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Jester's Rookie Mistake In Thailand

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Re: Jester's Rookie Mistake In Thailand

Postby Jester » Wed Mar 30, 2016 6:34 am

OK just to update, after sexy reconciliations, she lost her temper again yesterday while I was peacefully working. Over what I consider to be nothing.

I soul searched etc in afternoon, evening and middle of night.

Today, I sat her down and broke up with her. Gave her chance to apologize, accept consequences but she feels we are equals basically, two adults in the home. Where the f did that come from? Like a teenage daughter telling you she is your equal, when you pay for everything. Plus she is a girl. I made the reasons clear, basically that she has changed, not giving me the original deal. She couldn't argue with that.

Anyway, it feels good.

And I was supposed to pay for coffee franchise next week plus other stuff, so it saves a bundle to get it done today.
:)

Headed to Laos for a border run today, will look up for new temp home when I get back. It will be good to see Udon Thai, Nong Kai, and a bit of Laos with the eyes of a man with no attachments.

Maybe a month more in Thailand, maybe longer, depends on my dedication to fitness program and work productivity. Then Philippines next I think.
"Pick a point and go to it."
-- Dr John Hunsucker, speaking about canoeing on Georgia's Lake Lanier, with its irregular shape, and 1000 miles of meandering shoreline
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Re: Jester's Rookie Mistake In Thailand

Postby The_Adventurer » Wed Mar 30, 2016 8:31 am

Awesome ending to this story Jester. I am happy to read it. I look forward to your reports on greater adventures to come in other lands. I wonder if others will be inspired to change their situations and take real actions to make life better.

Good for you!
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Re: Jester's Rookie Mistake In Thailand

Postby Ghost » Wed Mar 30, 2016 7:01 pm

Jester wrote:OK just to update, after sexy reconciliations, she lost her temper again yesterday while I was peacefully working. Over what I consider to be nothing.

I soul searched etc in afternoon, evening and middle of night.

Today, I sat her down and broke up with her. Gave her chance to apologize, accept consequences but she feels we are equals basically, two adults in the home. Where the f did that come from? Like a teenage daughter telling you she is your equal, when you pay for everything. Plus she is a girl. I made the reasons clear, basically that she has changed, not giving me the original deal. She couldn't argue with that.

Anyway, it feels good.

And I was supposed to pay for coffee franchise next week plus other stuff, so it saves a bundle to get it done today.
:)

Headed to Laos for a border run today, will look up for new temp home when I get back. It will be good to see Udon Thai, Nong Kai, and a bit of Laos with the eyes of a man with no attachments.

Maybe a month more in Thailand, maybe longer, depends on my dedication to fitness program and work productivity. Then Philippines next I think.


Kudos to you sir. That's how it's done. You are a badass. You won't let anyone get your balls. We could all take a lesson from you J-man.

f**k that idiot, E. Irrizary. That pussy-sniffing, insecure mangina doesn't have a clue.
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Re: Jester's Rookie Mistake In Thailand

Postby WorldTraveler » Wed Mar 30, 2016 10:15 pm

Good ending. You handled it correctly vs. getting deeper involved. I can tell you from experience when things start getting bad, they only get worse. Smart move to cut your loses as quickly as possible. Freedom: it feels so good! :D
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Re: Jester's Rookie Mistake In Thailand

Postby Jester » Thu Mar 31, 2016 2:58 pm

The_Adventurer wrote:
Awesome ending to this story Jester. I am happy to read it. I look forward to your reports on greater adventures to come in other lands. I wonder if others will be inspired to change their situations and take real actions to make life better.



As an infrequent poster here these days your words carry special weight with me. Thanks!

The_Adventurer wrote:
Goof for you!



I know what you meant to type, thanks for that, but I also make note of what is sometimes called a "Freudian Slip".

Yes indeed, goof for me!
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Re: Jester's Rookie Mistake In Thailand

Postby Jester » Thu Mar 31, 2016 3:03 pm

WorldTraveler wrote:
Good ending. You handled it correctly



Thanks

WorldTraveler wrote: I can tell you from experience when things start getting bad, they only get worse.


Indeed.

Indeed.
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Re: Jester's Rookie Mistake In Thailand

Postby eurobrat » Fri Jun 10, 2016 9:15 pm

Don't beat yourself up too much over newbie mistakes. You still got something out of it (i.e. - Tail, friendship, experience, back massages), not all is lost. I don't think any of us step upon a new part of the world without making mistakes, Columbus and all great explorers made rookie mistakes with far greater consequences.

Keep exploring my friend, your on the right path.
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Re: Jester's Rookie Mistake In Thailand

Postby Falcon » Sun Jul 24, 2016 8:09 am

Jester, here's my Thailand story.

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Re: Jester's Rookie Mistake In Thailand

Postby nomadphilippines » Sat Aug 13, 2016 4:47 am

this is why bangkok has bj bars
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