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An interesting thing one of my Russian students told me

Postby MatureDJ » May 22nd, 2014, 9:37 pm

One my English students in St Pete told me something interesting. She manages a local branch of a global labor sourcing company (i.e., clients hire them to find workers for projects), who stay on the company's payroll), and the manager of one of her big clients in the USA is coming to visit, and he wanted to have a social event where all the workers and their spouses would attend. She wanted to tell that manager that such an event with spouses would put a lot of her female workers in an awkward situation as they don't have a husband (whereas every one of her male workers has a wife.) She was trying to make him understand this "cultural difference", and I'm thinking in the back of my head how foreign an idea it would be for an American to think that a woman can't get a date!

Now, I can recall back in my days as an engineer in the USA, there were few women around to begin with, but it seemed that every one of them, no matter how fat & nasty, seemed to have a boyfriend (and not even a husband, as a fair amount of such women liked to "play the field"), whereas there were a distressing number of us bachelor engineers - presumably the type of "good provider" that women are supposedly looking to meet. And of course, in Russia, not many women like to "play the field"; as I understand it, when they hone in on their man, they want to get him locked down.
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Postby Cornfed » May 22nd, 2014, 9:52 pm

Well of course. Females are haremwhores of the elite in the West. You would have to be rich to pay a young female more than the system does, and they want to be f***ed by dirtbags who have a higher genetic potential. Conversely in the East, at least until recently, the system has not had such deep pockets.
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Re: An interesting thing one of my Russian students told me

Postby jamesbond » May 22nd, 2014, 10:19 pm

MatureDJ wrote:She wanted to tell that manager that such an event with spouses would put a lot of her female workers in an awkward situation as they don't have a husband (whereas every one of her male workers has a wife.) She was trying to make him understand this "cultural difference", and I'm thinking in the back of my head how foreign an idea it would be for an American to think that a woman can't get a date!

Yes, in America almost every women is either married or at least has a boyfriend.

I found a statistic that said, in the US, 80% of white women are married by age 30.

Dating expert Don Steele said, in America 80% of women between the ages of 18 to 24 have a boyfriend. I believe it, almost every woman I meet in that age group is in a relationship with a guy.

It's hard to phantom that there are countries out there, where women have a hard time meeting men (like in Russia and Ukraine).

America, is a dating paradise for women and a dating hell hole for men! :shock:
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Postby Hero » May 22nd, 2014, 11:04 pm

So why are the women on Elena's Models so damn picky?
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Postby publicduende » May 22nd, 2014, 11:52 pm

Hero wrote:So why are the women on Elena's Models so damn picky?


Perhaps because behind most of them there's just a bunch of hacks crafting fake emails and letters?
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Postby Hero » May 23rd, 2014, 2:24 am

publicduende wrote:
Hero wrote:So why are the women on Elena's Models so damn picky?


Perhaps because behind most of them there's just a bunch of hacks crafting fake emails and letters?


That doesn't make any sense. The reason that hacks craft fake emails and letters is to con horny old men out of their money. Therefore, a hack would say that age differences and physical appearance don't matter at all. I think that Elena's models is one of the few honest Slavic matchmaking services out there.
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Postby Tezcatlipoca » May 23rd, 2014, 3:46 am

the more attractive the woman the more picky
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Re: An interesting thing one of my Russian students told me

Postby droid » May 23rd, 2014, 5:16 am

MatureDJ wrote: ...

Excellent post. Spot on.
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Postby jamesbond » May 23rd, 2014, 1:26 pm

Tezcatlipoca wrote:the more attractive the woman the more picky


Yep, that's true. The more attractive a woman is, the more picky she will be. This is true even in countries outside the US, UK, Canada and Australia. However, the women in those Anglo countries are the most pickiest women on the face of the earth. :roll:
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Postby publicduende » May 23rd, 2014, 9:05 pm

Hero wrote:
publicduende wrote:
Hero wrote:So why are the women on Elena's Models so damn picky?


Perhaps because behind most of them there's just a bunch of hacks crafting fake emails and letters?


That doesn't make any sense. The reason that hacks craft fake emails and letters is to con horny old men out of their money. Therefore, a hack would say that age differences and physical appearance don't matter at all. I think that Elena's models is one of the few honest Slavic matchmaking services out there.


I will be happy to believe it when I hear of success stories. All the documentaries/mockumentaries I have watched show 45-something (very) average Joes struggling to woo divorcees with 1 or 2 kids a few years their junior. Perhaps those women are more sweeter and less mindfucked than those back home, yet I fail to see how that tallies up with the stereotype of those hot leggy 25-yo model looking girls.
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