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I came to this website in order to gain information about living abroad, but I've noticed that a lot of posts have to do with finding women in other countries. I don't know if that's what this website focuses on but the opposite sex is only a small part of my overall delimna and unhappiness. I've also noticed there is a lot of Redditt "Red Pill" philosophy here and it seems to show in terminology, acronyms and overall philosophy of finding a suitable female overseas.
I agree with most of the problems associated with American women, particularly their behavior. I don't really know what caused the decline in the quality of American women but I'm sure it can be attributed to the rise of the new feminism and the subjugation of the white, Christian American male.
When I was in high school and my early twenties the young women were incredibly nice, attentive to me and never had anything nasty to say to me. Nowadays, I walk up to an attractive female and say "Hi" and they just snarl back, "Yeah, what the hell do you want.". When I got to college in the early 80's I started noticing a change in the young women around me. They seemed to want something, they were chasing something I coudln't see or grasp onto. They wanted something I could't figure out. I always treated them good and wanted to start a relationship with them but they did't want to.
I think that was the start of the decline of the American female. Their chasing of some delusional dream of a way of life or a partner that could never really exist.
Anyway, that's my two cents I wanted to throw in as a new member here.
Things were different 30 years ago, I agree. I came to the US in 1980 and left two years ago. And it was not only to escape a lunatic wife but also American society. Several decades ago, Adlai Stevenson described it as a “chaotic, selfish, indifferent commercial society” dominated by an “inner purposeless tyranny of a confused and aimless way of life.” Twenty-odd years later, Jimmy Carter said much the same thing, in an attempt to get Americans to come to terms with the emptiness of their lives. It was a futile effort, and it seems clear enough that this description of America in the fifties, applies even more to the country now than it did thirty of fifty years ago.
Finding a "normal" woman was secondary and just like you was only a small part of my unhappiness. But this all fell into place once back in Europe. It took considerable preperation on my part to leave, it took me two years to get ready and jump ship, so to speak. When you read some of my other posts here, you will find out that I left my wife with an upside down mortgage, three car payments etc. Revenge is sweet! There's nothing she can do, Holland does not extradite to the US in case she tries something.
Don't make finding a woman a priority, no woman is that important.
Part of this could be because while you have aged since the 1980s you are still going up to the women you liked and dated in the 1980s. Get on facebook and see what those women look like now. If you are middle aged and looking at the 18 to 30 demo you will have challenges in this country. If you want that you should date overseas and stay overseas. The reason so many go over to bring women back is due to money. I make my money here. If you can make it work financially outside of the country, then good for you.