why envy him? Thats silly. You got the better deal. You got a hot woman in her 20's when your older. No reason to grow old with your partner if you can capitalize later in life like you did. Thats one reason why im resisting not settling down even if i was ready to.davewe wrote:I envy you - wish I discovered these girls at your age. I know many older guys married to their Filipina wives for 30, 40 years. In most cases the women still look good; ok, they don't look 21 good, but still very presentable. Good luck!MarcosZeitola wrote: I am 23 now and my wife just recently turned 21.
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When I was 19 I married a 22 year old.
When I was 40 years old and still (relatively) happiy married the 40 year old MILF's looked good to me, if they had personality.
Now that I'm 56 I'm looking for legal age up to 21. Looks and freshness. Personality is a lot less important. I can handle most types.
So yeah, tastes change. Bigtime.
"Well actually, she's not REALLY my daughter. But she does like to call me Daddy... at certain moments..."
He does have a great life, it seems from his blog and he has not much reason to envy me at this point as I lack the financial stability that comes with reaching a higher age. Being older and having a much younger and attractive wife isn't an undesirable fate at all. In fact it's a very nice perspective for the future, I'd say.
Now as far as the growing old together thing goes... I am simply a romantic soul. I want to spend my life with the woman I love and grow to be old so we can enjoy our children and grandchildren growing up and have a lovely life together. Some men are happy to date and marry multiple women, "save the best for last" and marry a hottie later in life. Others find their perfect lady and stay together a life time. Different folks, different strokes.
Sounds like my ideal age range too, in terms of looks. But be realistic about it though, in this age range you will not soon find a woman on a dating site if ever. Your best bet would be a Middle Eastern girl as their parents are much more open to arranged marriages, put a higher value on virginity and do not mind their daughters marrying very young, something many a Eastern European parent may be more opposed to as they are much more career driven and feminist-influenced already.
How can you be able to handle most types of personality? I can't imagine being able to tolerate all types. I mean, with some types, it's easy for your personality to come across and have an outlet, whereas with others it's not. For me it's very important that I don't feel like I'm the only one that understands me.
I said I envied him for two reasons. First, no one wants to get married and divorced multiple times. It was reality in my life but a tough reality. I would much rather have married once. I know a bunch of guys my age with one Filipina wife, who they have been married to for 30-40 years and yes I am happy for them and wish it had been me. This does not mean I am unhappy with my current life - I love it!
The 2nd reason I said I envied him is that because I can imagine that as a young man married to a younger Filipina I expect he has gotten and will continue to get some flak. I wanted to let him know that not everyone feels that way. When he and his wife are old and have 40 years together, they will be the envy of many of their peers.
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Choosing young girls below the ages of 20 isn't a good idea: in fact, I think I prefer women between the ages of 24-34, since they tend to be more serious about getting married than younger girls. Also I wouldn't date anyone over 35 because women at that age tend to be what I call 'leftover women'--basically, women who have given-up finding men for the most part.
Yeah i dont want children for sure and i dont want marriage anytime soon so i feel guilty for wasting a girls time for too long ive told my gf that i dont want her to waste her time with me too long since im not serioius anyways of marriage right now. I dont want to marry her but i feel sorry for her and miss her but i did a lot of bad to her and im not really in love with her. so its better i just not go back so she can move on.
I think that all depends on the country she comes from. In the Philippines, a girl is already considered an old maid by the time she turns 24. So those girls who you say are "serious" are actually desperate. Lots of 20-year-old Filipinas are quite serious about getting married, or at least engaged.