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MarcoBoy81 wrote:with my female relative, I ve done the following experiment on the major dating apps & sites just to gauge the level of desperate men, I picked up her worst photo (she is 2.5/10) I asked all my friends to put a note about her beauty she could not get more than 2.5 / 10 , I created her profile in all dating sites and apps in major US & Canadian cities we tried everything to make her profile as unattractive as possible (mid 30s, got 2 kids, overweight, elementary school education etc..) and guess what ? the result is astonishing indeed, just on OKCupid for example she gets over 40 messages and 350 likes weekly (90% were nearby), she managed to get 4 dates per week with upper middle class men who are sometimes younger than her, those men were at least 7/10, this is just to let you know how much desperate are men in nowadays, on her just second week of use she started to develop very bad attitude insulting some profiles who were less than 5 / 10, god s sake she s merely 2.5 /10 , incredible indeed !!!

the amount of received messages and self-validation started to give her incredible self-confidence, she became super rude with some men on the phone asking them directly how much they make without even talking any further gosh gosh.

mind you feminism does not have any effect, this lady was raised in a conservative catholic family, I think it s just ratio and numbers that ruin things for men, therefore you have the answer already why females in Canada & US sucks.

this is her Photo, I guess photos with bikinis will get thousands of messages daily !!

You're female relative must be hideous, if she's a 2.5 on a 10 scale. What does she look like?

I've never done online dating sites. You've helped convinced me to never do it in the West.

Where is your $500 a month p***y paradise?

WorldTraveler wrote:

MarcoBoy81 wrote:with my female relative, I ve done the following experiment on the major dating apps & sites just to gauge the level of desperate men, I picked up her worst photo (she is 2.5/10) I asked all my friends to put a note about her beauty she could not get more than 2.5 / 10 , I created her profile in all dating sites and apps in major US & Canadian cities we tried everything to make her profile as unattractive as possible (mid 30s, got 2 kids, overweight, elementary school education etc..) and guess what ? the result is astonishing indeed, just on OKCupid for example she gets over 40 messages and 350 likes weekly (90% were nearby), she managed to get 4 dates per week with upper middle class men who are sometimes younger than her, those men were at least 7/10, this is just to let you know how much desperate are men in nowadays, on her just second week of use she started to develop very bad attitude insulting some profiles who were less than 5 / 10, god s sake she s merely 2.5 /10 , incredible indeed !!!

the amount of received messages and self-validation started to give her incredible self-confidence, she became super rude with some men on the phone asking them directly how much they make without even talking any further gosh gosh.

mind you feminism does not have any effect, this lady was raised in a conservative catholic family, I think it s just ratio and numbers that ruin things for men, therefore you have the answer already why females in Canada & US sucks.

this is her Photo, I guess photos with bikinis will get thousands of messages daily !!

You're female relative must be hideous, if she's a 2.5 on a 10 scale. What does she look like?

Hideous. Hence the square.

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MarcoBoy81 wrote:Western African scammers from (Ghana, Nigeria etc..) are using this technique for almost a decade now extorting millions from naive individuals,

as for why the western dating scene sucks generally in the west, my own personal conclusion is because of the following factors

1 - Massive foreign male immigration (unbalanced demographics) "official stats are unreliable illegals counted in the millions"
2- the introduction of the smartphones.
3- the welfare state.
4- the deterioration of the P4P scene mainly due to human rights activism.

all these factors contribute to the degradation of the dating scene, Russia and Belarus has very strong feminism ideas but the demographics are in favor of the men, Japan s strong P4P scene (albeit limited to locals) reduces the massive thirst, central Asian countries has very few male immigrants thus providing men with more choices, 90% of my friends who married a foreign bride and brought them back to the west got divorced eventually, the foreign brides got corrupted quickly once they started to evaluate their options in the west so they simply run away with another male who were younger or wealthier, that is why I am always against the idea of bringing any foreign bride back to the west.

I agree. Murican "Culture" is EXTREMELY poisonous to a person who has not been exposed to it (Foreign woman). Typically, the virus takes a few years to invade the host and take over the mind, rewiring the Feminine, Traditionalist, Loving tendencies of the foreign woman, into the atypical Narcissistic, Feminist, Cold, Unfaithful, Slutty, Greedy mindset of an American woman. Corrupted in a few years. I have advocated to Foreign women to Not go to the US, and I am vehemently of the position that if a man wants a Foreign woman to spend his life with, he should go the extra mile and live with the woman in Her country, whatever country it may be (an American man living in Philippines or American living in China or Vietnam for examples). It is ALWAYS a bad idea to bring a Foreign woman Back to the West, when to me, the whole purpose to looking abroad for a woman, should be to eventually get AWAY from America, not trying to have the material comforts of Murica and the genuine Romance of a Foreign woman. The two, America and Foreign women, do NOT mix! Almost Always, the Foreign woman will become corrupted, and the American man will LOSE! BIG TIME! If one goes the extra mile and goes to say, China, and the woman screws you over, its not as bad, right? Aren't the Chinese laws in favor of Males during divorce? Take That, vs the American laws, which will almost Always be vehemently anti-male, anti-husband and rob the man of what he Has in a divorce and give it to the ex-wife.

"I created her profile in all dating sites and apps in major US & Canadian cities "
Uh huh. what, 40 or 50 accounts at least? Did you also set up a different email for each city or did you cycle the same account for different cities.
There is also other questionable aspects to this story of yours.

I know someone who basically had nothing to offer to a guy. Ugly, stupid, on the dole. She claimed to have gotten hundreds of hits. I somehow doubt it because we don't live in a large place and I've checked how many profiles are in the area. Also she ended up picking some shut in with crippling social anxiety and now has a kid with him. Surely she could have done better. Also I wouldn't trust her as far as I could throw and and she was on the large side.

One person did an experiment with 5 different pictures, same write up. Girls got more attention than the girls but the 2 ugliest girls were far far from flooded with messages and we don't know the quality of the messages. The hottest two got overwhelmed. Buddy repeated the experiment for British cities and found the same result. Granted he used one picture per one city [US then British] so maybe the hotties were in active cities and the uggos landed in less active places.
Also the ugliest were not exactly hideous just not very attractive and their profiles were not shit.

Also with the older crowd at least, I've gotten some messages. Me. You know you gotta be desperate when. They all looked like men, or were huge or really haggard looking or all three. Girls even I wouldn't touch and I am desperate as hell. If they were having studs tossing messages at me they would not be checking me out. Even managed to meet 2 who I messaged and they were conventionally attractive and had their shit together. Granted one never got back to me and the other was weird bit still. If the above hypothesis was right they never would have bothered with my frugal living unemployed fat ass. Add to that I lived an hour away.

So I kinda call bullshit on this.

I will agree that reasonably attractive and young chicks will get tons of messages mostly of the whats up and wanna f**k category.
I will agree that a chad thundercock can act like a complete degenerate or a complete beta and still get numbers thrown at him.

I don't believe the above for a second.

MarcoBoy81 wrote:
mind you feminism does not have any effect, this lady was raised in a conservative catholic family, I think it s just ratio and numbers that ruin things for men, therefore you have the answer already why females in Canada & US sucks.

Feminism plays a role, but this is hands down the biggest factor.