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The Ugly American...

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The Ugly American...

Postby Enticer » Sat Mar 22, 2014 5:59 am

I have ben on here for about 6 months. The first thing thats struck me was an article/writing that stated all Americans are essentially Sociopaths. The more I thought about this and studied the word, the more I realized it was true. The more I looked around..the more I understand it was true. The more I traveled and met foreigners...again, the more I understood it was true.

Americans are: Spoiled, greedy, entitled and snooty

Myself included at times...

However, I have long since been working on my personality flaws such as these. I have more self-awareness now than ever, in my life...and more knowledge as I study the mate selection process in humans. I am working on a book for men...to learn how to understand, approach and date women. Through my own field experience and world travels, I have seen that Happier Abroad is the way to go. But it isnt easy...

Then, there is our behavior as men. If all AW are Sociopaths and greedy, entitled.....how about us AM? There is a revelation...American men...ho are we?

I have yet to see anyone here talking about how shitty men are in this country. I have yet to hear how we men need to change and show the world and our new wives, that we arent the Sociopaths that people think we are. How can we simply say that all AW are this and that...and act as if we arent the same way...in some way or another?

I know a lot of people. I know a lot of women. I have dated a lot of AW. The things I hear...from reliable sources, are as bad as the crazy women we want away from. And yet, we seldom hear things about AM being better men.

Are you selfish, greedy and entitled? I AM!!! But I know I need to change and take major strides to not be this way, every day. If we are going to educate men and women of the trappings of AW...shouldnt we be mentoring men to not treat women like shit? To not treat women like they treat us? Men, are you teaching your children to be better boys and girls? I know I am...

The American way began being filtered to the masses after WWII. We have been taught that we need to have 2-3 cars, a boat and house with 2 car garage. It takes 2 people working 40-50 hrs a week to support this mindset. If you factor in the poison of feminism and woman having a career, a marriage has almost no chance. The schism usually begins in the first 2-3 years. With the "entitlement" mindset in place, divorce occurs quickly....then the couple remarries...and the cycle begins again. Part of the American way....IS DIVORCE...

In closing with these thoughts. I am forever grateful for this site and my eyes being opened to the treasures of women abroad. The American way is indeed a sociopathic mindset. But, both men and women are a part of it. Westernized countries have and will inherit the mindset as well. Which is unfortunate...

Peace
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Postby E Irizarry R&B Singer » Sat Mar 22, 2014 6:11 am

You must have not read some of my posts. ,
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Postby ChampionKaji » Sat Mar 22, 2014 8:47 am

American women are fugly, I agree.
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Postby Enticer » Sat Mar 22, 2014 5:14 pm

Izarry, I must not have....feel free to direct me...
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Re: The Ugly American...

Postby Jester » Sat Mar 22, 2014 6:25 pm

Enticer wrote:I have ben on here for about 6 months. The first thing thats struck me was an article/writing that stated all Americans are essentially Sociopaths. The more I thought about this and studied the word, the more I realized it was true. The more I looked around..the more I understand it was true. The more I traveled and met foreigners...again, the more I understood it was true.

Americans are: Spoiled, greedy, entitled and snooty

Myself included at times...

However, I have long since been working on my personality flaws such as these. I have more self-awareness now than ever, in my life...and more knowledge as I study the mate selection process in humans. I am working on a book for men...to learn how to understand, approach and date women. Through my own field experience and world travels, I have seen that Happier Abroad is the way to go. But it isnt easy...

Then, there is our behavior as men. If all AW are Sociopaths and greedy, entitled.....how about us AM? There is a revelation...American men...ho are we?

I have yet to see anyone here talking about how shitty men are in this country. I have yet to hear how we men need to change and show the world and our new wives, that we arent the Sociopaths that people think we are. How can we simply say that all AW are this and that...and act as if we arent the same way...in some way or another?

I know a lot of people. I know a lot of women. I have dated a lot of AW. The things I hear...from reliable sources, are as bad as the crazy women we want away from. And yet, we seldom hear things about AM being better men.

Are you selfish, greedy and entitled? I AM!!! But I know I need to change and take major strides to not be this way, every day. If we are going to educate men and women of the trappings of AW...shouldnt we be mentoring men to not treat women like shit? To not treat women like they treat us? Men, are you teaching your children to be better boys and girls? I know I am...

The American way began being filtered to the masses after WWII. We have been taught that we need to have 2-3 cars, a boat and house with 2 car garage. It takes 2 people working 40-50 hrs a week to support this mindset. If you factor in the poison of feminism and woman having a career, a marriage has almost no chance. The schism usually begins in the first 2-3 years. With the "entitlement" mindset in place, divorce occurs quickly....then the couple remarries...and the cycle begins again. Part of the American way....IS DIVORCE...

In closing with these thoughts. I am forever grateful for this site and my eyes being opened to the treasures of women abroad. The American way is indeed a sociopathic mindset. But, both men and women are a part of it. Westernized countries have and will inherit the mindset as well. Which is unfortunate...

Peace


I agree with every word you wrote here.

And YES there is a market for your book.

A lot of guys can get some tail, and guys who go abroad can get a quality woman. But we are still carriers of the virus. We are from a toxic culture, and we will re-create it wherever we go, unless we consciously and forcefully change. Seduction without commitment... porn... thinking of sex as an end in itself instead of a path to procreation... these things are INGRAINED even in the best of us. And forget chivalry - knowing how to treat a traditional, feminine woman gently. Many have had to deliberately UN-learn chivalry, because you are a fool to be chivalrous with bitches (looking like Don Quixote with Dulcinea, or "Pretty Woman").

Once we find the woman we want, we have to then build the life we want. We won't be living with her on a desert island. And to do this we have to start fresh and become the man we want to be. The man we WANTED to be.

Write the book.
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Postby have2fly » Tue Apr 01, 2014 1:23 am

I agree with topic starter. American men are no better than American women. I heard many crazy stories from East European immigrant girls that live in the U.S. for a long time. They dated such idiots - it's insane! Why? Because as immigrants they work shitty jobs, shy educated white males don't hit on them, you all know why. Would you go hit on a hot waitress or some sales clerk or bank teller? Maybe, but the chance of success is very small. Exactly what happened to these girls. So they dated guys who they worked with or some douchebags that did hit on them (and those are actually the ones that have nothing to lose - do you get this point? Guys that shy away are those that have something behind them and afraid to lose it because of some stupid harassment lawsuit. I wish women would understand this and fall for nice guys instead of aggressive fags).
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Postby E Irizarry R&B Singer » Tue Apr 01, 2014 2:52 am

have2fly wrote:I agree with topic starter. American men are no better than American women. I heard many crazy stories from East European immigrant girls that live in the U.S. for a long time. They dated such idiots - it's insane! Why? Because as immigrants they work shitty jobs, shy educated white males don't hit on them, you all know why. Would you go hit on a hot waitress or some sales clerk or bank teller? Maybe, but the chance of success is very small. Exactly what happened to these girls. So they dated guys who they worked with or some douchebags that did hit on them (and those are actually the ones that have nothing to lose - do you get this point? Guys that shy away are those that have something behind them and afraid to lose it because of some stupid harassment lawsuit. I wish women would understand this and fall for nice guys instead of aggressive fags).


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Postby E Irizarry R&B Singer » Tue Apr 01, 2014 2:56 am

@Enticer,

I among a lot of other distinguished guys here have a plethora of information available. Just do a search among our posts and get into the groove of our perception (mostly factual, but some opinion but good opinion too).
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Postby Enticer » Tue Apr 01, 2014 5:36 am

Its a complete mindset....here in the US. Other countries have their shitbags too...but thats for them to sort. Here though....we should be viligant and stand apart, especially if we profess the knowledge and wisdom to look for love abroad. We must be careful explaining this to our fellow Americans...men and women as to not offend, but to educate. But, if we act no different than AW....greedy, selfish and entitled and spoiled...what have we accomplished?

The lifestyle starts within...
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