to bed. I know I wouldn't want the girl I marry dressing in a trashy way but I won't like her to dress very sexy for me and be very stylish whenever she goes out with me.

DanielleNguyen wrote:TO THE MEN WHAT YOU SHOULD LOOK FOR WHEN DATING A AMERICAN
I know this may be odd saying this but look for the heavyset woman or the one who is in baggy clothes with no breasts. A big majority of the girls men don't look at end up being really sweet hearts. One of my friends is 350lbs and a single mother of five. Shes a really good woman, a hardworking mother, and though she may not be outwardly beautiful she's beautiful on the inside.


I agree that those types of women could be very nice people but in reality most men won't go for those women. In human nature men are drawn towards the most fertile and physically attractive women. Physical beauty is a sign that she is very desirable and usually an indication of her fertility. Many men can't reject their desires and fight against their nature, some men can overlook those factors and accept anyone. Also, very heavyset people are at risk for health problems like diabetes, arthritis, injuries from falls, heart attacks, and strokes. The obesity rate in America is mainly caused by the diets of most Americans (both men and women). Genetically modified foods, high fructose corn syrup, processed foods, constant snacking, and too many empty calories from soft drinks.
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Postby jtest28 » October 12th, 2013, 2:05 am

I already dated a 300lb woman. It was nice and fun pissing off the thin, pretty women, who would say things like "why is he with her", or "she must have money". I did enjoy that shit. But the smell almost turned me gay. Never again. Next time it will be at least an average girl.
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Postby Contrarian Expatriate » October 12th, 2013, 11:24 am

DanielleNguyen wrote:https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=595760437150847&set=a.103252563068306.5067.100001506883733&type=1&theater

me my husband and baby boy

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Re: American Beauty part 2

Postby Teal Lantern » October 12th, 2013, 1:30 pm

DanielleNguyen wrote:TO THE MEN WHAT YOU SHOULD LOOK FOR WHEN DATING A AMERICAN
I know this may be odd saying this but look for the heavyset woman or the one who is in baggy clothes with no breasts. A big majority of the girls men don't look at end up being really sweet hearts. One of my friends is 350lbs and a single mother of five. Shes a really good woman, a hardworking mother, and though she may not be outwardly beautiful she's beautiful on the inside.

She has 5 kids, so she's been looked at (and seen to) on multiple occasions....
... unless there's an epidemic of blind men running about with their d!cks out.
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Postby DanielleNguyen » October 12th, 2013, 5:48 pm

hey why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free..right. thats a saying my grandma use to say. lol
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