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How to spot a golddigger

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Hero
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How to spot a golddigger

Post by Hero » January 4th, 2014, 10:12 pm

One of my lady friends in the Dominican Republic just told me that she may not have money to return to school next semester. Man, if I had a nickel for every time I heard that sob story! Anyway, give it to me straight: is she after my money?

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Post by ladislav » January 5th, 2014, 12:40 am

Money for school and hospitals and well as lack of questions about you and your interests are the tell tale signs of a gold digger.
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Post by Hero » January 5th, 2014, 3:00 am

Maybe I should test her by offering her money.

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Post by C.J. » January 5th, 2014, 3:17 am

ladislav wrote:Money for school and hospitals and well as lack of questions about you and your interests are the tell tale signs of a gold digger.
Even honest women can ask for lots of money for whatever reason. You should be asking yourself "What do I want from HER? If it's sex/companionship, what is it worth to me? Am I willing to cut my losses if things turn sour?"

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Re: How to spot a golddigger

Post by chibolo » January 5th, 2014, 6:05 pm

Hero wrote:One of my lady friends in the Dominican Republic just told me that she may not have money to return to school next semester. Man, if I had a nickel for every time I heard that sob story! Anyway, give it to me straight: is she after my money?
Very obviously a gold digger. From what I have heard a lots of Dominicanas do this. I would stop talking to her immediately unless you don't mind having an interesada as a girlfriend.

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Post by Ghost » January 5th, 2014, 6:45 pm

Why not just keep talking to her and see if she eventually asks? My girlfriend (I've met her of course) has told me numerous stories of hardship and never asked me for money. If you like her enough to want to keep her, then no need to abruptly drop her without finding out first.

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Post by Hero » January 5th, 2014, 8:26 pm

Ghost wrote:Why not just keep talking to her and see if she eventually asks? My girlfriend (I've met her of course) has told me numerous stories of hardship and never asked me for money. If you like her enough to want to keep her, then no need to abruptly drop her without finding out first.
That sounds like the best course of action. I have a female friend in the Philippines, who was worried that she wouldn't have enough money to visit her family at Christmas. Since I've actually met her in person, I figured it would be OK to offer her the boat fare. But she declined and said she was shy about taking the money. So, you could be right; my Dominican friend might just be crying on my shoulder.

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