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Postby Winston » Thu Mar 13, 2014 7:45 am

Banano wrote:Have you seen any of my Russia videos? I've posted many hours of it now


Sure, that is the final proof, btw you never scored Russian girl, even hooker refused to have sex with you. Girls in the video were laughing AT you not with you:)
If you are so successful with foreign women you would be somewhere overseas chasing p***y instead of wanking in mom's basement and writing about UFOs


How many hours of my videos have you seen? None? Only a few?

When did I say I never scored any Russian girl? I said only a few. I never said zero. Banano, I already banned you before for repeating lies that were disproven long ago. Have you not learned your lesson? Are you desperate to try to bring others down?

What countries have you been to? None? There are no trip reports or photos of you and your girls. Who are you to talk? You are just a BS talker. Not a doer.

I did score some Russian girls:

- my infamous Katya
- a blonde in Volgograd named Olga
- my girlfriend Alina in Yoshkar-Ola
- a hot olive complexion girl named Jenya in Yoshkar-Ola
- a blonde friend named Irina in Izhevsk

Not many. But it's not zero. It's all recorded in detail in my journals. You can download them at the Blogs link in the top menu. Do you know how to navigate a website, or are you too dumb and degenerate of a monkey to do so?

In addition, I kissed and french kissed, many more girls as well. That counts too. At least I was in the game.

Why do you get pleasure out of lying and making shit up about others? What do you get out of it? Pleasure?

How would you like it if someone spread random lies about you? What's your real name? I'll post your real name and spread lies about you. Would you like that?

Consider this another warning. Spreading random lies is grounds for banning again. Didn't you learn from your last banning?

I don't care if girls laughed at me in some of the video clips. I enjoyed it and had fun. At least stuff was happening. I'd rather have girls laugh at me than totally ignore me. At least those girls spent time with me all day and weren't in a rush to be somewhere. So what? I had fun and enjoyed it.

We are talking 38 hours of video here. Some were laughing at me, others were laughing with me. Others were just sweet and polite. Don't generalize 38 hours based on a few clips. It's like you are so stupid that you judge 38 hours of videos by just one small clip and assume that's all there is. So stupid.

Are you even competent enough to do basic math? I'll bet you failed in basic Algebra. What's your IQ? Probably below 100?
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Postby Winston » Thu Mar 13, 2014 8:27 am

Arabian prince,
I don't understand your opening post. Why do you think that no one here in this forum has ever gotten a date overseas? If you think that, you are clearly insane or dishonest. What gave you that strange idea?

That's like saying that Hitler never persecuted any Jews or said anything negative about them. Anyone who says that is dishonest or crazy.

FYI, Hoca went to the Philippines and did find love. His girl was very attached to him, but she wouldn't put out and wanted to save her virginity for marriage. He should have left her and found another girl but he was too weak willed.

Question for Arabian prince and Banano:

Arabian prince and Banano, I have a question for you. How do you explain these accounts below? Notice that most of them are NOT about the Philippines.

http://www.happierabroad.com/ebook/Page74b.htm

http://www.happierabroad.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=4077

"Hi all, well my story is about the same as yours, but here it is anyway: for a long time I blamed myself for my lack of success with American women. So, I worked hard for many years to improve myself to the point where I would be worthy of a decent American woman. I got myself a Ph.D., then a job at an Ivy-league school, got myself into excellent physical shape, took up lots of cool hobbies like skiing, tennis, ballroom dance... and I was still getting rejected by women who had no business being picky! I had my epiphany when I was 33 and dating an overweight, 42-year-old, divorced mother who dumped me because I didn't have a "wild side". So then I did some traveling to (among other places) Hungary, the Czech Republic, and the Philippines, and beautiful young women couldn't keep their hands off of me! Dating is like real estate- the 3 most important factors are location, location, location!"


http://www.happierabroad.com/FanMail.htm

"Hi Winston,

Wow, what a great news!!!

Winston, you are a pioneer. You are inspiring Asian American men everywhere to take the plunge and travel to Russia (or Ukraine or Belarus.)

Yesterday I went to see Nutcracker Ballet with a beautiful 26 year old Minsk girl I have been writing emails to. She held my hands and treated me most tenderly. Almost like a boyfriend she loves. Wow!!! Imagine that. I am a 46 year old Asian American guy who had NO American girlfriends, no sex with white American girls and of course no marriage and no family in all my life in USA. I could scarcely believe I was not dreaming throughout that date. It was so unreal that this beautiful girl treated me so well.

The plain fact is that most Asian American men are treated so shabbily by American girls. We are simply zero to them. And most Asian American men are totally discouraged IMO (in my opinion). They think they have absolutely no chance dating a beautiful girl of their dreams. Well, Winston, you have shown that it can be done. Not in USA of course, but in FSU (former Soviet Union) countries. Here, it just feels so good to be treated as a man for a change! And you don't have to be a great looking investment banker guy. Some women here just appreciate tender attention. For some women, even just companionship is enough!

I consider coming to Minsk to be one of the very best decisions I have ever made in my life. And hopefully, I will not go back to USA. I like to marry a beautiful Belarussian girl and live here permanently."


http://www.happierabroad.com/FanMail.htm

"I could not agree more on the sorry state of American women (in terms of dating in general). For me, Chinese women (in China) have been sooooo good, and they are thin and hot; they are well edcuated and will do everything for you. The guys who get stuck here in North America are, well, stuck. This is not even to mention the physical state of the women here; most American women over 30 are obese (not just over-weight). And they are used; who knows how many STDs they have had. I feel sorry for them sometimes.

I applaude you courage and wish you the best.

ZN"


http://www.happierabroad.com/forum/view ... =6394#6394

"I have seen that because my personality remains unchanged, as I go from country to country the reactions of women to me are incredibly different. Why do I attract women in one country and not in another? Because of different cultures and values that they have vis-a vis men. When I lived in Russia as a teenager, girls would write me notes, come and see me in the house even if uninvited, tell their friends how much they were in love with me. When in America, all of that suddenly was gone and women would pass me by steely-eyed with not even a look of curiosity on their faces. I simply stopped existing as a man."


http://www.happierabroad.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=2412

"I've never been to the Philippines, Winston, but after spending a month in Thailand I'm willing to believe everything you say about it.

It's not hard to meet girls in Thailand, it's hard to get rid of them. Not just bar-girls either - although there is a delightful abundance of those - but regular Thai women. There's a rumor that Thai women won't marry Western men, that only the lower classes do, and so on - but it's not true at all. Thai women of all classes are interested in Western guys.

That said, the girls from the north, from Issan chiefly, figure disproportionately in the plans of farangs (Westerners) because these girls are the ones who work in the bars and massage parlors of Bangkok and Pattaya, and to the Western eye they're very attractive, despite the Thai preference for lighter skin as noted in my earlier post.

That was my first trip abroad, Winston, and it has convinced me that your position that Western guys can have a better life in other countries is absolutely correct. More men die of happiness in Thailand than heart disease, cancer, and stroke combined..."


http://www.happierabroad.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=1898

“I was very nervous around women, I found it nearly impossible to engage a woman in a conversation. I was convinced that was the reason I couldn't get dates. I was angry at myself for not being able to overcome this, but trying harder only made it worse. I spent a lot of time thinking about it and went to a doctor and was prescribed anti-anxiety medications but they didn't really help.

This problem came to an unexpected halt when I traveled to Asia and within a week I learned that I am really only abnormally nervous around American women. When I thought about it, this actually made perfect sense.

When I'm in a country like Thailand or the Philippines, I know that I am desirable to the women there (I get reassured of that everyday). So even if I get turned down by a woman, she probably has a good reason to say no, and she will be flattered rather than act like I'm some creep.

When I'm overseas, I don't subconsciously feel like I'm doing something wrong by flirting with a woman.

What it boils down to, is that foreign women are an entirely different species than western women. If I had been told 2 years ago that my love shyness/social anxiety with women could be solved simply by changing the type of women that I was pursuing, I probably wouldn't have believed it. It's one of those things you have to experience to fully understand.â€￾


http://whatmenthinkofwomen.blogspot.com ... -suck.html

“Absolutely true! Every word in the 10 reasons. I was married to an American woman for 14 years. I left the marriage a hollow shell, a broken man. Why couldn't I do anything right? Everything was my fault, right? I must have been the evil bastard she described! Long story short = the AW got the house, and the 500K of capital gains (California). Not to mention my heart andf soul. I licked my wounds for 5 years, feeling bad about myself.

Then, I discovered Mexico. At the age of 42, I found a new life. I met a fantastic woman... loving, selfless, sharing, caring, and did I mention drop-dead gorgeous? I am now living in Southern Mexico, completely happy. I have been married to my Oaxaquena for 3 years, and the heat just gets hotter. We actually appreciate each other and life together is a 2 way street. She is always at my side with encouragement and support. And no, we don't place a lot of value on material things. When I am up in the states on business, or to visit my side of the family, I am quickly ready to come home. I laugh at the poor bastards I see chasing tail with their tongues hanging out. I don't give any american woman any thought except what a kid must think after the first time he touches a hot stove. I have been relieved of the sickness the shallow ones!

One need only sit in a coffee shop in a mall for 5 minutes to see the problem in its stark reality. Watch the women as they salivate over material goods and ignore everything and everyone in the area besides themselves. Do you see any smiles or eye contact going on? Absolutely none. In Mexico, smiles, personal greetings, hugs, kisses on the cheek, fond embraces are the order of the day. Contrast this with fake tits, collagen lips, and harried scowls, evil countenances, and the inability to pass up any type of reflective surface. Whattaya got? I have no use for American women. I only feel bad that I wasted 14 years of my life on one of them. RIGHT ON with the 10 rules!â€￾


http://www.happierabroad.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=4219

“Last night on a foreign subway, I gave my business card to the most gorgeous woman in the world, a 20 year old college student 30 years younger than myself whom I had only said a few words to about her dressing very stylishly. Then I got off the subway car saying please send me a text message sometime.

Just as the doors were closing, she jumped off the subway car asking for clarification about why I gave her my card. The subway pulled away.

Five hours later, after dinner, we were holding hands while walking along a river.

Her education level was way, way above the best Harvard student I have dated (and I have dated a number of Harvard students).

I could not have been happier about my decision to live outside the US.

The above would NEVER happen in the New York subway with someone raised in the US on CNN or Fox News to be paranoid and scared of her own shadow.â€￾


From YouTube comments about Global Dating and Foreign Women:

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=v4yVrx2QYzo

realteruchan (3 days ago) Reply | Spam +2

â€￾Nonsense. I've been to many places, like China, Japan, Philippines and America and the idea that the women are the same in each is foolish. It's like four different species. And it can't be about financial status. Tokyo and Shanghai are rich first world cities and the women there have no desire to go to the U.S. Yet is easy to pull hot women in both cities. Not AS easy as the PI, sure, but compared to America, it's a cakewalk.â€￾

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=kdIOibpEmTM

â€￾Social economics doesn't explain why the dating scene is so much better in Shanghai or Tokyo where it is equally easy for an American to date hot women, even successful women. They certainly have no desire to go to the US. I have always had a great time in China and Japan. Compared to America it's a cakewalk. There has to be more to it.

Actually I know many guys who find the dating scene in France and Germany leagues beyond America. I find the same in Tokyo or Shanghai.â€￾


http://www.happierabroad.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=4517

“This reminds me of when I worked in Hollywood, there were all these stewardesses from all over the world working at the same company. There was this Filipina girl there that drove me wild. She was so gorgeous ( I thought) ! I was gonna go crazy. But she had like 4-5 boyfriends and I could not compete. Then she dumped me like a sack of potatoes. Then, when I finally ended up in the Philippines 3 years later, and looked back at those times, I could see things from a different perspective- she was just an ordinary girl - but, boy, within the context of the US, she looked so exotic and desirable. I eventually ended up dating model quality girls in Manila that would make her look very plain and unsightly. Oh, that location, location, location thing. How true it is!â€￾


http://www.happierabroad.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=4742

â€￾Hi all, I'm Jon. I've lurked around here for a while and finally signed up. I'm a youthful 40, in great shape ,and own a few web businesses. I lived for about 10 years in Northern Europe, where I have friends I still visit; and I'm considered quite social and charming there. But...I moved home to the US a couple of years ago, and for the first time in many years, found that I had virtually no social or dating life.

Perhaps it's because I stayed gone so long, but when I returned to the US, it seemed socially awkward, shallow, immature and (if I'm honest) culturally backwards.

I appreciate Winston doing this site because frankly, I know he's right. Before I moved abroad my social life in the US was a 2 out of 10 (at best). When I moved abroad all that changed dramatically, and I made true friends and dated gorgeous women. Actually, I lost my visa to stay in Europe, otherwise I probably would never have come back.

I've been back a couple of years and I've really tried to make things happen here. But now I have finally had enough. This year (2009) I'm planning to leave the country. I haven't decided exactly where I'll go yet (I'm considering a few places), but I do know that I'm definitly leaving, and "sooner rather than later."

I have seen the quality of my social and dating life go down significantly here in the US, and frankly, life is too short for this bullshit. You know what they say: once you get used to champagne, it is tough to go back to kool-aide. J

If anyone wants to chat and/or share info about moving abroad, please be in touch. I'm social and cooperative by nature (as opposed to paranoid and competitive). Perhaps that's WHY I don't fit in the US?

Be well,
Jonâ€￾


http://www.happierabroad.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=4580

â€￾I completely agree with you mobstersreport. I have a very similar siuation. I'm 40, no kids, divorced years ago, in excellent shape, own my own web biz, well-travelled and educated, but I'm finding myself "stuck" in America with practically no social life whatsoever.

I left the US once before, back in the 90s -- I moved to Scandinavia, and discovered what I had been missing all those years. I'm a decent looking guy with a good head on his shoulders, but I never had any luck with American women whatsoever. But in Europe, I discovered I could finally be myself, and there were All kinds of attractive, natural, intelligent women interested in me.

Unfortunately, I lost my European residence visa a few years ago and had to move back to the US. Since that time, my social life has gotten consistently worse, and I find it hard to relate to the brain-dead mentality that dominates here ( I'm in Florida by the way).

Ironically, women that I wouldn't give a second glance to in Europe seem to think they're too good for me here in the states. Of course, many of them wind up married to some abusive inbred redneck, and then divorced with a few kids in a couple of years. You reap what you sow...

So I've find myself in the same boat you're in -- looking for way out, and just trying to decide where to go and how to proceed forward. I'm very lucky in that I have an established internet business that pays the bills, so I can work from anywhere in the world. I've been considering heading over to the Philippines and checking that out, but an acquaintance of mine has also got me interested in Brazil.

Either way, I'll be making a decision soon and getting the F out of here. J The Philippines seems to have the most relaxed visa regulations, making it possible to stay there almost indefinitely if you work within the system, So that's certainly a big plus ( The lovely ladies are another of course).

Which brings me to my last point: it's tough for a lot of guys to just up and leave the U. S., even though they know in their heart they'll be glad they did and their life will improve once they've done it. So I think people like us should stick together and join forces whenever possible. Traveling the world or relocating to another country can be challenging, but it becomes a lot easier when you have a like-minded "wing man."

So if anyone on here is in a similar situation and would like to compare notes, or potentially even buddy up to travel, please be in touch. I'm open to suggestions.

Finally, I know I’ve written a short novel here as a first post, but I want everyone on this site to know that Winston is 100% right. I have lived abroad and seen the difference in my social life, in how it made me feel inside; and I've also seen the antisocial lame-ass dating scene in the US, and how it undermines a man's confidence and inhibits his ability to simply be himself. It is an absolute shame, and no man should have to live that way.

Thanks for a great site Winston. You're doing a service to all American guys by exposing the limited possibilities for happiness and social connection in the US.

Also going abroad in 2009,
Mercâ€￾


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OwkYiCJ0rJU

“So true! I went to SE Asia 3 months ago, My Social life went from 0 to Rockstar overnight. America is a dead place, Just GO! and get on that airplane. Life is better abroad, I'm making plans on fully moving to Asia this year.â€￾


http://www.happierabroad.com/FanMail.htm

“Winston, you're absolutely right about foreign women vs American "women". Foreign women are far more cultured, intelligent, sociable and sophisticated than American women. I can honestly say that once you meet a foreign woman, you will never go back to an American woman again. You've mentioned this in your forum, but this trip abroad confirmed everything you said. You're absolutely right. Keep up the good work.â€￾


http://www.happierabroad.com/FanMail.htm

“After reading all your ebooks and following your advice to visit Lithuania I did and met the love of my life. I really give you credit because you are 100% right. I'm never dating or going with a shallow, superficial american woman ever again. I would also like to let you know that I am getting married in MAY 2008. Keep up the good work Winston you do inspire people.â€￾


http://www.happierabroad.com/Love_Adven ... ppines.htm

“Then the second girl called me and said these words:

"Hello, my name is Inday, we met in the jeepney. I told all the girls in college about you and they all want to meet you."

Yup! They ALL want to meet me.

I went to a department store and again it was chuck full of little miss Universes- sales girls. I approached a counter and they crowded me.
" You are so cute. Your face is so cute". Then on another occasion I was paying for some stuff that I bought and the cashiers started whispering something. I though something was wrong. The answer was: "Very handsome"." Who, me?" "Yes, you". "What is so handsome about me?" "I don't know, maybe it is your tantalizing eyes". And they started laughing.

I could go on and on and on. I would sit down and relax and girls would pass by and whisper to each other pointing me out. The word I learned was "gwapo"- handsome. Once I was just crossing the road. Four young ladies linked their hands and would not let me through. Sales girls from stalls would call out- "Hello, Darling!"

After a few days, I noticed something different about me when I looked in the mirror. My eyes were no longer sad as they used to be. I was smiling for real. Because this was the way a man should be treated. Appreciated. Desired. Women should seek him out and not the other way around. Rejections and maltreatment by women in the US or anywhere else where cruel women live harm the man from within. Rob him of his dignity. Slowly eat away at his self-respect and the sense of self-worth. Make him ill on his inside. He may not show it but permanent scars would form on his inside. My time in the Philippines was like some magic ointmet for those scars. They were finally gone!

A place like that was not planet Earth the way I knew it. At least it should not be planet Earth. It was a Shangri-lah.

At night, my nightlife would start. I would go to bars and karaoke establishments and there would be girls everywhere and not many guys. The girls would crowd me. They were so gorgeous I was out of breath.

In the US, if you go to a night club, you always see more guys than girls and the guys look glum and pissed off. The girls look like they are princesses even if butt ugly. Here it was different. The guys looked friendly and non-threatening. Most were just relaxing. No competition. Enough girls for everyone to go around.

Eventually, I took three girls who were working in the karaoke and we went to a resort where we rented a hut on the beach under palm trees. If there is a heavenly situation that one can imagine, it would probably be falling alseep in a bamboo house while listening to the surf and the wind rustling in the palm trees while being hugged by three angelic young ladies from the South Seas...

That's living!. No amount of job satisfaction or professional achievement cannot bring you close to the sense of fullfilment that such experiences can bring.â€￾


http://www.happierabroad.com/FanMail.htm

“Dude,

You are 100% right about european women and american women

It is so easy to meet women in europe.

If you are well traveled, well spoken and educated you will meet the nicest girls

I traveled all over europe. I dated the most beautiful women.

I married a beautiful girl from the Ukraine.

I wasted years on carribean cruises, and should have gone to europe.

I support your comparison 100%.

American women don't get it.

In my travels I would say in europe the toughest girls are Czech and French.

Russians, Latvian, Ukrainian are the nicests and sweetest.

Johnâ€￾


http://www.happierabroad.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=6549

“Wow, I thought it was my imagination or something.
Last year I spent a month and a half in Europe and the whole time I was there I experienced an ease and comfort in social interactions that led me to keep thinking to myself: "Whats been the big deal all these years?....theres nothing wrong with me at all"

At the time I mistakenly thought that I had just finally broken through some sort of personal hang ups that had previously been holding me back.

About a week after returning home I realized that it was going to be back to the same old shit.
I actually broke down in the street crying.â€￾


http://www.happierabroad.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=4278

“Winston's blogs and photojournals are epic! I have a new internet hobby now: reading Winston's stories.

I'm moving to St Petersburg in the new year and as I was researching I came across Happier Abroad, and I couldn't agree more with the overall message.

I'm a 32-year old Canadian guy and I am actually fairly attractive (so much for modesty) and educated and so on. I spent 2 years teaching English in South Korea and I was engaged to my gf of 6 years, until she cheated on me last year. Well, I'm back in Canada and I think my experiences in Korea messed me up, because I find women here so damn unapproachable. There's a lot of beauties here and in the U.S., but what is up their asses?

I'm a "nice guy". I don't let people walk all over me but I'm not about to go out and hurt others, either. I've been back in Canada for a couple of years now and I am sick and tired of North American women. I remember how warm and friendly and flirty Korean girls were, and how fiercely loyal those people were to their friends, and I miss that.

So, I'm giving up my well-paying job here and going back overseas and I don't know if I'm ever coming back. If I can find someone to marry and raise a family with, all the better. At the very least I'll be somewhere where people aren't such a-holes. If Russia doesn't work out then I'll move on somewhere else.

Winston is absolutely right from my experiences. I had to go somewhere and then come back to see the light, but I definitely see it.â€￾


http://www.abovetopsecret.com/forum/thread647213/pg1

“Holy crap!!! Spot on!

I was born and raised in America. And totally miserable and depressed most of those years. Now I live in Russia and go to university there, and I finally feel happy. I feel like I belong with Europeans.

Girls are so sincere and totally awesome in Europe, especially Russia. I was intimidated at first, because Russian women are totally the most gorgeous in the world in my opinion, because I knew how American girls would act with that type of beauty. One of the first times I was at a bar in Moscow, a beautiful woman approached ME and we actually had a meaningful conversation about travel and poetry. Ended up dating her a bit and now still great friends with her. If I was in America, I would have to approach the girl, act like a tough guy for a bit, and we'd end up talking about The Jersey Shore before having some meaningless sex.

I've met many Germans and Italians too.... very easy females to talk to. They don't tend to have large "I know I'm hot" egos, and are some of the most loving people I've met.

Sorry, I'm a sellout...

Give me European girl any day over an America.

The article's totally true.â€￾


http://www.happierabroad.com/forum/view ... hp?t=10563

“nice website. my story of leaving america.

let me tell you about myself...

my life in america was not too happy. i did not have a wife or gf. i did not get laid. i was depressed all the time. my life generally sucked. american women just wanted something that i didn't have. i'm attractive, but that just wasn't enough. a little shy, but it shouldn't have been that hard to find a young woman sooner.

i decided something had to change. so i took a trip to south east asia at 25 and what can i say? wow! Shocked

when i got there i got laid everyday with beautiful women. i did not even have to ask to get laid! that is how easy it was. in fact, i met my wife almost instantly after i moved here permanently. wow! something that seemed so impossible in america was instantaneous in thailand. Shocked

what surprised me about the women was how much more feminine, younger and lovely the women here in asia are. the women actually behave like women! (not like men Rolling Eyes) they take great care of their appearance. everywhere i go i see stunningly beautiful women who smile at me! that is not an exaggeration. the difference between here and america is like night and day. america is truly an awful place for a man. i suggest you leave! Arrow

today i live in thailand with a beautiful young wife and son. i think if i continued to live in america i would also have 20 years of loneliness.â€￾


http://www.happierabroad.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=8005

“- A Colombian girl told me about her trips to a few American cities (Houston, Chicago) while she was visiting relatives. She called the social environment there "mierda" ("shit"), said that people were very cold, unfriendly, and work-obsessed ("puro trabajo"). She said that although it's a great place to study and to avoid nasty civil wars, she likes Colombia better due to its social atmosphere.
- A Salvadoran friend told me that when you converse with the girls there, "you feel like you're in love." I asked him, "How about the US?" He answered, "No. Not really. No way."
- Similar comments from Mexican immigrants about the "gabacho" (white Anglo) mentality.â€￾


Many more accounts at:
http://www.happierabroad.com/ebook/Page74b.htm

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Postby steve55 » Thu Mar 13, 2014 9:27 am

Winston, you need to be nicer. Quit "owning" people so badly. :lol:Bahahahaha
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Postby Devil Dog » Thu Mar 13, 2014 12:51 pm

steve55 wrote:@arabian_prince

Like Winston said, what are you talking about? There are tons of guys having great success! I have 2 friends who are now happily married to Filipinas. Winston's website is full of testimonials. In addition, look at my success as an example. I'm on my way next month to see my Filipina girl friend for a 2nd time. We're both thinking this is it, I'm hopeful that we'll be engaged soon. But we'll see.


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It is easier to meet/date/marry women in some overseas places than it is in the US. So if you can't hack it here then maybe you will be able to hack it overseas. If you can hack it here, you will be able to have huge success overseas.


I get sick and tired of hearing this. You need to understand that just because a guy prefers to search abroad doesn't mean he can't hack it here in America. Thats just feminist shaming tactics used on men who bypass American women in the dating scene. The feminists love to say "you can t get an American woman so you have to go abroad". I'm sorry but I go abroad for women not because I can't hack it here, it's because ....



Straw man argument. My statement does not express or imply that "just because a guy prefers to search abroad doesn't mean he can't hack it here in America." My statement consists of a few basic truths. Read them carefully. Then logically refute any of them if you can.
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Postby Arabian_prince » Fri Mar 14, 2014 3:24 am

Okay, theres a lot to reply to . . .

1- I am offended by all the names that Wu called me: Lazy, unorganized, unintelligent, biased , dumb etc...
Lets keep things civilized. I never called you, Wu, any names, so I dont deserve your crap. Just because you are the admin, this doesnt give you right to use power to bully others and ban those who disagree with you. If you think Im wrong on things, then use power of ideas to correct me, not force. Im not stupid or dumb, you are the inflexible retarded one who gets very personal with those who disagree with you.

2- This is an internet forum, not an academic one for PHD students, so I dont see the reason of why cant I just write freely however I can as long as its understandable to others, especially since English isnt my first language. Dictating and supervising my English skills is not what I am here for.

3- Your website has many links, posts, videos, etc.. its so full. its hard to navigate through everything.

4- I never said no one had any success with foreign women. But from what I see, those men are usually one of the three types : First, those who make their living off advertising for foreign women, and thus can be biased with their judgments, like Wu, and Steve. Second, those who have limited success in certain countries like the Philippines, which Im not attracted to Asian women. Third, those who had success with women through foreign dating agency, like FA. Ive done my research and i know Foriegn Affaires hires escorts to meet men., and even those agencies that dont get escorts, they hell sure promise those beautiful women to meet RICH American men. So in summary, gold diggers. Thats no different than going to an American dating agency and buy them 5k to meet " quality " women.
Real success is simply approaching beautiful women in other countries as we would in the US and get many dates.

5- Steve, whats wrong with saying that most of us go abroad for foreign women because we cant get dates in America ? Thats the truth. Heck, this whole site was started by someone who cant get dates locally. There's nothing to be ashamed of. Those feminists who say we are losers for going abroad are stupid. If we were losers then we would keep up with the arrogant, narcissistic , self-center, demanding American women who are useless for most purposes, like most men do. But we dont, we go abroad because we know we deserve better.
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Postby ChampionKaji » Fri Mar 14, 2014 3:29 am

Get 'em Prince!
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Postby Winston » Fri Mar 14, 2014 5:20 am

Arabian prince,
I am sorry if my language toward you was harsh or offensive. But you made many comments that were asinine, nonsensical, illogical and like that of a troll. Are you able to be reasoned with?

You did not address my question above about all the many accounts I posted. How do you explain them? Most of them are not related to the Philippines.

What is your point? And why did you ask "Are we kidding ourselves here?" You have no basis in claiming that most of us who have went abroad and found my claims to be true, are just kidding themselves.

Can you elaborate on that?

It seems like you are biased and trying to invalidate everyone's experiences here. Why? Do you have an agenda? Are you a truth seeker? Why can't you believe the real life stories and experiences presented here?

Why do you make dumb points and spread random lies, such as when you said I went to Russia and ended up with a stripper? You act as though you are claiming that I went to Russia three times, and all I did was date one stripper. That's a dumb statement. Why don't you apologize for it?

I had many experiences in Russia. Why do you act like there was only one?

That's like saying that Lewis and Clark explored America for two years in 1805-07, and all they did was shoot one bear, when in fact they did and experienced MANY things during those two years. Shooting bears was just one of them.

You see how dumb a statement that was?

If a person makes dumb statements that aren't even true and don't make sense and defy common sense, why shouldn't I question his authenticity or honesty?

Not ever random person here is rational and credible you know? Some are total dipshits too. I treat you according to your actions and call it as I see it.

Bottom line is that you are NOT making any valid points or even points that make sense or even points that are accurate.

As to your point #4:

Yes I make a living off of this site. But that's because I'm passionate about this movement and doing what I believe in. I'm following my destiny as a sort of prophet in this movement. Thus the heavens reward me for it by allowing me to earn a living from it. But that doesn't mean that I'm only here for the money and have no other interest. Anyone who knows me knows that.

There's nothing wrong with finding love or dates in the Philippines. Whether a guy finds a wife there, or simply dates many girls and has fun, I consider that a success. What is your problem with that? Why do you need to denigrate it? A rational guy would not do that.

So what if you aren't into the Philippines? Who cares? Then focus on Russia, Europe or Latin America.

Not many forum members here found their wives on AFA. So I don't know who you are referring to. Why do you even bring AFA into this? They are not posting here. They are advertisers here, yeah, but that doesn't mean that the guys on this forum are promoting them to you. So again, I don't understand your reasoning here.

FYI, AFA does not hire prostitutes at socials. You got that from Tony Bochene, who has been discredited and does not have evidence to back it up. He is being sued by AFA right now and the judge has asked him for evidence. So far he has given none.

Your mistake is that you assume that every random thing you hear from every random person must be true. You lack wisdom and discernment. You don't know how to separate the wheat from the chaff. I don't know if there is hope for you or not. Can you learn basic logic and reason? Can you tell the truth from a lie?

Or are you wasting my time?

Also, you seem to sit there and judge. And make false statements too. Yet you have NO QUALIFICATIONS and no travel experience. So you should not be sitting and judging. You should be humble and try to LEARN from others. Do you understand?

Again, why are you trying to invalidate or deny our claims? Can you explain?

Did you read all the accounts I posted for you earlier? Please read EVERY WORD. I hope you did not ignore them. Or else I will be pissed that I spent all that time OWNING you and PWNING you for nothing. Scroll up and read the accounts.

Otherwise, if you are only here to filter out anything that doesn't fit into your agenda, then you are not seeking truth here and you have another agenda.

Why do some of you need to try to invalidate or falsify all the claims on here that are backed up with lots of proof?

There's nothing wrong with being skeptical. But if you filter out all the proof and testimonials and photos and videos, then you are biased.

If you had no trouble with AW, you would not be here. So you must be here for a reason. What is it?

As for #5, I agree. I don't mind admitting that I can't get AW. It's the truth. That's not my fault. You can't blame me. Some types of guys are rejected by all AW. That's how it is. AW have a type range and are super spoiled and picky. They reject most guys. No shame in that.

I am not like most guys who will deny that and say "I can get AW. I just don't want them because they suck." Most guys will say that because they don't want to admit that they can't get AW. So they say that to protect their ego. Any guy can say that. It doesn't mean it's true.

But we have to face reality. We cannot just go out in America and walk up to AW and ask for dates and get them. It doesn't work that way. Try it and see. If you try it, they will put up the "What the f**k? Who the f**k are you?" attitude and unwelcome vibe. Go out and try it and you will see.

So you see, there's not much you can do about that.

In contrast, I've shown you with many REAL LIFE videos that one can approach girls in Russia and get dates or at least meet girls that way. It's a MILLION times easier there.

Have you seen any of my videos? If so, how many? You keep avoiding my questions for some reason. If this were an honest discussion, you would not dodge questions like that.

Finally, you asked in the OP if you would be able to get any dates in so and so country. Well that's another dumb question. How would we know? You have to post photos of yourself and describe yourself too, before anyone can try to answer that. Duh. How can we answer such a question without seeing you? That's common sense. Why does it seem like we have to baby you? You don't seem to be able to deduce things from common sense or simple logic. No offense.
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Postby Banano » Fri Mar 14, 2014 6:30 am

I am not like most guys who will deny that and say "I can get AW. I just don't want them because they suck." Most guys will say that because they don't want to admit that they can't get AW. So they say that to protect their ego


This is very true, I appreciate your honesty but in my case it is not that I can't get them, I can but quality is not on par with what you get in certain places abroad. No fun doing single mums who are 5-15 years older than me, often overweight with lots of baggage.

Tbh, if I could consistently get dates/ONS with western women in their 20s I wouldn't even consider going abroad, I'd be too busy working and enjoying sex with them. I have met guys who are good looking and smooth(good looking in womenz eyes) and they don't even think about going foreign, no need.

Guys lie a lot to protect their ego, they will say how they can get AW but dont want to, implying that they have choice of banging many hot AW but prefer to jack it off to porn or visit brothel.
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Postby Winston » Fri Mar 14, 2014 7:54 am

Banano,
Among the list of Russian girls I scored that I posted earlier, here is the hottest one besides Katya. Her name is Jenya. She liked me because she had a fetish for Asians. I'll bet you've never had a girl hotter than this. We made a sex video together too.

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Also, check out JamesBond's new music video of my clips from Russia. You can see me in most of them. They prove without a doubt that girls there are a million times more friendly, approachable and easier to meet and date. The whole meeting girls and socialization thing is much more smooth and natural. These clips are concrete proof of that. You can't deny it. My claims have been 100 percent proven over and over again. So I don't understand what you are debating or why you need to denigrate others. Or why you need to spread the lie that I didn't get any girls in Russia. Is it because you have no money to travel, so you have to bring down others who do?

Either way, it's your problem. Please watch this video so you can stop denying my claims. This is absolute proof.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MvvX3n0TZ_I[/youtube]
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Postby Winston » Fri Mar 14, 2014 8:02 am

Banano wrote:I am not like most guys who will deny that and say "I can get AW. I just don't want them because they suck." Most guys will say that because they don't want to admit that they can't get AW. So they say that to protect their ego


This is very true, I appreciate your honesty but in my case it is not that I can't get them, I can but quality is not on par with what you get in certain places abroad. No fun doing single mums who are 5-15 years older than me, often overweight with lots of baggage.

Tbh, if I could consistently get dates/ONS with western women in their 20s I wouldn't even consider going abroad, I'd be too busy working and enjoying sex with them. I have met guys who are good looking and smooth(good looking in womenz eyes) and they don't even think about going foreign, no need.

Guys lie a lot to protect their ego, they will say how they can get AW but dont want to, implying that they have choice of banging many hot AW but prefer to jack it off to p**n or visit brothel.


Well come on. I could get fat ugly AW too. But that doesn't count. When I talk about getting AW, it doesn't mean anyone. It means AW that are decent looking and doable. Not fat ugly ones. So you misunderstand my meaning. That doesn't count.

Even if you could get AW, nearly all of them have highly TOXIC personalities that are emotionally draining to be around. They are argumentative, controlling, shame you, have bad tempers, and expect you to obey them and put their needs above yours. After a while, it's toxic and emotionally draining and fills a man with bad vibes. It's like drinking slow poison.

Plus they have bad tempers and can erupt like volcanoes anytime. It's like walking on eggshells. That's a bad influence on men. So that's a big factor too.
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Postby Winston » Mon Mar 17, 2014 8:48 pm

Banano,
Regarding that hot Russian girl I had above, here are some slides in my photojournals of me and her making out on the couch. They are digital stills taken from my secret video footage that are not part of my main videos. Notice that our body language is intense and passionate like in the movies. This is what I've always wanted but rarely got. Notice how her fingers are hard pressed on my ass, with intensity. lol

https://russiadatingadventures.shutterf ... /2009#2008
https://russiadatingadventures.shutterf ... /2009#2007
https://russiadatingadventures.shutterf ... /2009#2006
https://russiadatingadventures.shutterf ... /2009#2005
https://russiadatingadventures.shutterf ... /2009#2004
https://russiadatingadventures.shutterf ... /2009#2003
https://russiadatingadventures.shutterf ... /2009#2002

Here is a digital still of us naked in bed in the dark. lol. I set the camera on the bed stand next to us. Even though it's dark, you can still make out what we are doing. lol. I'm the figure on top. Doesn't it look so intimate? I was in nirvana at that time. lol. So I've fantasized about that night many times.

https://russiadatingadventures.shutterf ... /2009#2001

So you see Banano, it's not true that I never scored anyone in Russia. So quit lying about that please. And stop trying to portray everything in the worst possible light. Don't make me have to repeat this again. Thank you.
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Postby hammanta » Mon Mar 17, 2014 11:00 pm

Didn't read half of the comments but I'll chime in

@ Arabian Prince

Let's face it, by your name to me states you are Middle Eastern, more than likely Muslim. That trait alone unfortunately limits your selection pool. If you are Muslim that limits it even further. Women (white, Hispanic, Black, Asian) tend to stay away from Middle Easterners. Stereotypes and religious views are to blame. If you lack the typical "sheik" look, are well dressed, and clean cut, you have a chance. But your ethnicity alone is to blame for the lack of interest on dating sites.

It also seems to be that a lot of men on this site have this want it all, give none attitude. I maybe wrong but come on, work on yourself before trying to get women. If you are out of shape get to the gym and eat healthy: Uneducated, take some classes; Stop going to bars, pick up a hobby; Read up on mens fashion; Develop your personality, etc.

I fully understand how bad the dating scene is in the USA. I'm lucky enough that I'm still young, relatively attractive, in excellent shape (underwear model shape), and educated. I'm not boosting my ego here, just giving a description. But I still choose to go overseas because I agree with Winston. Foreign girls are just on another level. In college I was ok with women, not great. But other than making out with and taking a girl home from a party every now and then, I had no success finding any quality girls. Though I had many friends, I lacked a common social group. I was the fit athlete, whom loved learning and philosophy, wasn't into video games or watching sports, jammed out to country music, enjoyed dancing and kareoke, and hated getting drunk (though I did a lot). Nerdy girls thought I was a douche from appearance, sororiety girls thought I was weird because I liked intelligent conversations and wasn't an arrogant asshole, drunk girls were to slutty for my interests, and friendly smart girls thought I was gay.

Point being that though I can be successful or at least somewhat successful in the USA, I can be even more successful overseas and find girls I actually adore and enjoy being around. I've been with way hotter, and way nicer girls than I would ever get in the USA. I'm simply not going to settle and I believe a lot of guys on here feel the same way. So don't dock the overseas game. I'd rather have a cute, sweet, and down to earth girl with culture from a poor family than a hot American bitchy girl who's materialistic and superficial any day.
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Postby ChampionKaji » Tue Mar 18, 2014 12:26 am

Arabic dudes, especially those that are lighter, do very well in East Asia, much better than Black men. I'd say that outside of celebrities, Arab men do much better than Black men in the States too, in terms of quality. Black guys might get greater numbers of fat, ugly white girls, but Arab dudes can do alright with Asian, White, Latina, their own, and even Black women.
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Postby polya » Tue Mar 18, 2014 9:05 am

The first thing this arabian_prince needs to do is change his thinking to positive or he'll take all his baggage overseas and scare away every woman who isn't a gold-digger!
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Postby Winston » Tue Mar 18, 2014 9:24 am

polya wrote:The first thing this arabian_prince needs to do is change his thinking to positive or he'll take all his baggage overseas and scare away every woman who isn't a gold-digger!


Yeah or at least a reasonable balance between positive and negative. lol
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