Posted: August 22nd, 2014, 7:57 pm
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I don't get why you are waiting so long. Do you not want to have children, or do you want to see them graduate from high school when you are 70? If you marry a young virgin when you are 50, she will probably want children. If she's the type who says she doesn't want children, you can count on that changing a few years into the marriage.Ghost wrote:No, no, my short-term girlfriends would not be virgins. I won't sleep with a virgin unless I'm marrying her. I've had the opportunity to have virgin girlfriends but didn't pursue it because I don't want to marry yet.MrMan wrote:That's a violation of the golden rule and bad for the 'economics' of the availability of virgins. If you sleep with girlfriends, using them up before they marry, but then want a virgin for yourself.Ghost wrote: As to the OP's question, no, I would never marry a divorced woman. Why would I? I will either have a virgin wife, or if that never happens, periodic sex with hookers and short term girlfriends.
Besides, why did she marry an abuser in the first place? I can't believe that he was a perfect gentleman before the marriage, and only started beating her after the wedding. Could she be one of those women who rejected nice guys with a sneer while she was still dating, because she thought they were boring or wimps? If so, she's getting her just desserts now.MrMan wrote:Some men are violent, get angry at life, and hit their wives. There are other men who hit their wives if they are mouthy, controlling, nagging or irritating. If a woman divorces her husband because he is abusive, could it be she is a bit difficult to get along with? It's not always the case. Some men are just violent, but it's something to consider.
If you marry a woman who has been cheated on or beaten up, you may have to deal with her emotional scars and trust issues.
Some of us have no choice but to wait. Only a foreign woman, who hasn't been corrupted by life in America, will cheerfully do her wifely duties like sex, cooking, and cleaning. You have to have a sizeable nest egg to set up a life in a foreign country. And it takes time to amass that kind of wealth.MrMan wrote:I don't get why you are waiting so long. Do you not want to have children, or do you want to see them graduate from high school when you are 70? If you marry a young virgin when you are 50, she will probably want children. If she's the type who says she doesn't want children, you can count on that changing a few years into the marriage.
And coming home to a home-cooked meal, and someone else to do laundry and mopping is all good stuff. If you want to get married, why wait until you are kind of old? It just doesn't make sense to me.
you guys are kind of slow. The point of waiting is so that when your 50 youll have a 25 year old wife and when you hit 75 shell be 50. Instead of marryinag 25 and when your 45 she also is 45. Who wants that LOL. thats one more reason why i dont feel guilty for letting girls go in my 30's cause i know in a few years they will still be the same age 25 or whateverHero wrote:Some of us have no choice but to wait. Only a foreign woman, who hasn't been corrupted by life in America, will cheerfully do her wifely duties like sex, cooking, and cleaning. You have to have a sizeable nest egg to set up a life in a foreign country. And it takes time to amass that kind of wealth.MrMan wrote:I don't get why you are waiting so long. Do you not want to have children, or do you want to see them graduate from high school when you are 70? If you marry a young virgin when you are 50, she will probably want children. If she's the type who says she doesn't want children, you can count on that changing a few years into the marriage.
And coming home to a home-cooked meal, and someone else to do laundry and mopping is all good stuff. If you want to get married, why wait until you are kind of old? It just doesn't make sense to me.
I don't buy into the 'only foreign women make good wives mentality, though I think some countries have a better chance of producing a good wife. There are still virgins in the United States looking for a man they can submit to, seeking to raise a family and care for the home. If you are looking for a foreign woman, you could date an immigrant, depending on where you live.Hero wrote:Some of us have no choice but to wait. Only a foreign woman, who hasn't been corrupted by life in America, will cheerfully do her wifely duties like sex, cooking, and cleaning. You have to have a sizeable nest egg to set up a life in a foreign country. And it takes time to amass that kind of wealth.MrMan wrote:I don't get why you are waiting so long. Do you not want to have children, or do you want to see them graduate from high school when you are 70? If you marry a young virgin when you are 50, she will probably want children. If she's the type who says she doesn't want children, you can count on that changing a few years into the marriage.
And coming home to a home-cooked meal, and someone else to do laundry and mopping is all good stuff. If you want to get married, why wait until you are kind of old? It just doesn't make sense to me.
Even so, it's still damaging the damaged goods.Ghost wrote:No, no, my short-term girlfriends would not be virgins. I won't sleep with a virgin unless I'm marrying her. I've had the opportunity to have virgin girlfriends but didn't pursue it because I don't want to marry yet.MrMan wrote:That's a violation of the golden rule and bad for the 'economics' of the availability of virgins. If you sleep with girlfriends, using them up before they marry, but then want a virgin for yourself.Ghost wrote: As to the OP's question, no, I would never marry a divorced woman. Why would I? I will either have a virgin wife, or if that never happens, periodic sex with hookers and short term girlfriends.
Hero wrote:It's funny that women find a man more attractive if he's divorced than if he's never been married
I have not met ONE such woman in the USA in 46 years. Are you stating something that you've observed yourself?MrMan wrote: I don't buy into the 'only foreign women make good wives mentality, though I think some countries have a better chance of producing a good wife. There are still virgins in the United States looking for a man they can submit to, seeking to raise a family and care for the home. If you are looking for a foreign woman, you could date an immigrant, depending on where you live.
And if I played Russian roulette, it's not inevitable that I would die. Still not worth the risk.MrMan wrote: If you saved up, you could also bring a woman back. It's not inevitable that she will be corrupted.
I don't trust matchmakers. A lot of them get bribes from the families of defective women to find those women a sucker to marry.MrMan wrote: I know a man who was middle aged who asked a Korean pastor in a Korean speaking church if he knew of any single women. They matched him up with a middle aged single Korean woman and he married her.
But then you lose out on Social Security credits. You'd be f***ed if you had to retire early for health reasons.MrMan wrote: If you are looking to retire overseas, you could live there as an English teacher. I don't know if there is a market for expat English teachers in the Philippines at all, but there is in some of the other countries. Korea pays about $1800 to $2000 a month plus an apartment the last I checked. I did that in the 1990s and got paid about $1600 a month plus a place to stay. Airfare was included both ways on a one year contract.
Yeah, but I won't have to raise them alone. In other cultures, the entire family chips in to help raise the kids. Also, good maids and nannies are affordable.MrMan wrote: You'll be an old man raising kids.
So you never slept with anyone before your wife?MrMan wrote:
Even so, it's still damaging the damaged goods.
+1MrMan wrote:A man I was talking to from Indonesia said, "I don't want a second-hand woman."Array9 wrote:No, I don't like picking up another man's leftovers