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Young Hot Girls Are The Dregs The World Over

Postby rudder » November 8th, 2013, 10:02 pm

WARNING: I'm going to talk about a pattern I've started to notice with older foreign women. Some generalizations follow.

Here's a hypothetical question: Would you marry a foreign woman roughly twenty years older than you? How about just have a serious relationship? I know the question probably sounds absurd for a guy 35 years of age or older. But how about if you're around my age? For me that would be a woman in her 40's.

I know there are obvious cons to such a relationship: You're kind of looked at weirdly by everyone, the woman's physical appearance is starting to decline, there might be some psychological baggage where she doesn't feel that it's "right" or that she deserves you.

OK OK, I won't argue those points. But, just assume for a second that this woman really had everything else going for her, and was your absolute dream woman otherwise. Why not?

In general I find single, older women to be more appreciative of your efforts. They tend to make a greater effort themselves to cultivate and maintain a relationship. They realize that their p***y isn't the be-all, end-all of being a desireable woman. They feel LUCKY to be with a nice younger man. They actually have personalities, and you can have deep conversations with them. They're not completely narcissistic attention whores. They don't have a million other guys lined up. They are secure and not needy. And they are more fond of traditional gender roles.

Good luck finding those qualities with the iPhone generation!
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Postby have2fly » November 9th, 2013, 12:36 am

I somewhat agree. However, I still prefer the risk of marrying younger girl or not marrying at all. Older women from FSU write me every day, I am using Winston's website. Most of them have kids, about 80%. I am still young and some women have kids close to my age! WTF :) This signals all sorts of trouble in future family relationship. Also older p***y is already old and will get even older soon, fluffy and saggy skin etc. Also health issues. I lived with one girl once, she was very hot for U.S. standards. In about 3 weeks living with her I found out she needs tooth implants and all kinds of other tooth work to get done, it would cost over $12,000! That girl was JUST 25! Healthcare costs in the U.S. are insane, why would I want someone old and saggy to waste money on all those hospital visits in near future?

I do agree that older women already understand a lot. They've been played and dumped and got much smarter, learned to appreciate the value and exactly on the spot about iPhones - older women do not seem to care much about Facebook. However, I know I am worth more than that. I deserve young good looking girl next to me or I would rather live on my own by myself.
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Re: Young Hot Girls Are The Dregs The World Over

Postby Teal Lantern » November 9th, 2013, 12:39 am

rudder wrote:Here's a hypothetical question: Would you marry a foreign woman roughly twenty years older than you? How about just have a serious relationship? I know the question probably sounds absurd for a guy 35 years of age or older. But how about if you're around my age? For me that would be a woman in her 40's.

I'm gonna need photos ... of her financial statements. 8)
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Postby jtest28 » November 9th, 2013, 1:13 am

Out of all the foreign women I've corresponded with, the one who was trying hardest to make things work was an older Ukrainian woman. (43 y.o. and I was 34) This is where being 30 something is an advantage over being 25 because being that damn young, the woman may not even want you. But I've always been more attracted to older women, even 20 years older when I was 25. Interestingly, now that I'm 39, I still see women in their 40s the same as I did at 25, but now they like me much better. One problem though, as mentioned, is too much past this age, they look old to me, so say I'm 39 now, add 20 and you get a 60 y.o.! I see that as being just too old. And if a 25 yo guy goes to Russia, and decides to think ahead and not go 20 years older, maybe just 10 or so, then that means the women would be in their 30s, and therefore not in that "young adult during soviet times generation".

In general I find single, older women to be more appreciative of your efforts. They tend to make a greater effort themselves to cultivate and maintain a relationship. They realize that their p***y isn't the be-all, end-all of being a desirable woman. They feel LUCKY to be with a nice younger man. They actually have personalities, and you can have deep conversations with them. They're not completely narcissistic attention whores. They don't have a million other guys lined up. They are secure and not needy. And they are more fond of traditional gender roles.
Every sentence written here is spot on! I would say the only thing my older woman f***ed up on was trying to rush me into coming to see her, and she did this by trying to make me think a bunch of local men were now starting to pursue her. :twisted: I don't know if someone gave her bad advice or what. It was really out of character for her. Other than that, she was a dream to correspond with. Smarter than younger women, more thinking into the future, didn't seem to mind living in any old house, actually preferred to live out in the country, (this is out of the question for the under 40 crowd over there)
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Re: Young Hot Girls Are The Dregs The World Over

Postby OutWest » November 9th, 2013, 5:54 am

rudder wrote:WARNING: I'm going to talk about a pattern I've started to notice with older foreign women. Some generalizations follow.

Here's a hypothetical question: Would you marry a foreign woman roughly twenty years older than you? How about just have a serious relationship? I know the question probably sounds absurd for a guy 35 years of age or older. But how about if you're around my age? For me that would be a woman in her 40's.

I know there are obvious cons to such a relationship: You're kind of looked at weirdly by everyone, the woman's physical appearance is starting to decline, there might be some psychological baggage where she doesn't feel that it's "right" or that she deserves you.

OK OK, I won't argue those points. But, just assume for a second that this woman really had everything else going for her, and was your absolute dream woman otherwise. Why not?

In general I find single, older women to be more appreciative of your efforts. They tend to make a greater effort themselves to cultivate and maintain a relationship. They realize that their p***y isn't the be-all, end-all of being a desireable woman. They feel LUCKY to be with a nice younger man. They actually have personalities, and you can have deep conversations with them. They're not completely narcissistic attention whores. They don't have a million other guys lined up. They are secure and not needy. And they are more fond of traditional gender roles.

Good luck finding those qualities with the iPhone generation!


Grandmas might have the coolest personalities of all in some cases...but that does not mean
most men want to sleep with one.

So y'all help yourself to those high mileage matronly women. For the rest of us...
old bulls like young grass! Women do NOT carry baggage well at all, at all, at all.
That is why men over thousands of years have figured out that starting fresh with a younger woman
was a good idea. But of course, those who do not agree simply leave more young hot chicks
for the rest of us.

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Re: Young Hot Girls Are The Dregs The World Over

Postby Teal Lantern » November 9th, 2013, 6:18 am

OutWest wrote:
rudder wrote:In general I find single, older women to be more appreciative of your efforts. They tend to make a greater effort themselves to cultivate and maintain a relationship. They realize that their p***y isn't the be-all, end-all of being a desireable woman. They feel LUCKY to be with a nice younger man. They actually have personalities, and you can have deep conversations with them. They're not completely narcissistic attention whores. They don't have a million other guys lined up. They are secure and not needy. And they are more fond of traditional gender roles.

Good luck finding those qualities with the iPhone generation!


Grandmas might have the coolest personalities of all in some cases...but that does not mean
most men want to sleep with one.

So y'all help yourself to those high mileage matronly women. For the rest of us...
old bulls like young grass! Women do NOT carry baggage well at all, at all, at all.
That is why men over thousands of years have figured out that starting fresh with a younger woman
was a good idea. But of course, those who do not agree simply leave more young hot chicks
for the rest of us.

Outwest


In what's left of the west, you can find Grandmas who are under 40 and own an Iphone. The worst of both worlds. :lol:
I saw an article a few weeks ago about milfs and daughters who go out partying together. :lol:
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Re: Young Hot Girls Are The Dregs The World Over

Postby OutWest » November 9th, 2013, 6:37 am

Teal Lantern wrote:
OutWest wrote:
rudder wrote:In general I find single, older women to be more appreciative of your efforts. They tend to make a greater effort themselves to cultivate and maintain a relationship. They realize that their p***y isn't the be-all, end-all of being a desireable woman. They feel LUCKY to be with a nice younger man. They actually have personalities, and you can have deep conversations with them. They're not completely narcissistic attention whores. They don't have a million other guys lined up. They are secure and not needy. And they are more fond of traditional gender roles.

Good luck finding those qualities with the iPhone generation!


Grandmas might have the coolest personalities of all in some cases...but that does not mean
most men want to sleep with one.

So y'all help yourself to those high mileage matronly women. For the rest of us...
old bulls like young grass! Women do NOT carry baggage well at all, at all, at all.
That is why men over thousands of years have figured out that starting fresh with a younger woman
was a good idea. But of course, those who do not agree simply leave more young hot chicks
for the rest of us.

Outwest


In what's left of the west, you can find Grandmas who are under 40 and own an Iphone. The worst of both worlds. :lol:
I saw an article a few weeks ago about milfs and daughters who go out partying together. :lol:


I'm sure...all around yuk. If some want some kind of "Cougar" who am I to do anything but Laugh?
Think of how many men have been dumping in some cougar...for men who are still pre-viagra, a hot chick is still better than hot flashes!
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Postby rudder » November 11th, 2013, 8:12 am

jtest28 wrote:Out of all the foreign women I've corresponded with, the one who was trying hardest to make things work was an older Ukrainian woman. (43 y.o. and I was 34) This is where being 30 something is an advantage over being 25 because being that damn young, the woman may not even want you. But I've always been more attracted to older women, even 20 years older when I was 25. Interestingly, now that I'm 39, I still see women in their 40s the same as I did at 25, but now they like me much better. One problem though, as mentioned, is too much past this age, they look old to me, so say I'm 39 now, add 20 and you get a 60 y.o.! I see that as being just too old. And if a 25 yo guy goes to Russia, and decides to think ahead and not go 20 years older, maybe just 10 or so, then that means the women would be in their 30s, and therefore not in that "young adult during soviet times generation".

In general I find single, older women to be more appreciative of your efforts. They tend to make a greater effort themselves to cultivate and maintain a relationship. They realize that their p***y isn't the be-all, end-all of being a desirable woman. They feel LUCKY to be with a nice younger man. They actually have personalities, and you can have deep conversations with them. They're not completely narcissistic attention whores. They don't have a million other guys lined up. They are secure and not needy. And they are more fond of traditional gender roles.
Every sentence written here is spot on! I would say the only thing my older woman f***ed up on was trying to rush me into coming to see her, and she did this by trying to make me think a bunch of local men were now starting to pursue her. :twisted: I don't know if someone gave her bad advice or what. It was really out of character for her. Other than that, she was a dream to correspond with. Smarter than younger women, more thinking into the future, didn't seem to mind living in any old house, actually preferred to live out in the country, (this is out of the question for the under 40 crowd over there)


Thanks for your considerate response. Personally, I doubt I would ever get too serious with a woman 20 years older than me, but I'd definitely enjoy them as a nice short term girlfriend.
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Postby Mr Natural » November 11th, 2013, 9:55 pm

Liking them young is in most guys genes, but that's a physical attraction. I have often thought that the perfect woman might have an 18 year old body with a 50 year old brain. Very very difficult to find though.
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Postby Teal Lantern » November 11th, 2013, 11:28 pm

Mr Natural wrote:Liking them young is in most guys genes, but that's a physical attraction. I have often thought that the perfect woman might have an 18 year old body with a 50 year old brain. Very very difficult to find though.


Er ... bang the daughter and talk to the mom? :razz:
http://nypost.com/2013/10/21/i-party-wi ... nyc-clubs/
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Postby OutWest » November 11th, 2013, 11:38 pm

Teal Lantern wrote:
Mr Natural wrote:Liking them young is in most guys genes, but that's a physical attraction. I have often thought that the perfect woman might have an 18 year old body with a 50 year old brain. Very very difficult to find though.


Er ... bang the daughter and talk to the mom? :razz:
http://nypost.com/2013/10/21/i-party-wi ... nyc-clubs/


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Postby rudder » November 22nd, 2013, 6:18 am

Teal Lantern wrote:
Mr Natural wrote:Liking them young is in most guys genes, but that's a physical attraction. I have often thought that the perfect woman might have an 18 year old body with a 50 year old brain. Very very difficult to find though.


Er ... bang the daughter and talk to the mom? :razz:
http://nypost.com/2013/10/21/i-party-wi ... nyc-clubs/


Unfortunately it doesn't work like that. You'll most likely have to talk to the daughter too. If you can talk to the daughter long enough without your IQ dropping too far in the process, then maybe you'll be able to figure out how to bed her. That is if you can even manage to get hard after her vapid personality has drained you of your inspiration.
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Postby Hero » November 24th, 2013, 6:27 pm

In the USA, I see a lot more attractive older women (40+) than younger women (20s). The only explanation I can think of is that the 40+ women grew up in a time when women were pressured to look good, so they take care of themselves. The girls in their 20s were raised in a time when women were told "You're beautiful just the way you are, don't change a thing"
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