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I am 27 and I never brag about being involuntarily celibate. I just keep it a secret because I know I am trapped in a world where everybody seems to be getting laid. I say that because I live in Texas where half the teenage girls are knocked up and we have the balls to preach about abstinence lol.
Before I went to Costa Rica, a guy drove me to a hotel and introduced me to a prostitute. I didn't want to have sex with her because I was disappointed the minute I walked through the door. Her body was just as cold as her personality. There was literally nothing about her that was interesting. Nothing. Of course I want sex but is it too much to ask that a person has any damn substance? Fortunately I went to Costa Rica where Latinas were far and away more beautiful, more feminine, more warm, it is night and day, guys! Night and day! I met the most beautiful woman in the world there and she didn't even speak English. Going to Costa Rica gave me more confidence in women so I played it cool and wasn't overly needy anymore. Sadly, it was over too quickly after a few months and when I came back to the US nobody understood why I wanted to go back to Latino cultures. Women there just have more substance in addition to being better looking.
Last year I was in massage school in Dallas where almost all the girls were pregnant. One girl had the hots for me big time and she sent a friend over to me to ask "will you take her virginity?" She was not at all my type for one thing and another I was concerned about my massage career. I had a feeling sleeping with a classmate would cause more drama than I needed and that I would regret that decision later. Now I have my massage license so it probably was the right thing to do to stay focused on my initial goal. She might have regretted it too or been emotionally scarred or whatever.
But the bigger point is I am not sexual as I am sensual. I cannot just screw somebody just because they have the right organs for it. A heart and a brain are essential to a human being. Sensitivity is needed. Warmth is needed. I cannot just have sex with some humanoid. This is why 94% of men jerk off because the more we practice the better we know ourselves. This is why pornography does not appeal to me because the makers of these movies assume that all men are wired the same and that we all want a hole to stick our wang into. I am tired of people assuming that they know what I want instead of listening. I am tired of being made part of a wide generalization of men and I am tired of being excluded from the dating scene everywhere I go. This is why I am a writer - because I can't stand people anymore.
"This is why p*** does not appeal to me because the makers of these movies assume that all men are wired the same and that we all want a hole to stick our wang into."
p***y- Don't Knock it till you Try IT.
Hey you are winning in the game called life. You have no child support to pay. You are FREE! Enjoy your freedom. American women are sh!t and no one likes to be around sh!t all the time.
bub- a friend..a chum...a buddy.
What's shakin', bub?
I a virgin until age 27, on purpose. I know of a few girls at least I could have slept with, if nothing else, prostitutes who flirted with me. I was a virgin because of my religious beliefs, and I still encourage virginity before marriage for both genders.
It makes sense ethically. If you have sex, there is a chance of pregnancy. If you aren't married to the mother, then you are putting a child at risk of being raised in a two-parent home. Spreading your seed around haphazardly can lead to poor kids all over the place being raised without knowing their daddy. It just 'aint right.
If you are a virgin, you may have a better chance of marrying a virgin who really cares about preserving her virginity. This is good because virgins tend to divorce less (Teachman 1990) and you don't have to worry about other guys STDs and her having bonded sexually with exes.