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Date in Asia Cracks Down

Postby Will N. Dowd » Sun May 04, 2014 2:48 am

DIA deleted me about a month ago, so I made a new profile when I got back to the Philippines last week. Looks like they have deleted thousands and possibly tens of thousands of profiles. Their are far fewer people on it and they have very strong warnings when you create a profile that it can't contain sexual language of any kind and they will delete anyone's profile without warning. I guess in some ways it is better now, since it used to inflate guys egos with all the messages they got from girls. Then when guys met these girls, they realize the vast majority of them didn't look like their pictures, were single mums, or had other various problems. Many profiles were fake also, and a huge number of girls were only there looking for money and other scams. So it's not what it used to be, but what it used to be was a bit ridiculous. Let's see how long it takes before it gets out of hand again.

Their used to be many ladyboys and shemales on it. I used to do a non exact name search for the user name ladyboy and shemale and then blocked all of them, which took forever because their were so many. Now less than 1 page full of each.
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Postby Will N. Dowd » Sun May 04, 2014 10:37 am

It looks the site has become almost unusable. I just flagged a photo of a profile using a Japanese pornstars picture. I then reported a girl who asked me for money on my last trip. After doing both those perfectly legit things my profile was deleted again! Even in the week I had it I got almost no messages, compared to the hundreds I used to get. I'll stick with FC and mall sales girls.
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Postby pandabear » Sun May 04, 2014 11:27 am

Do you have any idea why yours was deleted?

What is FC?
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Postby Will N. Dowd » Sun May 04, 2014 11:38 am

They don't tell u whey they delete you, they just give a long list of reasons for deleting people, choose one. FC is filipino cupid. Online dating and day gaming girls each have their own advantages. A healthy mix of both is best I think.

The main problem with online dating is how they look in person compared to their pictures. Most look worse, so you have to meet a lot to find cute ones.
The main problem with day game is you know how they look and can choose the cute sales girls, but they are almost always working.
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Postby starchild5 » Sun May 04, 2014 12:58 pm

True....In my experience only 3-4 out of 10 would look like in picture or better...Also, even cams lie, even if she shows you on cam...she would be completely different in real...I was fooled a lot by cams, they do adjust contrast etc to look more beautiful ...It totally ruins it...It crushes your soul for some reason...I feel a pain in my heart whenever I meet a girl who isn't how she claimed she was and then I have to be mean and try to get rid of her by lying etc....I don't like that

..I have come to expect a lot less now....Most girls I would date is in the range of 5-6 BUT I have gotten lucky and have dated some hot girls also....Its just in numbers..The more you date the more you have a chance to get the hotter ones....

I believe one of the most important factor we often do not include is, Filipino guys are not stupid...I have seen incredibly beautiful girls with Filipinos ...Perfect 10s....Its natural, they were born in a paradise...They get the best....They then use and throw what we catch later :) if ever...The pretty ones they keep it...

1. On my last trip I saw this super cute, milky white, tall, around 20 years old filipina in 7/11...I was just stuck with her beauty...I just stood there, frozen....didn't know what to do....I became shy and was sweating in cold 7/11....then his bf showed up and they brought some stuff and left...I still can't get her out of my mind...

2. When I was staying in a Condo in Mandaluyong, I had a date ....mix Filipina-Australian...we did the deed and since we can't smoke inside the condo, we went outside and stood in front of the condo and smoked...I thought i had the most beautiful girl in the entire Philippines ...I was feeling like a King....Yeah..I did it...........I must have surely done some good deeds in my past to get this angel in my life or so I thought .....How could I get this Lucky? What did she see in me?....It was around 2 AM and then I saw what could be only described as PURE Angels...It was an endless stream of hot filipinas getting dropped by their BFs in expensive cars ...I was awestruck with their beauty...I saw probably 10 -12 girls in one hour and even the Mix Australian - Filipina commented....that I have lot of hot girls in my Condo building...I was new to the PH so I thought what I have is the best and can't get any better...Now I knew what she saw in me and I was not lucky and she was not at all the most beautiful girl ....

She had to compromise with me as there are far more hotter girls which are taken by Filipinos already...We both had to settle with each other...I stressed Mix Filipina -Australian as many can relate to how hot they could be..BUT she was not even close to the girls Filipinos had with them..

The girls filipinos had was on a different level altogether...

The tenners are taken by the Filipinos...NOT Americans, Europeans, Japanese or Koreans...They probably get them by College itself...

My point is don't have high hopes to begin with...Filipinos are not stupid...It seems we don't even mention that here as if they don't exist....Filipinos get the tenners....Online, Sales, Malls, day hunting, night clubs can take us upto 7 or probably 8s..BUT not THE ONE...THE PERFECT, THE ANGELIC Filipinas
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Postby Mr S » Sun May 04, 2014 1:17 pm

Well there is still a true dating culture in PI so generally by ones teens the decent looking local Filipinas will be hounded by locals in their schools and will have a steady BF by the time they go to Uni, especially if they are middle or upper class. If a girl is hot and still single in her 20's then either she is an independent feminist and the guys don't want to deal with it, single mother or has some kind or mental/emotional issue that doesn't come to the surface until one knows her for a while.

So foreigners that did not grow up in PI as teens to 20's, which is rare to begin with, will have the women that don't generally make the cut in what is considered upper scale beauty. They'll be chasing 8's and below, most likely 7 and below but it all depends what one is willing to deal with in relation to a partner. You may be able to find an 8 or 9 but she may have a kid, so there is a trade off. A British guy I knew met and married a singer in one of those bands that play in bars so she was an 8 or 9 but she had a kid thus she was available. He didn't seem to care.
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Postby pandabear » Sun May 04, 2014 3:06 pm

One thing seems to have changed about dating in the Philippines: out-of-wedlock births are hitting record highs.

http://www.remate.ph/2011/07/out-of-wed ... 2ZXMPldWSo
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Postby hammanta » Sun May 04, 2014 8:23 pm

starchild5 wrote:True....In my experience only 3-4 out of 10 would look like in picture or better...Also, even cams lie, even if she shows you on cam...she would be completely different in real...I was fooled a lot by cams, they do adjust contrast etc to look more beautiful ...It totally ruins it...It crushes your soul for some reason...I feel a pain in my heart whenever I meet a girl who isn't how she claimed she was and then I have to be mean and try to get rid of her by lying etc....I don't like that

..I have come to expect a lot less now....Most girls I would date is in the range of 5-6 BUT I have gotten lucky and have dated some hot girls also....Its just in numbers..The more you date the more you have a chance to get the hotter ones....

I believe one of the most important factor we often do not include is, Filipino guys are not stupid...I have seen incredibly beautiful girls with Filipinos ...Perfect 10s....Its natural, they were born in a paradise...They get the best....They then use and throw what we catch later :) if ever...The pretty ones they keep it...

1. On my last trip I saw this super cute, milky white, tall, around 20 years old filipina in 7/11...I was just stuck with her beauty...I just stood there, frozen....didn't know what to do....I became shy and was sweating in cold 7/11....then his bf showed up and they brought some stuff and left...I still can't get her out of my mind...

2. When I was staying in a Condo in Mandaluyong, I had a date ....mix Filipina-Australian...we did the deed and since we can't smoke inside the condo, we went outside and stood in front of the condo and smoked...I thought i had the most beautiful girl in the entire Philippines ...I was feeling like a King....Yeah..I did it...........I must have surely done some good deeds in my past to get this angel in my life or so I thought .....How could I get this Lucky? What did she see in me?....It was around 2 AM and then I saw what could be only described as PURE Angels...It was an endless stream of hot filipinas getting dropped by their BFs in expensive cars ...I was awestruck with their beauty...I saw probably 10 -12 girls in one hour and even the Mix Australian - Filipina commented....that I have lot of hot girls in my Condo building...I was new to the PH so I thought what I have is the best and can't get any better...Now I knew what she saw in me and I was not lucky and she was not at all the most beautiful girl ....

She had to compromise with me as there are far more hotter girls which are taken by Filipinos already...We both had to settle with each other...I stressed Mix Filipina -Australian as many can relate to how hot they could be..BUT she was not even close to the girls Filipinos had with them..

The girls filipinos had was on a different level altogether...

The tenners are taken by the Filipinos...NOT Americans, Europeans, Japanese or Koreans...They probably get them by College itself...

My point is don't have high hopes to begin with...Filipinos are not stupid...It seems we don't even mention that here as if they don't exist....Filipinos get the tenners....Online, Sales, Malls, day hunting, night clubs can take us upto 7 or probably 8s..BUT not THE ONE...THE PERFECT, THE ANGELIC Filipinas


Of course they get the tenners, but so does any top local group in the USA or any country. Anybody who is wealthy and/or very good looking tends to get the pick of the litter. Not all Filipinos are 5'4" 120lbs and jobless. But are we really that naive to believe we have a solid chance with the tenners anyways? The average foreigner in the Philippines is either old fat and retired or a back packer type. Neither one is a quality trait to have in order to get the bombshells. Now if you are a professional handsome 25-35 YO working and living in Manila then you definitely have a chance with some quality top notch women. But how many people is that the case? Very very few.

But the average foreigner stills gets big bonus points compared to the average filipino. Why do the girls go for the filipinos then? Well theres plenty of them and much less foreigners available. They also get pressured into marrying early. For a filipina to find a quality foreigner, she has to usually go online, which we all know doesn't work 99% of the time and is still kinda taboo.

But can we all agree that compared to the west, the average foreigner is treated quite well and has a large pool of 5-8's to choose from? That's still so much better than what most of us are use to. Why can't we be happy with that? If you are a fat boy with an average job and average look, then you shouldn't be expecting to get tens anywhere in the world anyways. Now if you look like Hugh Jackman, I can see why you expect tens. Let's not dock the country because perfect tens are off limits when most people here would be hardpressed to find barely 5's in their own country.
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Postby davewe » Sun May 04, 2014 11:25 pm

hammanta wrote:Now if you look like Hugh Jackman, I can see why you expect tens. Let's not dock the country because perfect tens are off limits when most people here would be hardpressed to find barely 5's in their own country.


While I mostly agree with you, it's funny who you chose as your model. Have you seen who Hugh is married to?
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Postby hammanta » Mon May 05, 2014 2:10 am

davewe wrote:
hammanta wrote:Now if you look like Hugh Jackman, I can see why you expect tens. Let's not dock the country because perfect tens are off limits when most people here would be hardpressed to find barely 5's in their own country.


While I mostly agree with you, it's funny who you chose as your model. Have you seen who Hugh is married to?


Ha touche on that. I've never seen his wife before prior to that post but she is rather beastly. To each their own I guess. My point was more based off of just appearance and not personality. At the time he was the first tall, muscular handsome guy that came to mind.
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Postby droid » Mon May 05, 2014 2:47 am

starchild5 wrote: ...

One has to find a balance between settling and achieving, that's life. There'll always be something better, faster, newer. etc. So we can't get hung on that.

Also, can some one post some pics of those '10' filipinas? I'm curious.
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Postby xiongmao » Mon May 05, 2014 8:30 am

I hate dating sites where they keep deleting your profile - I can't stay on Plenty of Fish long before the fascists there delete my profile yet again.

10 months in Asia and how many DiA girls did I meet? 0. Tells you all you need to know about that site really.

You can't go wrong with the Cupid sites really.
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Postby starchild5 » Mon May 05, 2014 12:28 pm

droid wrote:
starchild5 wrote: ...

One has to find a balance between settling and achieving, that's life. There'll always be something better, faster, newer. etc. So we can't get hung on that.

Also, can some one post some pics of those '10' filipinas? I'm curious.


I agree balance is the key.

edit:

oops...I was posting some of the pictures and then remembered winston talking about strict adsense policy

and this video from Google...

http://www.happierabroad.com/forum/view ... c8c8fc7aac


Much better if we just do a Google search Hot Filipina Models to check out some of the tenners :) sorry
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