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Do foreign women care about looks just as much as AW do?

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Re: Do foreign women care about looks just as much as AW do?

Postby MattHanson1990 » Sun Feb 08, 2015 6:16 am

E Irizarry R&B Singer wrote:Matt, don't let NLIP talk that idle crap to you. Listen, guy, I told you how Chicago is and it's not a lie. Traveller told you some truths too. Please realize that as long as you keep your weight down, you won't have to go to the PHilippines just to get women. The Philippines is the last place to go if you are old and/or ugly and/or fat, and that's the dead-honest truth. You're White and losing weight: remember to stick to complex carbs like veggies and high protein when possible. Water is your best friend too; learn to drink it incessantly.
I made a mistake saying that complex carbs are most starches; I was wrong. Simple carbs are starches and high sugars that are low in fiber which rapidly digest in your system which is bad for ya that make one heavier/fat.

Stick to those LPTX Tejanas, and you'll be in shape telling us we need to get our act together. I'm rooting you on from the sidelines, Matt.


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Re: Do foreign women care about looks just as much as AW do?

Postby MarcosZeitola » Sun Feb 08, 2015 9:08 am

Women are not the same everywhere, but they are very similar. The difference is in the culture; different cultures produce different types of women. Raise a Filipina in America and she will be very different then one who was raised in a tiny fishing village right off the Chinese Sea.

Do they want the same basic thing? Probably. There is just one major advantage, if you strip away the financial motives, of a foreigner in the Philippines: he is a rare commodity. There aren't as many white dudes, naturally, in the Philippines as there are in America. Those that are there aren't exactly the highest quality, either. You will have whoremongers, violent alcoholics, elderly sexpats and even things far more dark and f***ed up; pedophiles, preying on underaged girls and boys, on streetchildren... now Matt, you are a young man. You seem to be a nice and likeable person. Compared to your "competition" abroad, in many places you will do just fine.

Does that mean they wouldn't choose a model looking guy over you, if given the chance? No, because they probably still would. But very few such guys are around, and you may just be their best shot. They also know that, even though you may not be much to look at, you can give them Mestiza children who will instantly be seen as more attractive then your average pure Filipina child. And you also have a higher income then your average jeepney driver or buss-conductor, to top it off! So all-in-all, for many Filipina's, you're a catch.

You are not a catch in America, and unless your radically alter your appearance, behavior, attitude and choice of clothing, you never will be unless you become a millionaire. But in the Philippines, just being present and socializing with girls will be enough for you to do well. Just don't expect them to approach you, take steps yourself. But it can definitely be done. And please, for the love of God, don't listen Newlife. :roll:
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Re: Do foreign women care about looks just as much as AW do?

Postby droid » Sun Feb 08, 2015 7:59 pm

E Irizarry R&B Singer wrote:Matt, don't let NLIP talk that idle crap to you.

+1
Newlife you really talked out of your *ss again. Why mislead the dude with your black and white stuff just to get your frustrations out?

Matt, things really depend on many factors, it's not easy to make blanket statements. My opinion is that in the states looks vs character are about 80/20, while in more favorable places it's 20/80. I say favorable since they cut you a break on the looks and see if you are corteous/smart/etc, without equating that to "nice" or "loser".

But even if looks are important (always are but to varying degrees like i say) supply and demand may favor you in certain locations, if the dudes in general aren't as good looking you'll see yourself up a notch or two (no pun intended).

Sorry I know I keep jerking off to this, but in my week in china i felt like a celebrity as i was 'hot' in their eyes. Yes some of them care about looks, but so what? if it happens to favor YOU?

Right now here in Manizales (col) they do check me out but you also have to prove you're the character "type" favored here; that is, if you can't dance well you're a f*king loser (it happened to me last night). But you see many guys that wouldn't be given the time of day in the states, that dance well and thus bang hotties left and right.

Like i said there's a lot of factors and every place is different. Heck i'm starting to understand it's not even a country to country thing but city to city.
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Re: Do foreign women care about looks just as much as AW do?

Postby newlifeinphilippines » Sun Feb 08, 2015 9:16 pm

Yes its much easier in the foreign world but get real those women are hte same at their core as women elsewhere. You guys are delusional. Why do you think when a lot of them go to the west they change. Cuase thats how they always were at heart.
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Re: Do foreign women care about looks just as much as AW do?

Postby droid » Sun Feb 08, 2015 9:57 pm

newlifeinphilippines wrote:Yes its much easier in the foreign world but get real those women are hte same at their core as women elsewhere. You guys are delusional. Why do you think when a lot of them go to the west they change. Cuase thats how they always were at heart.

Well of course man but if we take that to absurdum you could say you'll never get any woman to "honestly" be into you because brad pitt is somewhere roaming the world. Also if an asteroid was gonna hit the earth most people would kill you to save themselves, and so on but you can't just decide not to do interact with anyone or do business because of that.
Personally, I like *ss too much to just sit idle and don't give too much importance to a woman liking me fully "honestly", that's kind of a pointless concept i think but then again maybe because i haven't experienced it.
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Re: Do foreign women care about looks just as much as AW do?

Postby newlifeinphilippines » Sun Feb 08, 2015 11:34 pm

droid wrote:
newlifeinphilippines wrote:Yes its much easier in the foreign world but get real those women are hte same at their core as women elsewhere. You guys are delusional. Why do you think when a lot of them go to the west they change. Cuase thats how they always were at heart.

Well of course man but if we take that to absurdum you could say you'll never get any woman to "honestly" be into you because brad pitt is somewhere roaming the world. Also if an asteroid was gonna hit the earth most people would kill you to save themselves, and so on but you can't just decide not to do interact with anyone or do business because of that.
Personally, I like *ss too much to just sit idle and don't give too much importance to a woman liking me fully "honestly", that's kind of a pointless concept i think but then again maybe because i haven't experienced it.


yeah you haven't experienced it. once the lust wears off you start evaluating, do you really want to be around this woman when she just wants to suck you dry with no sympathy.. :D

But unlike the other posters here im not looking for a middle class or self sufficient women. i want a simple woman who has a great attitude and personality. so its ok if she is poor. Im not sure though you want some uncivilized squatter cause they aren't intelligent and hard to converse with though but im gonna avoid career or education types like many do. Im just honest enough to accept that comes with the territory of her only liking my money. But im not handsome anyways so oh well :D
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Re: Do foreign women care about looks just as much as AW do?

Postby droid » Mon Feb 09, 2015 6:44 am

newlifeinphilippines wrote:yeah you haven't experienced it. once the lust wears off you start evaluating, do you really want to be around this woman when she just wants to suck you dry with no sympathy.. :D

It depends what kind of "suck you dry" you mean :mrgreen:
No but seriously not to sound too sour grapes like some of the roosh posters but it's kind of pointless to expect a chick being into you because "of who you are" like some people say.
"of who you are" is pretty meaningless me thinks, it's either your looks, demeanor, money, achievements etc. Maybe the 'demeanor' part qualifies as "who you are". But as Schopenhauer would say we all just "use" each other at the end lol.

i want a simple woman who has a great attitude and personality. so its ok if she is poor.

nice

newlifeinphilippines wrote:But im not handsome anyways so oh well :D

Stop beating yourself up, i don't buy it, and there's always something you can do to improve, by being in shape, getting a better haircut, etc. We can't do as much cheating as women can pull off but clothes and watches help.
Dude you should see the really plain looking fellas dating hotties down here lol. my jaw drops sometimes.
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Re: Do foreign women care about looks just as much as AW do?

Postby newlifeinphilippines » Mon Feb 09, 2015 6:52 am

droid wrote:
newlifeinphilippines wrote:yeah you haven't experienced it. once the lust wears off you start evaluating, do you really want to be around this woman when she just wants to suck you dry with no sympathy.. :D

It depends what kind of "suck you dry" you mean :mrgreen:
No but seriously not to sound too sour grapes like some of the roosh posters but it's kind of pointless to expect a chick being into you because "of who you are" like some people say.
"of who you are" is pretty meaningless me thinks, it's either your looks, demeanor, money, achievements etc. Maybe the 'demeanor' part qualifies as "who you are". But as Schopenhauer would say we all just "use" each other at the end lol.

i want a simple woman who has a great attitude and personality. so its ok if she is poor.

nice

newlifeinphilippines wrote:But im not handsome anyways so oh well :D

Stop beating yourself up, i don't buy it, and there's always something you can do to improve, by being in shape, getting a better haircut, etc. We can't do as much cheating as women can pull off but clothes and watches help.
Dude you should see the really plain looking fellas dating hotties down here lol. my jaw drops sometimes.


Yeah I agree women always want something and us guys want something. but men and women are capable of true love too. The problem is when a woman only cares about your wallet and nothing else. actually my last gf wasn't that bad she was like a puppy dog but i dont know other than massaging and sometimes her being sweet she really wasn't my type for a variety of reasons and we had lots of fights and the sexual chemistry was off. oh well. I think i partially got spoiled by the bar girl.

I agree there are some real uglies dating hot women so it gives me hope. but just think when im even older it will just get that much harder to get a hot woman. at least those guys have time and culture and youth on their side. its hard when your just a "tourist" and can't stay indefinitely (or finances or other issues limit that). :D
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Re: Do foreign women care about looks just as much as AW do?

Postby MrBlueLight » Thu Feb 12, 2015 3:27 pm

Wow, someone is cynical.

Yes, go to the Philippines. Some Filipinas will see you as attractive by the virtue of being white, since they think all white guys are attractive, especially if you go to places where you are the only white guy. Physical attractiveness can be somewhat culturally specific. I don't even think people consider me as attractive in America but Asian girls here think I am hot because I look like those slender guys on Korean drama, which American women consider to be girly and "sissy". I'd say it's worth a try just to see what kind of response you get, I meant, it can't get much worse, right?
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